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Gender: Female
Status: Married
Age: 26
Sign: Sagittarius

City: Washington
State: Washington DC
Country: US
Signup Date: 11/4/2005

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Thursday, November 13, 2008 

Current mood:  content
Hi all! It is time for another update. Things are going well on this end . . . Tom and I are super busy as usual but are trying to calm things down a bit.

Tom is working hard as a teacher. He is teaching 9th grade repeaters and 12th grade AP English. In recent history no student has scored above a 1 on the test but he has hopes for a few of his kids. His 9th graders are a challenge (one class is over half identified special ed) but he has found his teaching voice and really enjoys what he is doing. He helped with basketball for a little while, but it was taking up too much time. He just finished teaching an afterschool writing clinic and is going to start tutoring after work now. He is busy but happy.

I am going to school again. I have decided to do the MA program in Psychology instead of the PhD. I will probably transfer into the PhD program but I wanted the flexibility to stop school with the MA (realistically with the BCBA and 2 Masters degrees I can do what i want to do professionally . . . at least for awhile). However, I do think that I would like to get the PhD somewhere down the road . . . it is just a matter of whether I will do it now or later. My classes are going well . . . much harder than the Public Policy program . . . but good.

I have started my thesis and am having a lot of fun with it. I am conditioning aggression in rats and then will extinguish it. I hope to show that aggression can be taught and then reduced in a similiar pattern as happens with kids with Autism to help bolster the argument that aggression is learned and not innate in kids with Autism. It is a fun project.

I am still working for myself. I see private clients in their homes. I am working with students ranging from 2-20. It is fun and I like the variety. I get to take a college class with my 17 year old next semester so that will be fun. I am seeing a ton of progress in my kiddos and really enjoy my job. I miss being in the classroom and really miss the kiddos from my school but I still get to sub and that is a MAJOR treat! Professionally I am really feeling good and can't wait until I have my BCBA.


Oh and in case I haven't mentioned . . . we're having our first baby May 26th!!! :) Pregnancy has treated me pretty well. I have not had much in the way of morning sickness and my energy level has been okay. I have been super sick because of my lowered immune system but am feeling better now. My skin is awful and I am losing my hair haha but all in all I feel good. I just entered my second trimester Yay! Check out the tummy shots in my albums if you are interested (I have pictures from 4 weeks, 8 weeks, 10 weeks, and now 12 weeks). We had a "baby release party" out here to announce the baby and it was a ton of fun! Tom gave a speech and most of our closest DC friends were here. It was a wonderful night. We served baby foods (baby carrots, baby pizzas, baby corn, etc) and Tom made a baby play list of music with songs about babies and songs that had the word baby (like "baby got back"). It was a big surprise to everyone so it was a blast for us.

The due date is wonderful because Tom will be off for summer and I will be off for summer as well. We plan to stay home and enjoy the baby for 3 months and then hit real life again after that. Peter and Catherine are moving out here to be with the baby so that is fantastic!

Anyway! That is the update from here. How is everything?


We will be in CA Dec 25th-Dec 31st so please send me and email if you will be around.

Thanks!

Saundra and Tom
Thursday, November 13, 2008 

Current mood:  content
Hi all! It is time for another update. Things are going well on this end . . . Tom and I are super busy as usual but are trying to calm things down a bit.

Tom is working hard as a teacher. He is teaching 9th grade repeaters and 12th grade AP English. In recent history no student has scored above a 1 on the test but he has hopes for a few of his kids. His 9th graders are a challenge (one class is over half identified special ed) but he has found his teaching voice and really enjoys what he is doing. He helped with basketball for a little while, but it was taking up too much time. He just finished teaching an afterschool writing clinic and is going to start tutoring after work now. He is busy but happy.

I am going to school again. I have decided to do the MA program in Psychology instead of the PhD. I will probably transfer into the PhD program but I wanted the flexibility to stop school with the MA (realistically with the BCBA and 2 Masters degrees I can do what i want to do professionally . . . at least for awhile). However, I do think that I would like to get the PhD somewhere down the road . . . it is just a matter of whether I will do it now or later. My classes are going well . . . much harder than the Public Policy program . . . but good.

I have started my thesis and am having a lot of fun with it. I am conditioning aggression in rats and then will extinguish it. I hope to show that aggression can be taught and then reduced in a similiar pattern as happens with kids with Autism to help bolster the argument that aggression is learned and not innate in kids with Autism. It is a fun project.

I am still working for myself. I see private clients in their homes. I am working with students ranging from 2-20. It is fun and I like the variety. I get to take a college class with my 17 year old next semester so that will be fun. I am seeing a ton of progress in my kiddos and really enjoy my job. I miss being in the classroom and really miss the kiddos from my school but I still get to sub and that is a MAJOR treat! Professionally I am really feeling good and can't wait until I have my BCBA.


Oh and in case I haven't mentioned . . . we're having our first baby May 26th!!! :) Pregnancy has treated me pretty well. I have not had much in the way of morning sickness and my energy level has been okay. I have been super sick because of my lowered immune system but am feeling better now. My skin is awful and I am losing my hair haha but all in all I feel good. I just entered my second trimester Yay! Check out the tummy shots in my albums if you are interested (I have pictures from 4 weeks, 8 weeks, 10 weeks, and now 12 weeks). We had a "baby release party" out here to announce the baby and it was a ton of fun! Tom gave a speech and most of our closest DC friends were here. It was a wonderful night. We served baby foods (baby carrots, baby pizzas, baby corn, etc) and Tom made a baby play list of music with songs about babies and songs that had the word baby (like "baby got back"). It was a big surprise to everyone so it was a blast for us.

The due date is wonderful because Tom will be off for summer and I will be off for summer as well. We plan to stay home and enjoy the baby for 3 months and then hit real life again after that. Peter and Catherine are moving out here to be with the baby so that is fantastic!

Anyway! That is the update from here. How is everything?


We will be in CA Dec 25th-Dec 31st so please send me and email if you will be around.

Thanks!

Saundra and Tom
Friday, June 20, 2008 
July 23, 2008

So . . . we have been home for a bit and I have not sent my last email! I guess I will do it a bit backwards and mention what has happened since we got home.

Our flight was crazy delayed and we got back at 4am on a Weds. By noon someone had stolen our car!!! It sucks and was very frustrating. Tom had some of his favorite books in the trunk and it is a major bummer. *sigh*

Anyway- I have been working at Ivymount as a sub and starting my work as a private therapist and tutor. I got business cards and everything :) It is hard working for myself . . . clients cancel at the last minute and then I can't eat haha but overall I am enjoying it. I am working with the same families as I was last year and have added a few news ones.


Anyway- When I last emailed, Tom was hours away from getting very sick. The poor guy got Dengue Fever! He had a super high fever and major vomitting . . . it was terrible! We went to the hospital and the doctor said "Oh, it is not too serious. It is like bird flu. 70% of people who have it are fine." *ah!* Dengue is transmitted by mosquitos and there is no treatment and no prevention . . . ugh! He was sick for a few days so our time in Phom Phen was low-key. We stayed near the hotel but did go see some of the genocide sites.

We traveled to Seim Reap when Tom was well enough and it was pretty amazing. We saw the Temples of Angkor and they were incredible. We hired a tuk-tuk driver to take us throughout the ruin complex and he nearly burst into tears when he told us about some bad luck and his wife threatening to leave him over lunch. It was intense. While out we saw temples that were used in tomb raider, incredible wall carvings, and huge stone buildings with giant faces carved on them.

When we arrived at the temples, there was a monkey. The monkey jumped at a guy and started jumping on his leg and biting him! The guy just let the monkey bite him and laughed as people snapped pictures. Tom and I did not want any part of a potentially rabid monkey so we split up and went separate directions down the stairs. The monkey ignored me but attacked Tom! As it lunged for Tom, Tom jumped off of the temple platform (like 8 feet!) and handed not so gracefully on the ground. I turned around and saw Tom in the air . . . followed by the monkey!!!! The monkey jumped off after him. When Tom landed and got up from his fall he ran away from the monkey which then chased him!!! It jumped onto Tom's leg and he had to kick it in the face to get away from the evil beast. It was crazy! He was nervous about monkeys for the rest of the day (with good reason)!

After spending a day at the ruins we tried to watch sunset but the sky was too cloudy. So, we went home and went to bed.

The next day we went to a silk factory and a wood working factory which was staffed by disabled people from the community. It was cool to see how the silk was made from the silk worm cocoons. I had no idea that the boiled the moths in the cocoons and then used the cocoon for the silk. It was pretty neat to watch. We saw the whole process, including 2 moths mating!

After the workshops we took a plane back to Hanoi. Our last few days in Hanoi were nice. We shopped, saw puppet theatre (which was great!), went to museums, and walked all over town. Best of all we got several massages (including one where I was essentially beat up with hot stones by 2 women!) We went to a night club one night which we quickly realized was a house of prostitution. We had 5 very friendly waitresses and their were gogo dancers doing a pretty fancy dance routine on a huge stage. It was bizarre but sort of fun. We also enjoyed a jazz club with a great singer and tried Vietnamese KFC.

Overall we had a very nice stay but decided that we liked HCMC much better .. . we would love to go back there.

When we left Hanoi we went to Japan and had a great time in Tokyo! I had a pretty bad migraine but I pushed through and we saw shrines, gardens, homes, sites, and walked all around. It was fantastic! The best part of the Tokyo trip was a visit to a fish market. The market sold something like 2000 tons of fish every day! There were tuna, an octopus, and tons of other fish. We saw a huge muscle and it spit on me! It was so neat to see the fish. We saw people selling, buying, and butchering fish. It was great!


Now we are home . . . getting back into the swing of things . . . and it is nice to relax a bit.

Pictures: http://community.webshots.com/album/564210272KfbOUV?vhost=community


July 1st, 2008

We have a little more than a week left in the trip and have been doing a lot of fun things!
 
We really enjoyed HCMC (Saigon). We volunteered a bit (but realized continuing was more for us than for the kids, so we did less than we had planned because the place was so overstaffed with volunteers), we walked all over the town, we saw museums, we met local people, and we just took in the town. We had a lovely dinner with my uncles wife, Luyen, and visited a wonderful night life craft market . . . what fun! We also met two great American guys who we wished we could have gotten to know a bit better. It was nice to be in one place for a bit.
 
In Ho Ch Mihn City we visited the Cu Chi tunnels (a networks of tunnels that the VC used). We moved through the tunnels, but they were so tiny there were parts that were tough to get through. It was pretty touristed, but it was interesting to see the bamboo spiked booby traps and the like. They had a firing range where people could fire Vietnam era weapons. Tom fired an AK-47. It was interesting being in the tunnels and hearing the shots from the firing range . . . . with the re-planted jungle and leafy shelters it was almost possible to imagine how terrifying it must have been to be a US army personnel walking in the dense jungle . . . uncertain what could happen at any moment . . .
 
We also visited the War museum which was VERY one-sided and filled with slanted propaganda against the US . . . it was still interesting to see though. We also saw a broader history museum which covered all of Vietnam's history. Tom was particularly enthralled with the exhibit which catalogued Vietnam's defeat of one of Genghis Khan's son's army.
 
We were able to book a boat into Cambodia that would take 3 days and travel through parts of the Mekong Delta. It was a shabby tour with a guide who kept promising ""city tours"which really were just walks to a hotel he was affiliated with and our hotel the first night lost water. But, overall, it was an exciting trip.
 
We traveled by motor boat, speed boat, canoe, ferry, bus, and horse drawn carriage. We saw a coconut candy factory, a noodle factory, and a rice paper factory (really just sheds with hard working people making the treats). We also visited a crocodile farm, floating markets (boats where people sold mostly produce), and houses over the water with holes in the floor where they kept fish farms. At times we left we were in tourist-land and at other times we felt like we had been plopped into Apocalypse Now. It was pretty neat. We traveled with differet people who came and went but spent the entire 3 days with a Brazilian, a European, and 6 people from Malaysia.
 
We we got to the Cambodian border everything went badly! We did not have a full page empty in our passports for the full page Visa we needed to get into Cambodia. We have had full page Visas before but never from a border crossing. We had assumed it would just be a stamp like we got in the 25 or so other countries we have visited. But, we could not! They told us we had to go back to Saigon and get a new passport. It was terrible! If we had gone back we could have lost our time in Cambodia AND had to waste 3 days or more traveling by bus back up Vietnam . . . we had a flight booked out of Cambodia too and we would have wasted all of the money. I cried, Tom yelled, then we pleaded and after an hour they finally gave us the Visa. I am not sure what changed their minds, but the border officer was not happy about it.
 
We arrived in Cambodia last night and stayed in a gross hotel with a moth the size of the hand hiding in the bathroom. The 2 block walk to the main strip in town was filled with trash and homeless people . . . . a very sharp contrast to the essentially litter free Vietnam that we had just experienced. The main strip was dribbled with prostitutes, cross-dressers, and dirty old white men soliciting them. However, that was nearly camouflaged by the huge number of scantly clad-club-hopping Westerners. We felt totally safe but did not enjoy the atmosphere at all!
 
Today, in the day light, things look a bit better. People have been nice to us and we did some sight seeing. We went to see the Killing Fields Memorial and a school house that had been converted to a prison where mass executions and torture took place during the genocide . . . . what a terrible occurrence! It is somewhat evident that all of the older generations intellectuals were killed. Young people all speak English and seem to value education (from our brief glimpse into the Capital culture) whereas older people seem poor and dejected. Cambodia is going through an artistic resurgence of sorts and it is an interesting time ot be here.
 
I am also struck by the difference in the level of infrastruture and progress in comparision to a country like Rwanda who suffered a similair genocide so much more recently. Rwanda is modern and clean and beautiful. Cambodia is not. It is beautiful in a way .. . . there is some amazing arcitecture and some lovely aspects of the surroundings . . . . but it is not beautiful by classic standards.
 
Anyway- sorry for the rambling!
 
 
We head to Seim Reap tomorrow to visit Angkor. We are excited for that. We fly to Hanoi on July 4th and head home on the 7th . . . spend a day in Tokyo . . . and arrive in NYC 20 minutes before we left! Our trip to South Korea had to be canceled . . because flights were CRAZY expensive! Hopefully we can visit Amy some other time!
 
I will write again from Hanoi.
 


June 24th, 2008
 
Wow! This is an incredible country. I will start this email with a few over-gernalizations:
 
1. People are generally honest here
2. Services can be spotty but it appears to be lack of expereince rather than a concerted effort to screw us
3. Many tourists assume they are being cheated when they are not
4. Travel is generally easy and reliable
5. Even the pushiest people are still friendly and loveable
6. Vietnemese people as a whole do not hold the war against American travelers and seem to be on the mend towards forgiving the actions of the governement (ie agent orange etc). However, Vietnemese people do not seem to learn about the tortures their people committed . . . one tour guide said that in school he read a book written by an American POW who talked about how wonderful Vietnese War-Prision camps were . . .
6. It is hot as hell here!!!!
 
 
We are really enjoying this trip. It is difficult not speaking Vietnemese in that it limits our access to many of the local people. However, we are finding that many Vietnamese tourists are doing the very same little trips we are doing. This is exposing us to a small piece of Vietnamese culture.
 
Last I left off we were leaving Hue. We did go listen to the traditional music (a woman played the tea cups!) and we were the only people in the audience! It was beautiful and Tom bought a CD. We took a morning bus to Hoi An and spent the afternoon looking at local sites. We saw a beautiful assembly hall, an old home, more live music (this time with acting!), and a lovely pagoda. It was a nice leaisurely afternoon. After we finished the walking advenure, we decided to buy some cloths. Hoi An is know from its amzing tailors (thanks for the heads up Matt!) We went a little crazy but got some beuatiful clothing made. Tom got a suit, 5 shirts, and a winter dress coat. I got a suit (with pants, jacket, and skirt), a shirt to go with it, a wonderful winter coat (I have needed a new one for 2 years!), 4 sun dresses, and one more formal dress. It was great fun and did not cost us too much. It was neat to have things tailor made. We had great fun bargaining our price down and had to work harder than usual! Later we also found some incredicble art that i can't wait to get home and hang.
 
The next day we went to My Son where we saw some fantastic ruins of the Cham Dynasty that had been bombed in the war. We left at 5am and returned at 10:30am. That gave us time for a shower and then for our fitting for our clothes. Then we took a cooking class where we learned to make spring rolls, fish, and the best salad i have ever had (papaya and shrimp with a garlic oil dressing). We ended the day with a final fitting and rushed to shower again (it was soooo hot!!!!) and caught ouy 6:30pm over night bus to Nha Trang.
 
Nha Trang was a busling beach town. Tom and I have never been big beach people. We love the ocean and beaches but get bored just hanging around on the beach (yes yes crazy i know). We decided only to spend one day in Nha Trang and booked another overnight bus for that night (yesterday). We opted for a cheap tour ($5) that the tour book suggested and we assumed would be filled with white people. It was to take us to several islands and then snorkling. We grappled with with agency to book it through and eventually settled on one. At the last minute we tried to change it to go to a mud-bath natural spring but we could not.
 
When we arrived at the boat we found we were the only westerners (save a US immigrant from Vietnam and a recently divorced woman from new Zealand). Everyone else was Vietnemese. This was a pleasant surprise! We ended up having the most fun we have had in a long time partying with everyone of this random boat cruise! The trip started with a boat ride to an acquiriam which was formed like a coarl Pirate Ship. On the way our crazy boat guide introduced himself as "Phook no F**K" and did a hilarious bit where we pretended to be Leonardo DiCaprio in Titanic. He was a really hilarious fellow. We saw all sorts of fish, sea turtles, and sharks! Then we rode to a snorkleing spot. We jumped from the boat and saw beautiful coral and colorful fish. We even saw jelly fish! Tom and I were so scared we swam back to the boat to ask our guide to rescue us! haha. Turns out they were the non-stinging variety. After we snorkeled we had a feast on the boat and the Phuk and 3 other boat crew made a "boy band" and sang karokee-style songs. It was great! They had everyone dancing on the chairs (which had been folded down to make a stage) and made us do Conga-lines. It was pretty great that there were so many local people on board, otherwise it may have felt somewhat exploitative to have this man making such a ham of himself. As it stood, it was just really great fun! Next we had a floating bar, where they plotted a man in an innertube with local wine. We had to put our feet on the tube and he made people chug wine who said the word "no". It was really funny. We ended the boat trip on a beach where we swam and laid in the sun for about 45 minutes and then had a great fruit spread as we rode back. It was very different from anything Tom and I do when we travel and was great fun! Though, I will share that the toilet exploded all over me at one point and I had to dump buckets of water on myself and then jump into the sea!!!!!! yuck!!!!!!!!
 
We were so glad we skipped the mud spring but were still feeling like it would have been neat. As we were discussing this, someone beckoned into their massage parlour and we ended up getting massages and mud bath. It was not the same as the Springs, but it was wonderful! All in all, it was a pretty fantastic day.

We then hopped onto our final overnight bus and arrive in Ho Chi Mon City (Siagon) this morning. We found an orphanage to volunteer at and it is in amazing condition. The children are well cared for and there were many volunteers. We spent the day there and will go back on Thursday. They were pretty over-staffed though. As a result, we may not spend as much time volunteering this trip as we had planned. There are about 6 volunteers who have been here 2 weeks and will stay another month. Because of that, we are almost in the way. We will see how it goes on Thursday. We are also looking into helping out at a nearby school, but are unsure what they want us to do. So, we will see.
 
 
Anyway- that is that. Please excuse the typos . . . I am in a rush as always when we travela nd my internet time is almost up :)
 
 
 
June 20th, 2008
 
Hey there! Wow! What an amazing time we are having! Here are the blow by blows:
 
We started the trip with a nice night in NYC with Al. He let us sleep in his room and found a great burger joint for me. It was pouring rain and the trains were delayed, but we made it and it was a nice visit. Terry Godlove drove out the JFK and had breakfast with us before we left (which was a real treat!).
 
After a 14 hour flight we arrived in Tokyo. The subway system is extensive . . . but very overwhelming! We found a nice woman at the ticket office who rushed us onto a train and we made our way into town. We stayed at a cute hostel, had Japanaese showers, bathed in the public bath, and searched out sushi. We had an amazing dinner and about halway through a very drubk Japanese man started to talk to us in broken English. When his food arrived he kept sending it our way. After a few attempts to give it back we sampled some new foods. He even overheard us ask the sushi-man if there was incecream and sent icecream our way. We tried to return the favor but he declined.
 
After we left the sushi place, we wandered around town and took in the city. It was really a beautiful place. We soon encountered a little old man who began chattering is English (we think!) for a good 5 minutes as we walked. We have no idea what he was saying, but think he worked in Canada sometime in an autofactory.
 
We ended up sleeping early, and the next morning, ate breakfast that we ordered from a vending machine (but was cooked in the kitchen). We made our way back to the airport with ease (but feared most of the ride that we were on the wrong train)
 
When we arrived in Hanoi, we immediately fell in love. It is dirty and loud and wonderful! I imagine it would be overwhleming to someone new to traveling, but it is so much clamer than places like Cairo and Delhi.
 
There is a pretty common scheme that the tour books always warn about involving taxi drivers that take you to the wrong hotel. That has only happened to us once in the past. When we arrived in hanoi it happened for the seond time.Had we not been seasoned travel;ers we would have fallen for it, but I had known to pull out the book and track our progress. We weren't even near the correct street! The taxi driver was angry but eventually took us where we needed to go.
 
We tried to find a place to volunteer but realized it was not possible in Hanoi, so we booked a trip to Halong bay for teh next day (planning to spend some more time there at the end of the trip).
 
As we walked around we noticed that there were many many motorbikes on the road and the only way to cross the street was to slowly move across no matter how many motorbikes were in your path! A new law says all motorboke riders must wear helmets. the helmets are great! Many wear war-style head gear made into all sorts of designs (classic green, floral, etc). They even have hemlets shaped like baseball caps. People look very western in dress and we even saw one woman text messaging while riding her moto bike!
 
 
The trip to Halong Bay was amazing! We took a van to the harbor and hopped on a ship. It was raining so we had to wait about an hour but then we set off. It was so beautiful! Hundreds of tiny islands jutted from the sea covered in green. We were able to kayak through a cave filled with bats as well! We finished the boat trip at an island where we stayed in a beach bungalow. We had teh option to do more kayaking but were too tired.
 
The next day we went by boat to another island and biked across the island! Some of you may know that I had previously forgotten how to ride a bike . . .well . . . i have now relearned and my tush is still sore from the seat! While biking we stopped at a cave that had been turned into a hospital for VC soldiers during the war. it had 3 floors and was incredible! We then took a loud speed boat back to teh main land, arrived back in hanoi 3 hours later, and took an overnight (terrible uncomfortable!) bus to Hoi An.
 
The bus arrived late in Hue, so we missed the  Hoi An bus. But, as it turned out, we were glad to have teh extra day in Hue. What a treat! We saw some tombs along the river, a pagoda, and the citadel which are all World Heritage Sites.
 
Tomorrow at 8am we leave for Hoi An and will spend 2 days there.
 
 
This has been a busy beginning of the trip but we are loving it! We are heading to dinner to hear live tradition music now
Sunday, December 30, 2007 
hings are going well on this end. We are super busy (which always seems to be the story) but things are starting to settle down a little bit.

Tom is teaching 11th grade English at a school in DC. His school is located 2 blocks from the intersection of Martin Luther King Jr. St. and Malcolm X Blvd. The school is 99.5% African American (the Hispanic student is graduating this year). His school is intense (metal dectors and all) but he loves it. He is having a tough year (he is still finishing is Master's fulltime) and does not have any free time. But, he is having fun with his students and appears to be as successful as a first year teacher can be. His school has an incredible marching band and Ellen Degeneres just gave his school some money and school supplies. Here is a link to a film about his school: http://www.balloumovie.com/       Tom is finishing his degree in May and is looking forward to teaching without having to take classes,

I am still working in a classroom with aggressive boys with Aspergers. I love it. We have new students this year and it is a challenge, but it is fun. I love being in this program. It is new so it is fun to watch it grow and have a tiny bit of input in the process as it does grow. I am so in love with this population that I have turned my career path in a slightly different direction. I have applied for PhD programs in Psych and hope to start a Behavior Analyst certification program after I finish my exams for my Master's degree in Public Policy (this Spring). I am also doing ABA therapy with a 6 year old Autistic boy twice a week and am enjoying that as well. He is non-verbal so it is quiet different that working with my kiddos. When I get my PhD I want to work in aggression reduction at some level (maybe in a school, private practice, or some other way).  I still want to do legislative advocacy but I think that I want to do clinical work for the majority of the time. My book has been for sale online and that has been fun. I am working on a story, currently, from the perspective of a 7 year old with Aspergers. I don't know if it will go anywhere, but I am having a ton of fun with it. I am always looking for constructive criticism so if you ever want to read any of it and let me know and I'll send you what i have so far. I'd welcome the input!

We bought a new house. It is very near the condo and we love it! We are renting out the condo and living in the house. Here are pictures of the townhouse:


http://good-times.webshots.com/album/561844912KSVkop?vhost=good-times&vhost=good-times

So, overall, things are great. We are tired and busy but next semester should be a lot easier. I'd love to hear what is happening over there!
Wednesday, August 22, 2007 
8-21-07

INDIA POEM

Floods, earthquakes, parasites
Rickshaws and strikes
Moutians, rivers, farms
Cows, cars, and motor bikes

The rich and the poor
First and last class
Smiling crowds, sideways nods
Angry sneers, leers in mass

Cheating and swindles
Honesty and goodwill
Strong and healthy people
The dying and the ill

Dry, hot, and dirty
Wet, cool, and pristine
Crowded and loud
Empty, quiet, clean

India is juxtaposition
Saying come, shouting go
Insisting no, but calling yes
Beautiful and grotesque


8-18-07
 
Hi all! We're back in DC safely! It was a long flight home. But we made it!
 
Our last few days in Delhi were pleasant. We did craft shoppingg and visited a few Hindu Temples. Everyone we met was very nice to us and the bargaining was successful and fun.
 
So in sum, India was def a series of opposites. I really loved my time there and Tom and I plan to go back at some point.
 
India pics are online
 
 
I want to leave you with a few stories I forgot to include in other emails
 
Tom had parasites for most of the trip . . fun times!
 
I got a random face rash (probably heat rash) that made me itch on my face like crazy for several days!
 
Tom and I both fell on different hikes and nearly fell down a mountain! Tom was stopped by a tree and I had the good instinct to just sit as I was falling.
 
 
Delhi has a new metro system that the books didn't mention. Its been open for about a year and it great! It is very efficient and fast. It was cheap and clean too. It was constantly packed and allowed us to avoid being on the road (and allowed those peopel to avoid being on the road with us). It was funny though, because people did not seem to understand teh concept that if you want to get on the train, it is easier to let the people off the train first. There were even arrows pained on the ground to remind people not to block to doorways. Instead, people would push onto teh train like salmon swimming up stream! We had to body check people just to get ourselves off the train!
 
 
In one hotel, there was a small girl who seemed to be teh child of teh hotel owner (maybe 4 years old) who latched onto us when we arrived. We were too tired to make her leave and she jumped onto Tom's bed. She punched him in the stomach and then did sommersaults which ended with her kicking him in the face. Later, the same child took a cat by the tail, swung it in circles, and tried to hit a dog with it!..>..D(["mb","..u003c/div..>..n..u003cdiv..> ..u003c/div..>..n..u003cdiv..> ..u003c/div..>..n..u003cdiv..>Well . . I think those about round out the random stories I forgot to mention. ..u003c/div..>..n..u003cdiv..> ..u003c/div..>..n..u003cdiv..>Hope all is well!..u003c/div..>..n..u003cdiv..> ..u003c/div..>..n..u003cdiv..>Saundra and Tom..u003c/div..>..n..u003cdiv..> ..u003c/div..>..n..u003cdiv..> ..u003c/div..>..n",0]);D(["mi",0,2,"1147928403bc8665",0,"0","Mail Delivery Subsystem","Mail","mailer-daemon@googlemail.com",[[],[["me","saundrabishop@gmail.com","1147928403bc8665"]],[]],"9:27 am (2 minutes ago)",["saundrabishop@gmail.com"],[],[],[],"Aug 18, 2007 9:27 AM","Delivery Status Notification (Failure)","",[],0,,,"Sat Aug 18 2007_9:27 AM","On 8/18/07, Mail Delivery Subsystem ..u003cmailer-daemon@googlemail.com..> wrote:","On 8/18/07, ..u003cb class..u003dgmail_sendername..>Mail Delivery Subsystem..u003c/b..> wrote:",,,,"","",0,,"..u003c0016364176f10437f9453e2c17b18b@googlemail.com..>",0,,0,"In reply to .."Back in DC.."",0]);//-->..>
 
 
Well . . I think those about round out the random stories I forgot to mention.
 
 
 
8-14-07
 
Hi all! So, I am continuing to survive the adventure that is India. I have not been a part of any landslides, terrorist attacks, or any other calamity that CNN seems to be reporting. Furthermore, I am happily surviving Independence Day celebrations (which I will describe in more detail below). I have however experienced a few exciting moments.
 
After sleeping in our hotel in Siliguri (after losing 3 days of travel to the terrible-ness of Raxault, Patna, and New Jalapuri) we were finally set to leave at 6am on a 3 hour jeep. We had been assured the night before that the jeeps existed and were thrilled. . . . .
 
Of course, things could not be that easy. Ever. No one seemed to remember that we had enquired about a trip to Pelling and universally we were informed that there was no direct jeep. Something we realized, is that Indians do this side-ways nod. It looks somewhat like a slight shake-no with a tick. We were told it means "yes." We've concluded it actually means "Well . . technically . . . but i won't trouble you with the details." I hate that nod.
 
After some research we found a jeep that would take us to yet another town called Jortang. We were assured we could get a direct jeep to Pelling from there. The ride took 2 hours and the road was awful. We were crowded and everytime we hit a bump, my head hit the ceiling. It was unpleasant, but far better than Raxault. I hate Raxault haha. All of this was mitigated by the fact that the views were breath-taking. We wove throughout the mountains and saw huge waterfalls, rivers, and beautiful mountainscapes.
 
When we arrived at Jorthang, the same person who had been very friendly to us and told us that there was direct jeep to Pelling (with a sideways nod) said, "Okay, now you have to take a jeep to Geyzig and then another bus to Pelling." We were speechless. No one seemed to mean us ill-will . . . but we were amazed how universally everyone could give us bad information. It is unlike anything Tom and I have eve experienced. We all just laughed with frustration, found another jeep to Geyzig and rode for another hour. In Geyzig we were able to find the jeep to Pelling and eventually arrived around 3pm. We hadn't eaten yet that day, so we dropped our bags and ate first thing.
 
At lunch we met a nice chap who had done the several day hike that we were planning to do. He gave us some nice tips and he and Mike spent a long time chatting on the roof. After we ate, we walked 2 km or so to some ruins. They were nice. Mostly, it just felt good to be at our destination.
 
Sikkim is a region in India that appears to have been annexed at some point. They remained relatively independent and have strict rules regarding their environment. Therefore, it is beautiful. It is 5600 above sea level and was a little chilly. There was evidence of minor landslides on theh roads but overall it was pristine beauty.
 
The next day we started a several day hike from town to town. We started by hopping a jeep with two nice guys to a Lake. On the way we stopped at a pretty cool water fall and a "rock garden" which was basically a man made garden next to the blue raging rapids of the river. At the lake, we wandered around the lake (during which time one of the men shrieked everytime he saw a bug) and tried to find a cave. Our search was not fruitful, but it was a nice time nonetheless. After admiring the lake, we started the hike to Katchpuri.
 
We walked through farms, forrests, and mountain ranges. We climbed over rickety bridges, under fallen logs, and admired the peaceful environment. The occasional farmer would pass, but other than that we did not see people. We took man detours, wrong turns, and the 5 hour hike turned into 7 hours (much of it uphill). When we thought we had finished, we realized we had to walk an addition 1 hour up hill!!! That was not the most fun I have ever had. The last hour was hard and we were starting to lose our light. But, a nice local guy reassured us that we were close to finishing and we made it.
 
We grabbed a hotel and fell asleep after a quick dinner.
 
The next day we walked to a second town It was much hotter and I wasn't feeling well, so we decided to hop a jeep to the next town. Once there, we rested, realized the biggest spiders ever lived in the bathroom, hiked 45 minutes uphill to a monastery, saw a beautiful garden which is said to wipe away all of a person's sin, and Tom and I both got leeches! The leeches were gross little slug-things that bit between our toad and on our ankles. We pulled them off, we bleed a little, then we were fine. We made it down by dark and had dinner. During dinner, the entire building shook for maybe 30 seconds. I thought an animal had run across the roof. The owner looked worried and ran outside. Earthquake!!! We pondered whether it was a per-shock and opted to go to bed. We asked around and found that earthquakes were common and there hadn't been a big one since 1979.
 
The next day we grabbed another jeep to Geyzig. In Geyzig, we got to visit the Sunday market. Mike bought tea that might be illegal drugs haha and I got a great picture of two very old India women with traditional face piercings smoking a joint haha. After Geyzig, we took another jeep to Pelling. On the way back, we stopped at a Buddhist monetary and were able to go inside while they were playing music and chanting. It was pretty awsome. We looked at the giant gold statues of gods and walked up a staircase to this carved mandala that was so amazing i can't even describe it. It was as big as the room and depicted the stages of life. It was incredible.
 
After that, Tom and I felt exhausted and burnt out. So, we paid an extra dollar for an upgraded room and laid in bed for the rest of the day watching random tv (I Shouldn't Be Alive, Boston Legal, Coyote Ugly, and a documentary on Tibet).
 
The next day we caught our early jeep directly to Siliguri, were placed on a rickshaw to New Jalipugi and purchased out 6pm train tickets to Varanasi. Since we had missed so much time, due to our travel delays, we had to alter plans to include a 10 hour lay over in Varanasi. It was going to give us enough time to get a taste for the town (we would do a river ride, see a few temples, and walk around). Varanasi is one of the holiest places for Hindus. It is said that dying here will end the cycle of life. Therefore, many people make pilgrimages here. We had heard a lot of nice things about and and were looking forward to rounding out of spiritual experiences.
 
The train was right on time and we couldn't stop grinning as it pulled away from the platform. We had made it out! Incidentally, when we woke up the next day, we learned the train had somehow started running 6 hours behind schedule! This gave us 4 hours in Varanasi (including travel time).
 
We were annoyed, but decided to make due. We grabbed our stuff, went to the prepaid taxi stand (the place that you are supposed to be able to trust your taxi driver from) and grabbed a taxi to the boat. Our driver was nice and spoke good english. He offered to have us hire him for the afternoon, to take us to the temples etc. We considered it and finally agreed. He weaved through the streets and took us to a ghat (the Ganges River is divided into ghats. Each ghat has a special religious significance). The driver got out of the car and took us through a tunnel that was very dark. As we wandered through we realized it was filled with people who were dying (some of which already looked dead). We moved quickly after the driver to the ghat. He lead us to a boat man who tried to charge us a price that was way to high. We argued and threatened to walk away. The only thing stopping us was realizing wed have to walk back through the tunnel! Finally, we agreed to a price. As I pulled out the book to read the entry on this ghat, i realized it did not match the description. i asked a random man where we were and he confirmed the driver had taken us to the wrong place. We were pretty annoyed. We quickly made a new game plan, decided to have the boat driver (a different man than we arranged the price with) drop us at the correct ghat, rather than returning and being forced to ride with the cheating cab driver anymore.
 
Overall, the river ride was very nice. We saw several sacred ghats and temples and even witnessed two cremations. It was nice to just float down the river and see people bathing and using the water for their spiritual purposes.
 
We then tried to see two temples but were driven to the wrong one by a different rickshaw driver. It ended up being okay because we were able to see a random Hindu temple with anamatronicg, metal puppets that moved, danced, and even appeared to be eatting each other.
 
We got a different taxi driver to the train station, found our track, grabbed some suspect food (we hadn't eatten in 24 hours except some chips) and successfully made the train to Delhi.
 
We arrived in Delhi today and it was nice. It was familiar and we knew what to expect. The train was 3 hours delayed, but we did not really have anything planned. We went and saw an astronomical sight that is like a sundial meant to predict eclipses etc. It was cool. We also did some shopping and just wandered around Delhi. It was low-stress and nice.
 
Today is Independence Day and it is craziness! The rooftops are filled with people flying kites and setting off fireworks. It is really a sight to behold!
 
Anyway- tomorrow we fly home at midnight and we should touch down in DC at 11pm on Friday night. Yay!
 
 
See you soon!
 
8-13-07
 
Hi all! So the saga continues . . . last email left us on the bus to Raxault. The reason I hate Nepali guerrillas is that, somehow, without me ever encountering them, they created the most difficult three days we've expereinced traveling! All because we couldn't travel through the region (a good thing we didn't incidently, because fighting broke out the day we would have been on the road).
 
The three hour ride to Raxualt was relatively uneventful. We hopped off the bus and were surrounded by rickshaw drivers shouting crazy prices. We huddled together and opted to walk away from the crowd and grab a rickshaw driver along the way. We found two drivers near the river and after having to yell at a driver who would not go away, we agreed on a price and asked them to take us over the border. During the 5 k ride, I felt very uncomfortable because we had chosen a cycle rickshaw. i felt bad having this old man with no shoes pedal me over the border. I mentally decided to pay him double his origional asking price. When the driver stopped, it appeared we had reached the railroad on the Indian side. but, we hadn't gone through customs yet . . . we decided to pay and figure it out after. As we got off the rickshaw we were again surrounded by drivers shouting. They yelled that we had to pay the driver twice what I was paying him (which was already twice what we had agreed) we argued, gave him a tiny bit more, and walked away. As it turned out, our fears were confirmed. We had illegally entered India! Angry and annoyed, we decided to walk back until we found the immigration office. About 2 km away, we found the office and our paperwork was processed.
 
We asked around and were told the only way to get to Patna (next point of transit) was by bus. We trudged to the bus station and as we walked realized Raxault was the worse place on earth. Men followed me and stood too close, despite Tom and Mike's presense, everyone tried to cheat us, and it was dirty, smelly, ugly, and ridicuously hot. It turned out, other parts of the town had been some of the hardest hit with flooding, but we saw no signs of this.
 
The bus to Patna was supposed to leave right after we arrived, however the schedules had changed and it would not leave for another 8 hours. So, we sat in the bus depot and since there was no food anywhere, we ate potato chips and cookies for lunch/dinner. It was a miserable time and we were constantly harasses. At one point we saw two other westerners who confessed they had paid for a tour of Raxault! We opted not to continue to hang out with them, because they were clearly stupid. :)
 
Finally, at 9pm we were able to get on the bus. They turned on a movie so loudly it physically hurt my ears. Tom had to argue with the driver to turn it down and when the man turned the movie off, the three white people (us) were heckled and sneered at. Eventually, we were able to reach a compromise. The bus left an hour late and drove for 30 minutes and stopped. I was glad because I had to pee. However, I was unable to because everytime I tried to duck behind a bush, men would follow me (something that has never happened before . . and I have had to pee in public A LOT while traveling). Finally, Tom and Mike had to make a wall around me so i could hide from the intense stares and close proximity of men that made me feel frightened. It was dark and I felt very unsafe. As it turned out, a strike was blocking the road. The 3 hours we sat there did give us enough time to sit outside the bus while the movie finsihed. At the end we got a tip that there was in fact a train! But, we couldn't get the 1 km to the train without walking, and we agreed that was a bad idea. We were so annoyed because we had wanted a train in the first place. As we waited I found an entry for the region in the tour book. It warned never to travel at night due to bandits and for women never to walk alone . . . awsome! But, after the bus driver  collected 500 rupees from the bus passengers, the strikers were bribed into letting us pass. The ride was dirty and hot and terrile but we arrived in Patna at 5am, in time for the 6am train. As it turned out, the train was not running until 2pm. We were a day behind schedule, but figured out how to make it up and were feeling okay because we survived Raxault. We decided to get a hotel room for the few hours so we could shower and nap.
 
We flagged two rickshaws and made sure they agreed to take us to our hotel. They agreed and 15 minutes later they tried to drop us at a different hotel which was 10 times the price! We argued that they had to take us to our hotel or we wouldn't pay them (in a lot of places, drivers get paid a commission to bring tourist to a hotel whether they want to be there or not). The owneer of the hotel came out, told is in the same conversation that our hotel did not exist, was a new hotel, and did not take foreigners. Tom finally had to call him a liar and the hotel owner stormed off in a huff. This lasted about 20 minutes, Suddenly, this kind man rode up on his bike and translated for us. He insited teh men take us to our hotel and he rode alongside us until we got the the correct place. He wasd our one shining light in the whole ordeal. When the drivers dropped us, they demanded extra monye because they had "driven out of their way" we were so angry! Our helper translated our anger but eventually we just paid the men a little more so our helper could go home. We were steaming!
 
We got a sticky room, showered, slept, and had to pull ourselves out of bed to make the train.
 
As it turned out, we had purchased unreserved tickets, instead of seats, This meant we had to fight our way into the car and would not have a seat for the 15 hour train ride. We were prepared to do this, until we realzed that pilgrams who were Shiva devotees (who dress in orange and are everywhere) were using our train. This meant it was even more crowded and some even sat on the roof! In addition, we had been at the wrong track and some random guy asked if he could help us. This made us late to the train and even harder to get on. He took us to the correct train and told us to get in on 1st class. People talked to the conductor and we were given three bunks together. As we got situated, a different man came and said it would cost 4000 rupees for our upgrade. We said it was too much and when I found the conductor he said it was actually 2500. While not as much as the random swindler had tried, that was still too much. So, we left Mike in the expensive seats and Tom and I tried to find space in other cars. We met some really nice people who helped us translate and pointed out the floood waters out the train window. It was to the tops of trees in some places.
 
Eventually, we found out that there just weren't any other seats. It turned out, Mike had made nice with the man in the 1st class compartment and he was a conductor. He suggested we might be able to "pay less" for the seats. i took the hint and we agreed on a fair "tip" (1000) So, for 1000 rupees, we got to stay in first class, met some really nice people, and were going to make it to New Jalipguri and onto the next jeeep to Pelling at 6am. We were so relieved!
 
When we arrived at the train station, the office was closed until 8am and we wanted to buy our tickets for our trip to Varanasi after Pelling. We decided to eat and wait for the counter to open. We approached drivers to get quotes on a price to the jeep stand 4 km away and most told us all were "finished". This confused us.  Few shops were open and the few rickshaws quoted ridicuously high prices.
 
When the office opened, we realized we couldn't buy the ticket we wanted. We were annoyed at the wasted time and tried to find a car. Soon we realized what "finished" meant. There was a 24 hour strike. All transportation (except trains) was down and most shops were closed. We deflated. We decided we could at least do internet while we waited but it was closed due to the strike too. Eventually we got a tip that a train left at 11am for the part of town where the jeep stand was. However, we kept getting bad information and I think missed several of the trains. We finally got on a train at 5:30pm.
 
In the interum Tom and I went for a walk to see if we could find anything open, and when we turned a corner saw an angry mob pull a rickshaw driver and his passenger out of the rickshaw for what we can only assume was crossing the picket line. They yelled and screamed and we fled. We never saw anyone get hit but we didn't stick around to find out.
 
THEN, we found a restuarant in the station that had a small airconditioned room and cheap prices. They welcomed us and we ordered. The food arrived and was delicious. All of a sudden, we heard screaming and chanting. The indian man in the room with us jumped up and said "Okay, you should leave"/. I looked up and the kitchen staff was fleeing. We took two giant bites of food and ran out the back door The manager assured us we were okay, but we paid as the mob entered the restuaramnt demnanding that it close. No damamge was done and no one was hurt but it was intense enough to discourage our re-entry. Which, I suppose was the goal of the protesters. We tried to act tough for eachother, but I think we all were terriblly nervous for teh next hour or so as the protesters moved from track to track screaming and chanting.
 
We were never clear on what they were protesting for. Some said better educationa nd health care for teh lower castes, some said to protest a rickshaw tax, and otehrs said it was "because they are lazy anbd hate to work" haha. We think it was probably the second one.
 
We met a family who had been trapped in Nepal a few weeks back for three days, in the jungle, without food, water, or lodging because of the guerillas. This made us really glad we had opted for this option . . even though the guerillas still mananged to screw with us. We were now 3 days behind schedule which meant we had to cut out some ruins on Khajuraho which we had all been looking forward to.
 
We ended up getting a room after pricing jeeps for the next day in the part of town with the jeep stand. We were told we could get a jeep at 6am the next day.
 
okay this entry is over. We had an amazing time in Sikkim and everything went much better after this. I have to go catch my train right now, though, so I won't be able to write about it right now. I should have internet again on weds. The next two stops will be problem free and away from all of this craziness!!! I wrote about this now, instead of waiting until i get home, because I know we were fine the whole time and will continue to be fine. No worries.
 
8-12-07
 
After I made the last entry, we wandered around Kathmandu for a bit and realized every dance club was a strip club haha. So, we decided to book our trip to the park, eat, and go to bed. I had planned the itinerary out pretty well. The trip we were taking would include transportation (8 hours or so) to Chitwan National Park, cover two nights with full board, and various attractions. The tour ended with transportation to any city in Nepal. All this was just $55. This was great because we wanted to cross into India and we figured we would get dropped at the border, about 5 hours from our newest destination. However, when we tried to book the ticket, we were informed that there were some Nepali Guerrillas fighting in the exact region we would need to travel through to get to that particular border crossing. After some discussion, we decided we would cross through Raxault, take a bus to Patna that night (8 hours), end in New Jalipurgi (5 hours), stay overnight, and the next morning grab a jeep to Pelling, our destination (5 hours). We had no idea there was unrest in eastern Nepal. Yay for American interational media coverage.
 
With solid plans we woke early and a travel agent on a motor bike led us to a bus filled with Western and Chinese tourists. We were loaded on the uncomfortable bus and headed to Chitwan. The drive was beautiful. We saw the Himalyan snow-covered peaks and some incredible hill side views. When we arrived in Chitwan it was scorching hot. Two tour guides met us at the bus and loaded us into a truck. We rode to our hotel and chit-chatted with the two men (one was a guide in training).
 
Our hotel was a cute little plot of land with little bungalow huts and a small restaurant. We were fed an amazing meal and a free Fanta and briefed on the trip. After a rest, we were taken on a tour of the village and shown how the indigenous people make their homes from mud and cow manure.It was very interesting. I was amazed how similar village life is across cultures.  That night we had another tasty meal and slept early (though Mike had a brief battle with two gaint man-eatting spiders using camp soap, candle wax, and DEET haha).
 
The next day we slept through the alarm, barely made breakfast and rushed to our elephant safari. It was great! The three of us rode on top of an elephant as it trudged through the forest (some annoying tourist kept singing but eventually their elephant went a different direction). While on the safari we saw a rhino and a peacock! It was really cool. The safari was too short (only an hour) but the elephant walked us back to our hotel which was kind of cool. The elephant driver even let me drive the elephant for part of the ride!
 
After the safari we were taken to the elephant bathing grounds. It was the huge section of river and there were about 10 elephants being cleaned. We were motioned to the water and told to get in to help wash. We hopped in clothes and all and were instructed to climb, bareback, onto the giant creature. After we were all in place, the elephant stood, filled his truck with water, and proceeded to spray us with elephant snot-water over and over again. In retrospect it was gross, but it was really incredible!!! The elephant walked a bit then following the commands of its trainer began to rock violently back and forth. I screamed and nearly fell. Mike caught me. Then I saw Tom sliding and next thing I knew he was in the water. He stood up quickly and laughed just as Mike and I were throwm from the elephanat too. It was crazy!!! The trainer than had the elephant lift us with its truck onto its head like in the jungle book and then the elephant shook us off again. It was such a great experience and a ton of fun.
 
After the elephant bath, we had lunch, rested, then went on a canoe ride. On the canoe ride we saw these really cool crocodiles with skinny snouts. At the end of the canoe ride, we visited the elephant breeding grounds. Mike bought elephant biscuits and pretty soon we had two baby elephants attaching us with their trunks, trying to eat the biscuits. It was both amazingly fun and terrifying at the same time. One seemed to have a cold or something and kept wiping a snout like material all over us.
 
After dinner, our tour guide arrived pretty tipsy and announced we would see traditional music and dancing. He had arranged with the boys who worked at the hotel to play drums, cymbals, sing, and dance. It was so much fun! They taught each of us the dance moves and then invited us to show them some dancing. Tom and I did what we could remember from our wedding tap dance, Tom did some break dancing, and we all sang some American songs. We went to bed feeling great about our stay in Nepal.
 
The next morning, we woke up and were put on a bus headed for Raxault, India.
 
 
That's all for Nepal . . . more adventures to follow
 
8-3-07
 
Hey everyone! I wanted to first say we have not been affected by the flooding here in India. I just read about the death toll on CNN.com and its amazing that these deaths are happening so near to where we are (we haven't been hearing about it even). When we were in Agra there was some flooding (about knee deep in parts) but none of the devastation that I just read about. I feel really sad for the people who are suffering right now, but wanted to make sure you all knew we were safe.
 
 
Now, for the pleasant updates. After we left Dharamalsa, we headed to Amritsar. Amritsar is home to the holiest sight for Sikhs. Tom studied the Sikh religion in undergrad and has been fascinated by the religion since then. Sikhs have 5 items they wear as signs of devotedness (a turban, uncut hair/beard, short pants under their clothes, a comb, and a weapon). The weapons are often small knives in the states, but here they ranged from spears, to swords, to daggers. The town was busy and loud but I enjoyed it. We were able to take a taxi to the border with Pakistan and watched the changing of the guard at sunset. It was a fun ceremony that was choreographed between both sides. The India side would yell and chant patriotic slogans and wave the India flag while the guards did high-kick marching and the same was happening on the Pakistani side. In the end the guards from both sides opened their respective gates and shook hands. The colors where beautiful on both sides because women were in a seperate sections and the traditional clothing on each side created a sea of color.
 
On the way to the border we visited 2 Hindu temples. In the second temple, we crawled through a maze of different statues of Hindu gods with our Sikh guide. In the end, we were directed to two seated men, they dabbed our foreheads with red dye, put flowers over our heads, and gave us edible sweet as a form on communion. The Sikh went through the ceremony as well and afterwards he explained to us that we had all been blessed by Shiva. It was really neat. We also visited a memorial to many Indians who were slaughtered in an attack by British forces during colonial times.
 
However, the best part about the stay was the Sikh's Golden Temple. The temple was a square building in the middle of a giant moat. The entire structure is made from smooth, white marble. We were able to stay for free in the compound in hot, uncomfortable rooms and were fed as well. Meals were amazing in taste and structure. Hundreds of people would walk through a corridor and as we walked up the steps to the dining hall, we were handed a spoon, a plate, and a bowl. At each step we were directed by friendly, smiling Sikhs. When we walked into the hall there were rows of carpets and people sat down in an orderly manner on the carpets one by one. After we sat, men with pails of food ran down the line and dropped food onto our plates If we wanted more, we cupped two hands and we were given more. Our bowls were filled with water. After we finished eatting we stood and the floor in front of us was mopped as we walked out the doors. Our dishes were taken by more smiling Sikhs and washed in an assembly line of volunteers. the food was amazing and we were instructed by sources that we must eat everything on our plate or it would be very rude. The one terrible food (still unidentified) made Tom spit up in his mouth and was difficult for us all to stomach. However, for the most part we loved everything. I loved the silent commincation I was able to have with the women from different social classes. A shy smile, or a muffled hello, really made me feel closer to the women I met. (Sikhs allow people from all castes, religions, ethinicities, and genders to come to the temple as equals).
 
We were able to see an awesome museum which high-lighted how much Sikh's kick butt (figuratively and literally). At the temple we were able to watch the Holy Book get "put to bed" which was an elaborate ceremony where the book (which is sung all day to a music called raggas) is wrapped in cloth while people bow their heads to the ground and show respect in the form of touching their hands to each stair they cross. It was really moving. We also were able to listen to the singing of the book and were encouraged to take a dip ("bath") in the holy water surrounding the temple. Tom was even asked to drink the water.
 
The thing that was so neat about the visit to the temples was that we never felt like tourists or intruders. Every time we tried to show respect for the religion, we were encouraged to participate further. When I went into the room to see if it was appropiate for me to try to bathe in the holy water, a nice Sikh woman spoke to me in Hindi and was clearly telling me to try to dip and that she would hold my clothes. People seemed to understand we wanted to honor them and we just felt really accepted. It was amazing!
 
After Amritsar we left for Agra which we expected to be horrible. We had prepared ourselves to be harrassed the entire time we were there, but our first taxi driver ended up being awsome. We hired him for the day and we were able to see the Taj Mahal, Agra Fort (though it POURED the entire time at the fort), and a tomb nicknamed the "Baby Taj". At the BAby Taj we saw a bird fight, a monkey fight, and an ant battle! haha.  It was really fun. After the rain storm it took us 2 hours to find a route that wasn't too flooded to take the rickshaw through. At the end, the driver asked if he could take us to see some shops (a scam we had been warned about because they get a commission for bringing us) but he was honest and upfront and told us exactly what his commission would be. He said he would get paid a small fee just for bringing us so we decided to go. In the end we bought an amazing hand made rug (yeah yeah . . . . we fell for the racket . . . but we got a good deal and Tom has been aching for a rug for years). We really feel like our driver made our trip to Agra. We had a really great time.
 
Today we took a train to Delhi and flew to Kathmandu, Nepal. It is gorgeous here!!! We are really enjoying it. It is much calmed and cleaner than India (but i still dig India). It is a nice change of pace to be here. Tomorrow we will ride down south and do a jungle safari on an elephant! We might see Rhinos and tigers (maybe!)  Yay India and Nepal!
 
 
 
7-31-07
 
Wow! What a trip so far! India is a fine fine place. Mike arrived shortly after I sent the last email and has been traveling with us. He's traveled in Europe before, but never in the developing world. He seems to be adapting just fine. One of the places we hope to visit is a part of the country called Sikkim. To travel here, you need a special visa. We spent days at the Indian consulate in the US trying to get the visa, and eventually they just wrote a note at the bottom of our passports. This seemed strange, so we spent Mike's first day, trying to confirm that the visas were valid. We were sent to a  government office and told to reapply. After 3 hours of waiting, we were called and told our visa WAS valid. This was very frustrating, so we decided to go to the national Sikkim tourist office. When we arrived it was closed, but the staff took pity on us and let us interrupt their tea to talk to us. They told us the visa was valid . . . but who knows.
 
Because of this confusion, we decided to reverse our travel plans and go to Sikkim last. We had planned to volunteer there, but I had found volunteer opportunities in other parts of the country.
 
So, we decided to head to the Himalayas to a small Buddhist town called Dharmasala. As it turns out, Dharamasala is the greatest place on earth. Admittedly, I did not know much about the area before arriving, but now i am in love. Dharmasala is where the Dalai Lama lives, where the Tibetan government in exile is located, and where thousands of refugees settle after making the 30 day long trek through the Himalayas (with threat of a shoot to kill policy by Chinese military) in an attempt to escape their own country that is being occupied by China. I have learned so much about the Tibetan struggle and it makes me so angry! By best accounts, in around 1953, China offered to help "backwards Tibet" gain some infrastructure. they offered to help build roads and schools etc. Tibetans were happy about this and allowed the Chinese government into the country. In 1959, Chinese military launched a surprise attack and forcefully took over Tibet. Believing an assassination attempt was going to happen, the Dalai Lama escaped to India. The Chinese governement instituted a "cultural revolution" in which they destroyed Buddhist temples, burned ancient buddhist texts, and took over the monastaries in Tibet. Since then, over 1 million people have been killed and hundreds of thousands have escaped and many have been imprisioned as political prisioners. In Tibet, Tibetans face life in an occupied country. China is encouraging people to move to Tibet. there are now 3 million Tibetans in Tibet and 5 million Chinese. Natural resources are being destroyed, nuclear waster is being stored in Tibet territories, and Tibetans are not allowed basic human rights (free speech, equal treatment, medical care, education, etc). Right now, several Tibetans are on day 25 of an indefinite hunger strike because the 2008 Olympics will be held in China. Tibetans want to have their independence or want other countries to boycott the games. The oldest protester is 75 years old.  The Chinese government even kidnapped the child that is next in line as a religious leader. http://www.freetibet.org/ Here's some more info 
 
In Dharamasala, we decided we wanted to stay as long as possible. As a result we deciedd we wanted to volunteer here. We were able to find several programs that thought english to Tibetans. As a result, they held nightly english conversation sessions. Every night we would go and sit with a different Tibetian and help them practice their english. It was amazing. I worked with a  buddhist monk, a former political prisioner, a man whose brother was a monk who had participated in a protest and had been kicked out of the monastery by the Chinese government, a 20 year old girl who wants to study hard so she can go to Harvard, and several young women in nursing school who miss their mothers. It was incredible. Each person we met was passionate about the Tibet issue, thoughtful, open about their experiences, and incredibly brave. All had crossed the mountains in groups of about 40, and saw many people die along the way. This was a great way to volunteer because I really felt like  was providing a service AND I got so much out of it because of all that I learned.
 
Besides volunteering, we really experienced this sleepy town. Since it is so heavily Buddhist there were a lot of great things to experience. We took a yoga class, had massages, had acupuncture (which gave me a migraine), attended a Buddhist mediciation session and lecture given by a high ranking Buddhist lama, visited the Tibetan Parliament, saw several buddhist temples, played near a waterfall (where all of the Indians wanted to take pictures with us), attempted a Sitar and Tabla performance (amazing!), and took a Tibertan cooking class from a very interesting Tibetan refugee. We also climbed to the top of a mountain in the Himalayas! It took about 9 hours round trip and was incredible!!!!! One of the most amazing things was we decided, instead of staying in a hotel, we would stay in a monastery. So, we stayed in the monastery which was down many many stone steps (about a 15 minute walk down) that had an incredible view of the mountains. It was magical!
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Tomorrow we head out to Amristar which is where the Golden Temple is (the Sikh holy sight). We will stay there tomorrow and leave at 4pm the next day. At 4pm we will take an overnight train to Agra.
 
Sunday, July 22, 2007 
7-25-07
Hi all! The trip to Tanzania is coming to a close. I did not love
Tanzania as much as Ghana or Rwanda, but I still haven't gotten my
fill. I wish the stay here were a bit longer.

We have continued the orphanage work and are enjoying the kids (though
they seem intent on breaking my glasses before we leave the country)
and we are starting to recognize the neighbors at sight. We learned a
few Swahili words and that makes things a lot easier. People here are
less educated than the other African countries we have visited so it
has been harder to develop real tight relationships with any local
people. But, our friend Billy, has been an essential help and we were
really happy to have seen him while we were here.

We did a few days of tourism and traveled north, just south of the
Serengeti. We arrived (with Billy's great directions) with little
problem and got off the bus in a town called Arusha. We met a girl on
the bus who asked if we wanted to share a cab and so we all traveled
to a nearby hotel. The travel book had warned this town was filled
with people trying to scam people into paying for fake safaris. I
assumed it couldn't be any worse than anywhere else we had visited. It
was insane!!! As soon as we arrived at the hotel we were mobbed by
"touts" (people trying to lure you to a shop for a commission . . . .
sometimes legitimate but usually a scam). My firm rebuffs were
ignored. We took refuge in the hotel and decided to go into town to
look for a one-day safari for us and a 5 day for our new friend. We
were literally swarmed by several men who followed us or walked right
in front of us as we walked from shop to shop acting as if they had
lead us there! It was insane! The only thing I can compare it to is a
border crossing in Latin America . . . . but for an entire town!

We were able to finally find a trip to Ngorngoro crater for a decent
price and were really excited. We grabbed a taxi and retreated to the
hotel and ate at the closest place nearby to avoid hassle . . . which
happened to be a pizza place. It was frustrating because I felt like I
could not be friendly to anyone. The second I smiled, I was mobbed! It
was craziness!

The next day, we woke up early and a 4 by 4 jeep picked us up to drive
to the crater. It was apparently once the top of a volcano and has a
permanent water source with grass and so it is filled with animals. On
our one day safari we saw an elephants, hundreds of wildebeast,
zebras, hippos, ostriches, flamingos, storks, and lions!!!!! We saw
female lions prowling the plains and male lions sleeping. It was
awesome! Tom had hoped to see a black rhino, but there were none
spotted that day. We were able to stand in the jeep with the roof off
and feel the wind on our faces as we rambled through the yellow
grasses. It was beautiful!

The next day was not as successful. We heard that the cultural tour of
the Maasi village was particularly awsome (turns out our source had
traveled on market day and we did not). Our tour kind of sucked and
was awkward and uncomfortable. The Maasai people often wear red cloth
resembling a blanket, have stretched earlobes, lots of jewelry, and
jump really high when they dance. Once woman, dressed in typical
Tanzania clothes, offered to change into a traditional outfit. She ran
to her home, changed and posed for photos. It was very awkward and
strange haha . . . but the walk was beautiful and it was nice to see
some Tanzania village life. We also got to enter a Massi home which
houses the wife, a fire for cooking, and a cow!

After that we hopped a dola-dola (like a tro-tro) to Moshi where Mt.
Kilimanjaro is. It was cloudy so we couldn't see the mountain. We had
planned to spend the afternoon walking around the park, but it was
going to cost $120 plus a guide! It was too much so we decided to walk
down from the gate to the base of the mountain (about 5 km) and were
still sore haha. While walking down we saw a waterfall and saw some
more local life. It was a pleasant walk, but I was disappointed about
missing the chance to walk on the mountain.

The next day we traveled back to Dar and our bus broken down for 5
hours! We were at the side of the road in a beautiful spot but it was
filled with thorns and didn't have food or water. Tom and I explored
the land, played baseball with a rock and stick tom found, and played
hangman. It was annoying but also a relaxing laid back time.

We leave tomorrow fro India after a day of volunteering. Fun times!!!

Pictures will be up soon and I fixed the problem with the Ghana pics.


http://good-times.webshots.com/album/558539930YnAFRI
 
7-13-07
 
We have been in Tanzania for a few days and are enjoying ourselves.
Billy met us at the airport and gave us a great introduction to Dar.
We are staying in a cute hostel with running water! We are very happy.
We are tired from Ghana and its nice to have a home base. We went to
the beach yesterday with Billy We saw some old German ruins from
colonial days past and ruins from the oldest mosque in eastern africa.
It was a nice relaxing day with a lot of walking.

We started at the orphnage today. The kids are hungry for attention
and have developed many maladaptive ways of gaining attention. But
they are all super cute! The orphange also houses some developmentally
disabled people. 5 or 6 are clarly autistic. I wish I was here along
enough to be able to get my hands on them on teach them some skills.
Two are deemed "unmanagable" and are tied to their wheel chairs. It
breaks my heart to be in the room with them.

Overall, Tanzania is a lot like Ghana . . . but a little rougher. It
is pretty and people have been very friendly. Muslim women dress in a
more middle eastern headware style than in Ghana and there is a large
native Indian population.

On weds we will go see Mt. kilimanjaro and hopefully go on a small
safari. I am excited to hopefully see lions.


I uploaded some pictures

http://good-times.webshots.com/album/558539930YnAFRI



Monday, July 16, 2007 

Hi all! We are in Tanzania now. We are staying in the capital, Dar Es
Salaam. We have a friend here, Billy, who we met in Rwanda last
summer. He hooked us up at an orphanage for the mornings and a school
for street children in the afternoons.

A quick recap on the Ghana trip. Overall it was great. Peter,
Catherine, and Stephen were super! No one was seriously sick or hurt
and everyone complained as little as possible when unexpected things
happened (like the toilet in larbanage recently vanishing . .. .
wow!).


The trip started off well with safe flights. We met Faisal at the
airport and went for a drink. It was so great to see him. We giggled
about past memories and he told us he had married a Canadian girl in
April! Apparently they lived together for a year and married right
before she left to go back to Canada. Currently he is waiting for the
visa paperwork to go through. We were so shocked! We had no idea. We
are so happy for him. There is no one else we would wish happiness for
more than Faisal. It will be great to have him on our side of the
world too! He has grown alot these past two years and was far more
worldly than the last timer we saw him. He was happier too. That made
me smile.

When Tom's parents arrived, Catherine's luggage was missing! We had to
keep moving so, unfortunately, we could not wait for it. As it turns
out, it never made it to Accra (even after they left for the US!)  I
loaned her some of my clothes and we were able to make do. She was a
good sport about it. When Stephen went to latin america with us, he
lost his luggage too! We must be bad luck.

We went straight to Tamale on a summer long bus ride and then to
Larabanga. It was interesting to be back there. Everyone was happy to
see us and it was great to see our old friends. We were surprised that
Zenabu had not grown much and the clothes we bought her were WAY too
big. But it was fun to see her and everyone else.

The next day we went to Mole National Park and did a walking safari.
We saw elephants, monkeys, and a bunch of different animals. It was
great! AT the end of the safari, Peter started acting strange and
walking unsteadily. We had no idea what was wrong. Eventually, we
arrived at a pool and he just jumped in with his socks on. After an
hour or so he seemed back to normal. In retrospect, I think he may
have suffered heat stroke! It was a good thing he jumped into that
pool!

When we returned to the village we greeted our friend, Afishata. He
giggle and told us she would see us in a hour. About an hour later I
left my room and walked over to her. She looked like she was ready to
cry. I asked what was wrong and she began to sob. He "senior father"
(her father's oldest brother) had just died. I walked with her as she
sobbed and realized he was also the head Iman in the village. We
entered a courtyard and there were hundreds of people sobbing. I began
to cry as well. After a few minutes I saw Afishata had many hands to
console her so I left because I did not want anyone to think I was
being a tourist to everyones grief. The village was in mourning the
rest of our stay.

Before leaving Larabanga, we got Zenabu's families' permission to
travel with her in Ghana. We also set up a new way for her to go to
school and get fed meat and veggies once a day. We hope that it will
work out. We took her all over Ghana and it was great! Catherine
bought her "The very hungry caterpillar" and Tom and I got her some
markers and she read and colored the whole time!

When we left Larabanga, we went to Tamale and volunteered a two
orphanages. The first orphanage was very nice. It had many staff and
only 11 children. There were clean clothes and a lot of food. Overall
it was a pleasant atmosphere. We fed and played with the babies there.

The other orphanage was more like the one in Rwanda, only poorer. The
staff was doing its best, but there were not enough supplies. Diapers
were only changed 3 times a day, so by noon the floor was covered in
urine and babies were soaking wet. The building was a dimly lit and
there were not nearly enough staff. The smell was so bad I had to
leave frequently because it made me light headed. But, the kids were
cute and Zenabu had fun playing with kids her own age.

In Tamale, we also traveled 3 hours to a waterfall. We were stopped by
police half way there and our taxi driver was forced to pay a very
large bribe! We were so angry! However, the waterfall experience was
so much fun that we quickly forgot our anger.

Zenabu had never really been out of her village before. Our hotel was
two stories tall and she was so frightened at first! When she saw the
waterfall she nearly cried. However, by the end, she was running and
swimming in the falls. The rest of the trip she was saw "Waterfall!"
and mime some of her water games.

We also went to see the house that Faisal was building in Tamale. It
is great! He has a little plot of land and is making a western style
home. The walls are nearly finished. Faisal is such a neat guy!

We also went to Shanga Village and found out what was happening there.
This was the village we bought the well for instead of buying party
favors for the wedding. The actual results were sketchy until this
trip. As it turned out, the government had tried to make wells.
However, the water was too deep underground and they could not access
it. As a result, the village had a meeting and decided they wanted
their current water source expanded and cleared. As it was, the water
was muddy and dried up. When it went dry they had to share the water
hole with the cows. What they did was remove all of the mud from the
center of their water hole so the water was cleaner and made the hole
bigger. As a result, they have water there all year round. They seemed
very happy to see us when we arrived.

After our time in Tamale, we went Kumasi and visited the town and a
very laid back art market. It was a nice relaxing afternoon. Then we
went to Cape Coast. At Cape Coast we took tom';s family on the tour of
the slave castle and Zenabu tried to poop in the middle of the walkway
(you can take the girl out of the village but never the vaillage out
of the girl haha). In Cape Coast, Zenabu saw the ocean for the first
time. We took her out to the water and she loved the waves. She would
scream "Ocean, COME!" when the waves moved away. It was so cute!!!

While in Cape Coast, Tom learned that he has been hired to teach high
school english at a high school in southeast DC. The school is 99.71
percent black! (there is one latino kid). He is nervous but also very
very very excited. Yay Tom!


We also visited the rainforest and everyone walked across the rope
bridges (even Zenabu). Everyone was super brave and it was very very
beautiful.

We ended the trip at the beach. We played a lot on the water with
Zenabu, walked around town, and generally relaxed. It was a really
pleasant time. We dealt with Zenabu's first tempoer tantrum but after about 30 minutes it ended and I did some positive practice of following directions witrh lots of praise and we did not have any more problems. She's so amazing!

We said goodbye to Zenabu in Accra on our last day. I sang her a song
and gave her lost of hugs. We told her she was wonderful and she
needed to go to school and we thought she was so smart. She walked
away, holding hands with Faisal, down the street to catch a taxi, and
never looked back. She is going to just fine.



 

Saturday, April 07, 2007 
Wow. So, New Orleans was wild. I knew people who had visited and they'd said it was like the third world . . I had always shrugged it off. These people had never been to Africa or Latin America. New Orleans was not as bad as Africa . . . but it was worse than most places we had visited in Latin America.
 
We were able to work on gutting homes, painting homes, and keeping lawns clear. We met many survivors and their stories made me cry.
 
A lot of the actions the government is taking doesn't make sense to me right now. It seems really wrong and that makes me angry. I won't ramble here about my thoughts, but if anyone wants to talk about it feel free  to email any questions.
 
Our trip touched us so much we are considering canceling the India wing of our trip this summer and spending the time in New Orleans instead.
 
Here are our pictures 
 
http://good-times.webshots.com/album/558539930YnAFRI
Friday, March 30, 2007 
 Just writing with an update . . . Things are going well out here. Tom and I are both super busy with work and school. We are still teaching special education (I work with 4th graders with Aspergers and Tom works in the Autism program). We both love our jobs and I am learning a lot. I am on track to graduate with my masters in December and Tom will graduate next spring. He's starting to apply for substitute and temp license positions. It's very exciting. I have been considering applying to psych PhD programs instead of law school (but I don't have to decide until December so there is plenty of time)
 
We are enjoying being home-owners but the minor repairs are beginning to annoy us. haha. But, overall it is great. Our neighbors are awsome and DC is so beautiful right now with spring peaking in.
 
On the volunteeer front: during Spring Break next week we are headed to New Orleans to do a rebuilding project. This summer we are headed to Ghana, India, and Tanzania! We are super excited because Tom's parents are coming to Ghana and our friend, Mike, is coming to India. Aside from volunteering, I will also be doing research on orphanages in the developing world. Anyone else interested in joining us?
 
I have been working very hard on a book about our travels. I put together a "How To" volunteer abroad independently book. It is basically step by step tips on how to volunteer abroad as well as stories from our trips. Its self published on lulu.com. It's up for sale at http://www.lulu.com/content/765152. I worked hard on it and am kind of proud of it. I'm not sure how good it is, but it does convey a lot of information. So if anyone is interested in learning how to volunteer abroad like we do, it might be worth a peek. Feel free to pass on the website to anyone you think might be interested. ..>.. D(["mb","..u003c/div..>..n..u003cdiv..> ..u003c/div..>..n..u003cdiv..>Anyway- that's the update from out here. I would love to hear updates from you all as well...u003c/div..>..n..u003cdiv..> ..u003c/div..>..n..u003cdiv..>Happy Weekend!..u003c/div..>..n..u003cdiv..> ..u003c/div..>..n..u003cdiv..> ..u003c/div..>..n..u003cdiv..>Saundra :)..u003cbr..>-- ..u003cbr..>"I am convinced that this nation still stands before the world as perhaps the last expression of a possibility of mankind devising a social order where justice is the supreme ruler and law is but its instrument; where freedom is the dominant creed and order but its principle; where equity is the common practice and fraternity the true human condition." Kweisi Mfume ..n..u003c/div..>..n",0] ); D(["ce"]); //-->..>
 
 
 
 

 
Wednesday, December 20, 2006 

Journal Ghana 2005

 

Day 1: August 9, 2005

 

Saundra: Today was the first day with all of the volunteers. We had a lot of business to handle in Accra. We exchanged money, had lunch in Osu, looked at some crafts, went to the grocery store, and tried to register at the Embassy. The Embassy had changed its hours, though, so we were not able to actually register. But regardless, it was a productive morning and everyone got to see a lot of Accra.

 

Karen: During the afternoon we all went to the Accra Zoo. It wasn't expensive, about 10000 cedis. It was pretty neat because none of us had seen zoo animals that close up before. It was kind of small, but we got to see a lot of monkeys. One tried to take Teisha's camera. We also saw a lion, a hyena, several birds, and some crocodiles. 

 

Teisha:  In the evening a few of us took a walk through an area of Accra that is called "the gutter," and the name really explains it well. The people there live next to a giant river of excrement and garbage in tiny shelters that are smaller than the average American bedroom.  It was really sad to see all of the people there in such poor conditions.  The thing I noticed though was that all of the children were playing and laughing despite the poverty. Also, many people commented on my appearance (being the only white female in the area) and the children followed close behind us.

 

Michael:  Following the walk, the group enjoyed a scrumptious dinner at a cozy restaurant that served a wonderful chicken and spicy rice dinner, as well as gave a wonderful taste of live island jazz. The music within the restaurant, just as the music of the marketplace on the way to the meal, shouted, without words understood by us Americans, the joys and trials of living in Africa, and I personally could not help but feel overwhelmed with the desire to dance with the beautiful rhythm. It was really something to behold and appreciate. 

 

Tom: We were able to purchase a basketball at Osu.  It's funny colored, which is good because it will be distinguishable from the other basketball in Larabanga which, apparently, is privately owned.  However, it says "No Jesus No Life" on it.  We couldn't find one anywhere that didn't say that.  We'll obscure that with marker before we get to the Muslim village.  Our bus leaves tomorrow at 8:30AM; which means we have to be at the bus station at 7:30AM to weigh our luggage and make sure it gets on; which means we should leave Kokomlemle at 7:00AM; which means we should all be out of our rooms by 6:30AM; which means we should all get up at 5:30AM.  That's before sunrise, so set your alarm clocks and don't rely on the sun to wake you up.

 

Day 2: August 10, 2005

 

Tom: We woke up early and had to wait a long time to get the luggage on the bus.  Then, we rode in a bus all day.  It was a fairly comfortable ride and we had good seats next to the back door. We arrived in Tamale at about 7:30PM. We dropped off the luggage at Faisal's house and went to Giddipass for dinner.  Then we went to bed.

 

Day 3: August 11, 2005

 

Saundra: Today, we woke up early and went to Paga which is about 3 hours from Tamale. It has a crocodile sanctuary and a few other sites we did not have a chance to see. The tro-tro ride was so cramped! A tro-tro is an 18 passenger van that crams about 24 seats into it. I think there were 28 people in the tro tro we rode today. Once there we paid for a chicken and it was used to lull a crocodile from the pond. We posed for pictures holding the animal's tail (which for some reason did not want to eat us). Afterward, it ate the chicken in 30 seconds. When the visit was over, we headed back to Tamale.

 

When we arrived back in Tamale, Faisal's mom gave us a cooking class and we learned how to make riceballs. It was a long class and some people went and took naps. Overall, it was a very good lesson and the dinner was tasty.

 

We considered going out after dinner but everyone except Michael and Faisal were too tired. The rest of us had an early night and the two boys went into town for some happy times.

 

Day 4: August 12, 2005

 

Karen:

Today we got up early and went to buy cloth from the women's group in Tamale. Between the four of us we bought nearly all their cloth. Several of us had skirts made, either for ourselves or for a friend. Then Faisal and Michael went into town to find a tailor for men. Both Michael and Teisha had men's shirts made.

 

After that, we all went into town. Some of us used the internet or made phone calls. Faisal and Saundra went to the market to gather supplies for the village while Tom, Teisha, Michael and I ate and went to a small art market. Except for Tom, we each bought something.

 

Around 130 we went to the bus station to wait for the bus that would take us to Larabanga. It was supposed to be there at 2, but it did not come until almost four. We had a lot of luggage, so we had to carry some of it on the bus with us. It was very crowded and uncomfortable. We were squeezed into a row meant for 5 people, but 6 of us we crammed in there. We had no foot space and we each had to carry something on our laps. At one point we thought the bus was going to tip over! However, we made it to Larabanga in one piece, had dinner, and went quickly to bed.    

 

 

 

 

Day 5: August 13, 2005

 

Teisha:

Today we had more of a slow day with most of it spent waiting around for transportation.

We had breakfast of tea and peanut butter and jelly on bread. After that we had to wait around to hitch a ride to Domongo so that we could go to the hospital and speak with a doctor about malaria. The transportation that we had to Domongo was a over cramped truck bed that we shared with big bags of peanuts and what seemed like a thousand people. Everyone was literally on top of one another and some lady gave me her baby to hold for the whole ride!

 

Once in Domongo we took a taxi to the hospital and spoke with a nurse there who gave us a lot of valuable information. We also had brought along Zenabu to have her examined.  We spent some time just waiting around there for a doctor and then we were informed that a lot that needed to be done (like de-worming) would have to be done another day.

 

Then we ate lunch consisting of more rice and some meat. The rest of the day was spent waiting for a ride back to Larabanga. 4 hours must have passed while we waited. Eventually we gave in to paying for a taxi ride to Larabanga and then we had pasta for dinner. It is funny to me that everyone here thinks that it is cold out while we are enjoying a break from the hot sun.

 

Saundra: After our day in Damongo, we were treated to a party in the village. There was a cute play about the importance of girl education (we couldn't understand it but that's what we were told). After the play there was dancing. People requested songs for their friends and then the people would dance. If the crowd liked your dancing, they put a coin on your forehead and it was donated to the children's group. Michael joined Afishata for a dance and then she requested a song for all of us. We all danced until we were out of breath and had many coins put on our foreheads. It was a good time.

 

Day 6: August 14, 2005

 

Michael:

  Today was a day filled with adventure and wonder; we went on a safari tour.  After the usual breakfast affair of bread with pb&j, eggs, oatmeal, and tea, we traveled to Mole   From a distance, in the resort area's viewing post, we viewed a herd of magnificent elephants bathing themselves, and we excitedly hoped to see them closer up on our tour.

 

            However, our tour was very slow in coming; we arrived in Mole at 10:30am but had to wait until 3:30pm to actually have a tour. We were mostly left to our own devices, our main means of entertainment being food, a museum, a viewing post, and a pool. We ate a lunch together that took a long time in coming, but was delicious for the most part.  A trip to the museum was next, after a brief interlude of peaceful conversation.  We saw many different bones and skins of the animals within the park, and even saw an elephant fetus.  We returned to the resort, relaxed a bit more, and then finally, it was 3:30.  Our group, along with a few other ladies, was led by a knowledgeable guide on a magical journey, where we saw, up close, a great many monkeys, warthogs, antelope, and even an elephant. Though a very long trek it was a once in a lifetime experience that will forever remain engraved in my brain. However as with all things, good and bad, this great experience ended, just as the Sun was setting.

 

            It seemed, however, the forest was calling us back to its wonders, with monkeys as its messengers.  Many of the furry mammals, obstructed the road, and we were nervous to traverse in what seemed to be their territory. However, we braved it, and were gratefully surprised to meet Atiti, on his motorbike, on his way back to Larabanga.  He gallantly took us, two by two, back to the village, bringing a wonderful end to an already magnificent adventure. Back in Larabanga we ate dinner, and performed the play we created to educate the village about Malaria.

 

Saundra: Malaria class was great tonight! We did our play with Afishata translating and the crowd responded well. After the play we asked questions about malaria and gave small prizes (pens, hair ties, and candy) for answering a question correctly. When we had finished our review we opened the floor to questions. The villagers were very eager to ask questions about malaria and we were happy to answer them. We were surprised by how specific the questions were. For example, one woman asked how we could hydrate a baby who is under 6 months old and only supposed to be consuming breast milk. We were so glad she had asked the question so we could clarify that they should follow the normal feeding rules with babies. Overall, the class was very successful and I think people will come tomorrow night as well.

 

All of the programs are set up for tomorrow, so everyone is excited to sleep and get to work. I am very happy right now.

 

Day 7: August 15, 2005

 

Teisha:

Today was the first day that we had a chance to work with the children of Larabanga.  I took some of the older children with me to the wall of the school building that faces the road.  We painted the whole thing white in preparation for painting a mural on it about malaria. The kids seemed to be having a good time painting and they were very well behaved. I was impressed that they were sharing the brushes and taking turns sitting out. I was completely covered in white paint by the end of it, which was no surprise.  We had to get a "ladder" that was nothing more than a long piece of wood that had foot holds cut into it. Faisal painted up at the top because he was brave enough to use the "ladder."  While I was working on the wall, the others did other various activities with some of the younger children.

 

We had lunch consisting of rice yet again and some people decided to take a nap. Unfortunately, I am not feeling very well and it is making me cranky, but I am still happy with how everything else is going.

 

In the evening we had another malaria class and it went a little differently than the previous class. We did not have the use of the microphones so it was hard to talk over the crowd. Also, people were crowding us in hopes that we would pick them to answer questions. This was overwhelming, but they do seem to be learning.

 

Mike: Work in the fields was a relaxing first for me! It was wonderful, I learned many crop leaf shapes today, especially that of corn and of a type of squash. We ate a lunch of yams in the middle of the field, after gathering firewood from dry trees. Along with the yams, I was asked to eat a bug to become an African man, and I acquiesced to the request, thereby becoming a man. Later after all the work was done, I helped skin a bunny for some rabbit fufu which I partook in, and finally returned home.

 

Karen: Today I made kites with the P1 class. We made them outside because the school was closed. That was probably best because it was really messy anyway. It went well, and I think the kids enjoyed themselves. First they drew with crayons on both sides of the kite. Then I took out some paint and paint brushes. Many of them liked painting better than drawing. A lot of them made the Ghana flag on their kite out of the paint. Afterwards I took out some glitter, which the kids seemed to really like a lot. Some of them took handfuls and put them on their heads, which I thought was really strange, but funny. The best part was when they finished the kites and were able to play with them. For the most part they were really well behaved, but whenever I was handing out supplies they crowded around me and would not sit. 

 

Saundra: Tom and I worked in the preschool (nursery) today. It was VERY overwhelming! There were at least 75 kids with just me and Tom to supervise. The Assistant Head Master, Mash, jumped from each of our groups and was very calm with the nursery kids. We sang "The Itsy Bitsy Spider" and the ABC song. Tom read the kids "The Lion King". We also colored. I didn't have enough coloring book pages for everyone to draw a picture, so I ripped pages in half to create a page for everyone. After everyone had a paper, I gave everyone a color crayon. They seemed the share the colors well, but they pushed and showed when I was handing the crayons out and it was difficult to focus. Overall, we had a nice time.

 

We also saw the Mosque and the Mystic Stone today. Tom tried to give a tour but couldn't remember a lot of the details. However, when we were with Mash, he tol us all about the Mosque.

 

Day 8: August 16, 2005

 

Teisha:

Today I worked with the nursery children with Michael. It was hard to communicate with them because there were so many that cannot speak English, but we made do with what we had. I read them "the pokey little puppy" which is my favorite children's book, and I had the kids repeat what I was saying to make sure that they were paying attention. After the story we took them outside and sang songs with them. We sang "the hokie pokie," "head and shoulders," and "the itsy bitsy spider." The assistant head master showed up and they all sang a song to me about how the white people have come to teach the children. After that, Michael read them another story.

 

After class with the children we had some lunch prepared by Faisal and it was rice and stew.

 

Karen: Today I drew an outline of what will be painted on the mural wall. It was very difficult because I have never had to do anything like that before. I also did not have a ruler, so the lines are not straight. Hopefully it will look much better when it is painted. The boy that came up with the design did not show up, so it was mostly just me drawing with a little help from Teisha and Faisal. I did not stay out long because it got very hot around 1130.

 

Tom: Saundra and I worked on a farm today. The farm belonged to the president of Sungsim Women's Association. We used cutlasses to weed the entire farm. The farm had yams, peppers, and melon. We ate some granite nuts fresh from another farm and a bitter tasting nut later on. After we weeded the entire field we came back into Larabanga. After a short nap, Faisal, Michael and I killed a guinea fowl for dinner.

 

Saundra: Farming was fun but also very exhausting. We farmed for about an hour and  the woman we were with started to take us home. We ran into some boys on the way back and asked them to tell her we wanted to farm longer. She laughed and said she thought we were tired. We informed her we were not tired and so we farmed for a few more hours. By the time we were finished we were too tired though! When I came home I took a nap with Tom and Zenabu and then helped cook the rice and boil water for dinner. The guinea fowl was very very very tasty. Faisal fried it and it was nice.

 

After dinner we had some mango and then the Assistant Headmaster came to take us to his evening class. He volunteers his time to run a night school for the children who farm all day. It was so great! The school has some books and some puzzles and he has a nice little write-up and proposal about the school program. After we looked at his paperwork, the kids sang us some songs and did introductions. After each introduction each child recited a small poem. The poems were so cute! One was about fufu, one was about killers, and another was about the importance of education. At the end a little girl about Zenabu's age (who had been picked on earlier in the class by another child) did the cutest little introduction! We will donate our extra art supplies to this program when we leave the village.

 

We were going to have a small malaria contest thing tonight but it was raining so we decided to cancel the class. We figured everyone would be too cold and only children would come. Also, Afishata was still at a meeting in Mole and Faisal was MIA, so we didn't have anyone to translate. We also decided we would rather have Atiti's sound system for our programs and he had already sent it somewhere else. Tomorrow is a free day but we may do the game tomorrow night. If not, we will just save the prizes for the big game at the end.

 

 

Day 9: August 17, 2005

 

Saundra: Today was a free day and everyone was able to do whatever they wanted. I went to the Assistant Headmaster's farm with Karen. We walked the 45 minutes to get there, toured the farm, then only worked about 30 minutes before he took us home. It was a nice time though. After the farm I took a nap then prepared riceballs. They were awful! Haha. I didn't add salt and it was so bland and blah that even Zenabu wouldn't eat it! We all had Power Bars instead.

 

After dinner, the Sungsim Women's Association gathered and we met with them. We discussed the rest of the project with them and informed them that each woman who was up to date on her dues would get a mosquito net. We handed out 33 nets. The women seemed really happy about the nets and sang us a "thank you" song. They also sang us a song about HIV/AIDS.  We informed them we would be giving the women 100,000 for the electricity bill and 50,000 to buy a new spout for the polytank. We also told them about the repairs we had made to the building. It was a nice meeting and when it was over we went to bed. However, it was difficult to sleep because someone was playing music "Sooooo loud"!

 

Tom:  Faisal and I went to Damongo today to get Zenabu dewormed and call my mother.  I did not use the bathroom number two the day before, and I was looking forward to using the toilet at the hospital, which is a step above the one in Larabanga.  We were able to catch a lorry without too much waiting.  Faisal referred to it as a "bone-shaker", but we were allowed to sit up front in the cab where it was not so bad.  When we got there, Zenabu asked for a biscuit, and I got one for her.  There were four in the package and I let her eat all but one which I saved for later.  We then went to buy phone cards.  The place we went to only had 50 unit ones, so I waited while they sent a boy to see if he could find bigger ones.  He returned and reported that he could not, so I bought two 50s.  Then I bought a roll of toilet paper, and Faisal found us a shared taxi to the hospital for 2,000 cedis each (Zenabu was free).  We got to the hospital and checked Zenabu in at the desk.  The man there took her name and asked if she was a boy or a girl.  Faisal told him she was a girl, but he wrote "M" under her sex anyway.  I pointed out his mistake and he fixed it.  I then told the man that we had already made a card for her on Saturday in the Casualty ward, which we had, and he sent us there. When we got there, the lady asked if Zenabu was a boy or a girl.  She couldn't find the card and sent us back. On the way back, she called us back and said she found it.  She then gave me a hard time because according to the card, we were supposed to come back Monday at 8:00AM.  It was Wednesday at about 12:30PM.  Faisal explained, not for the last time, that the girl is from Larabanga, and that we get here when we get here.  She then asked if Zenabu had been taking the drugs that they didn't give us on Saturday because the laboratory was closed, and we said "no, you didn't give them to us because the laboratory was closed".  She replied that she didn't know what we wanted her to do then, because the girl didn't need to be looked at again until there had been some change.  I said we wanted to get her dewormed, so she sent me back to the doctors at the check in area.  We took her to the nurse there and told her what we wanted, and she asked if Zenabu was a boy or a girl, and whether we brought the stool sample they didn't ask me for, but had written down on her card that she needed to bring. I said no.  They asked how they were supposed to find out if she had worms then, and offered to cut her stomach open so that we could see them crawling around. I declined, and they said I should come back when she has a stool sample.  Faisal then explained to them that Zenabu is from Larabanga, and that it is easier said than done to get her to the hospital. I offered to see if we could get her to create a stool sample, and they sent me to the lab to get the equipment for it.  They were actually helpful at the lab, and once we had explained the situation to the man there, he equipped us with a small glass tube that looked as though it should have been used to contain gold dust, not poop.  Faisal then asked Zenabu if she could create a stool sample and she said no.  I asked if we could give her a laxative, and the man at the lab said that would be a bad idea.  Then someone there suggested that we take her to the toilet and asked her to try to use it, so we did.  She still said she couldn't go, so we brought her back and said we couldn't create a stool sample.  The man at the lab said he could not test her to make sure she had worms without a stool sample.  I asked if there would be any negative effects of taking the drugs to kill the worms if she didn't have worms, he said no, so I said that we should just get a prescription for the drugs then.  He said that should be fine and sent us to a doctor.  To do that, we had to go back to the mean nurses.  We told them what had happened and they sort of chuckled for a moment. Faisal then took interest in a poster that illustrated all the ill effects of smoking.  I looked for the blurb about emphysema and said my grandmother had died from that one, which is true. The nurse asked me to elaborate, and I told her my grandmother's smoking history.  She then stopped being obnoxious, weighed Zenabu, and sent us to the doctor.  The doctor was very nice, examined Zenabu, answered all my questions, asked if Zenabu was a boy or a girl, and sent me away with a prescription for a general worm killer and a bill for 3,700 cedis.  We went to buy the drugs, and the woman at the counter looked at Zenabu and said "Small boy, are you sick?"  I corrected her, bought the drugs, and left.  I should note here that Zenabu had just had her hair taken out of braids, and it was in kind of an afro.  Also, she was wearing kind of a boyish outfit of matching black and white plaid collared button up shirt and shorts.  The only girly thing on her that day was her purple butterfly shoes that we gave her.  But she did look adorable.  While we waited for a taxi back to town, Zenabu showed me that you can break off pieces of vine from a certain tree that grows by the hospital and balance them on your eyelashes, which was also adorable.  Also, I called my mom and got Zenabu to say "I'm fine, thank you" to her.  Sometime while we waited, Zenabu found the last biscuit I had been keeping in my pocket and broke it all to pieces.  Then I created a stool sample of my own, and the shared taxi was soon there.  We ate a lunch of rice, corn, and power bars and waited for about an hour for a lorry and gave up.  We then got a taxi to go to Larabanga for 100,000 cedis, and I gave the crumbs of the biscuit to Zenabu, who fell asleep in my lap on the way.

 

Michael: I spent the day in Damango with a friend who was making me a great many necklaces, he showed me many of Damango's wonderful secrets and he asked me to teach him English slang. Fun Times!

 

Teisha: Today I spent the whole day in bed because I had a fever and many other not so pleasant symptoms requiring that I run to the "toilet" every 20 minutes or so.  I am so mad that I am sick because I don't want to miss out on anything. At night during the meeting with the women's group I had to excuse myself early because I was in a lot of pain.

 

Karen: Today was our free day. I decided to farm, so Saundra and I went to Mash's farm. We spent most of the time walking around because Mash wanted to show us his entire farm. He told me I was too small to farm, but we insisted that we could farm anyway. So, we spent about 20 minutes farming and then went home. The rest of the day I just rested and later met with the women's group.

 

Day 10: August 18, 2005

 

Saundra: Today Tom and I went to the preschool to work with the kids. Tom was doing such a great job with them that I went to get the camera so that I could take pictures. I took pictures of the activities and the worked on the malaria mural on the school wall. I tried to draw some sleeping people but I failed. Maybe Teisha can fix them tomorrow. Karen, Tom, and I painted the outline of the buildings, some grass, and the red "X" over the mosquito. We had fun giggling over how bad it was. In truth, though, I think it will turn out nicely.

 

After we finished we went back to the rooms and Karen and I showered in the rain. Later on me, Karen, Tom, Faisal, and some of the older boys played basketball. It was a ton of fun and everyone was bad. The ground was muddy and uneven and I had to take off my shoes because they kept breaking. It was great exercise!

 

We had HIV/AIDS class tonight and it went well for the women's side. The women were very calm and interested and everyone got to demonstrate how to use a condom because the condoms that had been sent to us were expired. The women asked some hilarious questions! Afishata told us that Ghanaians believed AIDS was started by a rich man in Cote D'Ivore who paid prostitutes to have sex with his dog that had AIDS. I told them you cannot get AIDS from a dog and they were so shocked! It was very funny because then they launched into a whole series of questions about whether or not it would be okay to have sex with a dog. Overall, it went really well and Afishata came away with the thrill of learning about (and being given) a ribbed condom. It was a fun time.

 

Tom:  Faisal and I showed up first to the HIV/AIDS talk for men, and some small amount of boys started to assemble.  I sent Yusuf away to get more men, and promised him one of the prizes, so he went. While we waited for boys to assemble, Faisal held an informal competition among the men who were there to see who had the most girlfriends.  I was unclear about the benefits of this toward the topic we were discussing, but I allowed it to continue, not wanting to be called a "square", or perhaps some epithet for "vagina".  Atiti clearly won by thinking about it for a long time, then declaring that they are "unaccountable", trying to count on his fingers, and then asking Faisal "do you want to know the number of my girlfriends, or the number of those I fuck? (pronounced 'fouk' by him)"  Atiti's father who was nearby looked up angrily and the discussion faded.  We continued to wait and a pair of young adults approached us.  One told Faisal that the other was deaf and could therefore not benefit from the group class, but could benefit from some condoms, which he understood we had.  To verify their story, I observed the other boy looking on uncomprehendingly while we talked, then motioning back and forth with the other boy in what appeared to be sign language.  Faisal asked me if we should give him some, and I told him to communicate a question to him, and if he answered it correctly, we would give him one.  That happened, so we gave him some and he left.  Then the boys who had assembled became restless, informed me that there was a party down the street, and demanded that I start. So we waited a couple more minutes and started.  I did most of the lecture, and Faisal translated. Nothing too fancy.  They tried to look as though they were listening while they waited for us to ask questions and give prizes.  We asked for questions.  They asked two or three, and then insisted emphatically that there weren't any questions, and that we should get on with our questions.  So we did that.  After the first couple of questions, Faisal broke in with the question that was possibly the reason he conducted the earlier contest.  He asked "what is the proper number of girlfriends" to which the correct answer was "one". Then after a couple more questions, one of the boys showed me that the condoms we were giving out had expired.  I told the others and ran to tell the girls.  Apparently there was chaos while I was gone, but thankfully, I wasn't there for it.  Under Saundra's instruction, I sent a message to Michael to find something with which to do a demonstration with one of the bad condoms while I bought all the condoms at the local drug store and split them between Saundra's group and mine.  Apparently, Michael used a discarded corn cob.  When I got back, the atmosphere was riotous with no organization whatsoever.  I tried my best to maintain some semblance of order by calling on the answerers who were the least aggressive, and soon all the prizes were gone and we went back home.  The women were still talking and doing something with a very realistic wooden replica of a penis, so I took Zenabu home.  On the way back, I bumped into a woman I knew named Nana and invited her to come for the rest of the women's talk.  On the way, I gave her a mini lecture, trying to cover the ground she would have missed.  Then, the women were still talking, something about dogs, so Michael, Faisal and I went to the mosque.  I gave a much better lecture on the history of the mosque than I gave to the girls, because of Mash's lecture from two nights before.  Mash was holding his class, so I showed it to Faisal and Michael, and Faisal, Mash, and I talked for a while about beatings they used to receive in school in front of their girlfriends while Michael sat tiredly by the mosque.  I offered to go to take them to the mystic stone as well, because the night was clear and the stars were out, but Faisal said we should wait until tomorrow.  He didn't tell me until the next day that he hadn't wanted to go this night because he was afraid the dwarves would get us.

 

 

Karen: Today I did art with the P2 class. It went really well. The kids were really well behaved and they were in smaller group than the group I had the other day. I rolled out a large piece of paper and told the children to draw Larabanga. I gave them paint and crayons and so they seemed to enjoy themselves.

Later I helped a little with the mural, which went ok, I guess. The paint is really sticky and not fun to play with.

 

We had AIDS class at night. The women were very attentive and well behaved. I was really pleased with how it went. We gave them a lot of information and showed them how to use a condom on a wooded penis. We had a lot of laughs over the questions that they asked. They thought AIDS came from a dog in the Ivory Coast. They were really surprised when we told them that you can't get AIDS from a dog. Then they asked questions about having sex with dogs… It was really hilarious, Saundra and I could not stop laughing.

 

Michael: Today I worked in the fields, or should say tried. I felt terrible and went back to the guest house where I took a long nap.

              Then later at night we had an AIDS class to inform the men about AIDS and the importance of condoms and the like. As usual all the men seemed to care for were the prizes, which they were especially thrilled about since it was condoms, and they cared very little for order or anything else for that matter. There was much screaming to begin with, and then when we found out the condoms expired and that we'd have to get new ones, the screaming turned to chaos, with everyone screaming and shoving. Tom and Faisal left at one point to get new condoms, and then everyone crowded around me trying to convince them to give them condoms. In the end,  or at least until Tom and Faisal returned, all they did get from me was a lecture and a demonstration of how to put on a condom, using an eaten, dirt-caked, and decaying piece of corn as my sample phallus. Thereafter, Tom and Faisal soon returned and condoms were given out, and the night was finally over.

 

Teisha:  Faisal went with me to the hospital today in Domongo because I am still sick. At the hospital we had to wait a long time before they started to take patients. When it was my turn I had my blood and stool tested to find out what was wrong with me. It turns out that I do not have malaria, but a bacterial infection in my intestinal track. Yum.

 

Day 11: August 19, 2005

 

Saundra: Tom and I woke up early this morning to farm but no one came to get us until 3 hours later. Eventually we went to a granite farm and found we had no tools. We weeded with our hands for awhile until we found these gross little worm things that bore into your feet so we left.

 

When we came home we went to the mural wall and helped finish the main painting work. It was hot and sticky and everyone was feeling sick and grumpy. But, in the end the wall is finished except for the little kid's hand prints at the bottom.

 

Teisha: In the morning we finished painting the mural on the wall of the school. Tomorrow the children will add their hand prints to the bottom so that they are a part of the finished product. The mural painting isn't what I would call art at it's finest but it still gets the point out there for people to take note of.  Plus when you look at it from far away it almost doesn't suck.   At night we had health class with the women and they were so great as usual. Everything is going really well.

 

Karen: Today I was supposed to work with the nursery children, but only a few showed up, so I helped out with the mural instead. Together, Saundra, Tom, Teisha, and I finished it.

 

Michael: I was to work with Karen in the nursery today, however, as she stated, not many children came and class was canceled. Since, I was still feeling rather ill, I went back to sleep for the rest of the day. I later, in the evening, saw my friend Shariff, who I had previously hung out with in Damango, and we discussed rap music, and I found out he was even a rapper himself, with the nickname, Diamond Dealer.    

 

Tom: Tonight, we had a general health class from which we barred all male attendees.  We did this with the justification that the men in the town are just plain bad students and would make it harder for the women, who are generally good students and would make good use of general health knowledge, to learn.  We considered this tactic to be quite successful.  The women eagerly asked questions, largely about their vaginas and in an orderly manner until we ran out of questions.  When that happened, we told the women that they had been such a good audience that we would give each of the remaining women in attendance a prize of some sort, and they all walked away with a brand new somethingorother.

 

Day 12: August 20, 2005

 

Tom: I was excited this morning and couldn't sleep anymore after 6:30AM.  I read my God Against the Gods book, which I am losing patience with, until Michael got up and started making breakfast.  After breakfast, we all went to finish the mural.  That went pretty well.  Mash met us there and the children were fairly orderly until they had to wash their hands, and even that went fairly well until they started coming faster than I could finish cleaning them.  So then I had a big crowd of kids standing around with dirty sticky hands, waiting for me to clean them, and what do kids do when they stand around waiting for something?  That's right, something stupid.  The stupid act of these children was to attempt to make their hands cleaner by rubbing them around in the dirt.  I think the philosophy behind this move was that their hands were sticky, so they should cover them with dirt that is not sticky, and once the dirt comes off, the hands will be clean.  This offensively bad logic must have followed in the minds of all of the children, because it is not as if one of them conducted an experiment and the rest of them waited for the results and saw what a bad idea it was, or even predicted that this course of action was nonsensical.  Once one did it, they all started doing it.  Amazing.  But it turned out my cleaning method was foolproof, and proved to be so when tested by real-life fools, so the finishing of the mural was a success.  When we got back, I put the curtains on the doors of the building, we all ate lunch and rested until the party started.  The party started somewhat late, and then no grown ups came because the benches were set up differently than they normally are so that we could hand out nets first thing.  Once we set up the benches right, and Afishata's girls started their performance, people began to arrive.  After Afishata's girls performed, Saundra explained what we were doing and what the general atmosphere should be like.  I volunteered to have Atiti as my translator because I thought he would be the hardest one to work with.  Boy was I wrong.  His crowd control skills were amazing.  As a result, my group was relatively orderly.  Some people lined up behind me, but I explained to them 3 or 4 times that I wouldn't see and wouldn't call on them if they were back there, so it was their problem, not mine.  After a while, people started to get somewhat rowdy, and I simply said, "Atiti, I'm not happy." And he yelled at the crowd "He is not happy!  Obidiwagujinibara!!!!(Or something like that, it was really intimidating and he did some move like a professional wrestler over a fallen opponent on whom he is about to perform his finishing move and is trying to get the crowd excited about the impending catastrophic destruction).  So they snapped right into place.  I demanded that they return to the order with which we began the exercise, and they did to the best of their ability.  I finished rather quickly, and Atiti ran off to help Michael who was the last questioner and he provided a similar presence.  After all the nets were distributed, we retreated to the big room to regroup.  When we emerged, the dancing continued and we were asked to dance in front of everybody.  That went well.  Then Saundra and I were given clothes made of beautiful fabric that it apparently took Afishata two weeks to tie and dye.  After that, the sky started to threaten to rain, so the party died down.  We ate dinner and Zenabu became very tired.  She had been great all day and seemed to really enjoy the party, so it was nice to have a good last day with her.  We took her home and said goodbye to her and her family.  Then we came back and I found that my friend Muhammed who had taken me back to the hospital on his bike and motorbike had come to visit, and had brought a friend from his youth organization.  So Saundra and I finished washing the dinner dishes, gave them some of our leftover rice, and had drinks with them.  I tried a malta for my first time, I didn't like it.  After that, we went to bed.

 

Saundra: My day went as Tom's did but my group was a little different. My malaria group was pretty well behaved until the very very end. I think Karen's group ended first and I got her left overs. People complained a little that I wasn't calling on the men enough or that they hadn't gotten a net. But, overall it went really well. I was very happy. My mural job was to place the kids hands on the wall after they had been covered with paint. That went pretty well and only one kid was bad at it. Overall it was an exhausting day but really fun.

 

Teisha:  In my group for the malaria questions there were two stages. The first stage was a calm and orderly way of doing things. I asked questions and picked on people and then they got a mosquito net if the answer was correct. Stage two came when everyone else began to finish up and the leftovers came to my group and tried to ambush me from every side. I was in the middle of a bunch of "mosquito net hungry" people. I thought that I was going to be smothered because Mash sucked at the translator job and stop listening to what I said and tried to take over. I was just about to strangle Mash and use him to beat off the crowd when Saundra came to my rescue and took me away. Then the mob followed us and Mash stood outside our door for a long time and when we came out he was still asking if we were giving out more nets even though we had told him 8 times that we were finished because no one was following the rules.

 

After the day was over for us I tried to get some sleep but the people in Larabanga thought it would be a good idea to start the party back up with loud music. There was no way that I was going to fall asleep with the music playing I decided to go for a walk. Michael and Faisal joined me and after a while it was just me and Faisal. We then talked a lot about how they can put people on the moon and make something that allows you to carry around 5,000 songs with you at one time but they can't get clean water to people in Africa. It boggles my mind. Then I went to bed in preparation for waking up at 3 am.   

 

Karen: My Malaria group went really well, and I think that had a lot to do with the fact that Afishata was my translator. Everyone stayed seated and behaved. I went through the questions quickly and got mostly correct answers. Overall I was very pleased with how it went.

Later, after the party I went to sleep. I had a little trouble getting to sleep because of the music and all the people, but I was really tired and didn't feel good, so I fell asleep pretty quickly.

 

Michael: Today was pretty fun. It started out very easy with the children being surprisingly cooperative for hand painting the mural, keeping calm through the entire process. Then, the festival itself, was a wonderful gathering with many different foods, and cultural dances being presented. Our group had to dance as well, which was a fun little affair, or at least a comical one J.  Then the malaria groups started which were wonderful to begin with, at least on my end, and then towards the end, as more people came, grew very rowdy.  At first, the happenings were under control, but then the horde of people swarmed closer and I was beginning to get upset because I wanted to hand out all the malaria nets possible, and not end early, which was becoming a task in and of itself. However, just as I was thinking it was time to go, Atiti to my rescue!!! He came in and bulled everyone back, threw me up on a bench and helped me hand out the rest of the prizes. It was wonderful and hilariously exciting! Then, after taking numerous pictures, and seeing the village presentation, many good-byes were said, and I finally went to bed.

 

Day 13: August 21, 2005

 

Saundra: Today was hell. We woke up at 3am to catch the 4am bus (which in Ghanaian style arrive at 5:30am). We rode the bus to Tamale, then took the worst tro tro ever to Kumasi. The tro tro broke down half way there and the driver took apart what seemed to be a section of the engine. After a small delay we were back on the road. Once in Kumasi we realized it would be too late to see any of its sites so we all took a few deep breaths and braved another tro tro to get all the way to Cape Coast. We arrived at 9:30pm and all went to sleep after the most wonderful showers of all time (running water and everything!!!!)

 

Day 14: August 22, 2005

 

Karen: Today we got up early and went to the rain forest. We did a canopy walk across the top of the rain forest. We all seemed to enjoy it. We left from there and went straight to the slave castle. There, we looked around the museum and then went on a tour. We had a really good tour guide and were able to learn a lot about the slave trade in Ghana. Then we kind of did our own thing for the rest of the day. We got lunch next door to the slave castle, bought some things, used the internet, hung around the hotel , and then had dinner on the roof of the hotel. Overall it was a pretty relaxing day.

 

Day 15: August 23, 2005

 

Michael:  Today was the veritable road from hell to paradise…of sorts.  We took an exceedingly uncomfortable tro-tro to Accra, which lasted a little over three hours, and then we walked around Accra for a little to drop off luggage, go on the net, eat, and do all those other little odds and ends that we may want to do before we go on our short trip to Kokrobite. At 3 o'clock we left to Kokrobite on a very short tro-tro ride. For me it was a surprisingly comfy one, and then, when we arrived to the resort area of Kokrobite…. It was indescribably beautiful. The best way I can think to compare it is to compare Hofstra and its gardens, in the middle of Hempstead; The town itself, and surrounding towns looking a little rough, but the place itself being so beautiful.

 After catching a quick dinner of chicken and rice, and a snack of delicious dough balls, we were given the opportunity to do as we liked. Faisal and I checked out the beach, and I hung out in a nearby hammock. When we finally regrouped it was to watch the end of "black hawk down", and most of "short circuit". What a relaxed day!

 

Day 16: August 24, 2005

 

Teisha:  We spent most of the day just hanging out on the beach even though the weather was not really ideal.  I had a banana pancake for breakfast and it was awesome despite the grease. The Rasta men had shops on the top of the beach where they sold jewelry and clothes. We all found some things that we were looking to buy and paid decent prices for them. I bought some skirts and some necklaces to bring back to people in the States. Karen and I went for a walk on the beach and took some pictures of us standing on the sand and of the Rastas. For lunch we had fruit plates of pineapples, bananas, papaya, and watermelon. Some people had some mango but mine was lacking in that area…I was pissed.  For dinner I got to have pizza with real cheese! That was the highlight of my day.  Now we plan on having a meeting and drinking some alcohol. 

 

Day 17: August 25, 2005

 

Saundra:  Today we took a tro tro into Accra and it went pretty smoothly. We took a cab to the hotel we stayed at the first few nights and stored our luggage there. We then went into the art market to purchase the rest of our souveniers. I think everyone felt pretty successful when it was over and spent the last bit of money we all had. After we were finished we went back to the hotel, ate some street food, used the internet, and just chilled until it was time to got the airport (about 6:30pm). The 6 of use crammed into a taxi one last time and set off for the airport. We said goodbye to Faisal, checked-in, and flew home.