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Amy Vanasen


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Gender: Female
Status: Single
Age: 21
Sign: Gemini

City: TERRA BELLA
State: California
Country: US
Signup Date: 11/5/2005

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Thursday, May 22, 2008 

Current mood:  flirty
Aren't you curious to know what i think about you?!?! I know you're just dying to know..... o_O


Leave your name in my blog comments. Once you do that, this is what I'll do for you...

1. I'll respond with something random about you.
2. I'll tell you what song/movie reminds me of you.
3. I'll pick a flavor of jello to wrestle you in.
4. I'll say something that only makes sense to you and me. (if possible!)
5. I'll tell you my first memory of you.
6. I'll tell you what animal you remind me of.
7. I'll ask you something I've always wondered about you.
8. If you do this you MUST post this on yours. You MUST. It is written.

Also be sure to come BACK and check out what I wrote in response for you!
Saturday, March 29, 2008 

Current mood:  chill
Category: Life

So I know its way past the new year, but it sure as hell brought new things. I didn’t move in with Brandon...*shrug* I ended up moving in with Max instead. Its not that bad. Theres no new side to him that I haven’t seen before. Its just like I’m hanging out with him...but I live with him instead. I walk to work most of the time...when I don’t its when Kenni gives me a ride to work or something like that or if someone I know sees me and pulls over. Its not bad walking to work. Although I wouldn’t mind having a car...specifically the rodeo...I hope mom and dad get it fixed soon so I can buy it off of them. I even have some money saved up for it! woo!! It’s not like a have a lot of expenses or anything. All I have to do is pay rent and buy my own food. And rent is only 300 bucks a month.

Anyway...I’m too lazy to write anything else...its like...4 o’clock....and I can’t sleep...nurgen!!!!

Monday, October 08, 2007 

Current mood:  contemplative
So I haven't blogged in a while....

Well....I'm still working at Taco Bell. My one year is coming up. I'm going to school at PC right now...but thats going to change soon. Its my last semester there...I'm going to be moving in with my friend Brandon. I'm kinda nervous about moving out of my parents house only because I've been babied. Then again I am looking forward to the change of pace and the responsibilites. The only thing I am really worried about is having a car! I'm hoping that my parents will continue to let me drive the truck as long a keep on paying insurance and putting gas in it on my own...and then when the rodeo gets fixed, I can make payments on that...I miss it so much!!!

I still haven't found any love. Lust...but sure as hell no love...but...I'm ok with that. If it comes to me, it will when it wants to. If it doesn't....welll...I'm fine with that too!! lol!

I just need to work harder...after this semester...I'm done at PC. I'll work full time at Taco Bell and save until I can make it on my own at a culinary school! I don't know if this decision will affect me badly in the future...but I'll find out!! hehe...

Tuesday, May 23, 2006 

Current mood:  depressed

She was scared. She was a scared little girl clutching the phone.she was a scared big girl with tears running down her cheeks and butterflies in her stomach. She hadnt talked to him in five years. The last words she yelled into his earI never want to talk to you again. And oh, how she regretted her angry words. For those long years, she thought of him. Thought of his bright face, his loving eyes, his strong arms, his pet names.and she was sad. Her heart ached for five yearsached for that loss. Her feelings were mixed, she was angry with false feelings. She thought of him almost every day. The years came and went and she grew up. Graduation got closer, and she thought more and more about him. How he had missed so much..so very much. He left her life, and they were both sad. Yet both never called. It was as if neither existed to the other. She occasionally picked up the phone.thinking about dialing those numbers that would summon his voice.but she never did. She was scared. Scared of rejection, of anger, of bitterness.

One day, as she was thinking about himthe memories flooded her mind. How they had gone and picked out a puppy, how she had wanted to show her Easter basket to her uncle, but he said no that her candy would melt, how he had taken her to book stores, how he had always told her that he loved her, how meager but joyful the Christmas days were, of family, of smells and sights and sounds and tastes and feelings.they all flooded her mind. And she cried a single tear. Her love was dying. But his never did. Never did he falter in his love. He thought of her every day. He struggled to live so he could see her again. His own girl, he would never stop loving her.

And then.that one day changed her life.she was a scared little girl clutching the phone..she was a scared big girl with tears running down her cheeks, butterflies in her stomachand she dialed those numbers that would summon his voice. She wanted to talk to him. After five years, she finally wanted to talk to him. No. She had always wanted to talk to him. She never had the courage to talk to him. The phone rang, rang, rang, rangand she got the machine.and her voice failed her. She hiccupped and hung up. She had failed herself. Had failed him. NO. NEVER. The words screamed in her mind. She sighed deeply and closed her eyes. She punched in the numbers again.and this time, she only spoke hesitantly to the machine.and he picked up. After all those years, she heard his voice, and her heart broke. It cracked and crumbled and broke, and she herself dissolved into tears. And so did he. They cried together. They let everything go and cried and pleaded for forgiveness from each other. And they forgave and cried more. They had years to look forward to. She was me.and he.is daddy.

Wednesday, March 29, 2006 

Current mood:  annoyed
Grandma, some ninety plus years, sat feebly on the patio bench. She didn't move, just sat with her head down staring at her hands.
When I sat down beside her she didn't acknowledge my presence and the longer I sat I wondered if she was OK. Finally, not really wanting disturb her but wanting to check on her at the same time, I asked her if she was OK. She raised her head and looked at me
and smiled. "Yes, I'm fine, thank you for asking," she said in a clear strong voice.
"I didn't mean to disturb you, grandma, but you were
just sitting here staring at your hands and I wanted
to make sure you were OK," I explained to her.
"Have you ever looked at your hands," she asked. "I
mean really looked at your hands?"
I slowly opened my hands and stared down at them.
I turned them over, palms up and then palms down. No, I guess I had never really looked at my hands as
I tried to figure out the point she was making.
Grandma smiled and related this story:
"Stop and think for a moment about the hands you
have, how they have served you well throughout your years. These hands, though wrinkled, shriveled and weak have been the tools I have used all my life to
reach out and grab and embrace life.
"They braced and caught my fall when as a toddler I
crashed upon the floor.
They put food in my mouth and clothes on my back.
As a child my mother taught me to fold them in prayer.
They tied my shoes and pulled on my boots.
They held my husband and wiped my tears when he
went off to war.
"They have been dirty, scraped and raw, swollen and
bent.
They were uneasy and clumsy when I tried to hold my
newborn son.
Decorated with my wedding band they showed the
world that I was
married and loved someone special.
They wrote my letters to him and trembled and shook
when I buried my parents and spouse.
"They have held my children and grandchildren, consoled
neighbors, and shook in fits of anger when I didn't
understand.
"They have covered my face, combed my hair, and washed
and cleansed the rest of my body.
They have been sticky and wet, bent and broken, dried
and raw. And to this day when not much of anything else of me works real well these hands hold me up, lay me down,

and again continue to fold in prayer.
"These hands are the mark of where I've been and the
ruggedness of life.
But more importantly it will be these hands that God
will reach out and take when he leads me home. And with my hands He will lift me to His side and there I
will use these hands to touch the face of Christ."
I will never look at my hands the same again.
But I remember God reached out and took my grandma's
hands and led her home.
When my hands are hurt or sore or when I stroke the
face of my children and husband I think of grandma. I know she has been stroked and caressed and held by the

hands of God.
I, too, want to touch the face of God and feel His hands
upon my face.
When you receive this, say a prayer for the person who


sent it to you and watch God's answer to prayer work in

your life.
Let's continue praying for one another.
Passing this on to anyone you consider a friend will bless


you both.

Passing this on to one not yet considered a friend is

something Christ would do.
Sunday, January 08, 2006 

Current mood:  artistic

Standing at the airport, she just didn’t know what to expect. Ten thousand thoughts ran through her head. How was she supposed to act? What was she supposed to say? How’s he going to look like? Did he change? And all she could do was wait. And so she did. Until he walked in, surprisingly, looking rather worn out. Yet as she looked closely, she noticed his mismatched clothes, his messed up hair, and the baffled expression on his face.

 

She watched him fight his way around the place, bumping into people from time to time, and quickly apologizing almost brought tears to her eyes. But standing there, she couldn’t bring herself to walk towards him, and she knew he’d never find her. Something in her told her to go back to where she came from, she didn’t have to go through this and her mom had told her earlier that she’ll always have another home at their place. Yet the bigger part of her urged her to stay, and so she just stood there, silently watching her lover. He still had the same beautiful smile she had once fallen in love with, and the ocean wide, sea blue eyes she admired. His jet-black hair had grown longer, rather messy but she loved it still. It was him, it was really him. Still him. Nothing had changed. Except she couldn’t help but notice that he didn’t have that same confident walk he used to have. His walk was more like, a stagger. And it almost seemed like he wanted the ground to just swallow him. He didn’t like the new him. But she did. And she’ll love him forever. She watched herself fall in love all over again, yet she knew, that this time would be different.

 

Finally, she made her way towards him with a smile, her heart beating faster.

 

“Baby..? It’s me..” she gave him a soft pat on the shoulder.

“Where?” he turned to face her. “Am I facing you?”

“Yes sweetie, you look great.” She forced out a smile.

“I don’t know..” he sighed. “you must look great too.”

 

She quickly leaned over and pulled him towards her, giving him a hug she knew was just what he needed. He pulled away reluctantly and started to walk away.

 

“Let’s go home.” He said.

Baffled, she didn’t know what to say. A soft “yes” was all she could manage.

 

Then.

 

She sat, her hands crossed together, leaning forward towards the mist. It was a bitter cold afternoon, quite late in December. She put her camera away and breather in, her eyes focused onto the zenith of the mountain. A stunningly beautiful scene it was. She closed her eyes for a moment, pleading for peace. A quick shudder ran down her spine for suddenly a chilly wind had sprung up. As she breathed out, she saw fog-thickening circles spinning in the air before her. She rubbed her hands together, seeking warmth. My gloves, she remembered. She reached out for her bag and took out a pair of soft black gloves.

 

She tightened the knitted red scarf around her neck, as if wishing it would make more layers to warm her shivering body. It was then when she heard him. It was then when she heard his mournful voice, as he sang those laments with sorrowful words. She heard his voice rise, as if he was trying to pray, or was he weeping? She couldn’t really tell. Mesmerized by the beauty of his funeral voice, she yearned to see him. The girl stood up, her eyes rifling through the trees, searching. Her heart kept leading her towards the river, and as she drew nearer, the voice grew louder, and she knew she had found him.

 

Now.

 

“Sing for me…” she said, her eyes pleading.

 

They were still in the car, and he wasn’t driving, so she thought it would be okay if he sang a bit.

 

“No.” he said quietly yet firmly.

“But why..?” she asked, feeling disappointed.

“I just want to be home.” He said.

 

That was that and not another word was said. The ride home was filled with uncomfortable and awkward silence. Looking out of the window, she couldn’t stop her tears. Had she made the wrong decision? Was she supposed to just stay home? Why’d she come back? She couldn’t even imagine the next few hours with him. He had completely changed. Where was his sense of humor? And his flawless smile? This never bothered him. It never did.

 

Then.

 

Her eyes grew wider as she stared at the boy by the river. Suddenly he stopped singing and as he turned to face her, she was awestruck by his captivating blue eyes. Suddenly, it felt like she somehow knew him, he looked so familiar. He seemed to ignore her, or hadn’t he noticed her? He turned and faced the river again. Once more, he started his symphony of sorrow. He began to sing, his voice echoing through the trees.

 

“I’m sorry to interrupt you, but you really have a beautiful voice…” she said quietly.

 

Startled, he quickly turned his head to the right, then to the left, then again to the right. His bewilderment confused her. She was standing to the left, but he continued to gaze to the right.

 

“I’m here…” she said softly, as she laid her hand slowly on his shoulder.

 

He turned to face her, and the thought struck her like thunder…was he blind? She smiled weakly, waiting for a reaction, yet the boy continued to stare.

 

“I cannot see you, can’t you see that..? I live by the riverside. I live to weep.”

 

And that was how they met. Back then, he was just a lonely boy, stuck between the clenched fists of grief. And she, she couldn’t help but fall in love. She fell in love with those sightless eyes, she fell in love with that angelic voice. And when he first smiled to her, she fell in love with the lost confidence that hid behind that bewildered smile.

 

The way home seemed unbelievably long, and when they were finally home, he pushed the door open and quickly ran upstairs. It reminded her of her sister’s son, a child in his early years. For a moment she just stood there shocked. It was a matter of seconds when she saw him running back down.

 

“Your bags.” He said breathlessly, searching for her bags.

“Wait.” She said, laying a soft hand on his shoulder. “just wait, calm down. I can carry my bags, they’re not heavy.”

“What? Do I look like a weakling to you? Give me the bags!” he said, with a defensive tome.

“No…but I really can carry them, that’s what I’m saying.” She said softly “I mean..”

“What, am I suddenly not good enough for you?!” he interrupted, his voice rising. “GIVE. Me. The. Bags.” His voice low and serious.

She opened her mouth, ready to yell, and then she suddenly stopped herself. No, she thought. “Okay, her you go.” She handed him the bags.

 

He took the bags quickly and stumbled up the stairs. A moment later she heard him slam the bedroom door shut. She went to the door, and stood there with tears in her eyes. Finally, she breathed in heavily, and made her way upstairs, with her fake lipstick smile.

 

Softly she pushed the door open.

“Hey…” she said, trying to sound cheerful.

There was no answer. He just sat there, looking out the window. She walked towards him, and looked.

“Wow, I really missed those busy streets.” She said.

And still he kept quiet.

She wrapped her arms around him and gave him a soft kiss of the cheek.

“Come on, baby, don’t you miss me?”

Motionless, he let out a sigh and stood up, then walked out of the bedroom.

 

The girl walked towards the door, and locked it. Then she looked around her. The place hadn’t changed much. She opened the closet, and searched for clues. What had gone wrong? She kept searching for things until she finally opened the last drawer. She gasped. Photos. A million photos. Eyes. Eyes everywhere. Some of his photos were of the wrong things; the wrong parts of his face. Meant to be his eyes, but they weren’t, sometimes half of his eye, sometimes all. And a thousand crumbled papers, a knife, a gun, and pills. She quickly grabbed one of the papers and tried to read.

 

“Burn. Burn. Burn. You have nothing left you mangled piece of flesh. A body? No, not a soul. Hair, no, not beauty. A nose. You cannot breath. Lips. You cannot kiss. A mouth, and no one hears you. Ears, and you are eternally deaf. Your eyes? A reason for death. What do you see? You don’t see. You don’t see. You just don’t fucking see. You want to see. Where is she? Where is he? She kept you alive. She. Kept. You. Alive. Without her you are nothing. You. Are. Nothing. Without. Her. Nothing. But she’s gone, she doesn’t love you. How can she love you, you handicapped piece of crap. She doesn’t love you.”

 

She stopped reading, her hand on her mouth. Dropping the paper, she collapsed, and she couldn’t even remember the last time she’d cried this much. Her soft sobs soon turned to howls and she found herself quickly trying to read his notes. And they all said almost the same thing. But she loved him. She had to leave. And she only left for two months. Two months. Her mother had died, but she couldn’t let him know. She just had to be there for her family. And he, he never understood.

 

The girl put the notes back, unlocked the door, and made her way towards the bathroom. She washed her face, even though she knew it wouldn’t have mad a difference to him, then she stood in front of him. Silently watching him.

 

For a moment, she didn’t know what to say, as she stared deeply into his large eyes. She knew what had gone wrong. She was too shocked to speak, and she didn’t want to cause any more damage. She didn’t want to say the hurtful things he’d always heard. He put his hands in a little bowl of water, and whispered, telling her how soft the water feels, when his eyes cant tell him how beautiful it is, his touching hands reveal. She sat by his side, feeling his pain, watching him as he suffered in silence. Suddenly he turned to face her, as if his bewildered eyes were asking for her guidance. She didn’t know if she should tell him she understood, or if she should keep it a secret between her…and the new person her was.

 

She opened her mouth, yet her words failed her. All she could let out was a sigh. Unanswered questions ran through her mind as she began to cry. There was just too much anger inside of him, and he wasn’t willing to give in. But he wasn’t like that. It was these two months that he spent away from her that made him like that. She watched him in silence with tears shivering in her eyes. She was his only shelter, his only home, and his only hope. She kept him alive. She kept him smiling and she made him feel loved. She always felt like she was raising a child, and he seldom asked for much yet she knew that deep inside, he needed her more than the air he breathed. All her life, she took care of him. She washed his clothes, helped him get into them, she combed his hair and helped him shave. She did all those little things that meant everything to him. She should’ve known, he was far too weak to be left alone. But now…things were beyond repair, and all she could do is watch him. Watch her lover suffering, silently dying.

 

Days turned to weeks, weeks turned to months, months turned to years, and still, he stayed like that. He never asked for help, and whenever she tried to offer it, he’d push her away. She still tried anyhow. Secretly, she still ironed his shirts, and polished his shoes. Secretly, she still tried to make things easier for him. But he never changed. They never talked anymore, and the love they had, felt like it had never even existed. To her, it felt like a distant dream, like something only she’d seen, something that only she had experienced. And to him, their love never even existed at all.

 

It was a cold December night, similar to the one she’d experienced when they met, when she walked in to the room and she never walked out. Lying there was her delicate lover, covered in blood. He just lay there, silently weeping tears of blood. And all she could do was slip her hand into his, and lay her body next to him. She sat there for two hours with the words “two months” in her mind, and for those two hours, she talked to him about her love that never dies. And after those two hours they buried him, and still she cried. Every two days, she’d visit her lover, and spend two hours mourning by his side. She told him two stories about two hearts, whose love for one another soon died. Yet one of them held on, till the last two seconds of her breathing years. And for those two whole seconds, she held on, as her heart gave away, her final two beats.

 

Tuesday, December 27, 2005 

Current mood:  tired

1. Who are you?

2. Are we friends?

3. When and how did we meet?

4. Do you have a crush on me?

5. Would you kiss me?

6. Give me a nickname and explain why you picked it.

7. Describe me in one word.

8. What was your first impression?

9. Do you still think that way about me now?

10. What reminds you of me?

11. If you could give me anything what would it be?

12. How well do you know me?

13. When's the last time you saw me?

14. Ever wanted to tell me something but couldn't?

15. Are you going to put this on your blog and see what I say about you ?

Sunday, December 11, 2005 

Current mood:  nostalgic
my favorite time of the year! and no, not because of hte presents...its just the feeling of being around family, and the whole christmas spirit. and the christmas songs....and the candy canes....but this year there is also sadness. the day after christmas marks the one year anniversary of my Uncle Willis' death. i miss him a lot. im going to go see my Aunt Carol, to try and be there with her as some kind of comfort. there are tears yet to be shed.
Tuesday, November 29, 2005 

Current mood:  content
i love being able to customize my profile without bothering the crap out of poor carl. i like my flames!!! i had a good day today. mmmmm, ice cream......now im tired..g'night!!!
Tuesday, November 22, 2005 

Current mood:  tired
ugh, the entire right side of my back HURTS!! i dont know what i did, but its all tight and the muscles hurt and uggghhhh.........i need a backrub.