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Yes, we get it thanks! "He's just not that into you"...clear as day. I've found recently you can apply this same theory to platonic friendships. I stress the platonic in plantonic friendships. Have you ever had the realisation of "she's just not that into me"?  For weeks, months or maybe even years have you lamented over why: - a certain friend is really vague and disorganised and never seems to reply to your messages yet seems able to catch up with other friends -ever since they had their boyfriend, friendships just weren't well maintained -when you do catch up with them half the time it is a random bumped into you sort of thing -you've actually organised a catch up but then they fail to turn up, completely forgetting about the aforementioned arragement and never making it up to you -you can't remember the last time they called you -of their own accord, they've invited you out once, in the last year -they cancel half the things they agree to do due to a variety of reasons -you end up feeling paranoid at times and wonder if their reasons are actually excuses because they really can't be bothered All this, when you have a great time hanging out and used to spend a lot of time with them? And despite the fact that you really value the friendship and they say they enjoy being around you? Is it that life is just really busy these days? Are you simply too high maintenance? Why is it that you can make the effort and they seem almost incapacitated by their relationships/jobs/other committments? Even though they aren't so organised, have you really just made too many excuses for them? Is this person just really below average at being a friend, compared to you, you friend god?! Talk about mixed messages! No wonder you're confused! When does someone become and "old mate" and cease to be a "good friend". Is there a certain amount of time between each contact that changes it from one category to another? If someone has neglected you in the past and then wanted to "rekindle" the friendship, have you found yourself angry that they only make time for you when it suits them? At the end of the day it's easy to say "appreciate and enjoy things for what they are" but it can be a tad hard to swallow when people leave you feeling like you are unimportant to them. Let's face it, if you identify with this situation, then you're probably a good friend to have, who knows what is important in life. Yes, that's right, your friends are important! Men do come and go, your girlfriends are your real friends and are the ones who will be there through thick and thin. So make the time and don't neglect them, because otherwise when you do eventually need them, you'll turn around only to find that there is no-one left standing. Don't be a case of "she's just not that into you".

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you know what i'm sick and tired of???
THE MELTDOWN OF THE FINANCIAL WORLD!
 'FUCK UP PEOPLE! lol
man i was so tired before but now i am wired even though i feel like there is an uncomfortable bump in my throat...
probably an ulcer lol no need for concern at all :P...
ONLY TWO MONTHS and several weeks til I LEAVE THIS FUCKING COUNTRY HELL YEAH!!!!
WHoSE WITH ME????!?!?!?!?!?!!!!
AND THIS IS HOW I AM WITH NO CAFFEINE! FUCK YEAH!!!

It sure aint cheap but these travel tips may save you a few pennies.

http://travel.ninemsn.com.au/article.aspx?id=610699

I know we're all sick of hearing about the olympics, but this caught my attention, other "stuff" that actually cost more than the olympics, you'd be suprised what some of them are!

http://money.ninemsn.com.au/slideshow.aspx?sectionid=6575&subsectionid=80637§ionname=slideshow&subsectionname=expensiveobjects&photo=1

The proof is in the pudding, read for yourselves...

http://www.cosmopolitan.com.au/want_a_soulmate_ditch_the_pill.htm

I thought so!
Which ones would you actually wear?
Most of the heels look so high they're practically shoe suicide!

http://grazia.ninemsn.com.au/slideshow_ajax.aspx?sectionid=8813§ionname=fashion&subsectionid=145739&subsectionname=hottestshoes