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02 Oct 08 Thursday 
I am following suit...

As most of you are now more present on Facebook and I spend most of my blogging time on Typepad, I decided to move my personal blogging habits to that site. You can find me here for the time being:

http://confessionsofafatgirl.typepad.com/other/

Mark it down. Thanks!
30 Sep 08 Tuesday 
I had lunch with my grandfather yesterday. Other than his usual tiredness (he snoozed in Macy's while my mom tried on clothes), he seemed in good spirits and I was so happy to find him especially lucid and chatty while we waited for our food.

He was recalling some of his favorite grade-school teachers and then told me about his near-expulsion in high school.

My grandpa ran with a gang, you see. Oh, not a gang in the way we think of them now, but a group of about 6 nerdy, Jewish guys, black in Cleveland. They were notorious for school pranks and got detentions often. One such stunt nearly got them expelled.

Unhappy with a handful of teachers and administrators, my grandfather and his friends published a small, underground newsletter (someone had access to an old printing press), slamming the teachers and administrators they didn't care for, calling them names and telling stories, etc. They handed the newsletter out on the sly, to students only, but a teacher mentioned in this newsletter got a hold of a copy.

Well, next thing you know, my grandfather, his friends, and all their parents are meeting with the principal.

He couldn't remember how they got out of it but they got off with a week's suspension. Of course, he then had to reconcile with his father, who was SUPREMELY angry with him.

I laughed a lot listening to this story and so did my grandpa. It was nice to see such a smile on his face. It was great to see him so astute.
27 Sep 08 Saturday 

Current mood:  sad

(CNN) -- Paul Newman, the legendary actor whose steely blue eyes, good-humored charm and advocacy of worthy causes made him one of the most renowned figures in American arts, has died of cancer at his home in Westport, Connecticut. He was 83.

He died Friday, according to spokeswoman Marni Tomljanovic.

Newman attained stardom in the 1950s and never lost the movie-star aura, appearing in such classic films as "Cat on a Hot Tin Roof," "Exodus," "The Hustler," "Cool Hand Luke," "Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid," "The Sting" and "The Verdict."

He finally won an Oscar in 1986 -- on his eighth try -- for "The Color of Money," a sequel to "The Hustler." He later received two more Oscar nominations. Among his other awards was the Motion Picture Academy's Jean Hersholt Humanitarian Award.

"Paul took advantage of what life offered him, and while personally reluctant to acknowledge that he was doing anything special, he forever changed the lives of many with his generosity, humor, and humanness," said Robert Forrester, vice chairman of the actor's Newman's Own Foundation. "His legacy lives on in the charities he supported and the Hole in the Wall Camps, for which he cared so much."

Newman was a Method-trained actor who blazed his own career trail and didn't shy away from risky roles -- inside and outside films.

A portrayal as a race-car driver in 1969's "Winning" led to his actual competition in races; at 70, he participated in the 24 Hours of Daytona and he was still racing at age 80.

He stumped for liberal causes, including Eugene McCarthy's 1968 presidential candidacy, and earned a spot on Richard Nixon's enemies list -- "the highest single honor I've ever received," he said.

In 1982, Newman and his friend A.E. Hotchner founded Newman's Own, a food company that produced food ranging from pasta sauces to salad dressing to chocolate chip cookies.

"The embarrassing thing is that the salad dressing is outgrossing my films," Newman once wryly noted.

To date, the company -- which donates all profits to charities such as Newman's Hole in the Wall Gang camps -- has given away more than $200 million. Newman established the camp to benefit gravely ill children.

"He saw the camps as places where kids could escape the fear, pain and isolation of their conditions, kick back and raise a little hell," Forrester said.

Today, there are 11 Hole in the Wall Gang camps around the world, with additional programs in Africa and Vietnam. Some 135,000 children have attended the camps -- free of charge.

The Association of Hole in the Wall Camps "is part of his living legacy, and for that we remain forever grateful," the association said in a statement.

"We are greatly saddened by his passing. His leadership and spirit can never be replaced. But he has left us strong and confident."

Newman was half of one of the most successful showbiz marriages -- to Joanne Woodward, whom he married in 1958. He observed that just because he was a sex symbol there was no reason to commit adultery.

"Why would I go out for a hamburger when [I] have steak at home?" he asked.

CNN's Larry King, who interviewed Newman through the years, said he greatly admired the actor.

"He lived a long and terrific life," King said Saturday morning. "He was much appreciated. Did some theater, graduated Yale. Long marriage to Joanne Woodward. One of those showbiz rarities."

Paul Leonard Newman was born on January 26, 1925, in Shaker Heights, Ohio, a suburb of Cleveland. His father owned a successful sporting goods store, but young Paul was taken with his mother's and uncle's interest in the arts and started acting while still in grade school.

"I wasn't running toward the theater but running away from the sporting goods store," he said later.

After being kicked out of Ohio University for unruly behavior, he joined the Navy and served for three years during World War II. After the war he attended Kenyon College in Gambier, Ohio, where his unruly ways led him to theater.

Newman continued studying acting at Yale and at New York's Actors' Studio, earning jobs in the growing medium of television.

He made his Broadway debut in William Inge's 1953 play "Picnic," opposite Kim Stanley, one of the most successful stage actresses of her time. The next year he made his first Hollywood film, "The Silver Chalice," a bomb that he mocked for the rest of his life. He even took out a newspaper ad apologizing for his performance.

But success as boxer Rocky Graziano in "Somebody Up There Likes Me" (1956) made him a star, and more hits followed: "The Long, Hot Summer" (1958) opposite his soon-to-be wife, Woodward; "Cat on a Hot Tin Roof" (1958) with Elizabeth Taylor; and "The Young Philadelphians" (1959).

But the 1960s were to be Newman's decade, a perfect match for his ironic, anti-establishment attitude.

He began the decade with "Exodus" (1960), an epic about Israel's founding directed by Otto Preminger, and succeeded it with "The Hustler" (1961) as pool shark Fast Eddie Felson; "Sweet Bird of Youth" (1962), another Tennessee Williams work; and "Hud" (1963), "Harper" (1966) and "Hombre" (1967), continuing a good-luck streak of films beginning with "H."

After "Cool Hand Luke" (1967), in which he played the egg-eating malcontented title character, he turned to directing, earning raves for his behind-the-camera work on "Rachel, Rachel" (1968), starring his wife.

"Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid" (1969) and "The Sting" (1973) teamed Newman with co-star Robert Redford and director George Roy Hill. The trio proved to be box-office gold: They were two of the highest-grossing films of their time, winning a slew of awards -- including a best picture Oscar for the latter, a tale of con men in 1930s Chicago.

Newman finally teamed up with Steve McQueen, who had been scheduled to be his co-star in "Butch Cassidy," in 1974's "The Towering Inferno." Though the Irwin Allen-produced disaster film earned mixed critical notices, it, too, was one of the most successful box-office films of the era.

Newman's career started faltering in the late '70s as he turned his attention to his other pursuits, notably racing. The loss of his son Scott to a drug overdose in 1978 hit the actor hard.

He made an artistic comeback with 1982's "The Verdict," the story of an ambulance-chasing hard-luck lawyer in which Newman appeared broken, raspy and every inch of his 58 years.

By the time Newman starred in "The Color of Money," directed by Martin Scorsese, his movie career had slipped a notch. Never afraid of playing his age, Newman portrayed a repressed businessman in 1990's "Mr. and Mrs. Bridge," a cantankerous lodger in "Nobody's Fool" (1994), a fatherly, retired gangster in "Road to Perdition" (2002), and the voice of a Hudson Hornet in "Cars" (2006).

He gained some of his best reviews for his performance as the stage manager in a Broadway production of Thornton Wilder's classic play, "Our Town," filmed for television in 2003, and was perfectly cast as the rascally father to Ed Harris' responsible diner owner in the miniseries "Empire Falls."

In recent years, Newman talked about doing another film with his friend Redford, but the two couldn't settle on a script. In 2007, Newman said he was retiring from acting, saying he'd lost confidence in his abilities. Still, he marveled at his own resilience.

"You can't be as old as I am without waking up with a surprised look on your face every morning: 'Holy Christ, whaddya know - I'm still around!' It's absolutely amazing that I survived all the booze and smoking and the cars and the career."

Newman, who was married to Jackie Witt from 1949 to 1957, is survived by his wife, Joanne Woodward, and five children.

22 Sep 08 Monday 

Current mood:  blah

Just some random thoughts on this Sunday night, after a particularly blase weekend...

  • I've realized now, since my new roommate moved in, that Jon went through a LOT of toilet paper and we took out the trash far more often. I never thought anything of it but now have a basis for comparison.

  • Naps are great... as long as you don't sleep through a whole weekend by accident. {sigh}

  • The Emmy Awards are really effing ridiculous this year. They are always so surprised when award shows run over but I can name 4 things in the first hour they could have cut out. I say they let me take the helm next year.

  • I'm sort of in love with my new trashcan in the kitchen. I realize how odd that sounds... When I realized my old one was the cause of a subtle odor in my kitchen, I had to get rid of it and buy this new one, which was very inexpensive but a lot prettier. I really like it. It's sort of classy. I have no idea how a trashcan can be classy but there you have it.

  • There are not enough hours in a day. This is not a stupendous revelation but this is my blog and I'll be Captain Obvious if I want to.

  • My grandpa never ceases to amaze me with his wit and humor, despite his alzheimer's and being over 90 years old.

  • Another one of my neighbors is moving out. I was never particularly close to her and at times, not at all fond of her, and yet I somehow am sad she is going. However, I've been here almost six years. Wow.

    That's really all I've got. Nothing profound but had to do something whilst the Emmy's attempt to put me to sleep.

  • 19 Sep 08 Friday 

    Current mood:  anxious
    I'm super excited to go to the Big Brother wrap party tonight. I picked out an outfit for it and everything last night. I'm in the mood to be both social AND judgemental so it's perfect that I am going with Rory. *wink*

    Today at work, I spent 5 hours getting certified in CPR. I want you all to be at ease now as I will be able to save you should you collapse in my presence or choke on something. And I can also say that although I do not argue the seriousness of learning CPR, it is pretty fucking hard to keep a straight face while you mouth-kiss a mannequin (by the by, I named him George and we will be very happy together). Also, I should add that I find baby mannequins to be creepy; especially heaped into a giant pile. Sort of set the tone for far too many "dead baby" jokes.

    Let's all remember I work for a family friendly company...

    Here is a topical quote of the day:

    "Want to do your home girl a proper?" -Meghan

    Word up.


    10 Sep 08 Wednesday 

    Current mood:  busy
    Hi there!

    My god, it's been ages. What is going on with everyone? I insist you all update me.

    What's new with me... Well, my NEW-new roommate moved in and finally started actually sleeping at the apartment this week. Isn't that nice? He's great so far with a cynical sense of humor and he proved especially useful when the toilet was busted. I love a handy roommate!

    Work? Crazy. Just.... well, CRAZY. You see the quotes You know who I work with.

    In other news, 3 of the bridesmaids from Jaime's wedding are now pregnant. If I caught something from these girls, I'm gonna be PISSED. Lindsay and I have decided to not drink the water in the meantime.

    And now, more genius:

    Me: Did u know 25% of the 18-34 demo lives with mom and dad?
    Meg: Wow.
    Me: Yeah.
    Meg: That's a whole lot of undateable people.

    Amen.
    Currently listening:
    We Started Nothing
    By The Ting Tings
    Release date: 2008-06-03
    29 Aug 08 Friday 

    I know, you are all so sick of this, right? But I can't pass up this gold:

    New-Girl (to the big cheese of the LA Office): I love your new cologne! What is it?

    Him: Cologne? Oh- I just sprayed lysol in the bathroom.

    Okay, yeah... so at this point, I almost pissed myself from laughing so hard.

     

    27 Aug 08 Wednesday 

    Current mood:  giggly

    New-Girl: You smoked pot when you had Cancer?

    Boss: Yes.

    New-Girl: Is that cause it cures Cancer?

    Boss: No, it helps with the nausea during chemo.

    New-Girl: Oh, I thought it prevented and cured Cancer.

    Me: You also thought Brett Favre was a retarded Quarterback.

    Currently reading:
    Fables Vol. 2: Animal Farm
    By Bill Willingham
    Release date: 2003-08-01
    26 Aug 08 Tuesday 

    Current mood:  bored

    I've been using this roomate-less time to clean out my apartment. I have too much STUFF. And not that it's in bad condition but you know how it goes-- clothes I don't wear, things I just don't use anymore...

    So the question is, who wants my stuff?

    I've got books, bags, shoes, clothes, electronics... Come on over to Crazy AJ's! Everything MUST GO!

    Let me know if you happen to be interested.

    If not, no big loss - I will happily take anything to Good Will.

    Currently reading:
    Fables Vol. 1: Legends in Exile
    By Bill Willingham
    Release date: 2002-12-01
    24 Aug 08 Sunday 

    Current mood:  angsty

    Note: For the unawares-- Kaysar Ridha was, I imagine, one of the most well-liked Big Brother (on CBS) roommate in the show's history...

    When last we left our sleepless heroine (that's me, not the drug), she was content with her selection of roommate candidate 5, Ben, who moved in with his adorable pup, Biscuit, at the start of August...

    Ben was GREAT. I knew I was going to love living with him when I came home one night after work, tired and apathetic, and he'd made us dinner. After dinner, he did the dishes. I was floored. When I made us dinner a couple nights later, again, he did the dishes. I was in roommate-love with him.

    Alas, it was not meant to be. You see, just about 4 days after he moved, in, Ben's girlfriend broke up with him and it was not pretty. From my perch in the living room, I could hear the raised tones coming from his bedroom and when she left in a huff, I knew it was not good. The story of them was complicated- numerous break-ups and reunions- but I guess this time, the break-up was for good. And not too long after that, Ben came to the realization that he had no life outside of his relationship with her in LA and he was miserbale; he had to move home and "find himself."

    He didn't ask me for any of his money back and the guy seemed genuinely heartbroken so I could not be angry with him. I was disappointed and frustrated, but not angry. I only grew annoyed when he KEPT apologizing (that gets really annoying) but what could I do?

    Well, enter former candidate 4, Dan. I suspected Dan had not yet found a place yet and found out I was right when I called him. He immediately jumped at the opportunity to move in and I was happy that I did not have to endure further stress over the matter and begin a new search. Thank goodness.

    But just when you think everything is settled... Well, Jon, my former roommate, e-mailed me that he was unahppy with his new situation and would really like to just move back in with me. I could have killed him for that. I mean, all I'd gone through with the roommate hunt and now with Ben leaving was all for nothing because Jon should never have left.

    After some serious thought, though, I decided I couldn't let Jon move back in. I love his puppy but that is not a good reason, I think. Living with Jon again was tempting because at least I'd know what was coming (as Meghan said, "the devil you know...") but I had to think of Dan's feelings.

    Dan, as it turned out, had already changed his address with the post office and was starting to make arrangements for the move. So my decision seemed made for me anyway. I did not want to go back on my word to him. Luckily, Jon was very understanding (hey, I didn't want to hurt even his feelings) and so it wasn't too much for me to bare.

    Of course, this morning, I get an e-mail from Ben. "Just throwing it out there..." that he is not as happy back at home as he's though he'd be and he thinks maybe he made a rash decision after all. He wanted to know if I would take him back and we could just pick up where we left off.

    ARE YOU KIDDING ME?

    I'm not doing it. Forget it. Dan already gave me money, changed his address and seems like a pretty nice guy. Ben threw in the towel after two weeks of giving it a go and I can't be sure he won't do that again, right?

    You have to laugh. Well, I have to laugh or else I might cry. This is ridiculous! I had no idea I was so beloved by roommates. I'll have to check with Kenchy... although, I think he was thrilled to move out of here and move in with the woman he is marrying next week.

    Oh, roommate Gods, why do you torment me so?

    I guess it could be worse. It could have been that NO ONE wanted to live with me.

    So August 30, I welcome Dan to the fold.

    Amen.

    Currently watching:
    Easter Parade (Special Edition)
    Release date: 2005-03-15