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Brian-Marc Whittaker


Last Updated: 12/18/2009

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Gender: Male
Status: Single
Age: 22
Sign: Cancer

City: Magic City-Orange County
State: Florida
Country: US
Signup Date: 11/30/2005

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Wednesday, August 12, 2009 

Category: Life
"When the Italians arrived and tried to work their way into society, they were met by great hostility.  They were called 'guinea', 'greaseball', 'day-go', 'wop'...Every immigrant group has been treated that way...Each wave of immigrants to the United States seems to settle in, achieve success, win the battle of survival, and then turn and say, 'take up the gangplank, we don't need anymore.'  Each wave seems to resist the next wave that comes after it."  -Mario Cuomo


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Wednesday, May 06, 2009 

Category: Life
Chivalry is dead because some girls prefer dogs rather than gentlemen. Then a few months later, they are complaining and crying about the dog. Who lasts longer? Gentlemen. Chivalry is not dead.
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Monday, June 23, 2008 

Current mood:  enlightened
Category: Romance and Relationships
Are you a nice guy who has always wondered why the cocky guy -- the one who barely appears interested in the girl -- is usually the one who gets the girl?
Have you suffered from hearing the words, "You're a really nice guy, but I only like you as a friend," from a woman who you would do (or may, in fact, have already done) just about anything and everything for -- only to turn around and watch her date (or even chase) a guy who treats her like she's nothing special? And are you stumped wondering why she would date a guy who treats her like that when she could have you who would treat her like a princess and give her everything she wants? Well, you better brace yourself because I'm going to tell you a couple of secrets that you might not want to hear.


First, "nice" equates with boring and predictable. Look up "nice" in the dictionary and you find: pleasant; agreeable; satisfactory. In other words, average -- not exceptional, not exciting, and not sexy.I'll bet you've never heard a woman say she didn't want to date a guy because he was too confident, too passionate, or too exciting -- have you? But, I'll bet you have heard women say things like, "He's such a nice guy. He's so sweet and he's always there for me, but I only like him as a friend." Or, "He's such a good guy -- kind, thoughtful, generous, honest, loyal -- but there's no chemistry. He just doesn't turn me on." Sadly, I hear it all the time. The fact is, Mr. Nice Guy, you cannot bore a woman into feeling attracted to you or into wanting to date you. And as obvious as that sounds, if you are one of those guys I described that is exactly what you are trying to do. And it won't work.


Please understand that I am not suggesting that you mistreat women or disrespect them in any way.


What I suggesting is that you value and respect yourself more.


What I suggesting is that you value and respect yourself more.


To illustrate what I mean: The answer to the question, "Why does the guy who doesn't appear to care as much about the girl get the girl?" is simple: The nice guy cares too much, too soon. He has made the woman too important and too valuable and it shows in everything he says and does. He is too available, too eager to please, too accommodating, and he gives too much -- all without getting anything in return. By doing so, he has made himself appear desperate, insecure, needy of this woman's attention, affection, and approval -- and he has stripped himself of any value in her eyes. After all, if he's already doing and giving everything, without her doing or giving anything - why would she value him? She won't. She is not going to value him any more than he values himself. What she is going to do is look for someone else, someone who she perceives as being more worthy, more confident, and more valuable.


It works like this:
Once you need something, or you want it too badly, you forfeit your strength and lose all power of negotiation.


Once you need something, or you want it too badly, you forfeit your strength and lose all power of negotiation. You are in a position of weakness and you are perceived as weak. Someone (or something) else is in control of you, the situation, and it's outcome. Men in this situation appear to be anything but confident, strong, and exciting. More, they are perceived as being unworthy and as lacking value.


Translation: Things that are easily acquired, obtained, or maintained, without any effort or sacrifice, lack value... it's human nature.


The secret to why the cocky guy wins with women, over the nice guy, is that he is perceived as being a stronger, more confident guy with more value. How? He never invests everything -- his entire being, ego, and self-worth in what one woman's response or reaction to him is. He doesn't gush with compliments; he isn't always available; he doesn't give too much; and he knows he isn't going to die if a woman says "no" to him. More, his attitude is, yeah, I'd like to go out with you, but if I can't, that's OK -- I'm a busy guy, with exciting things going on, and lots of other options.

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Saturday, April 26, 2008 

Category: School, College, Greek
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Monday, January 14, 2008 

Current mood:Wondering
Category: Life

I got this off the back of a bag of potatoe chips. It followed a story by Uncle Ray.

 

"During my lifetime I have learned in business, as well as in my personal life, if you lack boldness to fulfill obligations or dreams you may just miss out on great things in life.

Remember that winners never quit and quitters never win.  If you try your best and continue to fight, you are not quitting. And, if you feel what you are doing is right, boldness should come easier.

Don't let the lack of courage hurt your work or relationships."

Boldness "confidence that what I have to say or do is true, right, and just"

Here are some simple things to remember to help you demonstrate BOLDNESS in everyday life.

I WILL:

Not be afraid to speak the truth

Keep a clear conscience

Support others when they are right

Be willing to stand alone

Speak w/ humility

 

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Saturday, December 22, 2007 

Current mood:  aggravated
Category: Life
From now on, I don't want ANYBODY asking me favors again. Is that understood? I dedicated 2007 to helping everybody but myself.  When I needed help, who was there? .........*crickets chirping*   Ask somebody else.
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Sunday, October 07, 2007 

Current mood:  surprised
I saw a UFO Saturday @4:30am.  It was a flying glowing green circle below the clouds then it just disappeared in thin air! 
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Monday, September 03, 2007 

Current mood:  disappointed
Category: Life

This is something that has been on my mind for the past year or so. About people claiming to be Christian, but not living a Christian lifestyle. Being a follower of Chirst is more than just listening to Christian radio/songs and going to church and singing in the choir.  I am tired of people singing 'My Redeemer Lives' one moment and the next moment they are buying a pack of condoms. It just DOESN'T make sense to me. I knew a girl once that was a member of the choir and said she loved God with all her heart, yet she was living a sinful lifestyle. We need to really take a look at our lives and ask ourselves, 'Am I really living how God wants me to?' When people say they are a Christian, they have to look at what sets them apart from everyone else.  Christianity is not just a title or religion, its a lifestyle. 

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Monday, October 09, 2006 

Category: Religion and Philosophy

"THIS IS SPARTAAA!!!"- Leonitus (300)

"Yippee Ka Yay Mothaf*cker"- Bruce Willis

"Amateurs work until they get it right; professionals work until they can't get it wrong."

"I DON'T CARE WHAT PEOPLE THINK ABOUT ME. IT CAN'T BE HALF AS BAD AS WHAT I THINK ABOUT THEM."

"Those who dream by day are dangerous people."

"I never liked winning as much as I hated losing."

-Every athlete

 

Memories are the orphens of dead events, but let even the slightest act, sight or sound recur and the past is instantly reborn.

"If Satan reminds you of your past, remind him of his future."

-Manny

 

Drama is having your heart broken; and the person that broke it doesn't even mother f**king notice.

-Canibus

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Thursday, March 02, 2006 

Current mood:  relieved
Category: Religion and Philosophy
LET IT GO FOR 2006
By T. D. Jakes

There are people who can walk away from you.
And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you:
let them walk. I don't want you to try to talk another person into
staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to
see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone.
When people can walk away from you, let them walk. Your destiny is never
tied to anybody that left.
The bible said that, they came out from us that it might be made
manifest that they were not for us. For had they been of us, no doubt
they would have continued with us. [1 John 2:19]
People leave you because they are not joined to you. And if they are not
joined to you, you can't make them stay.
Let them go!!!!!.
And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person it just means that their
part in the story is over. And you've got to know when people's part in
your story is over so that you don't keep trying to raise the dead.
You've got to know when it's dead.
You've got to know when it's over. Let me tell you something. I've
got the gift of good-bye. It's the tenth spiritual gift, I believe
in good-bye. It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm faithful, and I
know whatever God means for me to have He'll give it to me. And if it
takes too much sweat I don't need it. Stop begging people to stay.
Let them go!!
If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong to you and
was never intended for your life, then you need to......
LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to past hurts and pains....
LET IT GO!!!
If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and see your worth.....
LET IT GO!!!
If someone has angered you.......
LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge......
LET IT GO!!!
If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction......
LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or
talents....
LET IT GO!!!
If you have a bad attitude.......
LET IT GO!!!
If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better......
LET IT GO!!!
If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to take you to a new level
in Him......
LET IT GO!!!
If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship.......
LET IT GO!!!
If you keep trying to help someone who won't even try to help
themselves......
LET IT GO!!!
If you're feeling depressed and stressed......
LET IT GO!!!
If there is a particular situation that you are so used to handling
yourself and God is saying "take your hands off of it," then you need
to......
LET IT GO!!!
Let the past be the past. Forget the former things. GOD is doing a new
thing for 2006!!!
LET IT GO!!!
Get Right or Get Left... think about it, and then....
LET IT GO!!!
"The Battle is the Lord's!"
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