Why does it take problems for people to see how great life truly is.....

soon as something bad does happen we all dwell on it, inted of trying to make it better!!!

life is precious and shouldnt be taken for granted.

those who love you will stay and the ones who dont will fade away!

allow the ones who dont love you fade away, and dont let them cause you pain!

life will never give anything for free...

 love = pain

Money = trouble

friends = drama

no matter what you have you've had to pay for it one way or another...

so i guess the question is...

are things you have something your willing to pay for.......

stress, drama, pain, depression are all ways that we as people pay for things we want...

and if our lives are going to get any better we need to suffer to grow and grow so we can learn the best way to suffer.

insted of crying, cry for joy with the friends and family u still have.

dont take ur life, ur friends life, and ur familys life for granted, bc soon as you let go they will leave you and never look back.

ur life is great in at least one way, but if you stay in a negative state of mind you will never see the gold in ur life that u have.

share joy even when ur not, bc ppl rub off on others. so think for one minute would i rather see them happy or miserable?

smiles are gods way to show the world he is here for us all, so dont waste the gift, embrace it!!!

take one day to smile at a stranger, and notice when u do they smile back. its like ur saying whatever your going though gods here!!!

and they smile back!

so needless to say, when times get you down, smile more, laugh more, and dance!!!! dancing leads to laughter, which leads to happyness, which leads to being in a postive mind, which leads to ur life all together WONDERFUL!!!!!

and no matter where the crowd goes, you are ur own person, just because u dont look a certain way you will always be wonderful... and never take what god gave u for granted. dont cover up, dont hide... let it all out, have fun and let loose!!!

climb to the highest moutain, swim in the deepest ocean, hike though the longest trail, dance until the sun comes up and sing like no one can hear you!

life = dealing and overcoming... defeating not being defeated!!!!

never give up... dont lose the battle!!!

when ur sad, angary, depressed, confused, Etc. the other team wins... so dont let them!!! BE HAPPY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

we live and we learn... take life one step at a time!!!!!!!!!

 

"the ones who matter wont mind and the ones who mind dont matter"

 

29 ways to make a girl smile . . . . .

*1 . Tell her she is beautiful (not hot, fine, or sexy)
*2 . Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if its just for a second.
*3 . Kiss her on the forehead.
*4 . Leave her voice messages to wake up to.
*5 . Always tell her you love her every second of the day.
*6 . When she is upset, hold her tight and tell her how much she means to you.
*7 . Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.
*8 . Sing to her no matter how horrible your voice is.
*9 . Pick her over all the other girls you hang out with.
*10 . Write her notes. (she loves them)
*11 . Introduce her to family and friends . . . as your girlfriend.
*12 . Play with her hair.
*13 . Pick her up, tickle her, and play-wrestle with her.
*14 . Sit in the park and just talk to her.
*15 . Tell her funny jokes, tell her stupid jokes, or just tell her jokes.
*16 . Throw pebbles at her window in the middle of the night . . . just because you missed her.
*17 . Let her fall asleep in your arms.
*18. Carve your names into a tree.
*19 . If she's mad at you, kiss her.
*20 . Give her piggyback rides.
*21 . Bring her flowers just because.
*22 . Treat her the same around your friends as you do when your alone.
*23 . Look her in the eyes and smile.
*24 . Let her take as many pictures of you as she wants.
*25 . Slow dance with her, even if there isn't any music playing.
*26 . Kiss her in the rain.
*27 . If your in love with her . . . tell her.
*28 . You have to be a little bit cocky with her.
*29 . Be a little protective of her...it shows you want to keep her safe.

---------------NOVEMBER BABY -------------------
~Trustworthy and loyal.
~Very passionate and dangerous.
~Wild at times.
~Knows how to have fun.
~Sexy and mysterious.
~Everyone is drawn towards your inner and outer beauty and independent personality.
~Playful, but secretive.
~Very emotional and temperamental sometimes.
~Meets new people easily and very social in a group.
~Fearless and independent.
~Can hold their own.
~Stands out in a crowd.
~Essentially very smart.
~Usually, the greatest men are born in this month.
~If you ever begin a relationship with someone from this month, hold on to them because their one of a kind.
~Repost in 5 mins & you will excell in a major event coming up
sometime this month.
~ A freak in bed

Body: Dear Wife,
During the past year I have tried to make love to you 365 times.
I have succeeded 36 times, which is an average of once every ten days.
The following is a list of why I did not succeed more often:

54 times the sheets were clean
17 times it was too late
49 times you were too tired
20 times it was too hot
15 times you pretended to be asleep
22 times you had a headache
17 times you were afraid of waking the baby
16 times you said you were too sore
12 times it was the wrong time of the month
19 times you had to get up early
9 times you said weren't in the mood
7 times you were sunburned
6 times you were watching the late show
5 times you didn't want to mess up your new hairdo
3 times you said the neighbors would hear us
9 times you said your mother would hear us

Of the 36 times I did succeed, the activity was not satisfactory because:

6 times you just laid there
8 times you reminded me there's a crack in the ceiling
4 times you told me to hurry up and get it over with
7 times I had to wake you and tell you I finished
1 time I was afraid I had hurt you because I felt you move

KEEP READING.......!!!!!!!!

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TO MY DEAR HUSBAND:

I think you have things a little confused. Here are the reasons you didn't get more than you did:

5 times you came home drunk and tried to screw the cat
36 times you did not come home at all
21 times you didn't come with energy
33 times you came too soon
19 times you went soft before you got in
38 times you worked too late
10 times you got cramps in your toes
29 times you had to get up early to play golf
2 times you were in a fight and someone kicked you in the balls
4 times you got it stuck in your zipper
3 times you had a cold and your nose was running
2 times you had a splinter in your finger
20 times you lost the motion after thinking about it all day
6 times you came in your pajamas while reading a dirty book
98 times you were too busy watching TV

Of the times we did get together:

The reason I laid still was because you missed and were screwing the sheets.

I wasn't talking about the crack in the ceiling, what I said was, "Would you prefer me on my back or kneeling?"

The time you felt me move was because I was trying to breathe!

Once you read this letter you have to keep it going.

This game has been played since 1996.

So here are the rules:

If you read this on a Sunday, wish for a good week
If you read this on a Monday, wish for money
If you read this on a Tuesday, wish for love
If you read this on a Wednesday, wish for success
If you read this on a Thursday, wish for anything you want
If you read this on a Friday, wish for a really hot date
If you read this on a Saturday, wish for an important phone call

repost in 3.5 min. and your wish will come true
Make sure you repost in 3.5 min. or your wish won't come true.

title it : why couples dont have sex.. funny

Below is a video that my friend adam the princess did and it stops very early in the video just so you kno and i had no idea that i was in the video. and adam is the annoying laughing person in the back ground!! so i wasnt trying to be a dancing freak i was just goofing around lol !! WATCH AND ENJOY!!!

http://vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=vids.individual&videoid=2033740748