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Ryan Cox


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Gender: Male
Status: Married
Age: 22
Sign: Aries

City: Lexington
State: Kentucky
Country: US
Signup Date: 3/7/2005

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Wednesday, January 23, 2008 

hmm... interesting. God is interesting. i was driving home, not really praying ,but kinda... just thinking and asking stuff of God. he's been kinda vague with my lately... or not so much, as when i was remembering ezekiel and the valley of dry bones yesterday and God said to me, "sound familiar?" and showed left me with the feeling that something new was on the way. anyway, driving home from kroger, a song came up on my ipod and i felt like i just needed to listen to it... felt like it was God telling me to, but it wasnt all that clear at first. anyway, it was "last regret" by seventh day slumber. i'd "heard" it before, but never really listened to it. so... havent posted lyrics in forever, but the song can be a little hard to understand. so if you care to, check out my profile song while reading these lyrics.

Lost in the game
Finally, I can say I'm proud of me
No hope at all
A day that I believed would never come
No one to blame
The shadows of my past have been erased
A life that only God Himself could change

I never dreamed that life could feel this way
Don't wake me, please
I've finally found the place where I belong
Only one regret
All those years I lost for nothing at all

Laughing in pain
Searching for a reason to exist
World torn apart
Excuses left me breathless and ashamed
Slipping away
I found a purpose that's worth fighting for
The memories don't haunt me anymore

the last 2 lines just hit me really strongly becasue it was in that moment true for me. i just felt full release. like it was just gone. there are still memories, but no longer the pain. something was restored tonight. if you know me well, you know ive been though hell, so to speak. bit dramatic, but not too much. and no matter what i tried i couldn't shake the past fully from my thoughts. until now. i guess time alone will tell, but as of now it seems that is finally past.

anyway, ezekiel 37...

37:1 The hand of the Lord was upon me, and he brought me out in the Spirit of the Lord and set me down in the middle of the valley; it was full of bones. And he led me around among them, and behold, there were very many on the surface of the valley, and behold, they were very dry. And he said to me, "Son of man, can these bones live?" And I answered, "O Lord God, you know." Then he said to me, "Prophesy over these bones, and say to them, O dry bones, hear the word of the Lord. Thus says the Lord God to these bones: Behold, I will cause breath to enter you, and you shall live. And I will lay sinews upon you, and will cause flesh to come upon you, and cover you with skin, and put breath in you, and you shall live, and you shall know that I am the Lord."

So I prophesied as I was commanded. And as I prophesied, there was a sound, and behold, a rattling, [3] and the bones came together, bone to its bone. And I looked, and behold, there were sinews on them, and flesh had come upon them, and skin had covered them. But there was no breath in them. Then he said to me, "Prophesy to the breath; prophesy, son of man, and say to the breath, Thus says the Lord God: Come from the four winds, O breath, and breathe on these slain, that they may live." 10 So I prophesied as he commanded me, and the breath came into them, and they lived and stood on their feet, an exceedingly great army.

11 Then he said to me, "Son of man, these bones are the whole house of Israel. Behold, they say, 'Our bones are dried up, and our hope is lost; we are indeed cut off.' 12 Therefore prophesy, and say to them, Thus says the Lord God: Behold, I will open your graves and raise you from your graves, O my people. And I will bring you into the land of Israel. 13 And you shall know that I am the Lord, when I open your graves, and raise you from your graves, O my people. 14 And I will put my Spirit within you, and you shall live, and I will place you in your own land. Then you shall know that I am the Lord; I have spoken, and I will do it, declares the Lord."

strange, because i remember very vividly seeing that scene unfold in my mind. it sounds odd, and i can't say for sure, but i think i remember dreaming it when i was rather young, right down to watching the bones come together as tendons grew from nowhere and attached themselves to the bones. and i think God was talking to me when he was reminding me of that passage... but i dont think he was speaking just to me. he recalled other visions to my mind and made me think of renewal. renewal has been on my mind a lot lately.

it was interesting to me... just struck me now, really... that it wasn't a one-step deal. first the army was alive... but then they died. and the bones were very dry, which means they had been dead a long time, resembling nothing of their former selves, incapable of being who they once were. then God restored them. but they were still dead, although he had made them look like what they had been. only when God breathed his Spirit into them did they reall live. i think we arent seeing enough of God's spirit... i think if we pary for anything than it must be for more, because i see so many of God's people living a dead life, wandering through it like machines, alive but really dead. we need to be filled once more. and one more thing... it was just so intriguing to me that the dead could do nothing for themselves. they couldnt make themselves more alive. only God could. and i believe He wants up to pray for renwal and new life once more. ^_^

i need to find the time to listen to what i recorded when i was praying at ahop. im not sure i can hear all of it, but im going to try to write it down. gotta find my clothes for work tomorrow now though. be blessed... lata my homies! ;)

Sunday, January 13, 2008 
so i was going to make a post about how i felt sad again tonight and how i was wandering around uk and downtown. but i started talking to robert and now im too tired. maybe tomorrow. so... instead... songs for the month. 17 of em. ^_^

1. Golden -- Switchfoot
2. Carry You Home -- James Blunt
3. Bedshaped -- Keane
4. Lord, Save Me From Myself -- Jon Foreman
5. Leave Out All the Rest -- Linkin Park
6. In a Market Dimly Lit -- mewithoutYou
7. Everything Is -- Lost Ocean
8. Cut Down Sideways -- Fair
9. World Away -- Emery
10. One Day I Slowly Floated Away -- Eisley
11.Carry Me Down -- Demon Hunter
12. Anything You Say -- Deas Vail
13.When You Thought You'd Never Stand Out -- Copeland
14. Let It Go -- Blue October
15. Babylon -- David Gray
16. Sunday Best -- Augustana
17. Wrong Body -- As Cities Burn
Tuesday, January 01, 2008 

It's the last night of 2007. It's been a trip. Looking back, I've changed a lot through it.

2007 found me jaded, but over the course of the year I learned how to fully love and completely forgive and hopefully become just a little bit more like Jesus through it all. February 14 and 15, and May 5 will never be forgotten. I truly fell in love with my best friend -- a girl I had loved for a very long time -- and though it hasn't always been easy, every day has been worth it all. God showed me His grace and faithfulness every day, and revealed Himself to me over and over again. And now we come to a new season of life with this new year. Here's to the old, the past, the change, and the new. May 2008 see the best in you, and may you shine with the brightness of Christ to all you meet. Let it be all or nothing; walk in light and victory. Fight for the truth with everything you are, and if life finds you fallen, stand with the strength of Christ who has promised us eternal victory. May you never feel alone. Peace be upon you for this new year. ^_^

Wednesday, December 26, 2007 

i've told you before, a long time ago. but tonight again, i know... you are truly my home, and no place feels the same as when i'm with you.

Tuesday, December 25, 2007 

christmas eve finds me pondering the last few years of my life, wondering and wandering down the trails and trials that have marked and made my life what it has become. peppered with obstacles and riddled with pain; my journey has been far from easy. and i can sit here and tell you with all honesty that the one thing, the one voice, the one way this is all found in truth to be what we have is by God. the one thing, if you will, that i could never let go of only because he refused to let go of me. even with my naive assumptions of pretentious, meritous deeds that i would (imagine myself saying i would -- with the abilities of one who can only convince himself of what he cannot) do, when they inevitably failed he cared as much as if i had merely stood still. and he grasped me by the hand and led me forward where the wind could merely buffet and not kill, and the tempestuous rain could fall, yet not chill to the ice that would freeze the blood of the strongest man. and so i was saved from far worse, healed through the agony. and even now i am being made whole again. for that i owe him all. he is always near. so do not mistake him when he calls to you. do not think yourself alone when you cry yourself to sleep. the God who brought sight to the blind and formed the very universe can still weep with the fallen. and so i tell you that all is not lost. the broken shall be made perfect. that which was held dead will rise again. God reigns; God reigns and none other. he will not fail -- he cannot. he will not abandon those who call on him. there is always renewal. there is always hope.

Tuesday, December 25, 2007 

late is better than never. 12 songs for the twelfth month:

Apologize -- OneRepublic
Pictures of You -- The Last Goodnight
A Sweater Poorly Knit -- mewithoutYou
Song of Hope (Heaven Come Down) -- Robbie Seay Band
Don't I Look the Same -- Mainstay
Seattle -- The Classic Crime
Lucretia My Reflection (Sisters of Mercy cover) -- Project 86
Sometimes I Can't Make It Alone -- Mae
Find Me Tonight -- Lifehouse
Lord, Save Me From Myself -- Jon Foreman
Much Like Falling -- Flyleaf
The Night Sky -- Keane

Sunday, December 16, 2007 

if feelings could point the way to light
then i would shatter the darkness with my heart.
to find wisdom in the knowledge of what is right
and listen to what time alone can speak
is the wealth of those who know the truth
-- only found by those who seek it.

Tuesday, November 27, 2007 

I didnt write these, but i like them.

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If music is a mirror
Revealing the depths of my heart
Then I will write the darkest song
For without forgiveness my soul is lost
All that is hope within destruction
Comes from you
For I have fallen
And there is nothing good within me
Yet I've been given life
I will never deserve
For without forgiveness my soul is lost
All that is hope within destruction

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I sat ashore and watched
As one hopeless wave crashed upon another
While my thoughts ran to the highest hills
My heart never reached the sea
With only delusions of an endless journey
I am left with an ocean between you and me
The gate to my heart has been welded shut
With the splendor of my aspirations closed in
How many years have we waited
For a ship that never set sail?
And how many days have we wasted
Chasing a love that was not our own?
Is this your salvation?
Is this all you can give?
I will not stand in reflection
Of someone else's dream

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We have all heard what we wanted to hear
"Truth" that sounds right to our ears
But what wisdom is there within us
To live based on the feeling of our hearts?
How many times has instinct let us down
Never to be thought through
Never to be questioned?
Say what you really mean
When your ambition calls you
For what use is there in praying
If you will only hear what you want to hear?
We speak of fighting to resist this world
But what about the battle within us?
If we have chosen to live against the grain
Then why are we all facing the same way?
There is no difference between us and them
If we all blindly seek truth from sentiments..

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For so long I have felt alone
Content to live with unrest
Longing to fade into countless nights
That buried my weary heart
But you brought an end to this dead hour
And meaning to this calloused life
Held in your arms but too far from my heart
I remember the way you looked at me
And the way you drew me close with one deep sigh
Scattering pieces of my restless mind
Forgetting all that we have left behind
These thoughts will carry me through the darkest nights
While your eyes rest in mine

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While shutters enclose the boundries of my heart
I hold my breath till the steady beating is shut out
In silence I wait for what is real
For I know the truth of my perception
Nothing in life matters more than you
When first feelings fade
I will still be here

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I see who you are
And who else can compare?
I meant what I said
I promised to stand by your side
Until the end
That's where we begin
From here to eternity
We begin understanding
It is our hearts that define
What has meaning in life
Some will ask, "how can this be?"
But it was you who made me feel

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all poems (actually songs) are by as i lay dying.

Sunday, November 25, 2007 
just some pieces of posts from my xanga from months/years ago. things i cant get away from.

Perhaps in the end we'll look back and see there was no other way it could have happened. And then all the pain and all the tears will wash away and we'll be left finally with an understanding of why it had to be this way, and it will all make sense. I hope it all finally makes sense.

On days like these all the memories overwhelm me until it's all I can do to hang on to what is now, and the end is all I wish for. Sometimes I wonder if it's worth it -- if all this is worth the price it cost. And if all this will ever really be more than what it seems. I wonder at times that if I let it go, nothing may be left. That if I stop holding on I'd end up with nothing. But maybe that's not such a bad thing after all. Funny if letting go was the only way of holding on.

Tears like sundrops fall across the letters never written. So many so long and nothing to show for it all. You knew the best, you knew the worst, and your smile made the world go round. Loved by so many, you threw your kisses, played your cards, and they all fell under your spell. You held the keys to everything you wanted. A thousand hearts in the hands that could only hold one. Some are dancing, others making lovers of themselves, but I live my life and laugh my way through the twisted times. Looking on, looking down, knowing that the truth will be made known. You walk on, and I smile as you pass me by again. So I sit and wait on the world once more. On you, the world. Everything.

Sometimes I think she would just have a better life if I just left; if I could just say goodbye and move on forever. Sometimes I just feel like saying oh yeah, go on and live with him for the rest of your life. Who cares if I can't stand the guy, no one seems to care about my opinions anyway. 'You're a good guy' they say, but I don't give a crap anymore. Nobody likes a good guy. I'm just kindof sick of this. I saw you tonight, and I felt... weird. Love mixes with pain and together they weave through me like a ribbon of razorblades. But that's not even it. I wanted to cry, but I don't know why. It made no sense. So I punched the steering wheel, choked it all down, and drove off into the darkness. 12/14/06

There was ice on the ground as I walked back to my dorm tonight. It was shattered everywhere, like fragments of a fallen life. Glass. It looked like broken glass. It was beautiful, but it saddened me. I don't know why. It seems everything beautiful in life has an underlying sadness to it. Or maybe it's not so much sadness as pain. I've never seen beauty without it. 12/9/06

Rip these thoughts from my mind
Burn the truth into my eyes
Show me a light in these shadows
Because the only love I've ever known is pain
Destroy all I call my own
Because it was ever only Yours
I only want what You have for me
But with nothing, how can I know?
Is all my life an endless wait?
I'm sick of being just a toy
To be used at leisure and then thrown away
I need Your strength, Lord
Because I have left none of my own 11/6/06

I've given up trying to understand. I've accepted the fact that I'll probably never know why things happened the way they did. And I'm okay with that. But prayers for release still go unanswered. So, whether I want to or not, I have to keep on. I have to keep waiting for a fulfillment that seems will never happen. The lost will never be found, and the hidden will never be revealed. Or so it seems. I've come to realize it's not what I want that matters. 10/24/06

I know things that go on again, and sometimes it just hurts. Sometimes I wish I could just be oblivious to everything. I don't think I can just move on. I can't quit waiting. I can't quit searching. I can't quit trusting and hoping and praying and hurting and wishing things were different. I know God knows everything. I know I don't need to know anything. Still, I see so much going on that I can't fix or change and sometimes I feel like crying because of it all. 10/2/06

Sometimes I just wish I could forget things, people, occurrences... I wish I could start over, I wish I could kill these feelings and just walk away, but I can't. And I know there's a reason for everything, But I wish I knew why. I can't even move on, though I think I want to at times. Even if I wanted to I don't think I could stop this love. 9/23/06

Sometimes things just aren't what they seem. Ever indecisive, we press towards an elusive goal. Once again, things go awry, and we stand there contemplating what we've left. 3/27/06

blah blah blah. off to work now.
Thursday, November 22, 2007 
eh. im listening to this song and i keep relating to it. how i used to feel. yeah, i guess it wasn't really that way in reality, but to me it was. for my part everything was exactly the same. i think this is it then. this is how it felt in the middle when everything was hopeless. even when it might not have seemed that way, my heart never stopped even when i was unable to continue. you were everywhere when you were nowhere, and i couldn't help myself. more than anything, it explains the sadness that sometimes passes through. rascal flatts... what hurts the most. yeah...