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Joe DeRouen

Joe DeRouen


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Gender: Male
Status: Married
Age: 41
Sign: Virgo

City: Rogers
State: ARKANSAS
Country: US
Signup Date: 9/14/2006

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Tuesday, October 03, 2006 

Current mood:  cheerful
Category: Blogging
I went to the Carthage, Illinois (population: 3,000) school system from 
Kindergarten through 11th, then moved to Dallas, Texas for my 12th.
As you can imagine, I never really bonded with the kids in 12th, so always
considered Carthage my school. Even though I hated it. (More on that later.)

Anyway, I found out a couple of weeks ago that they were having the 20th high
school reunion. I vacillated on going, and finally decided last Monday to take
the eight-hour drive. And I'm glad I did!

I didn't have a good school life. I was a chubby kid and constantly
picked on. My dad was a violent alcoholic and so I had that to contend
with at home. All in all, it made for a rough life growing up. And
having not seen these kids in 21 years, well, I had no idea what to
expect, and was nervous as hell going back there.

But my first instinct was that, if nothing else, the experience would be
cathartic, and my first instinct was right. All the pain and grudges I
felt over school have pretty much gone away. Everyone was happy to see
me, I was actually one of the most gregarious of the bunch at the
reunion (I was painfully shy in school,) and I had a great time.

But, more than that, it was great to reconnect with friends and classmates.
I even confessed my school crushes to each of the crushees, something
I'd never done in high school. It was very freeing. And, amazingly, all
five of us that bowled together on a team were there, so we managed to
take a bowling picture together.

Here are some pics of the trip:

http://sparkynet.com/1986/

Thanks for reading!
Monday, September 25, 2006 

Current mood:  contemplative
Category: Friends
Okay, here's the deal - I grew up in Carthage, Illinois, (population 2,000 and falling) but moved away in my junior year of high school. But it's definitely the school I consider my high school.

Found out a couple of weeks ago that the 20th high school reunion is this coming weekend, and I'm not sure whether or not I want to go. We now live in Arkansas, and it's an eight-hour drive, which is part of the reason for my hesitation.

The other part is that high school wasn't such a wonderful time for me. I definitely wasn't one of the popular kids. In fact, I absolutely hated a good number of the small (maybe 80 people) class.

But I also liked some of them. And, hell, it's been twenty years, and I'm no longer the nerdy, shy fat kid. Would going bring back bad memories, or would it be cathertic? If I didn't go, would I regret it?

Help me decide, and decide quickly! What do you think I should do?
Thursday, September 21, 2006 

Current mood:  blah
Category: Writing and Poetry
Are writing source books really helpful? Other than making the writer of said source material money, I'm not so sure. In my experience, few are worth the price, but a couple do stand out for me:

Writer's Guide to Places, by Don Prues and Jack Heffron, has proven to be invaluable to me as a writer. Sure, some will argue, it doesn't cover every aspect of any give place (how could it?) but it does generally provide you with enough information to fake it.

Write what you know, they say. That's all well and good, but not every story can be set in your hometown. If you need to get the general layout of, say, Chicago, because you're writing a few scenes there, you could do a lot worse than this book. Sure, it's no substitute for actually being there, but it gives you enough details to add much-needed flavor to your words.

Descriptionary, by Marc McCutcheon, is another book worth adding to your resource library. The subtitle of Descriptionary says it's "the book for when you know what it is, but not what it's called." That actually happens to me a fair amount. If you own this book, however, you can quickly flip through the included glossaries and find out, for instance, that the highest ranking officer in the Navy is a Fleet Admiral, that cryptology is the science of deciphering hidden or disguised communication, and that a Parsec is a measurement equaling 3.26 light years. Pretty darned useful, if you ask me.

There are other useful books out there, to be sure, but I've found these to be two of the best.
 
Currently reading:
Thunder of Time
By James F. David
Release date: 04 April, 2006
Monday, September 18, 2006 

Current mood:  calm
For the longest time, I mocked myspace. And then, because she wanted to write someone on myspace, my wife joined. And because she wanted to know how to edit her page, and because I didn't want to sit at her PC, I joined so I could help her figure it all out.

And now here I am. I'm even creating a blog, despite already having two other, non-myspace blogs. (Confessions of an Un/Published Writer and Weird Websites) I've even snazzed up the main page and gotten rid of the stupider-than-stupid "extended network" box.

Eventually, I suppose, I'll get around to editing the actual blog here into something visually appealing. As if I didn't have enough to do already.

Thanks for reading!