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Sandee Westgate


Last Updated: 11/18/2009

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Gender: Female
Status: Single
Sign: Taurus

City: Orange County
State: California
Country: US
Signup Date: 9/15/2006

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Tuesday, September 01, 2009 

Current mood:  adored

Monday, June 22, 2009 

Current mood:  bummed
Category: Life
I've learned that you cannot make someone love you.  All you can do is be someone who can be loved.  The rest is up to them.
I've learned that no matter how much I care some people just don't care back.
I've learned that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.
I've learned that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.
I've learned that it's not what you have in your life, but whom you have in your life that counts.
I've learned that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.
I've learned that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.
I've learned that either you control your attitude or it controls you.
I've learned that sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.
I've learned that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you’ve celebrated.
I've learned that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.
I've learned that no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.
I've learned that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others.  Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.
I've learned that just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other.   And, just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do.
I’ve learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn’t stop for your grief.
I’ve learned that no matter how you try to protect your children, they will eventually get hurt, and you will hurt in the process.
I've learned that you should never tell a child their dreams are unlikely or outlandish.  Few things are more humiliating, and what a tragedy it would be if they believed it.
I've learned that heroes are people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.
I’ve learned that you can keep going long after you can’t.
Sunday, February 24, 2008 

30 Pornstar Interview Questions

Background

n  Where did you grow up and what was your childhood like? I grew up In northern California and my childhood was very normal.  I was very girlie and participated in cheerleading and dance activities.

n  What is one of your favorite childhood memories? Going shopping with my mom and sister

n  Were you a bad girl in high school? -or- What were your teenage years like? High school I was a cheerleader and I was very sexual back then J

Career

n  When did you first realize that you were meant to be a pornstar, and how did you first get started in the porn industry? It all started with my website, then getting into playboy and slowly progressing over the years to the level of explicitness I'm at now.  It just sort of happened.  Heeh!

n  What is it like to shoot a revealing scene or photo spread? I'm very blasé about it these days.  I've been doing it for almost 10 years now.  It's still fun and exciting, but I'm not nervous or anything.  It's like second nature to me.

n  What was one of your most fun days at work? On the set for my last DVD Thrust.  That was a blast.

n  What is your favorite photo shoot or video that you have done?  I've done soooo many I can't really say one has stood out to me the most.   I have a fun job… so I'm always having a good time.

n  What's the weirdest or kinkiest thing you have ever had to do in a photo shoot or video?  I make all the rules, so I've never had to do anything out of the ordinary.

Personal Life

n  When you're not working, are you a girl next door or a glamorous diva? Girl next door one thousand percent! 

n  What do you do for fun when you're not working? Take my dogs to the park, hang out with my friends and go shopping.

n  What's your sexiest memory? When I first hooked up with the guy I'm with now… we would fuck for hours. One particular hotel incident is what sticks out to me the most.

n  Can you tell us about one of your hottest girl-on-girl experiences, on-set or off? I've had sooo many!  But I loved fucking Carli Banks.  We were both so into it.  I was so turned on.

n  How did your family react to the first nude photos or videos that you did? They were okay with it, it was very tame and for playboy.

n  Are you into playing any sports—if so which ones and what turns you on about them? I'm too girlie for sports.  Not into them.

n  Do you like to watch your own porn flicks or look at your own photo shoots? I like looking at my pics, absolutely!  When I watch my movies I critique myself too much! Hehe!

n  What's your sign and which tendencies of that sign do you feel that you have? Taurus.  I'm a Taurus to the "T".  We are entrepreneurs, stubborn, love food, good with money, sensual, and sexy!

n  What is your birthday and how did you celebrate your last one? My Birthday is Cinco de Mayo!  May 5th.  I usually just like to go out to a nice dinner and have some wine.  Nothing too outrageous.  I'm not one of those "spoil me just because it's my birthday" girls.

Relationships & Sex

n  Is there a guy in your life right now? Yes.  And he's wonderful

n  What do you look for in a man, and what does a guy have to do to get into your panties or into your heart? I was instantly attracted to him, so we fucked right away! Hehe! I didn't hold anything back with this guy. To keep me around you have to be honest, funny, down to earth, and trustworthy (most importantly)

n  Where is the craziest place you've ever had sex? In the back of a minicooper.  It's tiny back there… and leaves bruises. Painful, but worth it! I'll never forget that experience.

Favorites

n  What are your turn-ons? A nice smile, sexy eyes, a nice toned body, and someone who smells good.

n  What are your turn-offs? Bad teeth, bad breath, being overweight, and being stuck up.

n  What is your favorite food and drink? Favorite food is cheese raviolis, and drink, iced tea or lemon water.

n  What is your favorite piece of clothing? Sexy, low-cut  jeans

n  What is your favorite sports team? I don't get into sports too much.

n  What are your favorite physical features on yourself? My lips, and my waistline (people actually think I've had ribs removed) LMAO!!!!!!!

n  What are your favorite physical features on the opposite sex? Lips, eyes, and a nice toned tummy.

Fans & The Future

n  What are you up to right now personally and professionally?  Oh wow, I always have a lot going on.  I'm currently doing DVD reviews for TunaFlix.com weekly (which has been a blast!) Of course I always have my website, SandeeWestgate.com and I've been adding new products to my store, Shopsandee.com and the last thing is, Acai-Wellness.com which I purely believe in.

n  What are your plans for the immediate and long term future?  My website will always come first.  I plan to have that for a long time to come.  In about 2 years (after my divorce settlement is paid off) I will open a new business in the non-adult world to follow my lifelong dream.  I'm really excited about that and can't wait!!!!

n  Where can your fans get in touch with you online and keep up to date on your upcoming projects? Thanks for asking!  First off, my website!  , my blog I update almost daily: http://blog.sandeewestgate.com , my store for personal items:  www.Shopsandee.com , and my free fan forum:  http://www.sandeewestgate.com/forums

Friday, February 08, 2008 

Current mood:  full
Friday, January 04, 2008 
http://blog.sandeewestgate.com  Bookmark it and check back daily!  xoxo, Sandee
Monday, July 02, 2007 

Current mood:  giggly

1) Are your parents married or divorced?  Divorced


2) Vegetarian?  Just about.  I eat Chicken and Turkey


3) Heaven? I hope so


4) Come close to dying? No, thank god


5) What jewelry do you wear? Necklace, watch, earrings and rings


6) Are you eating? Nope


7) Do you eat the stems of broccoli? No, just the flourettes


8) Makeup? Oh yea... love it


9) Virgin? HA!  Not for a long time.


10) Would you ever have plastic surgery?  I already have.  I think it's a great confidence booster.  I also believe in going overboard too.  I hear people all the time say that they think I've had "this and that" done... what can I say?  I've always had full cheeks.  Never in my life injected my face, other than my lips.


11) What do you wear to bed? A thong and a bra for support of the tig ole biddies LOL


12) Have you ever done anything illegal?  Yes, of course


13) Can you roll your tongue?  Yes.. like a taco.


14) Pluck your eyebrows? I think the correct term is "tweeze" and yes I do.


15) What kind of watch(es) do you wear? Gucci, Chanel and Tag


16) Abortion? Eeks.. thank god I've never had to have one.  But I'm thankful it's legal for those than need it. I'm Pro choice all the way


17) Hair color? Naturally a light sandy brown.  I'm trying to go back to dark gradually. 


18) Future child's name? Not sure about this one.


19) Do you snore? heeh!  Rarely.. but I have woken myself up to it a few times when I'm on my back. hehe!


20) If you could go anywhere in the world on a vacation, where would you go? Italy


21) Do you sleep with stuffed animals? I've said it before, I think that's creepy


22) If you won the lottery, what would you do first? Ha!  Pay my attorney all the fee's that accrued during my divorce. (Not cheap)


23) Gold or silver?  Gold for me.  I just like it better with my skin tone


24) Hamburger or hot dog? Neither... don't eat that kind of meat.


25) If you could only eat one food for the rest of your life, what would you choose? Pizza


26) Beach, city, or country? Beach girl ;)


27) Who was the last person you touched? Jeremy


28) Where do you eat? Everywhere in Scottsdale


29) When's the last time you cried? Not sure


30) Have you loved somebody so much it makes you cry?  Of course.  That's a great feeling.


31) Would you ever go out dressed like the opposite sex?  Probably not. 


32) Ever been involved with the police? I had an ID theft when I was 22.  It sucked bad! We found the person and they were arrested.


33) Believe in Santa? I used to of course


34) Do you talk in your sleep? Yes.. haha!  All the time.  Random shit.


35) beach or pool.  A Pool is better.


36) Can you cross your eyes? Yes


37) What's your favorite song at the moment? Boston, More than a feeling


38) Window seat or aisle? Aisle... I don't like to be crowded.


39) Ever met any famous bands/singers/actors? Yes.. many (I lived in LA for 8 years) hehe!


40) Do you feel that you've ever had a truly successful relationship? Well geeez, yes.  I think some relationships run their course and they go as far as they possibly can. It's a hard thing to determine what is successful.  I think if you are happy and in love, it's successful.


41) Do you twirl your spaghetti or cut it? I cut it.  Which is strange... I'm Sicilian.  ( a disgrace to Italians, I know.)


42) Rickie Lake or Oprah Winfrey? Oprah.  She has Dr Oz on, and i love him.


43) Would you ever admit to having done plastic surgery of any kind if confronted?  Yes, I've had plastic surgery and I'm super glad I did.


44) How long does your shower last? Hmm... 10 minutes or so.


45) Do you drive stick? I had a Mini Cooper that was a stick.  I sold it though. 


46) Cake or ice cream? Ice cream


48) What time do you get up? About 7am


49) Have you ever given money to a bum? Yes many times.


50) When was your first crush? Oh when I was pretty young.


51) Where do you wish you were? I'll be there soon. :)


52) Have you ever broken someone's heart? Yes, and I hate that.  Who ever likes hurting someone?? I sure don't.


53) Ever been given a ring? Yes.


54) Longest relationship? 8 years


55) Last gift you received: A member sent me an electricladyland GC


56) Last sport you played? HAAAA!  What are sports?


57). Things you spend a lot of money on? Going out to eat and computer stuff.


58) Where do you live? Scottsdale, AZ (not for long)


60) Favorite Nonalcoholic drink:  Iced Tea with Lemon

Tuesday, June 05, 2007 

Current mood:  amused
Category: Life
1. EVER BEEN GIVEN AN ENGAGEMENT Ring? Yes

2. LONGEST RELATIONSHIP? 8 years

3. LAST GIFT YOU RECEIVED? A fan sent me 2 guess gift cards ($200)

4. EVER DROPPED A CELL PHONE? A million times

5. WHEN'S THE LAST TIME YOU WORKED OUT? Last week

6. THING(S) YOU SPEND A LOT OF MONEY ON? Going out to eat, and computer equipment

7. LAST FOOD YOU ATE? A cupcake

8. FIRST THING YOU NOTICE ABOUT THE OPPOSITE SEX? Their smile

9. ONE FAVORITE SONG? Breaking Benjamin, Breathe

10. WHERE DO YOU LIVE? AZ

11. HIGH SCHOOL YOU ATTENDED: Del Campo

12. CELL PHONE SERVICE PROVIDER: Tmobile

13. FAVORITE MALL STORE: Electric Ladyland

14. LONGEST JOB YOU HAD: This one ;)

15. DO YOU OWN A PAIR OF DICE? No

16. DO YOU PRANK CALL PEOPLE?: I used to, and loved doing it before caller ID

17. LAST WEDDING YOU ATTENDED: Shit, Mine.

18. FIRST FRIEND YOU'D CALL IF YOU WON THE LOTTERY: My mom

19. LAST TIME YOU SAW YOUR BEST FRIEND: over a month ago

20. FAVORITE FAST FOOD RESTAURANT: Carl's Junior

21. BIGGEST LIE YOU HAVE EVER HEARD: "It slipped my mind to tell you I was meeting up with my ex"

23. WHERE'S YOUR FAVORITE PLACE TO EAT WITH FRIENDS? Any Mexican restaurant

24. CAN YOU COOK? Yes, and bake even better

25. WHAT CAR DO YOU DRIVE? Cadillac STS "v" (its fast as a mo fo!)

26. BEST KISSER: My babydoll

27. LAST TIME YOU CRIED?: The other day

28. MOST DISLIKED FOODS: Fish of any kind

29. THING YOU LIKE MOST ABOUT YOURSELF: I'm caring, and genuine

30. THING YOU DISLIKE MOST ABOUT YOURSELF: Sometimes I'm too caring

32. LONGEST SHIFT YOU HAVE WORKED AT A JOB?: I don't remember. I haven't worked for anyone else in years.

33. FAVORITE MOVIE? Anything funny and romantic

34. CAN YOU SING? Eh, nope.

35. LAST CONCERT ATTENDED? I don't remember

36. LAST KISS? 30 min ago ;)

37. LAST MOVIE RENTED: The Secret

38.ONE THING YOU NEVER LEAVE THE HOUSE WITHOUT: My phone

39. FAVORITE VACATION SPOT: Hawaii

43. LAPTOP OR DESKTOP COMPUTER?: Both fool! haha!

44. FAVORITE COMEDIAN? Adam Sandler

45. DO YOU SMOKE? HELL no!

46. SLEEP WITH OR WITHOUT CLOTHES? Just a bra and thong

47. WHO SLEEPS WITH YOU EVERY NIGHT?: My baby

48. DO LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS WORK?: Nope

49. HOW MANY TIMES HAVE YOU BEEN PULLED OVER BY THE POLICE? Too many times to count

50. PANCAKES OR FRENCH TOAST? This one is hard, both!

51. DO YOU LIKE COFFEE?: Yes

52 HOW DO YOU LIKE YOUR EGGS? Scrambled with Cheddar cheese

53. DO YOU BELIEVE IN ASTROLOGY?: Yes big time.

54. LAST PERSON YOU TALKED TO ON THE PHONE?: My ma'ma

55. LAST PERSON ON YOUR MISSED CALL LIST?: My Attorney

56. WHAT WAS THE LAST TEXT MESSAGE YOU RECEIVED?: Again, from my attorney

58 NUMBER OF PILLOWS?: I sleep with one, snuggle with a couple

59. WHAT ARE YOU WEARING RIGHT NOW?: A pink skirt, and a SRH wife beater

60. PICK A LYRIC, ANY LYRIC: Pop lock and drop it

61. WHAT KIND OF JELLY DO YOU LIKE ON YOUR PB & J?: NONE! Gross.

62. CAN YOU PLAY POOL?: Yes... I'm somewhat decent at it

63. CAN YOU SWIM? I'm not the best.. but I can stay afloat

64. FAVORITE ICE CREAM?: Peanut Butter chocolate, or mint chip

65. DO YOU LIKE MAPS? LOVE em!

66. TELL ME A RANDOM FACT ABOUT YOURSELF: I talk in my sleep. haah!

68. EVER ATTEND A THEME PARTY?: Actually, no.

69. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE SEASON: Spring

70. LAST TIME YOU LAUGHED AT SOMETHING STUPID? All the time. I love to laugh.

71. WHAT TIME DID YOU WAKE UP THIS MORNING?: 6:45, I was excited for my baby to come home.

72. BEST THING ABOUT WINTER?: Getting to be cozy by the fireplace

73. LAST TIME A COP GAVE YOU A TICKET?: 5 years ago.

75. NAME OF YOUR FIRST PET?: Lacy

76. DO YOU THINK PIRATES ARE COOL OR OVERRATED? Overrated.

77. WHAT ARE YOU DOING THIS WEEKEND?? Relaxing

78. BIRTHDATE: May 5th

79. WHAT DO YOU WANT TO BE?: I am doing what I want to do, and I will be doing more very soon ;)

85. ARE YOU ON A LAPTOP?: Nope, desktop

87. ARE YOU SMILING?: Nope

89. DO YOU MISS SOMEONE RIGHT NOW?: No, he's home right where he should be

90. IF YOU COULD GO ANYWHERE IN THE WORLD WHERE WOULD YOU GO?: Italy

92. ARE YOU IN HIGH SCHOOL?: it's been 10 years!

93. DO YOU HAVE A CRUSH?: Nope

94. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE NAME? Don't really have one

95. WHAT COLOR IS YOUR BATHING SUIT?: I have a million bathing suits.

96. DOES YOUR SCHOOL START IN AUGUST?: I don't remember

97. DID YOU GO ON VACATION LAST MONTH?: Yes

98. HAVE YOU EVER BEEN ON A CRUISE?: Nope, and have '0' desire to

99. DO YOU HAVE A SISTER?: Yes, I love her very much

100. ARE YOU UPSTAIRS?: Nope

101. ARE YOU IN LOVE?: yes

102. HAVE YOU EVER BEEN IN THE HOSPITAL?: No, thank god

103. DO YOU WISH YOU COULD SEE ANYONE PARTICULAR RIGHT NOW?: Yes, my mom :)

104. WHAT JEWELRY ARE YOU WEARING? A watch

105. WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO AFTER THIS SURVEY?: Go snuggle up on the couch with my babies.
Saturday, June 02, 2007 

Current mood:  bored

    1.When's the last time you ran? Ha! A week ago? It was on an  elliptical.. not sure if that counts.

     2. Do your jeans have rips, tears, and holes in them? I have a couple pairs I wont throw away!  I love that they're all ripped up and soft.

3.What are you dreading right now? the next 2 days L  Come home soon baby!


4. Did you celebrate 4/20? Nope


5. Favorite ice cream? Mint chip, or peanut butter chocolate from Baskin Robbins

6. When was your last doctor's visit? No F*ing clue

7. Do you get the full 8 hours of sleep a night? Usually more.

8. If anyone came to your house on your "lazy days" what would they find you wearing? Sweats, anything cumfy

9. Do you own a pair of Converse?  Nope


10. Do you eat raw cookie dough?  Very rarely


11. How do you eat oreos? I just bite into them, nothing special


12. Have you ever stayed online for a very long time waiting for someone?  Nope

13. Are you cocky?  I don't think anyone would describe me as cocky at all.

14. Could you live without a computer? Fuck no!  I'd be lost.  Haha! Put in a romantic comedy and chill.

15. Do you wear your shoes in the house? Umm.. sometimes I do.

16. What do you do when you're sad?  Cry, feel sorry for myself! Haha!

17. Who would you call first if you won the lottery? My mommy

18. Last time you saw your best friends? More than a month ago 'miss you girl!'


19. Who or what sleeps with you? Jeremy, and my puppies when daddy isn't home.

20. Is anyone on your bad side right now?  Oh yes. *sigh*


21. What jewelry are you wearing?  Nothing right now. I'm in my cumfys

22. How do most people spell your name?  Sandy (annoying as hell)


23. Would you wear a boy/girlfriends clothes?  Not out, around the house… hell yes

24. Where do you work?  From home, unless there's a photoshoot


25. What are you doing tomorrow? Working on a new website I'm building.  I'm a bit of a workaholic.  I will sit online for hours workin' my tush off


26. Is Justin Timberlake becoming the next Michael Jackson? IDFK

27. Favorite name for a girl? Umm… I've always liked Savanna

28. Favorite name for a boy? Hmm.. not sure

29. Will you keep your last name if you get married? I never changed my name with my husband.  Ironic we're now divorced.

30. Your favorite restaurant you don't get to eat much at? I miss my favorite LA restaurants.. Crème de la crepe, and AGO

31. When is the last time you left your house? This afternoon

32. What noise do you hear? The TV in the other room (the E channel)

33. Would you survive in prison? Eww.. I'd have to, I guess.

34. Next concert you hope to go to? Saosin is coming to AZ soon ;)

35. What was the last thing you ate? A pot pie LMAO!  (Sounds ghetto)


36. Who was the last person you said "i love you" to and meant it? Jeremy


37. Who is the youngest in your family?  I am the baby, I have one older sister


38. Do you know anyone with the same name as you? Nope, but it's strange when dudes are named "Sandee"  That creeps me out


39. How many shoes do you own? Too many to count! I love shoe shopping


40. What's for dinner?   Pizza!!!!!!!!!! (I'd eat it every night if I could)

41. What's the last thing you purchased? Treats for my doggies.

42. Where is your cell phone? Next to me at all times


43. Is your phone on vibrate or ring? It's a song ringer


44. What brand are your pants right now? Bebe, work out pants

45. Did you eat breakfast this morning? Yup.. Special K cereal

46. What irritates you most on the internet?  Slow connection speeds

47. What song best describes your life right now?  4 words to choke upon, Bullet for my Valentine

48. Do you own expensive perfume/cologne? Yes, I love perfume

49. Do you like sushi? I think I'm the only person in the world that eats zero fish, or seafood.

Saturday, May 12, 2007 

Current mood:  tired
Category: Web, HTML, Tech
Sunday, May 06, 2007 

Current mood:  grateful
Category: Life

I had posted a blog yesterday and personally decided to remove it last night.  (Although I still believe it to be 100% true and had no intention of sparing that other persons feelings )  After thinking about it a bit, I felt it would cause un-necessary drama and bad energy that I absolutely don't want or need.  Part of why I feel so much happier in my life recently is because I have left all of the negative crap behind.  (Including negative, fake, non loyal people)

 

I realized posting that blog yesterday was taking a step backwards.  I heard all kinds of bullshit lies and stories about what "supposedly happened" from stupid lurkers for long enough.  I know a lot of you who knew the other side of the "story" asked how I could write something of that nature.  Well, the simple answer is.... it's the way I feel and the truth.  It's how I know things to be in my reality.   You can buy into the stupid LA facade and bullshit if you want.  Believe what you will.  But until yesterday, you only knew 1 side of the story. I just know I have finally found who I really am, and left all that stupid petty shit and people behind.  I don't miss it one bit.

 

It's ironic; my ex recently told me I sounded "lost".  And maybe had lost my direction in life.  lol!  The funny thing is, it couldn't be farther from the truth.   Like I said before... I finally feel like "me" again.   I'm happier than I've ever been and most of all, at peace with my life.   

 

I know my job has put an irreversible stereo type on me.  But for those who really know me, they know my job is just that.  A job.  My personal life extends far beyond the "porn world"  In fact that's what I'm happy to say I feel relieved from the most (after my divorce).    People believe what they want to believe.  But being away from Los Angeles (and a certain person) has really allowed me to open my eyes to other things in life.  To experience more out of life.   I can't express the fulfillment I feel these days, that I never did before.