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Gender: Female
Status: In a Relationship
Age: 20
Sign: Pisces

City: Parsippany
State: New Jersey
Country: US
Signup Date: 3/24/2005

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Monday, October 09, 2006 
?WHEN A GiRL MiSSES YOU.
Body: GIRL FACTS:

When a girl bumps into your arm
while walking she wants
you to hold her hand

When she wants a hug
she will just stand there

When u break a girls heart,
she still feels it when
u run into each other 3 years later

When a girl is quiet,
millions of things are running through her
mind.

When a girl is not arguing,
she is thinking deeply.

When a girl looks at you with eyes full of
questions,
she is wondering how long you will be
around.

When a girl answers, "I'm fine, " after a
few seconds,
she is not at all fine.

When a girl stares at you,
she is wondering why you are so
wonderful.

When a girl lays her head on your chest,
she is wishing for you to be hers forever.

When a girl says that she can't live
without you,
she has made up her mind that you are
her future.

When a girl says, "I miss you, "
no one in this world can miss you more
than that

When a girl is mean to you after a breakup
she wants you back, but she's
scared she'll get hurt and knows
you're gone forever




Guy Facts:

When a guy calls you,
he wants to be with you

When a guy is quiet,
He's listening to you...

When a guy is not arguing,
He realizes he's wrong

When a guy says, "I'm fine, " after a few
minutes,
he means it

When a guy stares at you,
he wishes you would care about him and
wonders if you do

When you're laying your head on a guy's
chest,
he has the world

When a guy calls you everyday,
he is in love

When a (good) guy tells you he loves you,
he means it

When a guy says he can't live without you,
he's with you till your done

When a guy says, "I miss you, "
he misses you more than you could have
ever missed him or anything else
Wednesday, September 20, 2006 

Current mood:  cheerful
1. Guys hate h o e s even though they have sex with them!
(oh yeah..you're not "popular" if you've slept with more than 5 guys..you're a HO)

2. "Hey, are you busy?" or "Are you doing something?" ~ two phrases guys open with to stop from stammering on the phone.

3... Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

4. Before they call, guys try to plan out a little about what they're gonna say so there aren't awkward pauses, but once he's on the phone he forgets it all and makes it up as he goes.

5. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.

6. Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him.

7. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. Unless they're goin for the let-her-complain-to-you-and-then-have-her-realize-how-wonderful-and-nice-you-are method.

8. A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.

9. Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they're still loved.

10. Don't talk about your guy friends to your boyfriend!!

11. Guys get jealous easily!

12. Guys are more emotional than they'd like people to think.

13. Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!..uh...nevermind.." would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he'll assume he did something wrong and he'll obsess about it trying to figure it out.

14. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.

15. Guys hate asking parents for money to buy girls presents. So they come up with ideas like saving their lunch money for a week. But it never works because guys are always hungry so they end up asking the parents for money anyway.

16. Girls are guys' weaknesses.

17. Guys are very open about themselves.

18. It's good to test a guy first before you trust him. But don't let him wait too long.

19. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.

20. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.


21. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

22. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.

23. Guys will brag about anything.

24. Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. We rarely use beautiful. If a guy uses that, he likes you.

25. Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn't notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant.

26. Guys seek for advice from girls not other guys. Because most guys think alike, so if one guy's confused, then we're all confused.

27. Any guy could write out a rulebook or advice book for flirting, but no guy can write out a book about relationships.

28. Try to be as straightforward as possible.

29. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he's too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won't be mature and grown up.

30. If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl.


31. No matter how much guys talk about asses and boobs, personality is key.

32. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.

33. Guys worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being whipped.

34. If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he's probably faking it and is spazzing inside.

35. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that.

36. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me."

37. Guys don't really have final decisions.

38. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn't happen that often, so when it does, you know something's up.

39. If your best guy friend seems to avoid you or is never around when you're with your boyfriend, he's probably jealous and likes you.

40. When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he's definitely thinking something.


41. Guys like femininity not feebleness.

42. Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do.

43. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.

44. Don't be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily.

45. Everything in moderation. Put on makeup, wear perfume. Just not too much.

46. Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys.

47. Guys hate rejection, but they hate being led on even more.

48. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them.

49. A guy would give his left nut to be able to read a girl's mind for a day.

50. No guy can handle all his problems by his own. He's just too stubborn to admit it.


51. Not all guys are w h o r e s. Just because ONE is a jackass doesnt mean he represents ALL of us.

52. We don't like girls who are too skinny.

53. We love it when girls talk about their boobs.

54. Always make sure you know what kind of stuff your getting into before making out with a guy ...like wheather it's a one time deal or not ....

55. Believe it or not shy guys are the most easiest to talk to..it may not seem right but trust me they will start opening up like books after you just ask them questions about their lives and unoticable tell them about yours...

56. When a guy hits your butt it means that he wants you sexually

57. Even if they refuse it all guys are ticklish on the ribs..

58. Guys love neck rubs and if he lets you keep doing it ..it means that he really likes you or his neck really hurts...
Thursday, August 24, 2006 

Current mood:  sad
Category: Romance and Relationships
Written by guys to all the girls out there
_______________________________________________

We don't care if you talk to other guys.

We don't care if you're friends with other guys.

But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off.

It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there.

We don't care if a guy calls you, but at 2 in the morning we do get a little concerned. Nothing is that important at 2 a.m. that it can't wait till the morning.
_______________________________________________
Also, when we tell you you're pretty/ beautiful/ gorgeous/ cute/ stunning, we freaking mean it.

Don't tell us we're wrong.

We'll stop trying to convince you.

The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence. But not cockiness.
_______________________________________________
Yeah, you can quote me.

Push us down on the couch and make a move once in a while. We like that aggressiveness about you and we like the unexpected. When we know you're really happy, it makes us happy too. _______________________________________________
Don't be mad when we hold the door open.
Take Advantage of the mood im in.

LET US PAY FOR YOU!

DON'T "FEEL BAD" [ if we dont feel bad dont that make us gold diggers ?]

We enjoy doing it (Paying for you).

It's expected.

Smile and say "thank you."

_______________________________________________
Kiss us when no one's watching.

If you kiss us when you know nobody's looking we'll be more impressed.
_______________________________________________
You don't have to get dressed up for us.

If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own.

We like you for WHO you are and not WHAT you are.

honestly, i think a girl looks more beautiful when she's just in her pj's. or my tshirt and boxers, not all dolled up

_______________________________________________
Don't take everything we say seriously.

Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it.

Don't get angry easily.
_______________________________________________
Stop using magazines/media as your bible.

***Don't talk about how "hott" Morris Chesnutt, Brad Pitt, Johnny Depp, Orlando Bloom, or any other celebrity or any other guy for that matter is in front of us.

It's boring, and WE DON'T CARE.
You have girlfriends for that.
_______________________________________________
Whatever happened to the word "handsome"/"beautiful"

I'd be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with "Hey
handsome!" instead of "Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/ sexy" or whatever else you can think of. TRY IT.

on the other hand im not sayin i wounldnt like it either ; )
_______________________________________________
Girls, I cannot stress this enough:
IF YOU AREN'T BEING TREATED RIGHT BY A GUY, DON'T WAIT FOR HIM TO CHANGE. DITCH HIS SORRY, DISCRACE-TO-THE-MALE-POPULATION BUTT, AND FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL TREAT YOU WITH UTTER RESPECT


Someone who will honor your morals.

Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest, and not cry instead.

Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes.

Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel.

Someone who will stay with you every second, just because they love you.

Someone who will stop what theyre doing just to look you in the
eyes....and say "i love you" ...



....AND ACTUALLY MEAN IT!

GURLS GIVE NICE GUYS A CHANCE

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Guys repost this if you agree

Girls repost this if you think it's cute

Every Guy who isn't a jerk will agree with this, so we hope that all the girls that read this will repost this
Tuesday, August 22, 2006 

Current mood:  cheerful
SOMETHING TO OFFEND EVERYONE!


What do you call two Mexicans playing basketball?
Juan on Juan

What is a Yankee?
The same as a quickie, but a guy can do it alone.

What is the difference between a Harley and a Hoover?
The position of the dirt bag

Why is divorce so expensive?
Because it's worth it.

What do you see when the Pillsbury Dough Boy bends over?
Doughnuts?

Why is air a lot like sex?
Because it's no big deal unless you're not getting any.

What do you call a smart blonde?
A golden retriever.

What do attorneys use for birth control?
Their personalities.

What's the difference between a girlfriend and wife?
45 lbs

What's the difference between a boyfriend and husband?
45 minutes

Why do men want to marry virgins?
They can't stand criticism.

Why is it so hard for women to find men that are sensitive, caring, and good-looking?
Because those men already have boyfriends.

What's the difference between a new husband and a new dog?
After a year, the dog is still excited to see you

What makes men chase women they have no intention of marrying?
The same urge that makes dogs chase cars they have no intention of driving.

Why don't bunnies make noise when they have sex?
Because they have cotton balls.

What's the difference between a porcupine and BMW?
A porcupine has the pricks on the outside.

Why does Mike Tyson cry during sex?
Mace will do that to you.

Why did OJ Simpson want to move to West Virginia ?
Everyone has the same DNA.

Why do men find it difficult to make eye contact?
Breasts don't have eyes.

Did you hear about the dyslexic Rabbi?
He walks around saying "Yo."

Why do drivers' education classes in Redneck schools use the car only on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays?
Because on Tuesday and Thursday, the Sex Ed class uses it.

Where does an Irish family go on vacation?
A different bar.

Did you hear about the Chinese couple that had a retarded baby?
They named him "Sum Ting Wong".

What would you call it when an Italian has one arm shorter than the other?
A speech impediment

What does it mean when the flag at the Post Office is flying at half-mast?
They're hiring.

What's the difference between a southern zoo and a northern zoo?
A southern zoo has a description of the animal on the front of the cage along with...
"a recipe".

How do you get a sweet little 80-year-old lady to say the F word?
Get another sweet little 80-year-old lady to yell *BINGO*!

What's the difference between a northern fairytale and a southern fairytale?
A northern fairytale begins "Once upon a time..." -A southern fairytale begins "Y'all ain'tgonnabelievethisshit....

Why is there no Disneyland in China?
No one's tall enough to go on the good rides..
Tuesday, July 25, 2006 
Introducing....

THE REALITY CHICK BUZZ THE BOOK contest!

The PRIZES:

(1) Your choice of either an iPod Shuffle, OR a fifty dollar Amazon.com gift certificate
(2) An autographed copy of REALITY CHICK by Lauren Barnholdt
(3) A copy of the August issue of Teen People, which lists REALITY CHICK as a Can't-Miss Pick for August
(4) Free tuition to a session of Lauren's YA writing class

THE CONTEST:

STEP ONE: Simply copy and paste this whole message (including the info about the contest) into any blog, message board, email list, or myspace bulletin.

REALITY CHICK by Lauren Barnholdt is NOW IN STORES!

Going away to college means total independence and freedom. Unless of
course your freshman year is taped and televised for all the world to
watch. On uncensored cable.

Sweet and normal Ally Cavanaugh is one of five freshpeople shacking up
on In the House, a reality show filmed on her college campus. (As if
school isn't panic-inducing enough!) The cameras stalk her like
paparazzi, but they also capture the fun that is new friends, old
crushes, and learning to live on your own.

Sure, the camera adds ten pounds, but with the freshman fifteen a given anyway, who cares?
Ally's got bigger issues -- like how her long-distance bf can watch her
loopy late-night "episode" with a certain housemate...

Freshman year on film.
It's outrageous.
It's juicy.
And like all good reality TV, it's impossible to turn off.

IN STORES NOW!

Check out Lauren on the web at www.laurenbarnholdt.com or on her myspace at www.myspace.com/laurenbarnholdt

STEP TWO -- Email Lauren at lauren (at) laurenbarnholdt.com and let her know you've posted about the contest and the book, and you'll be entered to win the prize pack! The winner will be picked at random on September 1st. The more places you post, the more entries you get. Have fun and good luck!!!
Sunday, June 25, 2006 
GIRLS LIKE GUYS TO...

1-touch their waist
2-talk to them
3-share secrets
4-give her your jacket
5-kiss them slowly
6-hug them
7-hold her
8-laugh with her
9-invite her somewhere
10-let her be with you when your with your friends
11-smile with her
12-take pics with her
13-pull her onto your lap
14-when she says she loves you more, deny it. fight back
15-when her friends say i love her more than you, deny it. fight back and hug her tight so she cant get to her friends. it makes her feel loved
16-always hug her and say i love you when you see her
17-kiss her unexpectedly
18-hug her from behind around the waist
19-tell her she beautiful not sexy!
20-tell her the way you feel about her!
21-kiss her on the lips
22-DONT ask her to buy you stuff. you buy HER stuff
23-tell her what feels good
24-make her feel loved
25-buy them stuff. like small things can still help
26-don't lie to her
27-dont cheat on her
28-take her anywhere she wants
29-txt messege her in the morning and tell her have a good day at school, and how much you miss her or w/e
30-be there for her when ever she needs you, & even though she doesn't need you juss be there so she'll know that she can always count on you
Currently reading:
Second Helpings : A Novel
By Megan Mccafferty
Release date: 22 April, 2003
Friday, May 12, 2006 

Tonight the Board of Education held a meeting at Parsippany High School where they discussed cutting the athletic teams' budget by $83,000--that's approximately $40,000 from each side of town. Their original plan was to cut swimming, golf, and hockey... basically all the teams that have to practice at an off-school campus facility.

For more than an hour an astounding number of people stood up and presented their cases against this idea. In the end the Board decided to agree to the $83,000 cut, but they would save the debate for how the cuts were to be distributed for a later meeting.

So right now the best case scenario is that all athletic teams get equal percentages of budget cuts. In the worst case scenario, the three aforementioned teams get completely annihilated or something, to put it frankly, CRAPPY like that.

It's not good enough.

The problem with this debate isn't over how the cut is to be distributed. That implies that the decision to cut the budget was already passed, and it was. We cannot change it now. No, our problem lies instead in the participation of everyone who are affected by decisions such as this one.

For several years in a row now, the school referendums, meaning the budget proposals for the upcoming school year, have been soundly defeated, mostly by a group of actively conservative senior citizens who have no children and yet live in big, expensive houses that really rack up their taxes. Okay, I'm kidding, I don't know if they are Republicans or Democrats and I don't know where they live. But in my freshman year, two years ago, the referendum was defeated by nearly a 3-to-1 ratio of nays to yeas.

The Parsippany Troy Hills school district educates approximately 7,000 students. That's approximately, oh, let's say 3,500 parents/guardians, if we assume that many students are related. If every single parent went out and voted on the night of the referendum, the school budget would have been passed and student athletes would NOT be worrying about what the hell is going to get cut next year. (Not to mention we would've also gotten a bunch of cool stuff.)

The reactions of different district employees at the meeting were interesting. Here is a sample, as told to me by friends who had heard it earlier in the meeting:

- Some lady: I would resign from my job and give my $5,000 pension [something like that] to the athletics department!

- Lunch ladies: Maybe they should stop giving us a raise every single year. Every other year is good enough.

How's that for supporting educational purposes?

It shouldn't be all about the money. What it comes down to is diversity. We students are at an age where we are dying to try out different things, to see which one strikes our fancy and lights the fire in our hearts. Two years ago they cut the drama department from PHHS, not because there wasn't enough interest, but because the higher authorities deemed the program unnecessary.

I don't want to be here the day that all art and music programs are decimated, and the only sports left will be the Big Three: football, basketball, and baseball. I don't want my theoretical kids to go to schools where they won't be able to experiment with these different programs. I don't think YOU would want YOUR kids to live in a world where football, basketball, and baseball are the dictators of high school sports. Not only is it a throwback to machismo (male dominance and superiority, for how many girls are on the football team??), it also equates a student athlete to only being a person who plays at least one of the Big Three.

Currently there are hundreds of student athletes at PHHS. I myself am a student athlete. But should the future of high school athletics come down to the Big Three, the only admired student athletes would be those who weigh 200 pounds, measure in at six-foot-three, and hit home runs like a mofo. And I, along with, oh, 90% of the student population, would definitely not fit in any of those categories. It would mean that my swimming accomplishments, or my classmates' breaking records in track, or the soccer team's excellent reputation, would all come to nada. Who, us? Student athletes? Nahhh. After all, we wouldn't have the opportunity to do what we have done.

Limiting choices for this fragile, blooming age group (however sappy that may sound, it is true: we are growing and need the diversity to find out what we really like to do) will lead to a nation of like-minded, synchronized people who cannot think for themselves. The human race is about differences. That's what makes us, us. Too many students already zombie-walk through school apathetically and then have no idea what they're interested in and what they want to do with their lives. They end up majoring in something generic and then sit in a cubicle for the rest of their seemingly never-ending bore of a life, never seeing daylight and only coming out at night to drink their woes away. (Like evil, human-hating vampires.)

Do we need an education system that would actually promote this...this blandness? I want to meet people who have passion, who have dreams. They are never going to get this unless they are given the opportunity to experiment with choices.

You might be wondering what this has to do with the athletic program budget cut, since beyond college few people actually participate in sports anyway. (Hence the development of couch potato-ism and beerbellies. Oh, and heart attacks at 35.) I guess this has more to do with extracurriculars in general. I happen to be very active in PHHS's music program, which I know gets caught under the shit all the time for being an unnecessary luxury. Marching band? Pssh, who needs marching band? And no one comes to the jazz band concert anyway; why should we continue it?

Is that what you think? Anyone who thinks this should meet the people in the jazz band. These are the hardcore musicians: talented, confident, amazing people. Some of the most motivated people I have ever known are in that band room every Wednesday after school until 4:30. Maybe they wouldn't have discovered their talent and passion if the school hadn't offered the music program. What would they have done then? I don't want to see them sitting at desks sorting through papers until they're old and wrinkly.

At the bottom line, what is more important: money or heart? Money cannot buy you passion, cannot buy you love--except love for more money. I'm not going to settle for cutting our choices. Like the lunch lady said, most teachers would go without a raise every year in order for their students' education to be the fullest and best. If they were not willing, they wouldn't be teaching in the first place.

The Board of Education is going to hold another meeting in about a month. They will discuss how exactly the budget cuts are going to be distributed amongst the teams. I urge you all to go up there and say your part in it. Swimmers, golfers, hockey players, football players, musicians, thespians... all of you go. This isn't just a question of whether or not I will have a school sport to do next year. This is about whether or not we should let suit-wearing men and women who do NOT walk through PHS's unheated hallways in the middle of winter, who do NOT attend matches and meets and championships, who probably do not even talk to high-schoolers--This is about whether or not we should let these people decide what choices we are allowed. If the higher authorities get their way this time, it opens the way for them to do more of this in upcoming years: to cut music programs, art department funding, more sports teams, even the selection of courses we have.

The problem and solution both lie within ourselves--and our parents, since we are not legally emancipated. I encourage more active participation from the people who these decisions affect. Those of legal age, vote. Those not of legal age...well, encourage your parents to vote. Form petitions. Make your voice be heard. Speak up at these Board of Ed meetings. The Board members do not hate adolescents; tonight, they were extremely impressed by the number of young people who stood up and made their points in intelligent, mature speeches. They WANT to hear more from us.

Let's make sure they get what they want.

Spread the word about this article, readers, and thank you so much for your time.

- Stephanie Su

Thursday, September 22, 2005 
Hey girls...

Don't assume that guys won't care where you are, because we do. It makes us feel secure to know that our girlfriends aren't off flirting with guys we've never heard of.

Also, don't talk about your ex-boyfriends. We never have, nor never will respect/like them. Nor do we want to hear about them. When you do, you're asking your boyfriend to be jealous. You're asking your boyfriend to lose trust.

On that, don't hump everything that walks into the room. We don't care if you talk to other guys. We don't care if you're "friends" with other guys. But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off. It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there.

Also, when we tell you you're pretty/beautiful/ gorgeous/ cute/stunning, we freaking mean it. Don't tell us we're wrong. We'll stop trying to convince you. The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence. Yeah, you can quote me.

Don't be mad when we hold the door open. Smile and say "thank you." Let us pay for you. Don't "feel bad, "we enjoy doing it. It's expected. Smile and say - everybody together now..."thank you."

Kiss us when no one's watching. If you kiss us when you know nobody's looking, we'll be more impressed.

You don't have to get dressed up for us. If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have, put on every kind of make-up you own. We like you for WHO you are, not WHAT you are.

Don't flirt with guys when we're not around. We'll find out, trust me. We have eyes everywhere. And when we find out, we're pissed. Not nessecarily with the guy(s) you flirted with, more so with you.

Don't take everything we say seriously. Sarcasm is a beautiful thing, see the beauty in it.

Don't get angry easily.

Stop using magazines/media as your bible. Don't talk about how hot Tom Cruise or Brad Pitt is in front of us. It's boring, and we don't care. You have girl friends for that.

Whatever happened to the word "handsome?" Why does everything have to be "hot/sexy?" I'd be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with a "hey handsome" instead of a "hey baby, stud, cutie, sexy" whatever you can think of. Claiming girls or guys to be "hot" shows immaturity.

Girls, I cannot stress this enough, if you aren't being treated right by a guy, don't wait for him to change. Ditch his sorry, disgrace-to-the-male-population ass, and find someone who will treat you with utter respect. Someone who will honor your morals. Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest...

Guys repost this if you agree with this
Girls repost if you think it's cute
Sunday, September 04, 2005 

Current mood:  uncomfortable

as of now:

1. ap calc - berkowitz
2. french 3 h - gomez
3. health mp1 - bernabe
3. gym mp2,3,4 - klebez
4. english 3 h - kadar
5. ap chem 2 - pompei
6. wind ensemble h - decicco/trimmer
7. apush 2 - maccarella
8. creative writing - brown
9. ap chem 2 lab mon, tues - pompei

chem or no chem?

Wednesday, June 15, 2005 

Current mood:  tired
Dr Phil's Test:
Here you go .. try this. Below is Dr. Phil's test. Dr. Phil scored 55; he did this test on Oprah-she got a 38 . Some folks pay a lot of money to find this stuff out.

Read on, this is very interesting! Don't be overly sensitive! The following is pretty accurate and it only takes 2 minutes. Take this test for yourself and send it to your friends.

The person who sent it placed their score in the subject box. Please do the same before forwarding to your friends. ( Send it back to the person who sent it to you). Don't peek but begin the test as you scroll down and answer. Answers are for who you are now....not who you were in the past. Have pen or pencil and paper ready. This is a real test given by the Human Relations Dept. at many of the major corporations today. It helps them get better insight concerning their employees and prospective employees.

It's only 10 simple questions, so..... grab a pencil and paper, keeping track of your letter answers to each question. Make sure to change the subject of the e-mail to read YOUR total.

When you are finished, forward this to friends/family, and also send it to the person who sent this to you. Make sure to put YOUR score in the subject box. Ready??

BEGIN!

1. When do you feel your best?
a) in the morning
b) during the afternoon and early evening
c) late at night

2. You usually walk...
a) fairly fast, with long steps
b) fairly fast, with little steps
c) less fast head up, looking the world in the face
d) less fast, head down
e) very slowly

3. When talking to people you..
a) stand with your arms folded
b) have your hands clasped
c) have one or both your hands on your hips
d) touch or push the person to whom you are talking
e) play with your ear,touch your chin,or smooth your hair

4. When relaxing, you sit with..
a) your knees bent with your legs neatly side by side
b) your legs crossed
c) your legs stretched out or straight
d) one leg curled under you

5. When something really amuses you, you react with...
a) big appreciated laugh
b) a laugh, but not a loud one
c) a quiet chuckle
d) a sheepish smile

6. When you go to a party or social gathering you...
a) make a loud entrance so everyone notices you
b) make a quiet entrance, looking around for someone you know
c) make the quietest entrance, trying to stay unnoticed

7. You're working very hard, concentrating hard, and you're interrupted.....
a) welcome the break
b) feel extremely irritated
c) vary between these two extremes

8. Which of the following colors do you like most?
a) Red or orange
b) black
c) yellow or light blue
d) green
e) dark blue or purple
f) white
g) brown or gray

9. When you are in bed at night, in those last few moments before going to sleep you are...
a) stretched out on your back
b) stretched out face down on your stomach
c) on your side, slightly curled
d) with your head on one arm
e) with your head under the covers

10. You often dream that you are...
a) falling
b) fighting or struggling
c) searching for something or somebody
d) flying or floating
e) you usually have dreamless sleep
f) your dreams are always pleasant

POINTS:
1. (a) 2 (b) 4 (c) 6
2. (a) 6 (b) 4 (c) 7 (d) 2 (e) 1
3. (a) 4 (b) 2 (c) 5 (d) 7 (e) 6
4. (a) 4 (b) 6 (c) 2 (d) 1
5. (a) 6 (b) 4 (c) 3 (d) 5 (e) 2
6. (a) 6 (b) 4 (c) 2
7. (a) 6 (b) 2 (c) 4
8. (a) 6 (b) 7 (c) 5 (d) 4 (e ) 3 (f) 2 (g) 1
9. (a) 7 (b) 6 (c) 4 (d) 2 (e) 1
10. (a) 4 (b) 2 (c) 3 (d) 5 (e) 6 (f) 1


Now add up the total number of points.

OVER 60 POINTS: Others see you as someone they should "handle with care." You're seen as vain, self-centered, and who is extremely dominant. Others may admire you, wishing they could be more like you, but don't always trust you, hesitating to become too deeply involved with you.

51 TO 60 POINTS: Others see you as an exciting, highly volatile, rather impulsive personality; a natural leader, who's quick to make decisions, though not always the right ones. They see you as bold and adventuresome, someone who will try anything once; someone who takes chances and enjoys an adventure. They enjoy being in your company because of the excitement you radiate.

41 TO 50 POINTS: Others see you as fresh, lively, charming, amusing, practical, and always interesting; someone who's constantly in the center of attention, but sufficiently well-balanced not to let it go to their head. They also see you as kind, considerate, and understanding; someone who'll always cheer them up and help them out.

31 TO 40 POINTS: Others see you as sensible, cautious, careful and practical. They see you as clever, gifted, or talented, but modest. Not a person who makes friends too quickly or easily, but someone who's extremely loyal to friends you do make and who expect the same loyalty in return. Those who really get to know you realize it takes a lot to shake your trust in your friends, but equally that it takes you a long time to get over if that trust is ever broken.

21 TO 30 POINTS: Your friends see you as painstaking and fussy. They see you as very cautious, extremely careful, a slow and steady plodder. It would really surprise them if you ever did something impulsively or on the spur of the moment, expecting you to examine everything carefully from every angle and then, usually decide against it. They think this reaction is caused partly by your careful nature.

UNDER 21 POINTS: People think you are shy, nervous, and indecisive, someone who needs looking after, who always wants someone else to make the decisions and who doesn't want to get involved with anyone or anything! They see you as a worrier who always sees problems that don't exist. Some people think you're boring. Only those who know you well know that you aren't.

Now forward this to others, and put your score in subject box Dr.Phil's Test, "I'm a XX".