Okay, so I got 2 people's opinion, thanks for everyone input!  I am seriously thinking about going West, because since ive moved here at my Moms, we've done nothing but fight.  Buddy and I are more down on each other, than trying to help each other.  I believe Shaunna is right, iI need to try it, if it doesn't work then  I can move back home. 

At least I have a place of my own down there.  Aunt Janie is letting us move in a trailor on her property we can move in.  That is starting to sound comforting. My own place again, and not getting told I am raising my kids wrong. 

I have a question for everyone!?! I got a really good job offer with Lifetouch Portraits, and I tuned it down because it is to much travel for me and 2 little children.  However, my husband can't seem to find a job here in East TN, and has a job offer in West TN.  Scotts Hill isn't that bad, it is a VERY small town (as small as Briceville). I called  Henderson County School Board and Scotts Hill Elementary School seems to be a very good school. The only 2 problems I have is one: No EARLY HEAD START; two: I have no job.  I am really wanting to stay here at home for my family.  I love my parents and my in laws but I know we need to get out from under there wings and get back out on our own.  Please can I have everyone's oppinion?

WELL KCS (KNOX CO) CALLED TONIGHT 1AM TELLING ME THEY FOUND JAMES IN THE HOLSTON AREA WITH 2 OTHER INDIVIDUALS WHO HAD WARRENTS ON THEM, THEY ADVISED JAMES TO LEAVE AND GO HOME OR GO BACK TO HIS MOTHERS WHERE HE WAS HEADED WHEN HE LEFTED FROM MY HOUSE. THAT IS ALL I KNOW FOR NOW, I AM STILL WAITING ON OFFICER BURNNETT TO CALL ME BACK SO ILL LET YOU ALL KNOW WHEN I KNOW MORE!

Before I was a Mom I never tripped over toys or forgot words to a lullaby.
I didn't worry whether or not my plants were poisonous.
I never thought about immunizations.

Before I was a Mom - I had never been puked on.
Pooped on.
Drooled on.
Chewed on.
Peed on.
I had complete control of my mind and my thoughts.
I slept all night.

Before I was a Mom I never held down a screaming child so doctors could do tests.
Or give shots.
I never looked into teary eyes and cried.
I never got gloriously happy over a simple little grin.
I never sat up for hours watching a baby sleep.

Before I was a Mom I never held a sleeping baby just because I didn't want to put it down.
I never felt my heart break into a million pieces when I couldn't stop the hurt.
I never knew that something so small could affect my life so much.
I never knew that I could love someone so much.
I never knew I would love being a Mom.

Before I was a Mom - I didn't know the feeling of having my heart outside my body.
I didn't know how special it could feel to feed a hungry baby.
I didn't know that bond between a mother and her child.
I didn't know that something so small could make me feel so important and happy.
Before I was a Mom - I had never gotten up in the middle of the night every 10 minutes to make sure all was okay.
I had never known the warmth, The joy, The love, The heartache, The wonderment or the satisfaction of being a Mom.
I didn't know I was capable of feeling so much before I was a Mom.

Send this to someone who you think is a special Mom , I just did.
And remember that behind every successful mother... Is a basket of dirty laundry"