I'm sitting here in shock.
I know there is such a thing as forgiveness. I do believe in it, but there are certain times when a person has done you so wrong in the past time and time again where you have to be like, I forgive, but I can't forget..and move on.
I know a lot of you reading this will be like, "She hating. She jealous."
But it's not like that. I hate to see any of my friends get hurt. And if one of my female friends was doing this, I would react the same way.
So don't get it twisted.
And it would be different if it was with one of my other male friends (some who I know are dogs and ho's)...then if the stuff happened, I'd be like, "That's your karma."
But when you see a good man who is holding on to hopes of having someone that's going to love and be faithful to him...who wants to do the right thing, and work hard...and not be out in the streets trying to find the next big thing whenever you mess up...I think the person should straighten her act up and do what is necessary to get in alignment with what he needs.
If not, don't put him through any more pain, and leave him be.
Because this person is my friend, I am going to stand on the sidelines. He and I have had this talk, about the history, about the dishonesty...about the number of things that have gone down....and also about how there hasn't been enough healing time between the first person and this current thing.
And I'm going to pray that everything is going to work out all right...because I hope for his sake as well as hers that it does.
Because if not....let's just say that I will not hold my tongue when it comes to my true friends --and that isn't meddlesome...that's love.
Because goodness knows, I would want someone to do the same for me.
Just had to get that off my chest.
Peace.