So a friend asked me "how can I trust him" I gave this person a pretty bad answer.  I basically said don’t trust anyone.  This is really bad advice.  There are many people that I don’t trust.  I actually only trust a few people at all. 

In theory every relationship is based on trust.  Ive really been thinking about this and I don’t think it is a good thing to base relationships on.  (now hear me out)

Now there are different types of trust.  Of course you probably don’t want to lie and cheat on the person that you are with.  This is a pretty obvious thing.  But maybe one should not let everything in their head come out. 

Maybe there are some things that your significant other does not need to know. 

For example: past relationships.  This is probably something that really isn’t that important to know because this usually lowers trust. 

Another example:  the people that you text/talk to /message /etc  don’t have to be known.  Especially if you talk to a lot of people.  This also lowers trust.

These aren’t really  secrets.  But they can keep people from thinking things that aren’t true. 

This may not be very good advise so I want everyone to remember that I am not Dr. Phil and my advise can probably ruin relationships.  Actually I don’t even follow this sometime lol.  But oh well

Life has many twists and turns.
But one never knows which way to chose.  Should one thing happen or the other.
Can we even choose??? 

For some desires change seems to be necessary.  Is change really worth it. 
Maybe change isn't the answer.

So we let life keep on going and deep down we really don't know whats happening. 
We have visions of events that we wish would happen. 
We tend to think "life would be good if…." 
Is the "if" what we honestly desire

To be perfectly honest, yes it is. 

 If ours ifs came true maybe life would end up going in the direction that we chose.
What if we were this or what if we had that

WELL BACK TO REALITY…we don't

So I guess ill just sit back and let life happen.
It seems that trying doesn't really lead to many positive things.
Perceptions can be skewed with just one incident.

So why care?????
Why live life trying???
Is it really worth it???

Yes it is worth trying.  If one thing doesn't work then maybe something else will.  No reason to stop.
Stay movin.  Prosper in whatever is out there. 
Don't just sit around and life pass by.
Live life as full as possible. 
Don't worry about going in the wrong direction.
Attempt to choose the direction.

 GOOD LUCK