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Jinjee Talifero


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Gender: Female
Status: Married
Age: 42
Sign: Gemini

City: Pine Mountain Club
Country: US
Signup Date: 12/18/2006

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November 29, 2009 - Sunday 


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A friend and I are going to start a Green Juice Feast on Dec 1st, for 21 days! - A between holiday cleanse! :) If you want to participate, visit... http://www.TheGardenDiet.com/green

September 20, 2009 - Sunday 

Current mood:  warm
Oh My Blog! I have not posted in 2 years!!! I guess this shows my age --- I forgot about this blog! I forgot my Myspace page!!! Now I understand why my 15 year old daughter Raven says I just don't understand the Internet! Hello, we raised you earning our living through the Internet - working from home! But now, I understand her. No real Internet generation person would forget they had a myspace page! I promise I will do better!

Wow! In case you haven't heard from me in two years, like if you don't follow my site at http://www.TheGardenDiet.com -- then I will tell you what has happened, in a nut shell of course --- We moved to Ojai, bought some land there to build a raw vegan eco village on, along with 14 other families, and hope to be able to move in to our beautiful green homes there in a year or two.

We are working on a new film, and I've been doing more music which feels great! Also working on multiple books and business ideas. Still doing http://www.PearMagazine.com and putting a lot of creative energy in to that at the moment.  In fact, the September issue, coming out later this week, and the last issue, are good ways to catch up with more stories from my life of late! -- including, How I Learned The Importance of Having A Role Model, How How The Anastasia Books Healed Me, and How I Became A Crystal Green Pool.

Many Blessings!

Jinjee


Yarrow, when she just turned 2, with a face full of Mulberry juice! My last blog was about her birth!
June 13, 2007 - Wednesday 
Please leave comments on Yarrow's birth story blog here!



Thank you!!!
xoxoxo
Jinjee
May 21, 2007 - Monday 






I posted this article I wrote on circumcision and wanted to open it up for discussion here. I received a lot of emails about it that I am going to post here that I found really insightful. Some of the most interesting information is......

- Penn Jillette & Teller's show, "Penn & Teller: Bullshit!" which airs on Showtime....an amazingly powerful episode that you can watch online, speaking out very strongly against circumcision!!! Some things you'll learn:

- how to restore your own foreskin (naturally!)
- that hospitals sell your baby's foreskin to cosmetic companies!
- the foreskin has sexual function for both male and female
- conformity is the only reason to circumcise. (and of course that's not a very good reason!)


Watch this show here


- A correction. I compared circumcision with female mutilation which is apparently much much worse. However there are certain similarities. Read more at bottom on this topic.


Some interesting emails that I received in response to my circumcision article.....

Hi Jinjee. In college I did a research/speach about this topic. My son is 12 and I didn't have him circumsized and he's fine/clean/healthy. As far as the research, I found out that it is a religious practice by Jews and that Western Medicine calls it something like neccessary for the sake of hygiene.
My arguement was that why did God gives us eyelids? Did He make a mistake? They are to protect our eyes, so is the foreskin on a male's genitals.
It is a socially excepted procedure and some parents are like "so why didn't you have him circumsized", then I must explain that God makes no mistakes we do. Just like hysterictmys (oops) and other unneccesary procedures that really rake in the money.
Also, I did read somewhere that most of the sexual assaultants are circumsized. Go figure. Okay great topic. :)


hi Jinjee, I love the things you write.

Pls note that male circumcision is NOT at all like female circumcision. Female circumcision is traditionally done to young girls, not babies. It is rarely done in hospitals (educated doctors would never perform such a procedure). Most female circumcision is practice out in the village by the village witchdoctor. It is often done with glass or rusty knives. A large part of the vaginal area is cut including the labia, and then the girl's innards are often scraped. After that the girls are sewn up with nothing or with thorns.

A large proportion of girls get infections and die because of this procedure. Or if they don't, when they first have sex the sex is so painful you can imagine, painful as in you think you are going to die and you do pass out painful. If the girl hasn't already died from the initial procedure, the likelyhood of her dying from her "deflowering" is highly likely because she is often partially or completely sewn up (like a purse) and the skin is ripped in order to have sex. The loss of blood and onset of infection is so high that the girl now woman (hopefully) often dies at this point.

I can understand why you are against male circumcision, and your point comparing it to female was not the point of your post. But you should know that your claim that female and male are alike, is exactly what those who are for female circumcision use to say "its not that bad". Unlike male circumcision, female circumcision is a death wish.

heather haxo phillips


Dear Jinjee,

I love all the inspirational and valuable information you share daily with us, Sister Jinjee, and so I humbly take issue with you in singling out that female circumcision takes place in Ethiopia. Though I know you probably are already aware of the fact yhat this same puritan method of dealing with female masturbation has caused female circumcision to be a little known fact a solution of even modern Americans, it goes back at least to the Victorian age even in Euriope, so tho it is still a critical issue in many places in Africa and the Middle East, it is certainly not confined there and so, as it is with boys, the issue is a universal issue with girls. Thank you much for putting this out there and for everything else you and Brother do for tthose of us seeking the way of wholeness.

Peace,

Upesi Mtambuzi


Thank you to the above women for educating me on this issue!



Hello Jinjee,

You might confer to the readers of your blog that there is a great deal of difference between the circumcised and intact male. You can think of the circumcised male as having no feeling in his fingers. Men were born with foreskin for a reason. Sex is much better and much more natural with an intact male. Unfortunately those who are circumcised don't know the difference. And then they tell us that a circumcised penis is somehow more attractive than a natural and intact one. This is all BS. Also they talk about the cleanliness factor… more BS. I'd opt for an intact male any day… and would never in a million years allow my son's foreskin to be ripped off with or without anesthetic! Please pass it on. I have much more information to provide on this subject.
All the best to you and your family! May God bless you for having and sharing your good sense.
Catherine




Here is the original post and my article, excerpted from my last blog.....

I'm glad you asked me about the circumcision question. It is one of those backwards dyslexic things mankind came up with: "Hey, let's keep the penis clean by cutting off the foreskin!" - the Universe answers: ....Ummm, guess what? The foreskin is there to protect and keep the penis clean! Duh!!!

It is kindof like the way we came up with "Hey, let's kill the food with heat before we eat it so that it won't have any germs and won't decompose!" ----Um, yeah, but when you take out the death force, you also remove the life force! Hello!!!

Here is an article I wrote about circumcision a few years ago....


"The Circumcision Question"

by Jinjee Talifero

11/29/05


Antiquated Practices

Is cicumcision necessary? When we didn't have access to hot and cold running water in our homes and a bath was an annual affair circumcision may have been served a purpose preventing infection. However now that most people in our part of the world wash daily there is no need for such a barbaric practice.

Similarly eating meat was necessary during the cold seasons or drought when fresh food was not available. But these days we have access to fresh food all year long so there is no need for eating meat, a secondary food.


What a Welcome

When the first thing a baby boy experiences in this world is the chopping off of his most sensitive body part is it any wonder that our men are desensitized to the point where they can go to war and kill other human beings? "What a welcome!" says Frederic Leboyer in his wonderful book "Birth Without Violence". Leboyer also says that no anesthesia is used because doctors are taught that "babies don't feel pain". Any Mother who hears the screams of her baby undergoing this surgery knows otherwise.


Long Term Effects of Circumcision Considered

Could it be that the desensitization of the male member that results from circumcision contributes to an inability to be fully satistfied and therefore leads to the insatiable appetite for pornography in the western world?

From a naturalist standpoint if a penis is meant to feel certain things during intercourse and then doesn't feel them wouldn't that leave a man frustrated? From this standpoint is circumcision in many ways a male version of the female genital mutilation that we protest so strongly against in parts of Africa and the middle east? Note that women attain sexual pleasure without their clitoris even though the clitoris is the most sensitive part of the female sexual organs.

Dr. Kellogg of Kellogg cereal fame dictated that circumcision should become routine in hospitals in America because it would reduce the desire to masturbate as the penis would be less sensitive. A sick and twisted puritanical idea, however well-intentioned.




The Biblical Standpoint

Many people still circumcise because they are led to believe that the bible instructs it. I searched the bible for "circumcision" on biblegateway.com and I read through all the references to circumcision in the bible as well as the chapters they were referenced from. The text in the bible on circumcision is mostly very situation-specific and could be interpreted in many different ways. For instance to me the strongest and most pertinent passages about circumcision say that circumcision of the body makes no difference to God. Here is one of those passages from Romans 2:29

"A man is not a Jew if he is only one outwardly, nor is circumcision merely outward and physical. No, a man is a Jew if he is one inwardly; and circumcision is circumcision of the heart, by the Spirit, not by the written code. Such a man's praise is not from men, but from God".


The Medical Standpoint

It turns out that circumcision doesn't help prevent infection but rather contributes to numerous problems especially with infants! Here is one of several revealing articles from the scientific and medical community.

BRITISH JOURNAL OF UROLOGY, Volume 80, Number 5: Pages 776-782,
November 1997.

Variability in penile appearance and penile findings: a prospective study.

R. S. VAN HOWE
Department of Pediatrics, Marshfield Clinic, Minoqua, Wisconsin, USA

Click Here to Read

Patients and methods The study comprised a consecutive sample of 468 boys whose consultation with a physician included a genital examination in a primary care paediatric practice in rural northern Wisconsin.

Results Circumcised boys under 3 years of age were significantly more likely to have a partially or completely covered glans, a reddened meatus, balanitis, or trapped epithelial debris, and less likely to have a fully exposed glans than were circumcised boys of 3 years or older. Among the 238 boys under 3 years, those circumcised were significantly more likely to have non-cosmetic problems, including coronal adhesions, trapped epithelial debris, a reddened meatus, preputial stenosis (phimosis) and balanitis than were boys with a foreskin. Findings in the circumcised group under 3 years included: fully exposed glans (n=78, 35.6%), partially covered glans (n=67, 30.6%), adhesions (25.6%), completely covered glans (20.1%), entrapped desquamated epithelial debris (24.7%), reddened meatus (19.1%), balanitis (15.5%), and preputial stenosis (0.9%). Only two genital examinations in boys with foreskins revealed pertinent findings. Coronal adhesions develop in circumcised boys at 2-6 months of age and usually resolve by 24 months. The degree of skin covering the glans after neonatal circumcision peaks at 6 months of age.

The circumcised penis requires more care than the intact penis during the first 3 years of life. Parents should be instructed to retract and clean any skin covering the glans in circumcised boys to prevent adhesions forming and debris for accumulating. Penile inflammation (balanitis) may be more common in circumcised boys; preputial stenosis (phimosis) affects circumcised boys and intact boys with equal frequency. The revision of circumcision for purely cosmetic reasons should be discouraged on both medical and ethical grounds.


End Male Genital Mutilation!

~ it doesn't prevent infection

~ the bible doesn't require it

~ it decreases sensitivity

~ it is not natural

~ the medical community makes around $60,000,000 a year from circumcision. (1.25 million circumcisions multiplied by the approximately $50 operation)

~ celebrated physician Dr. Dean Edell is opposed to it. See his shocking article here

~ Dr. Spock is now opposed to it

~ American Academy of Pediatrics has issued new recommendations saying that they do not recommend circumcision as a routine procedure.

~ Mothers Against Circumcision have an excellent website with a huge amount of information here

~ This is a human rights issue

~ This is an ethical issue (causing pain to newborns)

I hope this article will help raise awareness of this issue. I hope it will inspire some to action. And I hope that it will help expecting mothers make the decision to leave their boy children intact and without trauma on their first day of life!
Jinjee Talifero
Co-Author of "The Garden Diet"
TheGardenDiet.com



Dr. Dean Edell also takes a stand against circumcision! here and here


Note: New studies also show that circumcision causes the penis to become uncomfortably dry and cracked in elderly men.

Wake up!!!
May 19, 2007 - Saturday 


OK, where am I at with this raw life thing. I have this beautiful body at 8 months pregnant, at 40 years old, pregnant with my 5th child! A beautiful belly, strong muscles, lean, I can still run – I don't, except when I need to catch a wayward child or run for a phone call, that kind of thing. I am hiking and swimming and doing yoga and my own version of third trimester pregnancy aerobics which I'm working on putting on DVD.

I am wearing belly shirts, showing my big round belly off everywhere I go, and I get so many compliments on it. It is a bit shocking I know. Women don't often walk around with bare pregnant midriffs! This is the first pregnancy I've done it. But I see people light up when they see it....

For more read my new Celebration of Life Blog...
April 30, 2007 - Monday 
Why do I want to be healthy?










Because when you are truly healthy, you are magnetic! When you are truly healthy you radiate! When you are truly healthy you attract your dreams to you! When you are truly healthy you have so much energy to give, share, and live an amazing life! You attract your mission. You are poised and ready to do the unique work you were meant for! You move forward at the speed of light! You are accelerated! You are living at the speed of life!!! When you are truly healthy you feel so good, look so good, and love the feeling of moving in your body. You have moves. The real you is able to come out, to shine, your light is shining so bright it is like a gift to the world. You are relaxed and stress-free, your thoughts are positive and loving, your personality is balanced. You are at peace. You are a tool of the angels. You are enjoying each and every moment. You are truly alive!!! You are truly grateful for each thing, person, place, breath, experience, and moment that comes your way. When you are truly healthy, every moment is a prayer, connected. When you are truly healthy, your presence becomes a healing force. When you are truly healthy your eyes sparkle, shine, glow and dance! When you are truly healthy your family life is harmonious, your relationships are vibrant and exciting. Your mind is clear, your ability to make decisions is sure, you are confident, you are filled with grace. You are a channel for the well-being and joy and magic of the Universe to flow through you! All is well within you and without. You are tapped in to the perfection in all things.

For more visit my Garden Diet Blog!
March 29, 2007 - Thursday 

Category: Blogging
I just put up a blog about the raw film festival here.

But leave your comments about that blog here at this Garden Diet Myspace Blog site since I don't have a comments section available on the other site!



Dr. Ritamarie Loscalzo, her assistant, Storm Talifero, Me (Jinjee Talifero), Shannon and Luke Leonne

Jome Talifero, Raven Talifero, Jenna Norwood holding Adagio Talifero

Shale Talifero and Cossette Whitcoe
February 18, 2007 - Sunday 
I'm feeling grateful for this new life within! And for my big family. I've been feeling so grateful and blessed and happy overall that I'm walking on a cloud, and I'm starting to see how I could have been this happy before and how I sort of sabotaged it. I've realized that even though I thought I was a pretty positive person, I was making choices that weren't very positive, in how I was choosing to feel about situations in my life.

I'm learning now that when negative emotions come up that we can just look at them and see what they are trying to tell us, and then let them go. I think that negative emotions are messengers. But instead of treating them as such, we tend to see them as the message itself, and latch on to them and feed them and carry them around for long stretches of time.

For instance when I felt that anger about being pregnant, I had just found out I was pregnant and I was having many different emotions come up, both positive and negative and in between too. I could have just looked at that anger and said, hmmm, this is interesting, and moved on. But I think I subconsciously chose to use the anger to further my agendas with Storm, to get my way more basically. And when we use our emotions to manipulate others we ourselves end up prisoners of those emotions, hurting ourselves more than anyone.

A wonderful lesson, for which I'm also very very grateful!

In Health,
Jinjee

My Websites:
The Garden Diet
The Natural Paradigms Channel
Take A Fruit Break
Pear Magazine Online
February 3, 2007 - Saturday 

Category: Life
When I'm pregnant I get really serious about fitness. Labor is a work out! And if you are not in shape it is probably going to be rougher. I see labor as a huge athletic event that you have to train for!


This is me at 4 and a half months pregnant, a few days ago, filming a pregnancy yoga segment

When you have a contraction during labor your body is just exerting itself. If you're not used to the feeling of exerting yourself that's going to feel pretty uncomfortable, but to someone who is used to physical exertion it will be much more tolerable. So every day of your pregnancy you have to exert yourself physically.

Exert yourself to the point that you are just a little bit uncomfortable – that point when you'd kind of like to stop – and then push yourself just another 10 seconds. Those 10 seconds are about the same intensity as a contraction. It isn't pain, it is just intense exertion.

At the same time of course you have to be careful not to injure yourself. Relaxin, a hormone released in your body when pregnant causes your joints to be more flexible. You have to find exercises to do that aren't jarring or dangerous.

But this notion our society has about not letting pregnant women do anything physical is part of the problem contributing to the pain and difficulty in childbirth that is commonplace. If we sit around and do nothing at all but stuff ourselves with food for nine months and then are faced with the most intense athletic workout of our lives, is it any wonder we have all kinds of trouble?

So I'm going to make a DVD about my pregnancy workout, hopefully later this month as I'm just starting to show and I'd like to be just a little rounder when I film it.

In Health,
Jinjee






My Websites:
The Garden Diet
Natural Paradigms
Take A Fruit Break
January 16, 2007 - Tuesday 

Category: Blogging
I'm about 4 months pregnant with baby number 5! I've been meaning to start a pregnancy blog so I'll do that here on my MySpace blog!

Adagio's weight is up! He has always been underweight and now at last he is on the chart, between the 3rd and 10th percentile. So he's still small but not under the chart at least. He's 2 and a half years old and 25 lbs.

I think he's just as healthy as ever, but I'm happy he's on the chart because we are all conditioned to want fat babies and even I prefer him a little plump or wigh some meat on his little muscles, but especially for society at large

But the charts seem a little funny. for instance Jome looks skinniest to me of all the children yet he shows up on the charts way up at the 50% line, so he is average wieght for his age. Why? Well, maybe boys his age aren't as overweight as babies and girls because they are more active. Or it may be becauswe Jome is tall for his age. I think he also must have heavy bones.

And Adagio really never was underweight. I just learned about the WHO (world Health Organization) charts for breastfed infants who are in general smaller and considered normal.


Adagio's weight gain might be because I am slowly weaning him because of my new baby growing inside. We're mostly only nursing once at bedtime now.