Status: Single
City: NEW YORK
State: New York
Country: US
Signup Date: 1/22/2007
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Wednesday, November 25, 2009
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There, did that get your attention? Just wanted to make sure you’re
getting as hyped up as I am about my free house party show with my band
and Comandante Zero on Saturday December 19th, 9pm at a secret location
that you must email me at talktojccassis AT gmail DOT com to receive,
or you can just check out the facebook invite I’ll send out.
This show is going to be really great, and I’m hoping for a great
turnout. It’s free, it’s fun, there’ll be music and beer and snacks and
a great NYC apartment–what more could you ask for?? Plus, finally
finally finally, it’s on a SATURDAY NIGHT! No more of this
Wednesday/Thursday BS. We are playing real nights now!
Check out my music here as always, and Comandante Zero’s amazing electro-funk here.
Happy Thanksgiving everyone!
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Monday, November 23, 2009
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So when I googled “Kokopax,” the company that used my song, I found the video above! It’s on their company’s home page too! ( www.kokopax.com)
I think the song fits perfectly and really enhances the video, so I’m
glad it worked out. Also, I wrote the company a thank you email and got
one right back from the owner of the company, telling me how they’d
picked my song and been really happy with it. That was awesome. So if
you’re having or already have a baby, check out Kokopax when you need
to buy a baby carrier or diaper bag! Is that me selling out? Hahaha.
In other news, I just went into the studio and had “Friday Night
Forever” mixed and mastered, and it sounds truly excellent. We
transformed one of my voice parts in the song into a robot voice and it
adds so much to the song. This is the song I’ll be submitting to the
latest ReverbNation promo campaign, so I don’t want to put it up
anywhere else just yet, but I hope to get back in the studio to finish
“Good Time” and “Hold For Your Lovin’” this Sunday so at least I’ll be
able to put those out for you to hear. I am soooooo close to finishing
all the tracks for my album, and I’m already getting lots of great
ideas for sassy, fun pop songs for the next record.
I’m also looking forward to finishing doing all the solitary work of
making all the tracks and recording vocals so I can start collaborating
and performing like mad, and sending my demo around to industry people.
That’s when the fun part will really start!
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Tuesday, November 17, 2009
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I’m so excited to have booked some studio
time for this Sunday so I can finish up “Friday Night Forever,” the
song I”ll be submitting to ReverbNation’s sponsored songs program, and
hopefully also “Good Time,” which has been a big hit at shows.
Once the songs are done I’ll put them up here and on my website for your listening pleasure!
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Tuesday, November 17, 2009
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Today, after
about a YEAR of having my music in three music libraries/licensing
companies, I finally received the letter I’ve always been waiting for:
one that said a song of mine had been licensed in someone’s project and
I got paid for it!!! I’ve finally popped my licensing cherry and
hopefully this will be one of many licensing successes to come. Since
I’ve been so busy finding my sound, writing a ton and putting together
my CD, I haven’t had a chance to get into really pushing my songs for
licensing opportunities (which bring in exposure and money!) just yet,
but I’m so glad that something was finally used and paid for, and it is
always great to receive unexpected checks in the mail.
The statement wasn’t that detailed and just said that the
instrumental for “Chocolate Cake” was used in someone’s “video,” but I
really want to track down the person who used it to see the song in
action–that would be so cool! I also want to send them a thank you
note, haha! I can’t wait to get my new music in the licensing world and
see how it does, since it’s so different from the first stuff I put out.
In other news, I’ve got to put the pedal to the metal and get a new
song done and ready to release because Reverb Nation is doing another
sponsored song promotional campaign and if I get selected, I’ll be in
the running to win 500 bucks through getting people to vote for me
online, and luckily my friends, family and fans have always been
wonderful about voting for me in online competitions, so I really hope
I can get enough support to win. $500 would cover a significant portion
of the costs to record more material, or it could go towards a PR
campaign, which I so desperately need to help kickstart things to the
next level.
The longer I do this, the more I realize there really is at least a
small part time living to be made at it, through finding paid
performances, doing sponsored song programs, singing on other people’s
demos, and licensing music, in addition to selling music and merch, and
if you’re willing to put a lot of time and effort into it, it can be a
significant income. You do have to spend the time hustling, but that
time spent will bring in money one way or another. That is a really
nice thing to know.
So now I just need to finish recording vocals for my album, make the
album art, compile the demo, get hard copies of the demo and the album,
rehearse for the show in December, prep for my third show at Spence,
and start hitting the blogs hard for publicity etc. The exciting part
is about to begin!!
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Monday, November 09, 2009
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- The Classic American Nuclear Family
This past week was a busy one with two big shows. The first, at R
Bar, was my first show with my live band in four months, so it was
great to get everyone back together and rock the house. Problem was,
the house was pretty small. I was glad to have a few new faces there,
and everyone enjoyed the show, but the problem is, when your show is
late on a weeknight with a $10 cover charge and your friends are either
broke and available or have some money because they’re working past
10pm on a weeknight, that doesn’t make for a big audience. That will be
my last weeknight, high-cover-charge gig for the forseeable future. I
wish these small venues and bookers would be more flexible about door
charges because they really hurt draws for small bands/artists just
starting out. Thank god there are some venues that will do shows with
no cover where you can pass a tip jar so the musicians still get paid.
That makes more sense to me since the venue makes more money off the
bar than anything else, and more people in the venue means more money
for the bar! Oh well, at least some venue owners understand that. The
other option we have is to do gigs at house parties and other spaces
where we can control the audience’s experience. So, to that end, our
next show will be Saturday, December 19th at a friend’s loft in SoHo,
which means no door charge, prime timeslot, free drinks, food, relaxed
atmosphere, and good times. Plus we’ll be playing with the amazing
Comandante Zero, an excellent electro-funk band out of Brooklyn who are
friends of mine, so there’ll be not one but two awesome shows in one
spot! I’m really looking forward to that show. If it’s still hard to
get a good crowd at a free show on a weekend night with six weeks
advance notice, then, to be honest, I’m not really sure what I need to
do, haha.
 "I don't care what you think, gonna flip my hair and sip my drink!"
 Everybody's Crazy in New York
 Me post-show
The show on Saturday in Central Park had a much better draw because
it was Central Park on a beautiful Saturday afternoon, with a mammoth
sound system. I had so much fun! I’ve always wanted to perform at the
Bandshell and indeed it was a great time. I had a guest spot between
house music DJ’s as part of Art for Progress’ Sunset Jam in Central
Park, and sang “Anything You Want,” “Dance Dance Dance,” and
“Everybody’s Crazy in New York.” Now, if you frequent the Bandshell
area of the park, you know the regular crazy people who are always
there, and they were there in full force! There’s the guy with the
green ‘fro wearing brightly colored women’s clothes with a poodle and a
parrot that he dyes crazy colors who skips around as people frantically
take his photograph, and then there’s the old guy who either leaps and
spins in circles continuously for about ten minutes at a time and never
gets tired, or he stands in one spot and shakes his chest up and down
as if he were an old, male, crazy Shakira in sweatpants. It’s a sight
to see. I go to that area of Central Park all the time and I’ve seen
those guys a lot, so it was pretty surreal to have them dancing to my
music as I performed it. And it went absolutely perfectly with
“Everybody’s Crazy in New York,” LOLOLOLOL. I wrote that song because
it’s true, and they’re the perfect evidence of it!
 Posin' with a parrot on my head
 Breakin' it down NYC style. That parrot has a great sense of balance.
The show was also great because a lot of little kids were there who
really liked my music, and it always makes me happy when kids like my
music. One little girl came right up to the stage and watched my set
and would wave back to me and smile when I waved to her. Then later,
she was like “I really liked your songs,” and SANG “Everybody’s Crazy
in New York” BACK TO ME! SO CUTE AND AMAZING! Then this tween boy asked
me for a hug and to have a dance-off, and this group of tween girls
really liked my stuff as well. And another tween girl came up to me and
was like “Did you go to Spence?” I swear, I cannot go anywhere or do
anything outside without a Spence girl coming up to me! They’re
everywhere! And I’d never know it if I weren’t always doing weird
things outside! One lady asked if I’d come sing at her Christmas party.
Not Christmas songs, my music. Everybody’s crazy in New York…
 Me and my new favorite little fan! (in the pink jacket)
 ...and from her perspective!
One thing that drives me crazy is that no matter how much people
like your music and want to take your info to look you up online after
a show, people are SO hesitant to sign up for the mailing list, which
everyone in the indie music world says is the one thing you HAVE to get
people to do. I totally get it because even when I’ve gotten on
people’s email lists, I often don’t have time or desire to read the
emails, I’ve never bought their music, and I’ve never been to their
shows, and I often don’t get on the email list in the first place
because of all that. But it’s just hard to have people say they love
your music or your show and then decline to ever hear about your shows
in the future. You just have to hope they’ll remember to look you up
later, which is where getting a song stuck in their heads comes in. But
that’s why it’s ALL about getting publicity. If I were getting
publicity and people were seeing my name over and over again, they’d
start looking me up and having a context in which to think of me. When
I hear of something once, I forget about it, but if I keep hearing
about it, eventually I check it out. So I’m excited to start pushing
for publicity once the album’s done so I can see if it helps the way I
hope/think it will.
 In New York City we dance to house music.
 In New York City we dance to house music with babies and crazy people.
See you at that show on December 19th!
All photos by Berette Macaulay except the fourth, ninth and tenth,
which are by Kenny Bae. Thank you Berette and Kenny and Art for
Progress!
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Saturday, November 07, 2009
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Monday, November 02, 2009
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So, there are a
lot of people of whom I am a huge fan. And I think it would be
fascinating to read a long, heartfelt, personal email they wrote to a
friend. I just wrote an email like that, and as I was writing it, it
helped me cheer up from the crappy mood I was in. I think this letter
contains a lot of helpful advice, and I often find myself doling out
this advice to friends who appreciate hearing it, so I thought, why not
give it a wider audience (by about 10 people) and put it on this blog.
I hope it goes viral because I think it could cheer a lot of people up.
Feel free to pass it on to your friends.
The Letter:
Hey girl, thanks so much for that beautiful email. I’m going to put
it in my “nice things people have said to me” folder in gmail, but
really it deserves its own folder entitled “life affirming, validating
things people have said to me that help to put things in perspective
and stop me from forgetting that I do matter to some people even if I
forget it a lot” but I already have too many gmail folders and that
title is too long, LOL. Anyway it was really really helpful and
wonderful to read everything you said because I didn’t have the
greatest birthday yesterday. It really wasn’t bad as birthdays go at
all, and a lot of the reason it wasn’t the best was my fault that I
could have corrected, but I just feel like I’ve been on a bullet train
this whole month with not a second to stop and plan and prepare for the
shit that’s important to me. Ugh. So I never asked people to hang out
with me at night on my birthday, so I did the parade alone and got
soaked to the bone in the rain and was freezing when I got to my
friend’s party, and spent most of that party drying my costume with a
hair dryer, then fell asleep before I could get to the party I wanted
to go to, partially because I didn’t want to go to it alone, even
though I really really wanted to go to it, and now I’m all upset that
I’m already 26 and I didn’t go to that party and all my gay friends are
moving out of the city and blah blah blah. So I’m glad that I give off
this veneer of everything being great, but rest assured, I
think it’s physically impossible for us to show everything that’s going
on inside on the surface, so everything always looks simpler from
outside. Don’t ever think you’re the only one going through some shit,
and don’t ever think your shit is ever the worst, because it never can
be. With all the horrific things that go on in this world, the fact
that we have time and the ability to pity ourselves for our stupid
little failures is a fucking miracle, LOL. I am laughing at myself
right now for actually being sad about my stupid, meaningless, first
world, upper middle class, well-educated problems. Fuck me, I am so
lucky. And so are you. And so is everyone who isn’t in a war or a North
Korean work camp or a Calcutta brothel right now. At least you are free
to pity yourself in private, for god’s sake. What a bunch of idiots we
are. Anyway.
I was able to cash the check, and seriously, don’t even worry about the whole thing! Money
is just money. It comes and goes and we make it and spend it and lose
it and it appears and it will never matter as much as friends and
wellbeing.
Damn girl, I am so glad we had that walk in Central Park!!! Of
course I remember it too, and I’m so glad it was so helpful to you. As
you know I care so much about you and I really sympathize with where
you’re at emotionally right now and I’m so glad and grateful I was able
to help. That’s the only comfort you have when a friend is not feeling
well, is being able to help, and I want to help as much as I can! I’m
glad you’re feeling a little better now, and please trust that
things will continue to improve if you keep working at it. Life is one
big mindfuck after liberal arts college and we just have to take it one
day at a time and do the best we can with it. We have to remember to
forget about the idea of “success” and whether we have it or not, and
just do what makes us happy and take care of ourselves and our friends.
Everything else is pretty well out of our hands anyway, isn’t it?
You really ought to start loving yourself the way other people love you. 
You are beautiful and wonderful and loving and caring and creative and
talented and interesting, and you always have been. There is nothing in
you to hate. And there are so many things about you that other people
would love to have. From stupid superficial crap like looks to more
important things like family and friends and education and
opportunities. I prolly talked to you about the whole “The
Secret” message of remembering to be grateful and express gratitude for
all the things you have rather than fixating on what you don’t have.
Start with the basics like the fact that you have a normal body that
functions properly and allows you the freedom of being self sufficient
and independent, and don’t forget all the other things that are going
well, like the fact that you’re not isolated and you can choose what
you want to do with your life and you live in a free country and you’re
a citizen of another free country and you know what your options are
and you’re not being forced to spend your time killing or oppressing
others, etc etc etc. Once you start thinking about it you’ll see there
are an infinite amount of things to be grateful for. Every single thing
you have, there are lots of people out there who don’t have it.
No matter how bad you feel mentally, gratitude can help that, and you
still have a lot to be grateful for. If nothing else, this sadness will
teach you to be grateful for happiness, and not take it for granted,
and do whatever you have to do to find happiness and keep it. Also,
something I try to remind myself of is that happiness is not
dependent upon other things. It’s its own thing. No matter what you
have or what you’re doing or where you are, you’re either happy or
you’re not. Things and people and places can’t make you happy if you’re
not. And you can be happy without things and places and people. You
have to figure out how to cultivate happiness for happiness’ sake. Also
living in the moment is helpful. Most people are sad because they’re
regretting the past or dreading the future, but if you forget about
that and focus on the present, the present usually isn’t that bad. I
dunno, maybe also try to think of things thusly: if life is making you
sad, it’s probably just because you’re missing the joke. Find the humor
in every situation and you’ll see this is really just one long,
absurdist, alt-comedy play with too many characters and poor staging
that doesn’t allow for everyone to have a good perspective from which
to view the lunacy such that it becomes funny. And in the end, there is
no message and no meaning anyway. Just a chance to play your part to
the best of your ability and wear the most feathers out of everyone on
the stage.
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Monday, October 26, 2009
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So today we filmed the last two segments for the Everybody’s Crazy in
New York video, and now filming is totally done! We filmed the second
and last verses, and they were so hilarious and well done. I am so
lucky to have such talented friends who are so generous with their time
and talents. You will LOVE this video, it’s going to be so great and so
funny and silly. I’m not sure what I’m going to do about filming the
other videos since it will get too cold outside really soon, but we may
just have to dance in ski pants and puffy coats!
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Sunday, October 25, 2009
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So the other night, I was trying and
trying to write the track behind a lyric and melody I’d written and it
was just not happening. The song I’d written sounded a LOT like another
song by someone else that I really like, so that song was in my head
when I was trying to make my song sound different, and it seemed really
impossible to make my song significantly different and still really
good. So I decided to write a new, totally different song to be the
12th song on my upcoming album, Four on the Floor (listen to the songs
on it so far here), and man
was that a good idea, because I came up with a really catchy, really
personal song that was very easy to come up with instrumental ideas
for. Now I’m really excited to finish it, because once I have, all the
instrumental tracks for the album will finally be done, and I can start
putting down all the vocals, and once that’s done, I can put the music
out for you to hear! It’s way past my self-imposed deadline of the end
of September, but better to have an album of 12 tracks I’m really proud
of than a couple of great songs and a few I was hesitant to put out. So
in short, I’m very excited about getting these songs out.
In other news, I finally signed up for Jango.com, an internet radio
station that claims to have 7 million monthly users, and which will
play my music alongside major label artists who have fans that would
probably like my music as well, so I really hope that will be another
boost to my exposure and fanbase. Now I’ve really got to sign up for
Sound Exchange, which distributes royalties to artists and songwriters
for internet airplay. My listens on Last.fm are starting to pick up,
and with Last.fm, TheSixtyOne.com, facebook, myspace, youtube, Jango,
jccassis.bandcamp.com and all the other places I’ll be putting my music
to be played online, I have a significant amount of plays to get paid
for. Hopefully it will provide a nice little chunk of pocket change.
I’m also really excited because I have my first rehearsal in 3
MONTHS with my live band tomorrow. I love them all so much and playing
with them is SO much fun, so it’s sure to be a
laughter-and-music-filled two hours. We’re getting ready for our next
show, on November 5th, 10pm at R Bar, 218 Bowery, NYC. See you there!
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Saturday, October 24, 2009
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The fabulous S. Swift has made another video for his remix of my song, “Obsessed.” It’s nice and weird. Enjoy!
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