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Last Updated: 12/6/2009

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State: Indiana
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Signup Date: 3/4/2007

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Wednesday, May 27, 2009 

Current mood:  animated
Category: Life
what a crazy past two years...culminating in me receiving and accepting an offer for a finance position at a large healthcare company in Indianapolis.

Our faith has been tested in big ways, but God never let us down. I've been humbled to serve at churches large and small over the past couple years, waiting for what I thought was the next ministry position. I sensed that He was asking me to lay down the thought of ministry as a vocation for a season...pretty tough to do when it seemed like He wired me for it and gave me the chance to actually do it for several years. But I did it anyway, and here we are.

I know that God will continue to use me in ministry, even if it's as a volunteer. I am grateful for the support and prayers so many of you have extended.

So now the craziness of relocating a large family begins. The nuts and bolts of buying a house, packing, driving about 1,800 miles in a U-Haul, etc. are going to take a ton of energy...but with a renewed sense of excitement and purpose, I'm sure it will be easier than it looks...

Thanks again for being a part of this journey with us. The story isn't even close to finished yet...

Bob
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Tuesday, February 17, 2009 

Current mood:generous
Category: Music
As a worship leader, I am always on the lookout for new music to introduce to my congregation. It helps keep our services fresh; so we're not playing the same 15 to 20 songs every month...

I'd like you to consider my music as an option for your church body.

Songs like "Everybody Praise Him" and "Take It Away" are great openers for your service...they get the blood pumping and help put our focus on God.

"Your Ways" has been well-received by multiple churches as a worship ballad, born from crises in my life that have caused me to trust God even when things don't seem to be going like they should.

"New Strength" and "Where Will I Go" would make great specials to introduce a sermon on waiting on God or trusting Him in times of trial (which we all have).

If you download any (or all) of my songs from iTunes or cdbaby.com, send me a message here on MySpace with your e-mail address and I'll send you the chart(s) for your music team as my way of saying thanks (and saving you some time having to transcribe it yourself).

Hope you're blessed in a new way by the songs God has given me.

Bob
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Currently listening:
Fighting Instinct
By Fighting Instinct
Release date: 2006-06-27
Thursday, June 12, 2008 

Current mood:  contemplative
Category: Religion and Philosophy

Surveys have shown time and again that the primary reasons people do not attend church are boring sermons, unfriendly/hypocritical church members, and outdated/poor quality music. Since I am gifted and passionate about the music arena, I will stick to that subject in this blog.

As I continue in my search for my next ministry position, I am blown away at the number of churches that are hanging on to the past and coddling believers who are supposed to have matured over time but have settled into a "I want it my way" mindset about church. I'm primarily speaking of musical styles, but also referring to things like traditions that are by-rote rituals with very little substance or meaning any more.

I know that in another 15 years I'll probably be the guy who says the music is too loud or asks why we can't serve communion more regularly, but I have already given my wife and other very close friends permission to smack me upside the head when I do.

Why? Because outdated methods fail the church in its most important order of "business" - bringing in new believers. Jesus, in his final words to the disciples, tells them first to what? Make disciples. We can't do that if we can't get them in the door on a Sunday morning. It's no secret that the "next generation" is largely missing from church on a given weekend as are a large percentage of men.

I would be remiss if I did not mention that I do see some churches succeeding in doing these things. That excites me. I am certain that a church with a passion for making disciples is where God is sending me on my next assignment.

If you're a church leader, let me challenge you to rethink the way ministry is done. You and I both know the worst thing we can say at church is "We've always done it that way." Think so far outside the box that you forget the box even exists. Surround yourself with people who will push you to find new ways to create an environment where seekers can safely investigate the claims of Christ. The Holy Spirit does the rest, but we have to give folks a reason to show up. As they do, we give them the Way, the Truth, and the Life...and watch transformation occur that cannot be explained by anything other than the hand of God.

As for me, I will continue to passionately pursue my calling to change the populations of heaven and hell by creating church services and playing music that will draw seekers to an encounter with the Living God. And I'll mentor the next generation of lead worshipers to do the same.

Thursday, December 13, 2007 

Current mood:  relieved
Category: Life

I've wrestled with this for the past couple months...being apart from my family b/c our house in Phoenix hasn't sold.

At first I thought God was waiting to intervene until we opened the new campus in Midland...I had to work a lot of crazy hours to make sure we were ready to open on October 28.

The Grand Opening came and went, and still no activity on our house. We lowered the price multiple times, in big chunks, and still no offers. We put it on the market to rent it out. No offers.

I prayed. I fasted. If you know how much I love to eat, you can guess how hard fasting is for me. I drew lines in the sand. I pleaded with God to intervene. He asks us "is anything to hard for me?" I know that nothing is. I know that He could have intervened at any point in time and brought a buyer or renter for our house. And to top it off, there are no houses to rent in Midland. We had to get on a waiting list at an apartment complex with an indefinite wait.

So I had to make a choice. My family needs me. I need them.

I resigned from my position in Midland, effective 12/31/07. I will return home to my family...to my most important ministry as a dad and husband. Except for a few short visits, we will have been apart over 4 months.

I like Midland. I love the people I've served with here. I feel like I'm letting them down after all they've done to welcome me into their church family.

So now we wait again. I've begun the lengthy process of searching for another ministry position. I promised my family that this time we won't go until we can all go together, trusting that God can and will intervene when it's His timing. We'll be without a steady source of income again, but I'd rather be broke and with my family than being paid well and apart.

Thanks for your prayers as we move forward in this crazy journey called life. We will do our best to answer Jesus' call to simply follow Him.

Currently listening:
Christmas Eve and Other Stories
By Trans-Siberian Orchestra
Release date: 15 October, 1996