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Sunday, February 03 .. language=JavaScript src="http://www.bridgettwalther.com/feed/happybirthday.asp">..>Happy Birthday, Aquarius! You are passionate and fiery, with little tolerance for fools that get in your way. Like a whirling dervish, you move quickly and powerfully toward your goal. People nearby sometimes feel dizzy just watching your antics, but you never miss a beat. Although your methods are sometimes controversial, they WORK - and in the end, it's results that matter. Bright, stubborn, opinionated and eccentric, you do things your way. You are better suited to be your own boss than someone's lieutenant. In fact, you don't make a very good lieutenant because you constantly find flaws in your superior's performance and argue for better ways to get the job done. This can be mighty threatening to middle level management. Although you're attractive, there's probably something unique or cockeyed about your looks. This actually adds to your allure. What someone else might view as a minor flaw seems compelling and fascinating in your case. Most of the time, you can successfully negotiate the twists and turns of societal rules, but sometimes, you push others past their limits and face legal or social consequences. No matter how law-abiding you try to be, there's a big part of you that is convinced that rules periodically must be broken, as a matter of principle. Sometimes you're unable to explain your behavior or decisions in ways that others can comprehend. As you've discovered, explanations are not necessarily your duty or obligation, so most of the time it's more fun to keep 'em dizzy and guessing. No matter how unpredictable you can be, your intentions are, for the most part, lofty. You have a gift for fine-tuning ordinary things into dynamic instruments of change. Your style of communication sets you apart from your peers. Although your timing is sometimes off, you generally grasp the big picture before others do. You're not needy emotionally and may not understand people that are. Since a purpose or passion is likely to trump everything else in your life, you have little interest in small talk or a predictable lifestyle. You're moody and can be volatile - as quick to flare up as dry kindling. But once you've released your frustration, you're ready to move on. Many of those on the receiving end of your fury may not be able to cope with your occasional rants. You make a much better entrepreneur, inventor and visionary than lifelong companion. You bore easily and cannot accept others' rules or routines being foisted upon you. You tend to function at a more prolific, effective level when you're free of restrictions. Intuitive and feral, you can tell who's in or out in both business and personal relationships simply by visually scanning a room. You have a sense of others' confidence levels and measure their position by it. Very competitive and contrary, you're most comfortable in your own space, but may need drones to take care of mundane details you can't be bothered with. In an ideal world, you'd have ample resources and a group of assistants to do the gofer work for you. You're not the kind of person that relishes picking up the dry cleaning or a loaf of bread. You'd much rather plot a major financial, political, or technical coup than clip coupons. People who get to know you very well (and you don't allow just anyone into your inner sanctum) may have difficulty keeping up with your drive, energy, and intensity. You need someone strong and confident enough to stimulate your interest and maintain your respect - and then go away when you need your space. Even though some fail to understand your visionary game plan, you continue to invent, discover or embody the next big thing. Brilliant, unique, and youthful well into your later years, your ability to predict future trends makes you one of the most valuable players and contributors in fast-paced business and creative endeavors. Your unique interpretation of the world sets you apart. Others look toward the sky and see clouds, but you see layers of magical, miraculous possibilities. The way you express thoughts and emotions is often through striking, provocative artistic mediums. You refuse to be limited to only one style, technique, or vision. Your curiosity swells like a rogue wave and coerces you to constantly seek the new and untried. Even if you don't view yourself as an inventor or pathfinder, you are. Pause and consider some of your past theories and ventures. It's no accident that others imitate your example. Because you tend to be ahead of the curve, some of your most remarkable concepts may initially be overlooked by the general public. Never destroy your ideas. If at first you don't succeed, save your brilliant work for a more receptive audience. You tend to be high strung, and may feel anxious, breathless, or inexplicably fearful from time to time - as if your body has a slightly faster rhythm than that of mere mortals. Keep body, soul and mind in healthy balance by meditation and yoga. Experiment with several types of yoga until you find the perfect mix that unites every dynamic element of your being. Proper breathing is incredibly important and may help reduce anxiety and that horrendous fear of losing control. It goes without saying that you must not smoke and should avoid smoky areas. Never do anything that cuts off circulation to your lower legs. Whenever possible, elevate your legs to improve blood flow. Whether male or female, you have a golden look about you. Maybe it's your coloring - or maybe it's your dynamic aura. People cannot resist your vibe, your brilliance or your energy – and wait expectantly for your magnificent second act. Born this weekend are Peter Cataldo, GILLIAN BONNER CAINE, Big Boi, Sherilyn Fenn, Princess Stephanie, Lisa Marie Presley, Pauly Shore, Terry Jones, Jimmy Carl Black, Don Everly, Garrett Morris, Joe Sample, Ron Welty, Sadao Watanabe, Langston Hughes, Dennis Brown, John Ford, Clark Gable, Rick James, Brandon Lee, Leo Salkin, Gunther Zywko-Hicks, Martin Spanjers, Barry Diller, Shakira, Michael Talbott, Liz Smith, James Dickey, Ben Mize, Garth Brooks, Martina Arroyo, Skip Battin, Ayn Rand, Jessica Savitch, Christie Brinkley, Farrah Fawcett, Simon MacCorkindale, Howard Bellamy, Patrick MacNee, Al McKay, Graham Nash, Tommy Smothers, Elaine Stritch, Ross Valory, Kim Zimmer, Havelock Ellis, Stan Getz, Nell Gwyn, Jascha Heifetz, James Joyce, Michael Cimino, Blythe Danner, Maura Tierney, Nathan Lane, Matraca Berg, Dr. Henry Heimlich, Dr. Elizabeth Blackwell, Neil Bogart, Pretty Boy Floyd, Gertrude Stein, Johnny "Guitar" Watson, James Michener, Thomas Calabro, Lee Crystal, Dave Davies, Dennis Edwards, Morgan Fairchild, Bob Griese, Arthur Kane, Richie Kotzen, Paul Sarbanes, Fran Tarkenton, Laurence Tolhurst, James Bridges, Horace Greeley, Felix Mendelssohn, Norman Rockwell, Warwick Davis, Keith Gordon, Eric Haydock, Grant Barry, Michelle Greene, Shawn Phillips, Marlon Riggs and Joey Bishop.

I am baffled about a friend?  She is hanging out with a complete loser and why?  Is it because she wnats to get her rocks of or is it because she don't  believe in herself.  She is a good looking girl hanging out with a dog.  Why? I have theroys about it.   Is it because she thinks she can't  do any better or the fact she is so week she doesn't care. Either way it is sad.  If  I could give anyone in life a concept it would be this:  why do you think you less than what you are?  I want the best for friends but they don't care.  What do you do then?  Please let me know. 

There is a shadow inside me

Reaching my soul Blinding my destiny starving me whole

When I strive on hope I don't know where to go

Something is missing Which is tuff to learn

The solution is near but we don't know

Affraid to leap, With nothing to hold

After you make the jump, we realize its clear

That we need not to fear

Put your faith in something you believe

And you will see the shadow starts to leave

Because it's gone today That don't mean it won't return

So don't be affraid of the leap that teaches us to learn

It's a part of growing That you will see

Maybe someday you will leap with me