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Kimberly Wazny


Last Updated: 11/17/2009

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Gender: Female
Status: Single
Age: 42
Sign: Cancer

City: Mt Morris
State: Michigan
Country: US
Signup Date: 3/23/2007

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Monday, May 18, 2009 

Current mood:  satisfied
Category: Blogging
Thinking about this past weekend and the chain of events really has my mind rambling....Meeting someone new is always like a job interview in a sense!!! When did it become so difficult in the whole dating scene; do people not believe that first impressions are lasting ones? I think that everyone should be VERY picky on who they choose to let into their lives, because sooner or later that path will lead right to your heart if you allow it....Why is communication so difficult? ...... Am I picky, yes I am, I am not willing to settle for second anything in life...Each person has something special to offer to the "Right One"...I am just choosing to wait to cross paths with that "Right One"....


Think how different life would be if you had never met the one person who changed everything.

In life we do things. Some we wish we had never done, some we wish we could replay a million times in our heads, but they all make us who we are. And in the end, those experiences shape every detail about us. If we were to reverse any of them, we wouldn't be at the exact place that we are today. So just live. Make mistakes, and have wonderful times but never ever second guess who you are, where you have been, and most importantly, where it is that you are going...

Sometimes you will only see what is wrong in your life when someone better comes along to make you realize what you've been missing.

As I've grown, I've learned several things. Life is full of disappointments and people you trusted will sooner or later let you down. I've learned that out of thousands of smiles, it takes one to touch your heart. I've found that words can be deceiving, but the truth always lies in a person's eyes. I've learned that everything can change in the blink of an eye and tears often come without invitation. I've learned crying can make us stronger and there is never too much love to go around. I've learned that prejudice helps no one and that weapons don't hurt people, people hurt people. I've learned sticks and stones may leave cuts and bruises but harsh words leave scars. I've found that every time you give someone a piece of your heart, it's a piece that you will never get back. and I've learned the past is meant to be put behind us. We can't dwell on regrets, for what's done is done. I've learned that trusting yourself is the first step and that forgiving is remembering that helps your own heart more then theirs. I've found that family isn't always blood and everyone is someone's hero. I've learned life is unexpected and that God can do anything. I've learned some things aren't meant to be understood and that only time heals. I've found that imagination is our greatest gift and that we are meant to dream for a reason. I've learned it is never too late to fall in love and that being "beautiful" is all on the inside. Mistakes are our best teachers and everything happens for a reason. Only then can you live life to it's full and true potential.

Sometimes you have to forget what you want and remember what you deserve...

You may not end up where you thought you were going....but you will always end up where you were meant to be. 
 






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Monday, May 18, 2009 

Current mood:  creative
Category: Life
Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there, to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson, or help you figure out who you are or who you want to become. You never know who these people may be, but when you lock eyes with them, you know at the very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way.

And sometime things will happen to you that may seem horrible, painful, and unfair at first, but in reflection you find that without overcoming these obstacles that you would have never realized your true potential, strength, will power, or heart.

Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by mean of good luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without this small test, whatever they may be, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere. It would be safe and comfortable, but dull and utterly pointless.

The people that you meet who affect your life, and the success and downfalls you experience, help to create who you are and who you will become. Even the bad experiences are learned from. In fact, they are the most poignant ones. Sometimes the people who hurt us the most are people who were hurt more than us. In the end everyone will hurt you... it's up to you to decide who is worth the pain.

If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart, forgive them for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious when you open your heart. If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because in a way, they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.

Make everyday count. Appreciate every moment and take from those moments everything you could possibly can for you may never be able to experience it again. Talk to people that you have never talked to before and actually listen... Let yourself fall in love again, break free, and set your sights high. Hold your head up because you have every right too.

Believe in yourself. For if you don't believe in yourself, it will be hard for others to believe in you. You can make your life anything you wish.....Create your own life and then go out and live it with absolutely NO REGRETS. Most importantly, if you love someone tell him or her, for you NEVER know what tomorrow may have in store. And learn a lesson in life each day you live.

Today is the tomorrow you were worried about yesterday.... Was it worth it?
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Monday, May 04, 2009 

Current mood:  distractable
Category: Romance and Relationships
I am really starting to believe that being single is better than being caught up in the games that people continue to play! In the past 2 weeks I have been asked many times "why are you single"..."Play the games that men play, do not be honest, throw your values out the window"...Really what has our society resorted to??? hmmmm.....Both men and women do this; not a one sided past time anymore, if anything I believe that more women cheat these days than men! If you have something to say; say it! Is it the thrill of the chase that excites or is it the lack of character that defines the actions of others??? Something to ponder upon for the moment.....The wheels are spinning and will add more to this......

But this is what..........


I've learned...

That you cannot make someone love you; all you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them. No matter how much you care, some people just don't care back. That it takes years to build up trust and only seconds to destroy it. 

That it's not what you have in your life, but who you have in your life that counts. that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes; after that, you better know something.  That you shouldn't compare yourself to the best others can do.

That you can do something in an instant that will give you a heartache for life. That it's taking me a long time to become the person that I want to be. That you should always leave loved ones with loving words; it may be the last time you see them.

That you can keep going long after you can't. That we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel. That either you control your attitude, or it controls you. That regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place.

That heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences. That money is a lousy way of keeping score. That my best friends and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.

That sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you are down will be the ones to help you get back up. That sometimes when i get angry I have a right to be angry, but it doesn't give me the right to be cruel.

That true friendship continues to grow over the longest distance, and the same goes for true love. That just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.

That maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them, and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.

That you should never tell a child their dreams are unlikely or outlandish; few things are more humiliating, and what a tragedy it would be if they believed it. That no matter how good your friendship is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while, and you must forgive them for that.

That it isn't always good enough to be forgiven by others; sometimes you must learn to forgive yourself. That no matter how bad a heart is broken, the world doesn't stop for your grief. That our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for whom we become.

That just because two people argue, it doesn't mean that they don't love each other; just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do. That we don't have to change friends, if we understand that friends change.
 
That two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different. That your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you. That even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.

That the people you care about the most in life are taken from you too soon. That it is hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting someone's feelings or standing up for what you believe. That life's lessons never end and wisdom can always be passed on.

"You don't choose love, love choses you....."

"Never allow someone to be your priority while your just their option"

"You may not always end up where you thought you were going, But you will always end up where you were meant to be."


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Saturday, April 25, 2009 

Current mood:  adored
Category: Romance and Relationships
I am always the first one to say "Try with all your might not to pass jusdgement on others - the only one that has that power is GOD and we never know what he has planned for each and everyone of us.  Do not question the things that we do not understand because you will waste to much time not understanding it"....With that said...

Looking back on the past 3 years I have met some really wonderful men, I do believe that there is a very good reason why some people from your past are not a part of your future....You know the whole saying that the ones that you would like to be a part of your life do not want to be and the ones that you do not want as a part of your life, somehow you can not get out of your life...lol

No one of us are perfect by any means (although there are some that think that there are) PLEASE!!!  Why is it so hard to cross the path with someone that has morals, ethics and values, someone that knows what the word "honesty" means???  On a regular basis I will hear men say that the "good" ones always finish last...well where the hell are they?

My friends joke and say "Kim, you could write a book", sometimes I think that is true! I also know that to no fault but my own that I have let a choosen few slip right through my finger tips, and have no good reason why!

I think that everyone needs personal space and needs their own life, everyone needs to fall and learn from their mistakes.  I also believe that those mistakes are what makes us stronger and builds charachter. 

Morale to this blog is simple....Stalking is against the law, when you call someone 5 times a day and they do not call you back there is a reason, they are not interested!  Accept it for what it is, no matter how nice you try to be to someone, sometimes they just do not get it!

Yes you have to be friends before anything else, do not take that "friendship" out of context of what it is "A friendship" and nothing more....

With that said.....

"Meeting someone is fate, becoming a friend is by choice, falling in love with someone is something beyond your control"....

"Sometimes people put up walls, not to keep others out, but to see who cares enough to break them down"....

I am so grateful and so blessed to have the friends that I do..thank you all...and hey when you come across one of those "good guys", send them my may..please make certain that they are not stalkers thou...lol
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Friday, March 20, 2009 

Current mood:  blessed
Category: Friends
Wow looking back on past blogs and everything that has happened in the past 3 years really makes me reflect on alot....
 
I have met some really wonderful people that I call long life friends and I have also met some not so nice people that had their own hidden agendas.... 
It is hard to believe that I have been divorced for 3 years, life is great I love the new chapters that have opened and begun in my life and would not change it for anything.  I have found that being single is a great thing....
I am blessed with a beautiful young man as a son and I am grateful everyday for him.  I have traveled everywhere in the US and look forward to visiting Germany and Alaska this year.  Everyday is a journey and a new beginning and I make the most of every minute....
I live my life without regrets and I hold myself accountable for my own actions, what you do and say today you can never change....choose your actions and your words carefully you never know the impact that they will have on someone ...good, bad or otherwise!!!
 
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Sunday, April 15, 2007 
Fourty is fast approaching and one thing that I have started to realize is that society is not what it used to be.  You take people at face value and trust in them until they prove you wrong.  Morales and ethics no longer exist, what a shame that so many have lost something that should come so easily to all.  I have let my guard down and for that I am disappointed in myself.  Morale to the story, I have many friends that tell me to play the game, lie, cheat do whatever it takes to get a head in life.  Not a game that I am willing nor want to play.  There are good people out there they are just few and far between.  Know the difference when someone is something that they are not and when someone appears to be to good to be true.  We are all human and we all have faults.  Forgive those that are deceiving and only out for personal gain and when you find that "special" someone hold them tight and let them know on a regular basis their self worth.  "You can  not always judge a book by it's cover", keep you eyes wide open and listen very carefully........    
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Tuesday, March 27, 2007 

Current mood:  cheerful

You either control your attitude or it controls you....

Maturity has more to do with what type of experiences that you have had and what you have learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you have celebrated.

There is a good chance that a complete stranger is going to change your life.

It is not how many times you fall but how many times you get back up. 

I of course have learned these lessons the hard way as most people do, but I feel that it has shaped me to be the person that I am today.

 

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Tuesday, March 27, 2007 

Current mood:  excited
Category: Friends

I have met alot of really wonderful people in the past month. 

Some that will impact me for the rest of my life.  I now know that there really is a light at the end of the tunnel and am really looking forward to the new road and paths that lie just ahead. 

Brian, Michael, Ryan, Michelle, Kelly and Dave, you guys are the best and I know that we will always be friends... Las Vegas will be great and wow what a way to spend your 40th birthday....   

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Friday, March 23, 2007 

Current mood:  grateful
Category: Jobs, Work, Careers

Money is a lousy way of keeping score, but I have also found that it is better to have and not need it, then to need it and not have it.

The credentials that you have on your wall does not make you a honest decent human being.

You should never tell a child their dreams are unlikely, few things are more humiliating and what a tragedy it would have been if I had believed them. 

 

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Friday, March 23, 2007 

Current mood:  touched
Category: Life

It has taken me a long time to become the person I want to be and I am still a work in progress. 

Some of the things that I've learned so far, it takes years to build trust and seconds to destroy it. 

It is not what you have in your life but whom you have that counts.   

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