things were said between both party's that both shouldn't have said
I admit my wrongs. i don't claim to be perfect, and call me what you will I don't care.
yeah, keep saying shit and I might get pissed off, but it doesn't give a logical reason why you or your friends keep deciding to put there nose in and talk shit. because it makes you no better then me now does it.

I have my own convictions, I felt that none of this was handled the right way. there are things that could have been done better, but its too late. so why keep dwelling on it? lets all just move on, be civil and drop the shit already. I have alot of things going on right now and dropping by my house, calling me an asshole and saying you dont want to work with me made me hit bottom. I didn't want to talk, I wanted to be left alone. I shut down. I couldnt take it any more and I'm sorry for being dick about it but I couldn't take it any more.

Im moving on, and Im sorry for what I SAID between all of this drama, I wanted nothing to do with it. but when it came to the people I begin to trust the most. it really really hurt, and I mean it. you dont know how much you all meant to me. I'm a very emotional person. I can go from happy, to sad, to pissed off in the flip of a switch. it's not like I do this for attention, or just without reason. its who I am and I realize I need help. and I have that help. I've had that help with me the whole time.

Im trying to better my self. god is with me, and hopefully he will point me in the right direction and help me think before I react. help me control my self. its not easy for me. its like turrets. please understand. I dont hold anyting against any of you. I wouldn't want to put up with me either. but you were my friends, and I loved you all.

I hope you can forgive me, stop with all the badmouthing. Im done with it.

so if I sent any one messages before I posted this, please disregard it. I should have just ignored them.

with love, always
 god bless

---Fred Gilbert Day-Hirt III

Thanks to every one who came out last night
we were really impressed how things went last night, and thanks to noob for setting everything up for us to play there we really enjoyed it and we were glad to be apart of the show.
and thanks for taylor for comming out, he came and played 'take it back; while me and dustin both threw down on vocals.

if you havnt noticed we have a new drummer; dutin ex rogers meet an iranian
we just started playing with dustin the other week and we all felt that he had the best sync up with us, and picked up on all the material quick.

we are making kind of a shift on our writing, going to a little more different style. I (fred) dave, matt and dustin begain working on a new song which we hope we will be able to play at beardcore fest. if we do, it will be our big suprise to you

hopefully we will be recording new songs by the end of october, which will be pretty awesome I must say!

also, to include, about beard core fest.

Every one should be attending this show at skelletones. free food on the ghetto grillz, $10 for 10 bands such as ivan, brothers, bringing down broadway and re-inventing yesterday

effect pedals

danelectro tremelo - $10
danelectro eq - $10
lyon chorus - $10
one spot 9volt with daisy chain - $10

guitar accessories
audio technica wireless - $40 (missing battrie cover)
audio technica wireless - $45

drums
gretsch red sparkle with black stripe, snare drum 14x7 - $80
NEW g1 coated evans head 12 and 16" $10
lightly used evans bass head emad (was coated but coat was removed) - $10
NEW evans clear batter head bass drum - $10

Right now were looking for a new drummer

we need some one with own, reliable transportation and equipment

we would like to find a replacement drummer that is skilled, and knows how to keep a beat. we would love to find some one that can double bass.

to contact us, email us at thesedyingwords@gmail.com
send us a message

or contact me at my myspace @ myspace.com/fredxday

or even just leave a comment here

we need dedication!

we got shows comming up also!

We would like to thank every one that came out in support; family, friends, coworkers and especially people we dont know.

we loved all your response

but unfortunitly, something happned tonight

were not the kind of people to complain, and if you heard this you'll know this.

we had a few people heckle at us calling is faggots and queer. let me set something straight, we understand you might not of paid to see us and you paid to see other bands, and yes people are drinking but I find it a bit immature that people cant just enjoy the music. along time ago it wasnt out of the ordinary that metal, punk, pop, and screamo was played in the same night. yes we were kind of a blend with the music that night. I had a few people come up to me and say "why didnt you say anything about them or to them on stage. simply the reason is; it makes us no better then them. if they find the need to call us fags and insult us just because they have nothing better to do, then let them, there are 200 other people that enjoyed our music.

on the good side of things last night we spoke with two of the guys from 3 inches of blood and they were great guys easy to get along with and we gave them one of our demos they really made our day also taylor got the drumsticks from behemoth and all of behemoth signed the hood of his van

We have alot of tickets avalible, if you are interested in a ticket please contact Fred, Steven, Taylor or Matt for a ticket were all on top friends (dave will be on vacation so we got to sell his tickets for him)

either contact us individualy, contact us through myspace, or if you know our phone numbers call us or email us thesedyingwords@gmail.com (contacting us on myspace is alot faster)

tickets are $12 and we got 100 of these bad boys!

Hey guys, we'd like to thank every one that came out the other day to skelletones. Especially all the bands, who of which most are good friends of ours.

Next time you come see our show, I mentioned this the other night, we will have FREE demo cd's, money isn't our concirn right now, making these copies are very inexpencive, only time consuming. and our goal right now is getting your guys attention, appreciate our music and what we love to do.

We scheduled another show at skelletones but it wont be for quite a while but the cool news is that it's for Every passing hours reunion show, so we'd love to see you all our there!

though we havnt done a whole ton of shows and you yet to full experience our excitement as this band, we are about to start writing even more material over the next month or two.

As of now we are looking for some kind of promoter, free promotion, and one who can help spread and get our name out there. we'd love to get every one listening to our music, giving us any kind of feedback you all have to offer

-Fred/tdw

so yeah, Im having a problem with venues not even bothering to reply back our emails so if you are setting up a show, please contact us and let us know we will play almost any time we can get avalible (with in reasonable amount of time) we need to know about shows atleast two weeks before, we cant have last minuet shows like three or two days before show time. we have jobs!!!

also I am currently working on the domain to the band, so, if you ever see the page, bare with me. we have alot to accomplish before I can continue working on the website

also we have had on song on our page for a bit but we recorded a few more songs a few days ago and they should be up some time before the end of the week, so please look forward to that. we need as many plays as possible!!!!!!!

-Fred/TDW