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The key to beating the devil is to control

1. what you think

2. what you allow to be in your environment

3. what you hear

4. what you see.

you can only control the things that you have control of. The rest God will

1. take you through

2.provide for you

3. give to you

4. or take from you as is necessary.

The only thing you need to do is

1. to control EVERY THOUGHT that goes through your mind at all times.

This can only be done if you want to take control of your life in christ.

1. If you want to get to Christ

2. If you're empty inside and searching for something.

3. If you are holding on to hope and faith

4. If you don't know where you are going

5. what to do

Trust that if you control what you think you can be rid of any habit that you have. no matter How strongly you are addicted, the only catch to this is that you have to truly want to give up what you are addicted to. because the desire to get rid of the habit have to be from the heart, you can't think that you want to be free from it.

try it . It can't hurt you it will only help you

when some one that you love and trust lies to you and that lie has an impact on your life, what do you do about it? I know a person that was put in that situation and she came to me about it and I gave her my opinion but I am wondering what I would do in that situation.  I gave her a scriptural opinion, but as a person I am wondering how I would have acted in that situation???  When people tell what we call white lies, that have very little if any affect on a person although we know that lies are sinful and just plain wrong, we just go on and forget about it. But when that lie affects you from the heart because you have made changes in your life to  accommodate the person that lied to you and because you trusted that person and loved that person, how do you deal with that?? 

As a minister or a Christian one would look at things from the biblical stand point and trust God to work things out in their favor. 

I did a survey and I spoke with the Christians and those in the secular community and have gotten a large variation of answers. Some of which I will list below.

Comments:

1.  They should leave and not look back because the relationship was founded on a lie.

2.  They should stay because they are married now and since they are married God expects them to honor their vows no matter what. He(God) will work things out for them if they trust him and let him take away the anger and the hurt. And the one of them that lied should ask both God and their spouse for forgiveness.

3. I would use it to get what i want and make him pay for every lie he told, until I got over his lies to me.

4.   I would leave because who knows what else they have lied about, or will lie about and if they told unnecessary lies like the ones that I read then they have no regard for others and I don't know what else they are capable of.

5. I would consider the overall character of the person and then decide what to do because God knows what he is doing and will make a way for them to make it. They are married now  if the person that lied doesn't cheat on the person that was lied to they would still be married in the site of God even if they divorced. The trust and faith in that person would be eventually restored if the liar did it because they were afraid that the person lied to would not have stayed with them. People do crazy thing when they love someone. They may never lie to their spouse again. I know that people in the world would disagree, but for the true Christian the only way out of a marriage is death unless one of them is found in adultery. Fair or not that is what the word of God says.

These are just a few of the responses that I received  from other people, they are not  necessarily my views.  But if someone that you loved lied to you about something that was life altering what would you do????  How would you react?  I would like to hear from any one about this. I hope to write a book about lies.  The lies that we tell and why we tell them and the affect they have on others.

I do anniversary and birthday Parties, banquets and conference meetings. family reunions and I will work with you to make any other party a great success. weddings are a thing of beauty and a tribute to the Love that the Father placed inside of all of us and I love helping to make sure that the love he gives to a man for a woman or a woman for a man is shed abroad in the hearts of all those that want to share his love.

call me and let me help you give beauty and elegance to your  wedding and/or Party

call me at  619-507-8078 cell or 619-764-5664-office

Wedding Help Needed ...

This is a blog that is a bit unusual; it is to help me to find hobbyist, retired persons, and others that have skills that can be utilized in a wedding. I am new to the San Diego area. And although the high end side of my business is up and running I need to find people with love and compassion for others to help me to serve those that have limited resources. This side of my business aid brides that need that special touch to make their wedding happen.  I was first married I didn't have much money or any resources at all; I was struggling and money was a big problem for me. So I had to be creative and careful while planning my wedding. And it was very hard and stressful for me. But I wanted to make sure that other brides would not have to suffer and stress as I did. So I decided to add another side to my business. At that time I added "Weddings on a Budget "to my other business. The name of my first business was

 "Simply Elegant Weddings" Finding and negotiating with vendors to work with for Simply Elegant Weddings is easy I just use the vendors in the area, and establish a working relationship with them. But for "Weddings on a Budget" it is not that easy because I have to use none professional Professionals. You may ask what is a non professional, professional. Well, a non professional professional is: a person that is excellent at performing their Craft has a love for people and high professional standards. These professionals work to perform their crafts and take the opportunities to fine tune their skills but do it as a hobby or occasionally and don't want to work at it all the time. They do quality work and are in their craft to enjoy it and wouldn't mine sharing their skills with others. They get paid but since they don't do this full time or they want to perfect their skills or because they are students they set affordable prices for their clients.  The high end professionals want top price for what they are skilled in.  The non-professional professional wants to be paid but don't require top dollar for their work. Or they are students that are learning their craft, and want to get some real experience in their area of expertise.  The brides that I service in weddings on a budget are those that have limited money resources and are on a tight budget. I am a seasoned professional I have been coordinating and executing weddings for many years I am new to San Diego but not to this business.

If you are skilled in a craft that can be utilized for weddings call me at my office 619-764-5664 or email me at simplyelegantweddings_events@live.com . Or send me a message here on myspace. Remember I am new here in San Diego.

So if you are a: caterer, owner of a venue (place to hold a wedding or reception), photographer, florist, Dj, cake baker, skilled at making and designing invitations, a florist, etc... Or a student at on of these skills please let me hear from you. I truly need your help.

THIS IS A TRUE WORD SO LADIES LISTEN THIS IS A LESSON THAT YOU DON'T HAVE TO LEARN THE HARD WAY. AND IT IS WRITTEN BY A MAN!!!

God blessed me with the most wonderful man and we will say our vows again on January 12th 2008,

I allowed God to choose my mate, everyone told me that I would be the final decision on who I would marry. But they were wrong when I met Keith he had my heart from word one God gave me peace, and a Love for Keith that I had never known before Our Love was instant for both of us. and I was not looking nor had I any idea  of his desire for a mate we both had a need for friends that we could talk to about the Lord, and to find clients by networking on this site. and we became instant friends. and as we talked (as Friends) getting to know one another we found that we were equally yoked in almost every area. and we talked more and found many other things that we had in common. and although we both knew in our hearts that we were meant to be together we fought it with all of our might remaining friends only until one day we reached a point where we could not take the preasure anymore and realized that what we thought was friendship had blossomed into full blown love and since that day we have been inseparable and in-love and we both know that Love is a work in progress and a Job that never ends. So we will be together for a lifetime. Girls I love him and I will never give you a chance to take him I spoil him rotten and I obey him as he obeys Christ Jesus. So know that he is now and always be happy with us.