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Age: 71
Sign: Gemini

City: Sonoma COunty
State: California
Country: US
Signup Date: 6/22/2007

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Friday, January 25, 2008 
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Free Risk Assessment
If anyone out there has concerns about if they are at risk for getting an Sexually Transmitted Infection (including HIV/AIDS), we are offering free risk assessments. Simply answer all the questions below (or whatever you are comfortable answering) and we will respond within a few days with feedback about your level of risk. All questions are optional:


SEXUAL ACTIVITY
In the last 12 months, had . . .
Sex with a male?
Sex with a female?
Sex with a transgendered person?
Sex with someone who is using needles for drugs?
Sex for money/drugs/other?
Anal sex?
If Yes, did you have receptive or penetrative sex? (were you getting it or giving it?)
Vaginal sex?
If Yes, did you have receptive or penetrative sex? (were you getting it or giving it?)
Oral Sex?
If Yes, did you have receptive or penetrative sex? (were you getting it or giving it?)
Condom used when you had sex?
Dental Dam used during oral sex?

HISTORY OF STI/STDs
In the last 12 months, diagnosed with . . .
Hepatitis B?
Hepatitis C (HCV)?
HIV?
Herpes?
Syphilis (syph, the pox, lues)?
Gonorrhea (GC, clap, drip)?
Trich?
Chlamydia?
Genital Warts (HPV)?

DRUG ACTIVITY
In the last 12 months, used. . .
Alcohol?
Crack (rock)?
Amphetamine (speed, crank, crystal, tina)?
Cocaine (powder)?
Nitrate/nitrites (poppers, rush)?
Heroin (junk, skag, smack, H)?
Ecstasy (MDMA, Adam, E, X)?
GHB (liquid ecstasy, G)?
Ketamine (special K, vitamin K, K)?
Viagra ?
In the last 12 months, used a needle to inject drugs or other subs. (not taken under a doctor's order)?
If Yes, for last injection used a new needle that has never been used before?
Are you in treatment for Substance use?


OTHER HELPFUL INFORMATION
Location ZIP:
Are You Homeless?
Gender:
Are You Pregnant?
Do you know your HIV Status:
Ethnicity:
Age:
Residence county: ____________________________
Wednesday, August 29, 2007 

POZ MAGAZINE: http://poz.com/articles/myspace_youtube_hiv_2046_12758.shtml

Sep 2007 .. May 24, 2005 - Issue 939-->

Our Space

by Kellee Terrell

How to teach the MySpace and YouTube set about HIV? Get them where they live—online

Web portals like YouTube and MySpace are often dismissed as mindless archives of outrageous screen grabs like Saturday Night Live's infamous "D**k in a Box" and "Lazy Sunday" digital shorts—or, especially with MySpace, overheated hookup pleas from tweens avoiding their algebra homework. But one cool cybertrend has emerged: Using these sites, which many have said encourage irresponsible sexual behavior and even child predation, to explore living with—and preventing—HIV and AIDS.

The video-sharing website YouTube gets thousands of uploads daily, making it an ideal prevention forum. Spokesperson Julie Supan told POZ that she has seen a spike in traffic to AIDS-related public-service announcements and movie trailers on the site, as well as to positive people's video diaries (search, for example, for Charlie Johnson's testimonial). "We see celebrities talking about the cause, but there's nothing like a video of someone humanizing the disease," she says. "Some are getting close to 4,000 hits."

MySpace, with more than 106 million members worldwide, offers dozens of HIV forums and support groups (find one of our faves by searching "Out Reaching HIV Positive"). The links tackle everything from hep C coinfection to dating. MySpace targets teens with AIDS blogs, message boards and a daily AIDS news page.

Access to both sites is free—a  crucial benefit given federal AIDS budget cuts and the surge in abstinence-only sex education. "Last year, the city of San Francisco had its AIDS budget cut by $7 million," says Christopher Bowers, of Face to Face, an
HIV outreach organization in Sonoma county, California. Bowers posted a MySpace profile in January to address those cuts. "The Internet has been a good way to network with local organizations, schools, and reach youth, because the under-30 group makes up more than 25% of the newly diagnosed," he says. "It's really important to go where the people are."
Monday, June 25, 2007 

Common Symptoms of Sexually Transmitted Infections:

-Burning or pain while urinating

-Any discharge from the opening of the penis

-A change in a woman's normal vaginal discharge or smell

-Sores, blisters, rashes, bumps or growths around the genitals or anus

-Pain during sex

Curable Vs. Non-Curable STIs

STIs that are curable are bacteria. These include Gonorrhea, Chlamydia, Syphilis, Trichomoniasis.

STI's that are not curable are virus. They all begin with the letter 'H': HIV, Hepatitis B and C, Herpes, and HPV (Genital Warts)

STD RISKS CHART


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Behaviors

STDs

Performing Oral Sex on a Man

Known Risks: Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, Hepatitis A, Herpes (rare), HPV(warts), Shigella, Syphilis

Possible Risks: Hepatitis B, HIV, Hepatitis

Performing Oral Sex on a Woman

Known Risks: Herpes (rare)

Possible Risks: HPV (warts)

Receiving Oral Sex, Man

Known Risks: Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, NGU, Herpes, Syphilis

Possible Risks: HPV (warts)

Receiving Oral Sex, Woman

Known Risks: Herpes

Possible Risks: HPV (warts)

Anal Sex, Top

Known Risks: Chlamydia, Crabs/Scabies, Gonorrhea, Hepatitis B, Herpes, HIV, HPV (warts), NGU, Syphilis

Possible Risks: Hepatitis C

Anal Sex, Bottom

Known Risks: Chlamydia, Crabs/Scabies, Gonorrhea, Hepatitis B, Herpes, HIV, HPV (warts), Syphilis

Possible Risks 

Vaginal Sex- Man

Known Risks: Chlamydia, Crabs/Scabies, Gonorrhea, Hepatitis B, Herpes, HIV, HPV (warts), Syphilis, NGU, Trichomoniasis

Possible Risks: Hepatitis C

Vaginal Sex- Woman

Known Risks: Chlamydia, Crabs/Scabies, Gonorrhea, Hepatitis B, Herpes, HIV, HPV (warts), Syphilis, Trichomoniasis

Possible Risks: Hepatitis C

Oral-Anal Sex

Known Risks: Parasites, Hepatitis A, Shigella

Possible Risks: HPV (warts)

From www.inspot.org/std-info/sexual-risk

Friday, June 22, 2007 

Important Risk Factors to Know

1.       Number of Sexual Partners

2.       Gender of Partners

3.       Sexual Practices (anal, oral, vaginal…)

4.       Patterns of Condom Use

5.       Patterns of Substance Use (what they use and how often)

6.       History of Injection Drug Use (IDU)

7.       Prior STD's

8.       STD/HIV Testing History (have they been tested and how often)

9.       Exchange of sex for money or drugs

          10.   Assumptions about Partners' Risk Behaviors
Friday, June 22, 2007 

VIH:    Virus de la Inmunodeficiencia Humana
SIDA:
Síndrome de Inmunodeficiencia Adquirida

El SIDA no es un enfermedad, es un diagnóstico que usted adquiere después de vivir con VIH.

Tres factores para un diagnóstico del SIDA:  

Para un diagnóstico se necesita 2 cosas:

  1. VIH tiene que existir en el cuerpo
  2. muy pocos células T (menos que doscientos, 200) O enfermedad oportunista

Aunque su salud pueda mejorar el diagnóstico de SIDA no se irá. Esto es generalmente una cosa buena porque personas con un diagnóstico de SIDA tienen derecho a para más beneficios.

Como infecta el cuerpo:

VIH ataca las células T, va adentro, la destruye y por fin, llega a ser VIH pero se todavía parece como una célula T de afuera. Entonces las otras celulas no pueden decernirlo.

Una vez que la célula llega a ser VIH, puede multiplicarse muy fácilmente, aumentando la cantidad de VIH en el cuerpo.

Los Modos de Tranmission:

Los 4 Líquidos:

  1. Sangre
  2. Semen
  3. Líquidos Vaginales
  4. La Leche

no se puede transmitir por medio del sudor, las lágrimas, la orina, ni la saliva. Es posible que VIH exista en esos líquidos pero en la cantidad no suficiente le deberá infectar.

Los Actos de Altos Riesgos: Situaciones cuando es posible tener contacto con los 4 liquidos

  1. el Sexo sin proteccion (seguro contra más seguro, no hay sexo que es totalmente seguro)

Los tipos del sexo:

el sexo anal (penetrativo, receptivo)

el sexo oral

      el sexo vaginal (penetrativo, receptivo)

  1. el sangre (transfusión de sangre)
  2. tatuajes (la tinta y la aguja)
  3. pajas para cocaina
  4. Compartir la agujas

Los Modos de Prevenir:

  1. abstinencia
  2. Masturbaccion
  3. condones (sexo mas seguro)
  4. intercambio de aguja
  5. haganse la prueba
  6. barreras de latex durante sexo oral

Como utilzar un condon la manera corecta

1.     verifiquen la fecha de expira

2.     lo mantengan en un lugar seguro (no calor -no lo mantiene en su marca de

3.     cartera ni coche)

4.     aseguren no hay hoyos en el paquete si usted se pone en al revés (con el lado incorrecto), obtiene un nuevo condón (precum)

5.     pellizquen la punta como esta desorollandolo.

6.     cuando usteds lo quiten, tenga por la base cuando saca y lo aten al fin

Friday, June 22, 2007 

FREE AND ANONYMOUS HIV/STI TESTING SITES

Guerneville:
Safeway parking lot (by food truck)***
Every Wednesday 5:00 pm-7:30 pm



Graton:
Graton Community Club***
Every other Saturday8:00 am-10:00 am



Sebastopol:
Sebastopol Flea Market, Highway 116***
Every Saturday,10:30 am-12:30 pm



Santa Rosa Test Sites:
Southwest Community Health Center, Men's Services (see ad below)



Sonoma County Department of Health Services
418 Riley St., 565-4620




Sonoma County Department of Health Services,415 Humboldt St. 565- 4620 Drop-in testing:Every Friday 2:00 pm-4:00 pm



Drug Abuse Alternative Center (DAAC)
2403 Professional Drive. 544-3295
Drop-in testing Monday 12:00 - 4:00 pm, Thursday 2:00 pm-5:30 pm,



***These locations subject to change. Call 565- 4620 to confirm or for information about other Sonoma County sites.

Friday, June 22, 2007 

HIV  Transmission Facts

There are four main bodily fluids that transmit the virus:  blood, semen, vaginal fluids, and breast milk.  Any activity that puts you and another person into contact with one of these four fluids increases the risk of HIV transmission. Tears, sweat, saliva, urine, and fecal matter DO NOT have the quantity of virus or temperature conditions necessary to transmit the virus. They may transmit other illnesses such as Hepatitis A, so please consult your doctor if you have concerns.

Specific behaviors increase the likelihood of  coming into contact with the bodily fluids that transmit HIV. These are (in order from highest risk to lowest):

·       Sharing used needles ("works", "cookers", etc)                                                                     

·       Getting tattoos using dirty needles or dirty ink

·       Exposure to blood during a fight, accident, or medical emergency or procedure

·       Sharing straws during drug use

·       Unprotected receptive anal sex (being a bottom, "barebacking", "RUAS")

·       Unprotected receptive vaginal sex ("boning", "barebacking", "riding dirty")

·       Unprotected penetrative anal sex ("topping")

·       Unprotected oral sex on a man with ejaculation

·       Unprotected oral sex on a woman ("going down", "oral exam", "cunnilingus")

·       Unprotected oral sex on a man without ejaculation ("fellecio"

·       Having gotten blood transfusions in the United States prior to 1985 or a blood transfusion in another country that may not screen their blood

Completely stopping all drug or sexual activity (abstinence) are the only way to be 100% safe. However, there are safer sex and harm reducing behaviors that help decrease one's risk of passing on the virus:

  • Using condoms during anal sex
  • Using condoms during vaginal sex
  • Using a condom or dental dam during oral sex
  • Using only NEW needles if injecting a drug (call the Sonoma County Needle Exchange at 707-527-5227)
  • Using only new straws if you snort drugs
  • Insist that your tattoo artists use new ink pods and new needles
  • Using clean (ideally sterilized) sex toys
  • Avoid breast feeding if you are HIV positive or do not know your status
  • If someone is HIV positive the sooner they get prenatal carethe more likely it is that they can have an HIV-negative baby. This is especially important for the mother-to-be also because being pregnant can tax an already compromised immune system

There is no shame in learning how to play safely.

The use of alcohol or drugs is a known and frequent factor in HIV transmission. When people are drunk or high they often engage in more risky sex acts that they would normally.  If you have sexual relations, use a condom. And if you are doing drugs don't share works. If you would like help reducing the harm some drugs can do to your body and mind or if you would like help quitting altogether, please talk to your case manager.

If you work in the sex industry, take special care to protect yourself since sexual activity is more frequent and less likely to be with partners whose history you know. It is okay to say "No" or to stop a sexual act mid-stream in order to take precautions against HIV/STD transmission. Some people have feelings of guilt or shame associated with sex. While this is very personal and sometimes painful, it is not impossible to work through. Finding a place of comfort and peace with your own sexuality can help create healthier and more fulfilling relationships.

Prevention

Completely stopping all drug or sexual activity (abstinence) are the only way to be 100% safe. However, there are safer sex and harm reducing behaviors that help decrease one's risk of passing on the virus:

  • Using condoms during anal sex
  • Using condoms during vaginal sex
  • Using a condom or dental dam during oral sex
  • Using only NEW needles if injecting a drug (call the Sonoma County Needle Exchange at 707-527-5227)
  • Using only new straws if you snort drugs
  • Insist that your tattoo artists use new ink pods and new needles
  • Using clean (ideally sterilized) sex toys
  • Avoid breast feeding if you are HIV positive or do not know your status
  • If someone is HIV positive the sooner they get prenatal carethe more likely it is that they can have an HIV-negative baby. This is especially important for the mother-to-be also because being pregnant can tax an already compromised immune system

If you'd like information or a clinical demonstration on any of the above, we will be happy to help, just ask your case manager. There is no shame in learning how to play safely.

The use of alcohol or drugs is a known and frequent factor in HIV transmission. When people are drunk or high they often engage in more risky sex acts that they would normally.  If you have sexual relations, use a condom. And if you are doing drugs don't share works. If you would like help reducing the harm some drugs can do to your body and mind or if you would like help quitting altogether, please talk to your case manager.

If you work in the sex industry, take special care to protect yourself since sexual activity is more frequent and less likely to be with partners whose history you know. It is okay to say "No" or to stop a sexual act mid-stream in order to take precautions against HIV/STD transmission. Some people have feelings of guilt or shame associated with sex. While this is very personal and sometimes painful, it is not impossible to work through. Finding a place of comfort and peace with your own sexuality can help create healthier and more fulfilling relationships. Another factor in terms of self-care and transmission is simply getting basic needs met. Case managers can assist people with getting housing and financial needs met. When there is less worry about money and other basic necessities studies have shown that people are more likely to be more grounded and safer sexually.

You need to know… HIV Disclosure in California:

If you are HIV positive, you need to know that a California law (SB 705) makes it a felony, punishable by up to eight years in prison, to knowingly expose or infect an unaware person with HIV (If you've got a letter of diagnosis or have had a positive HIV test, you are assumed to know).  It is considered a crime for individuals who know they are HIV-positive to engage in unprotected sex or known unsafe behavior without informing their partners of their status. The law also allows a person's HIV status to be disclosed if the person is the subject of a criminal investigation for committing this crime. There have also been cases of people with HIV + being held civilly liable (had to pay money) to people they infected in addition to jail time. 

Disclosure can be difficult but we are here here to help. If disclosure is a problem for you, we are here to talk about what works best for you. Ask your case manager for confidential assistance.  If you choose not to disclose your HIV status to people, remember that engaging in protected sex and safer drug use (no used needles "works" or used straws) will help protect you from these concerns and protects your partners and friends. As well, Sonoma County has an anonymous disclosure program. Someone who works for the county will contact your past and present partners to let them know that someone they have been with is HIV positive without telling them that it is you specifically you.

Outreach

Our Outreach Program is designed to connect with those most at risk of receiving HIV. This includes marginalized populations such as "at-risk" teenagers, immigrants, and those who use drugs or alcohol. Our program consists of  community education and one-on-one street outreach.

Community Presentations

We give dozens of school presentations to local high schools and colleges continuing to give our youth the essential "HIV 101" course on modes of transmission, risk reduction, and how and when to get tested.

Face to Face also gives presentations to upper-level college classes on the bio-psycho-social aspects of living with HIV in human sexuality, health education, psychology, counseling and social science courses

As well, we also do bilingual presentations to ESL classes and day laborers in Sonoma County 

To request a presentation email: cbowers@f2f.org