Gender: Male
Status: Divorced
Age: 42
Sign: Leo
City: Fayetteville
State: North Carolina
Country: US
Signup Date: 8/25/2005
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Thursday, January 25, 2007 7:24 AM
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Current mood:  calm
Category: Movies, TV, Celebrities
Last night I watched a movie with my lovely wife Ginger. We are big 80s kids, Gen Xs, all that, and so that is a big part of our past, that we like to share with each other. We have gotten a new TV and for our Anniversary present hehehe we got a really nice DVD player. So we are catching up on lots of movies in the past 3 or 4 years we have missed out on as well as rewatching some old movies. Flatliners was an old movie.
Flatliners stars Keifer Sutherland, Julia Roberts, Kevin Bacon as the main three. I think Keifer really owns the role and does it well. His role is that of a student doctor near graduation trying to make a mark to stand out for himself and because of his past he is drawn to death. So he wants to determine if there is an activity, any experiences beyond brain death. He devised a procedure to cool the body down, apply drugs, and shock the heart to stop it. Once there is brain death the count is on and they give each person a longer (silly part of the movie is the whole I will go next 2:40!) time down. Once the duration has been reached they attempt to resuscitate the peerson who went down.
Keifer goes first. He has a nice little visit with his past running with the boys, and his dog. And he is happy. Of course once he comes back there has to be more to it. There is. Apparently as each person goes down under, dies, and comes back they reawaken the person they most bothered. In Keifer's case this ends up being quite bad because he had a boy in childhood who he chased up a tree and was throwing snow balls at, fall from the tree and get impaled on a fence post and dies. This whole ordeal of course is not discovered until the end of the movie.
Julia's chareceter is interesting in that she finds her father injecting heroin because of his army injuries untreated. It is hard for her to she her Father in this needy role, and also for him, when he is seen shooting up, he is so horrified he must commit suicide. Of course, there in lies the saving grace, that Julia's charecter can accept her Father as needy as he was.
This is actually a really good movie to watch. Nothing over involved, and not very dark. It reaches out to the viewer and asks "we all die, but what will make your death rememberable."
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Sunday, January 14, 2007 5:50 PM
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Current mood:  amused
Category: Life
10. No one will kill you for not drinking Beer.
9. Beer doesn't tell you how to have sex.
8. Beer has never caused a major war.
7. They don't force Beer on minors who can't think for themselves.
6. When you have Beer, you don't knock on people's doors trying to make them drink it.
5. Nobody's ever been burned at the stake, hanged, or tortured over their brand of Beer.
4. You don't have to wait more than 2,000 years for a second Beer.
3. There are laws saying that Beer labels can't lie to you.
2. If you've devoted your life to Beer, there are groups to help you stop.
1. You can prove you have a Beer.
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Sunday, January 14, 2007 7:05 AM
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Current mood:  drained
Category: Games
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Thursday, January 11, 2007 4:20 PM
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Current mood:  recumbent
Category: Quiz/Survey
| You Are Green Tea Pocky |  Your attitude: natural and zen
Peaceful yet full of life. Deep and thoughtful.
You're halfway to tantric bliss!
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Friday, December 29, 2006 10:10 PM
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Current mood:  awake
Category: Quiz/Survey
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Saturday, December 23, 2006 4:44 PM
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Current mood:  contemplative
Category: Life
Although it drives a big part of our economy, I have always been bothered by the spending frenzy that defines the Holiday Season for Americans. Whether one is Christian, Jewish, Pagan, or Atheist, insane shopping, and defining love through spending clearly marks what it is to be an American in this part of the year. I have always been sickened to see the ritual of gift buying as we do it as Americans. I was once naive enough and biased foolishly to think of this as purely Christian process. That Christians use gift buying and gift giving as a method of purgatory upon Earth; to buy forgiveness by buying gifts and giving them. But I was naive. I didn't see fully earlier in my life that people of all faiths, or no faith do this. That it is an secular as well as religious process. We pagans are as guilty of it as well as any Christian, and as well as any agnostic and as well as any atheist.
Buying things and in so doing driving the economy is not the bad thing. It is necessary for businesses to go back in the black, to turn a profit, and make the economy healthier. However, that most Americans go through this spending frenzy and this out of balanced gift giving speaks of the American lack of any awareness of what drives them to go all out on spending, to often over-spend and cause worsened personnel debt;to go through a torturous kind of shopping, spending, and giving in order to essentially atone for our sins, to take punishment for our wrong doings.
What do I believe we, Americans, are doing by embracing and facing our consumerism at this time of the year? I think that we face hard trials of shopping as the New American Quest; it has become our Holy Grail. We face huge maddening crowds, we fight to find gifts we feel good about giving, we go through harsh levels of stress. We fight for the last, farthest away parking space in the mall lot, and we fight through large crowds of shoppers each driven by guilt, by pride out of balance, and we do so for twisted ideals.
What we are doing is putting ourselves out (spending more than we have, enduring crowds we normally would never face, put with rude treatment, putting ourselves through atonement) to show each other that we love each other, to show that we have honor, to willing accept punishment, and endure hardships gladly that at any other time of the year would not even entertain such notions.
Yes it is atonement. We come to realize that for the vast majority of the year, we are cynical, selfish, and rude. The rest of the year we are selfish and uncaring. In order to let go of our guilt complexes we willing face the out of warped shopping/spending season that is our modern day Yule. We shit over each other 90% of the year without any sense of wrong doing or guilt. Then we enter Christmas time and we have the means to show each other that we are actually caring people, honorable people, warm hearted, and giving. We even donate money, food, clothing, and our energy to house and feed the homeless, clothe the poor children, protect the abused spouses.
We willfully overspend our budgets to get people that special gift. We fool ourselves into thinking we are doing this just for the pleasure giving. But really, most all of us are going through all we go through this time of year, as a kind of apology to each other for being rude, uncaring, and cold. And it is an American process practiced by people of all religions, faiths, beliefs, or even unbeliefs.
When I was Christian, I did this. I spent more than I could afford to spend, I donate my time and skills to entertain, feed, and clothe the needy. I spent time holding hands and talking with family when the rest of the year I avoided be with these people. I sought out gifts to give, foods to cook, chats to talk, and hands to hold in order to think that I was making up for the rest of the year where I would not give to, cook for, care for.
And now as a Pagan, I do this too. I give to make up for not treating people with the respect they truly deserve. And I see that most all of us are doing this.
I have really poorly expressed my points and I apologize. What I think we Americans do at this time of year is to attempt to make up for treating each other poorly. We give so much it hurts to make up for our selfish ways the rest of the year. Its become an American rite of passage to face large crowds, spend more than we can afford, give more than we can stomach, donate our time to the needy, cook are special dishes, share our time and energies with each other, and become termporarily decent people.
What I wish we could do, would be to spread out our sharing with each other, our acts of kindness, our giving, lovable selves so that instead of giving almost all of what we give squeezed into one tiny part of the year, that we would make the efforts to show our kindness to each other all throughout the year. We would then do so in a more controlled and balanced way. Our giving would be more frequent, less forced, less painful, and it would be for honest reasons. Instead of cramming all our kind, noble actions into a three week period, it would be lightly sustained across the whole year. It would not be driven by guilt. We would not be making up to each other for how shitty we treat each other, but we would be freely and without forcing, honestly caring for each other.
I truly hope that I can learn to give a little bit at any time of the year, because its an honest desire to make a difference, and not a forced, major effort done out of guilt.
I hope you all were able to digest this very lengthy post, and think about it.
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Friday, December 22, 2006 3:17 PM
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Current mood:  bouncy
Category: Quiz/Survey
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Friday, December 15, 2006 1:55 PM
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Category: Life
This is an excellent article on the season.
Christmas, pagans and religious divergence
By Mary Zeiss StangeMon Dec 11, 6:55 AM ET
Happy holidays!
Have I just offended you? If you are a member of the American Family Association, the Catholic League for Religious and Civil Rights or the Committee to Save Merry Christmas, I probably have.
For the second year in a row, conservative Christian groups have threatened boycotts of big-box and department stores whose advertisements for "holiday trees" and whose hearty if non-specific holiday well-wishes reflect, these groups say, an "anti-Christian and anti-Christmas bias."
Opponents of generic holiday greetings also suspect that there is something un-American about them. As Alderman Thurston Hanson of Monroe, Wis., objected, when he recently voted against a City Council motion to grant the Chamber of Commerce a permit for a post-Thanksgiving "holiday" parade: "Christmas is a federally mandated holiday. … Ninety percent of people celebrate Christmas, and we shouldn't offend them by not calling it what it is."
Hanson's numbers might be somewhat skewed (roughly 80% of Americans are self-identified Christians), but major chains, including Wal-Mart, Target, Walgreen's, Macy's and Kohl's, have gotten the message. The assumption at work here appears to be that, while we are a diverse society, Christmas is a national holiday that trumps all other seasonal celebrations.
"Black Friday," the day after Thanksgiving that kicks off the annual frenzy of consumerism known as the holiday season, sets the tone. Gone are the days when folks who worried about rampant materialism cautioned that it was time to "put Christ back into Christmas." Now it's time to put Christ back into Kmart. And so, as Wal-Mart spokeswoman Marisa Bluestone has bravely proclaimed, "This year, we're not afraid to say 'Merry Christmas.' "
What about us?
Of course, if you are a Jew celebrating Hanukkah, or a Muslim marking Eid al-Fitr, or a neo-pagan Wiccan for whom the Winter Solstice (Dec. 21) is a major observance, you probably had appreciated the more inclusive acknowledgement that the end of the year is a festive time for you, too.
Indeed, particularly if you are Wiccan, the matter of being un-included this holiday season must especially sting. A group of Wiccan families is suing the Department of Veterans Affairs for the right to bury their fallen heroes in military cemeteries in graves marked with a pentacle, the five-pointed star that symbolizes their religion, much as a cross does Christianity or a Star of David, Judaism.
Why this symbolic exclusion that potentially affects about 1,800 active service personnel?
Veterans Affairs recognizes 38 religious symbols for soldiers' graves, and to the casual observer, some of them are odd, indeed. In addition to a variety of Christian crosses and a cross-section of symbols from world religious traditions ranging from Buddhism to Bahai, the "Available Emblems of Belief for Placement on Government Headstones and Markers" also include symbols for atheists, the Church of World Messianity (Izonume), Sufism Reoriented, Eckankar, the "Humanist Emblem of Spirit," and the United Church of Religious Science. Given this potpourri of "available" faiths, the exclusion of Wicca, which calls itself the Old Religion and traces its origin to pre-Christian Europe, is baffling.
Or maybe not. The federal authorities have offered no convincing explanation for the banning of this one group's symbol. But the presumption at work seems to be that, while Christian America will tolerate a certain degree of religious divergence, there is something about witchcraft that simply crosses the line. "Alternative" religious perspectives are one thing; paganism, quite another.
Pagan symbolism
Yet there is a deep, and seasonal, irony here - one that might come as a shock to the "Save Merry Christmas" crowd.
For Christmas is, in its origins and its symbolism, perhaps the most pagan-inspired of all Christian holidays. Its dating derives from the ancient Roman festival of Saturnalia, which was determined by the winter solstice, that astronomical point in the year after which the periods of sunlight on Earth lengthen.
And that's not all that contemporary Christians have in common with neo-pagans. Most of the popular symbols surrounding Christmas - evergreen trees and other greenery, mistletoe and holly, the Yule log, candles and bonfires and holiday lights, mystical spirits with the ability to fly and to enter and leave a house through its chimney, tricksters who treat or taunt little children, not to mention those elves - all derive from older, pre-Christian Europe.
These pagan-derived symbols and customs are precisely the elements of Christmas that Christian activists are pressing to preserve and promote, in venues such as Target and Macy's. Compounding the irony even further, these are the symbols that federal and state courts have determined make a holiday display sufficiently "secular" to warrant its construction on public property at taxpayer expense. All of which goes to illustrate what's wrong when any one religious group or government entity claims the ability to determine what constitutes "religion" in America.
In fact, nothing could be more in keeping with the "Christmas spirit" than to embrace and celebrate religious diversity. And nothing could be truer to the spirit of the First Amendment than to honor American war dead as they and their loved ones would wish. No single group of self-proclaimed Christians holds a premium on the meaning of this magical season. And no government agency should decide what "qualifies" as an appropriate religious symbol.
And so, no offense intended, but season's greetings.
Mary Zeiss Stange is a professor of women's studies and religion at Skidmore College. She also is a member of USA TODAY's board of contributors.
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Wednesday, December 13, 2006 1:09 PM
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Category: Quiz/Survey
| Which M*A*S*H character are you? Hawkeye Pierce You are an extreme liberal and an excellent surgeon. Definetly not military, you spend you off hours drinking gin and trolling for nurses along with the odd poker game or two. Being from Crab Apple Cove, Maine, you are used to the finer sea foods of the eastern coast and shun at the thoughts of the swill that the army serves. With a wit that is sharper than a bowie knife, you can find humor in almost anything. 
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