So, my Rock Star Husband got this killer gig, playing for a fund raiser for an orphanage called
Casa Hogar in Cabo San Lucas, Mexico. It was a
Celebrity Golf Classic Tournament.
Actors, football players, and very down to earth, interesting RICH
PEOPLE who love to have fun for a good cause. If you have never looked
on a map,
click this link,
because this will be pertinent. Notice how Cabo is at the very bottom
tip of a narrow peninsula, 775 miles from the United States border.
The
band got to bring the wives and girlfriends. A villa on the ocean was
donated for us. Incredible rock star treatment and the orphanage was so
amazing (more on that in another post. Hopefully I can get a link to
the video that Donna DeBerry made about the boys). I got to watch a
whale frolic in the ocean FROM THE POOL. We had a very good reason for
leaving our babies (now 2.5 and 8 months) home for the first time and
we felt it was good practice for me returning ever so gracefully to my
career as a touring musician. They knew they were safe with their
Grandfather Diddy and my 2.5 year old knew EXACTLY when we were coming
home, because he has his own little calendar and he and Diddy marked
the days off.
At Buffalo’s gig on Friday night at The Hard Rock Cafe in Cabo, his wallet was stolen from the stage while the band and the company that provided the backline were packing up.
I
knew instantly, the severity of our situation. I’m not certain that
anyone else did or possibly could know the severity, without having
lived in a multinational marriage. I started to see my little boy’s
face, when we didn’t come home as promised… HEARTACHE. TOTAL
DESTRUCTION OF TRUST AROUND MOMMY LEAVING. (you can’t understand unless
you have kids). I also knew that because I speak Spanish and have
traveled extensively in Mexico and because of emerging situations in
the country, I could not leave my husband, who grew up in a Welsh
village with more sheep than people and speaks ZERO Spanish alone to
sort it out.
The following article covers the current situations in Mexico. The title pretty much sums it up. Swine Flu, Earthquake, and Drug Wars Rock Mexico.
Note:
Going into this trip, Swine Flu and Earthquake had not happened and the
drug Wars are not know to be a problem in Cabo, because it’s SO FAR
AWAY from the rest of Mexico and the border.
Ok… so on this
trip, we were surrounded by lots of highly capable, generous,
successful people full of ideas and contacts who might be able to help
us. One person spoke directly with someone they know at the State
Department. One person emailed a Senator. John Zaring, the amazing, amazing event producer was relentless in trying to help us and he started making arrangements for IF we had to stay longer in Cabo.
In
the mean time, we spoke with the Cabo and Mexico City Consulates and
EVERYONE said the same thing. Cabo consulate could do nothing for us.
Buffalo’s two options were to obtain a Transportation Boarding letter
IN PERSON from the Mexico City Consulate
in order to be allowed on a flight to the US and then apply for a
replacement card in person or to make his way to the border, where he
could apply for a replacement card. Everyone said, “Your Best Bet is to
get to the border.” I mean everyone other than the many (clearly not
experienced with anything INS related) people who said things that all
started with phrases like, “well, shouldn’t you be able to…” and
“surely you could just…”, and “I would think that because Sarah is a US
citizen…”
-Transportation Boarding Letter to allow Andy to fly home could only be obtained in person in Mexico City or Tijuana.
-Mexico City (and Consulate) closed indefinitely due to Swine Flu Epidemic
-Next Flight to Tijuana from Cabo = 4 days after our scheduled flight home
- What I found on the internet about driving from Cabo San Lucas to Tijuana, the nearest border town
About 775 miles. If you plan to drive make sure you don’t drive at
night or after dusk - ever. Cows and horses walk in the roads at night
and you can’t see them until you are a part of them. It is very, very
dangerous. Cell phones - all carriers - do not have coverage most of
the way to Cabo or San Jose. It takes 2 very full and very long days to
drive in the summer and 3 days in the winter due to shorter drive time
hours.
So I got on Facebook
last night and here is what I put as my status: “Sarah needs a friend
at the American consulate in Mexico City or Tijuana pronto, por favor.
Bufalo’s wallet w/ GREENCARD stolen on stage Friday night. Swine Flu
not helping matters. We r in Cabo but they say our only hope is to get
to a border town. so many conflicting answers from 1 person to the
next. Not kidding.”
Ideas and possible connections poured in on FB. Cynthia Colpaart wrote, “I will contact Kirk Watson in the morning. Don’t panic!” Sure, that would be great, Cythina… all avenues, please!
First thing this morning, I called Continental Airlines
while Andy called the INS and triple checked that he couldn’t fly into
the US just as an English visitor. A very definite answer from both
that we had to have this Transportation Boarding Letter. Andy was off
waiting outside the Cabo Consulate for them to open (late), in case he could convince someone to fax this important letter.
Meanwhile,
I was trying to find domestic Mexico flights that would get us to the
border, preferably the Texas Border, even more preferably, a border
town closer to Austin. Cynthia popped up on my Facebook Instant
Messenger. It went something very roughly like this…
‘I’m on hold.’
‘They put me through to Senator Kay Bailey Hutchison’s office!’
‘She’s going to help you, don’t worry.’
I emailed Cynthia photocopies of all of Buffalo’s documents, including the stolen Greencard
‘She’s contacted the Cabo Consulate, the State Department, such and so,
such and so’ ( I don’t even remember it all, wish I had saved the chat!)
‘She’s says don’t worry.’
‘She says, Let’s get them home!’
Somewhere in there, Cynthia mentioned that she needs a job and I’m
thinking… “This lady knows how to get things done! Who wouldn’t want to
hire her?”
I’m
waiting for Cynthia to fill me on on the details of how on earth this
all worked out, but while it was going down, I asked her, “How are you
doing this????”
Her answer was so amazing to me, “I’m a
child of the 60’s and I learned a long time ago to be patient, to never
get angry and to make my politicians earn their votes.”
Just
then, Buffalo called and said that the Senator’s office had called the
Cabo Consulate (again after getting nowhere with them on the letter)
and the message was for Buffalo and I to get to the Continental Ticket
counter immediately. They would be expecting us.
And so we did and indeed they were expecting us and from what I gather, Senator Hutchison
was able to communicate directly between someone way up at Continental
and the head of the Houston INS department. They gave us our boarding
passes and told Andy to expect to be detained in Houston, but that it
would only be for a few hours and he would probaly miss his connecting
flight. And that is indeed what happened. The whole time we were still
terrified that their would be a break in the lines of communication
that would mean Buffalo was “in trouble” (which can mean deportation…
REALLY) and I think I grew a golf ball sized ulcer waiting for them to
set my Buffalo free, but after about 3 hours, he came out unscathed and
his application for a replacement card had been filed. And really bad
weather in Houston even made our connecting flight to Austin wait for
us while Buffalo was detained! Can I get an AMEN?!!!
I must
mention that every single immigration officer was as courteous and
professional as one could possibly be to us and everyone we witnessed.
And from what I also gather, Cynthia was able to get through to Senator Hutchison
so that she could SAVE OUR BUMS, simply by being a concerned citizen
with good manners… not by being wealthy, connected, whatever. Does that
warm your heart or what???? I know mine’s warm right now, but how could
it not be? We’re home, our babies waited up for us, and they are now so
fast asleep and we are all safe and sound!
I know we are the exception in this nightmare situation. I am feeling EXCEPTIONALLY grateful to Cynthia, Senator Kay ‘Bailey-Me-Out’ Hutchison (my new name for her) and to God for letting me be born in the USA!
oh! and Buffalo is applying for US citizenship PRONTO.
Thank you!