Hi Hog,

How do you tell if a flirty guy likes you as more than just a flirt-buddy? Are relationships with flirty guys even worth it?

- K

Your question is great! You're such a talented question-asker. You're a lot different from the other girls who ask me questions. Your question is very sexy.

See what I did there? HA HA HA!

Actually, your question is excellent. Because so many of the problems with dating and "the chase" are caused by miscommunication. How do you know if he's being sincere with you or if he's like that with all the girls?

HogWild Dating Rule 8,012: "Actions speak louder than words." (Except for the word YOWZA! because that's a pretty loud word.) What a person tells you means very little compared to what they actually do. It's easy for someone to say they like you. But what does that mean if they can't back it up with ACTION?

Does that person DO things to show they like you?

Things a guy should DO to show that he really likes you:

1 - spend time with you

2 - stay awake while listening to your stories no matter how boring they are

3 - politely point his butt away from you while farting

Girls and guys flirt for different reasons.

Girls flirt when:

1 - they like the guy

or

2 - they don't like the guy but they like the attention he will give her after flirting

or

3 - they want something from him like the homework answers or the secret nuclear plans in his briefcase (depends on your age)

Guys flirt because...

What? There's a guy out there who knows how to flirt?

This is very rare. Flirt means to tease and tempt and hint that you might like someone. Us guys tend to be very direct via nifty little compliments like, "Nice t!ts!"

Guys, I do NOT recommend you ever compliment a girl on her boobies.

WHEN YOU 1st MEET A GIRL, YOU SHOULD NEVER COMPLIMENT HER ON:

* her eyes

* her ba-donk-a-donk booty

* the hair on her arms

* the shape of her camel-toe