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|Miss Chelsea| aka [Chelz: Da Vixen]



Last Updated: 11/27/2009

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Gender: Female
Status: In a Relationship
Age: 21
Sign: Leo

City: Freeport, Bahamas...Delray Bch
State: Florida
Country: US
Signup Date: 9/21/2005

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February 15, 2009 - Sunday 

Current mood:  adored
WOW!

I had the most amazing Valentine's weekend that I will remember, cherish and judge by for the rest of my life...at first I didn't think it would be much since I'm super single and wasn't expecting anybody to be around...so I put on a sexy dress n treated myself to dinner at the Melting Pot, then hooked up with Dee n shut Spirits down...then me n Cessie got together n made an Island feast n plenty of liquor...checked my email n saw the ex-fiance wrote me all kinds of (lame) mushy crap bout hopinh my V-Day is fun...then my boo came over and spoiled me ALL NIGHT and most of today...whoa. I love me some him...

So all in all, I couldn't be happier. I feel amazing and beautiful and valued and cherished. The way I been wishin to feel for years...I made it happen for myself and everyone around me added to my happiness this weekend.

It was so great that I had to write about it! AMAZING!!!!!!!
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October 28, 2007 - Sunday 

Current mood:  content
Category: Life
IF A MAN WANTS YOU

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better."
You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.

He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
Oh Lord!? If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new
relationship You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals... look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE.
"They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them. "
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