Im so fustrated with trying to figure out what men want:
Case Senario One:
 
They SAY they do not want  a woman who has been passed from one man to the next man.
They SAY  they want a woman who is classy , and who holds respect for her self and body.
  A woman who is keen to carry out and do all she can for him..
But when he comes across that woman  he wanted; he suddenly shakes in his boots and lowers his standards and then contradicts his previous statment about the type of woman he said he wanted before . He then leaves her for a woman that is the exact REVERSE of what he "claimed" to be the ideal type of woman. 
He cheats on her and/ or leaves her for the woman in which he said he DID NOT want - (the slut;the hoe;the freak; the fenmale that his homeboy, homeboys and homeboys brothers have been with and/or in. and treats her like a fucking queen??!!!!!
 
OR
Case Scenario Two:
I suppose i failed to realize why men think it is appropriate and okay to ATTEMPT to convience me that they are "THE ONE" ; and coiencidently they should be the one to give in to. - 
and when you tell them:
"N0"  "if you cared about me as much as you say, then you would respect me and my wishes to wait, and you would do just that; WAIT. and not rush me into doing something that im not ready for."
 
 They get mad and they give you the guilty plee; as though you are doing them wrong and aren't making them feel any different from any other man you have been in a relationship with in the past; so they come with this here:
" Well you obviously do not love me either if you arent giving me that special part of you; what makes me different from all the other men because they have recieved the same thing; NOTHING
BUT in reply and defense all i have to say is the same thing: 
"what makes me as a female any different to you if i give it up to you? What makes me different from every other woman you have been with or been involved with?
absolutely N0THiNG- ill just be another woman you hooked up with; or to keep it real just another woman woman you  fucked,smashed, cut,sexed,boned, etc etc..
so just because a woman isn't naive and reluctant to have sex with you  does not mean you are not special to her...
That simply means you must respect her and most importantly appreciate the fact that she is not like all the others. that ALONE should make you feel special
 
BUT BE CAREFUL BECAUSE YOU MAY COME ACROSS THE WOMAN WHO USES THE ABSTINENCE THING JUST SO MEN ARE SWINDLED INT0 THINKiNG THAT SHES THE INN0CENT, CHURCH WOMAN.- [we will call her the bitch LOL]
BUT a woman who  actually respects herself and really feels strong about sex and feels that her body is  special and is more than a toy to play with andput back on the shelf when you get bored with it, a sex symbol, or a attention grabbing statue. A wman who feels as tho her body is meant for one person and ONE person only WHOEVER that may be.
not one boyfriend, the ex-boyfriend, the next boyfriend, then the husband but only for one man... 
 THATS the true meaning of keeper fellas. feel me? or are you mad at me? 
THATS what i want men to understand. 
sex; believe it or not is not everything nor the best part of the relationship it is better if you are both ready, i guarantee a woman will fall for you harder if you respect her morals and how she feels about it. If it is a mutual feeling when it "goes down"; its going to be a beautiful thing. IT HAS TO BE.
If you are willing to wait on her and at the same time remain faithful. MAJOR brownie points for you brotha! !
ALL IN ALL
thats what im looking for.
 
Diandrea