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Naomi Trower


Last Updated: 3/1/2009

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Gender: Female
Status: Married
Age: 36
Sign: Gemini

City: Santa Clarita
State: California
Country: US

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Saturday, September 06, 2008 
Sunday, July 13, 2008 

Category: Blogging


I love to read. It's one of my favorite passions in life so much so that I read several books at the same time and finish them all! I am currently reading 3 books but I will mention the 2nd book "Secrets of the Millionaire Mind" by T. Harv Eker as I have talked about the 1st book "Think and Grow Rich" by Napoleon Hill in my two previous blogs. It's interesting to see my current mindset since I've been in all three mindsets; poor, middle class and rich. I find myself hovering between the middle class and the rich mindset lately although I feel that my husband is completely in the rich mindset. I'm going to give a brief summary and give you insight into my thoughts and feelings so you can know more about me and think about where you are and where you want to be in life.

17 Ways Rich People Think

1. Rich People believe - I create my life
Poor people believe - Life just happens to me.


Poor people tend to take on a victim mentality where the blame is placed on the economy, the stock market, their boss, their spouse or God. They justify and complain abput their current position. The rich believe they determine their destiny and make things happen. If you read my blog on Live Life to the Full, you will definitely know my perspective on creating my life circumstances. A perfect example that T. Harv Eker shares is a person that wins the lottery and ends up back to their original wealth amount. Their mindset wasn't on handling wealth correctly. Donald Trump, on the other hand, had billions, lost some and gained it all back.

2. Rich people play the game to win
Poor people play the game not to lose


The main goal for poor people is to survive and have security. They want just enough to pay the bills. The middle class just wants to be comfortable and I find my mindset in this category at times. The main goal for rich people is to have abundance because they realize that uncomfortability creates growth.

3. Rich people are committed to being rich
Poor people just want to be rich

There are people that have negative ideas about wealth whether it be from their family history or from what they hear or experience. Here are some common fears of wealth:

· If I make it, I will lose it

· The government will take most of my earnings due to high tax bracket

· It's too much work and it will affect my health

· Overall feeling that money is bad

· Everyone will want a handout

Rich people have fears but they don't allow their fears to keep them from their goals.

4. Rich people think big
Poor people think small

Rich people tend to think long term while poor/middle class think short term. The definition of an entrepreneur is a person who solves problem at a profit. It's not about having a selfish attitude but having a genuine heart to help others. The more people that you help, the more you will succeed. I can honestly say that my husband and I have done really well with this principle. We have several businesses from real estate to internet businesses and our mission statement for them all involves helping other people.

5.Rich people focus on opportunities
Poor people focus on obstacles

Rich people Poor People
opportunities obstacles
potential growth potential loss
rewards risks
These are things that are habitually thought on a consistent basis. If you want to change your mindset, it will take work to transform your mind.

6. Rich people admire other rich people
Poor people resent the rich

The poor have the mindset that the rich have taken all the money and there is no opportunity for themselves. The rich, on the other hand, believe they can learn more from other rich people.

7. Rich people surround themselves around positive people
Poor people associate with negative and unsuccessful people


8. Rich people are willing to promote themselves and their value
Poor people are negative about selling and promotion


9. Rich people are bigger than their problems
Poor people are smaller than their problems

Poor people tend to complain and shrink from their problems, while the rich focus on working on a solution and overcoming it.

10. Rich people are excellent receivers
Poor people are poor receivers

Poor people believe they are not good enough or undeserving.

11. Rich people choose to get paid based on their results
Poor people choose to get paid based on their time

You've heard it all before; go to school, get good grades, go to college, get a good job, etc. I did all those things and was an engineer for 10 years but always felt that I was worth more than my salary. The poor trade time for money.

12. Rich people think both
Poor people think either/or

Rich people believe they can have a successful career and a close loving family, focus on their business and have fun, earn a fortune and work at something they love. Poor people believe one can have one or the other, not both.

13. Rich people focus on net worth
Poor people focus on working income

Rich people talk about net worth while poor people talk about how much they make.

Net Worth = Assets - Liabilities

14. Rich people manage their money well
Poor people mismanage their money well


10% Financial Freedom account - passive income for investment only; never spending money
10% Long Term Savings
10% Play Money - enjoy your money and spend this whole amount every month - this helps to save better
10% Education
10% Charity/Tithe
50% Necessary Expenses

I have to admit we need to do better in this area. We do really well with the charity and tithe but have never had a specific acct for our own education (except for our kid's college fund). We've done well with long term savings at times but then it's not as consistent as it should be.

15. Rich people have their money work hard for them
Poor people work hard for their money

Rich people use leverage – having other people and their money to work for them. Poor people work hard permanently while the rich work hard temporarily until their money works for them. We have several passive income businesses and definitely appreciate our money working for us. My internet business really leverages the internet to work for us. The internet is a powerful tool that has a number of ways to make money which my internet business shows you those techniques.

16. Rich people act in spite of their fears
Poor people let their fears stop them

Fear, Doubt and Worry are common to all people, however, it's what you do with these fears that is most important.


17. Rich people constantly learn and grow
Poor people think they know everything

Take the time to consider your money blueprint. I'd be interested to hear your comments on where you believe you are today and where you'd like to be. If you want to learn more about passive income opportunities, feel free to check out my internet business.

Naomi Trower
Passive Cash Gal
Success Coach & Entrepreneur
passivecashgal@gmail.com
Wednesday, July 09, 2008 

Category: Jobs, Work, Careers
My 6 year old son, Jayden, asks me this question all the time. Of course his definition of rich relates to only money. We have a 4,000 square foot house so maybe he thinks in terms of the size of our house as well but for the most part he refers to money. I told him there are many ways to be rich such as rich because you have a lot of friends, rich because you have a lot of love in your life, rich because you have many talents and rich because God has blessed you with a purpose in life not necessarily always money.

I have been wanting to read "Think & Grow Rich" by Napoleon Hill for some time now. There was a part of me that didn't want to read it because naturally it's not my desire to become rich monetarily by the world's standard. It has always been my desire to just have a little more than we need so as not to be entrapped by greed. However, I've been pleasantly surprised and impressed by what I've read so far. I'm sure he would consider the internet today to be a goldmine for wealth.

Here are the

12 Real Riches by Napoleon Hill.



1. Positive Mental Attitude
2. Sound Physical Health
3. Harmony in Human Relations
4. Freedom from Fear
5. Hope for Future Achievement
6. Capacity for Applied Faith
7. Willingness to Share Blessings w/Others
8. Engaged in Labor of Love
9. Open Mind on all subjects towards all People
10. Complete Self Discipline
11. Wisdom to Understand People
12. Financial Security

As you see Financial Security is the last on the list which I thought was outstanding! That means that I'm on the right track and I didn't even know it! I'm excited to read more and I'll post the pearls of wisdom that I encounter on this journey.

So take the journey with me and learn more about today's 12 Real Riches that can be found on the internet wave!

To learn more about internet secrets to grow your business go to http://www. mynetbizsecrets. com

Naomi Trower
Passive Cash Gal
Success Coach & Entrepreneur
passivecashgal@gmail.com
http://www. nctrower. wordpress. com
Monday, July 07, 2008 

Category: Jobs, Work, Careers

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Friday, May 16, 2008 
Friday, May 16, 2008 

Category: Jobs, Work, Careers
     If your like me then getting people to see your opportunity can be one of the most difficult tasks, right?  Can you imagine having countless people looking at your unique opportunity on a daily basis?   Just suppose you could have just one additional person every week join your business? Certainly that would help you reach your goals and dreams a little faster.  There's nothing quite like having the right tools for the job.

     One of the top tools is to brand yourself. It is the process of letting people know about who you are as a person. People are more inclined to buy from you if they know you on a more personal level. Most advertisements tell you about how to get get rich quick and how they made $10,000 in a week. But most people won't share that is took months prior to that of building their contact lists. The best way to build that contact list is by building relationships. The top activities to brand yourself are:

1. Join several forums and discussion groups in target markets.

2. Make time to get to know people on a personal level in these groups. I often send personal birthday notes and people really appreciate the thoughtfulness and take that into account.

3. Express yourself and even add real life experiences so people will see how you handle life in certain situations.

4. Clarify your goals in your particular niche market

Monday, May 05, 2008 

Last weekend was a wild one with my 6 year old son having to take a trip to the ER. He decided to put an eraser from the top of a pencil deep into his ear canal. I don't know why he thought that would be fun but I guess that's his stage in life right now. It was so deep that tweezers were not getting the job done. He was only in pain when anyone attempted to take it out but other than that he played around like there was no problem.

I had a lot of things going on that day so I decided to take him to the ER late at night so he and my 3 year old daughter wouldn't be running around the place. Did I mention that my husband was out of town? I think that's a big detail that I left out. DRAMA!

Before we left, I was on the computer and my 3 yr old came over to me and asked, "Mom are you on the internet?" I turned around so shocked that she knew about the internet and said "Yes, sweetie I am. Do you get on the internet at school?" Then I put her in my lap and we talked about her pre-school activities with computers and I told her how the internet is so powerful and can make money while we are sitting there having our chat. I can only imagine where our internet business will be once she's in high school. I envision our children taking over the family internet business.

We already have our 14 year old videotaping our Youtube videos and uploading them for us. He has also helped us with the layouts of our Facebook and Myspace pages. Just as we pass on the legacy of the importance of God as number one in our lives, we must pass on the legacy of working hard and being financially free to give more in this world.

So as we piled into the car heading to the ER, I braced myself for the upcoming screams that I knew would come from my son. It took 2 different forceps, 2 doctors to hold him down and enough screaming to wake up the entire city before the eraser came out. The first thing out of his mouth was "Mom, I learned my lesson. I will never do that again." I just smiled at him and said, "There will be many lessons in life that you will learn. I just  hope the most important ones will stay with you forever."

Wednesday, April 30, 2008 

Current mood:  blessed
Category: Goals, Plans, Hopes

What did I want to be when I grew up as a young child? Oh I have been blessed with many talents so my list ranged from author, lawyer, runway model, engineer and CEO of a major corporation. It is very common to be strong in English and weak in Math or vice versa, however I happened to do well in both subjects. My desire for Math took over in my high school years and I surprised my step-father when I told him I wanted to be an engineer. I was very shocked by his response as I assumed he would say "Go for your dreams. You can do anything that you set your mind to do. I believe in you."

In actuality, he said "First of all you have two things against you. You are African American and you are a woman. It will be practically impossible to accomplish that." Most people would have been discouraged with those words but being blessed with determination as well that just fueled the fire within me even more. 

Although he is no longer my step-father, I always make sure my brother and sister let him know that I graduated from the University of Southern California engineering school and had been an engineer with the Boeing Company for 10 years. Isn't it ironic that his desire was to be a lawyer and he has a degree in Political Science but yet his current job is a security guard? Hmm..I wonder if his attitude got in the way. Maybe he still believes that he can't achieve his dreams because he is an African American male.  It is possible that his perception became his reality.

Even after 10 years of being an Engineer, I went after another childhood dream of becoming a CEO of a major corporation, my own corporation!  That dream was realized when I received my mortgage broker's license and along w/my husband we have a very successful mortgage and real estate company: Premier Equity Group, Inc. and Premier Realty Group. I've worked from home with my husband for the past 3 years as he's been in the business for a total of 6 years.

           We also have several online internet marketing companies as we are firm

believers in multiple streams of income.  Life is too short to not go after your dreams.  Don't let anyone keep you down. Stay positive and focus on your dreams.  Live your life to the fullest and go make those dreams a reality!!!

Friday, April 11, 2008