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Sunday, December 27, 2009 

Current mood:  smitten
Category: Blogging
It's that time of year again! End Of The Year round ups! This is going to take forever.... I figure I'll start off with what I didn't like and fade into what I did like! WOO!

I realize I'm going to catch shit for my opinion but realize it's an 
opinion.

Worst Albums Of 2009

15. Alexisonfire - Old Crows, Young Cardinals
14. The Used - Artwork
13. Atreyu - Congregations Of The Damned
12. Relient K - Forget & Not Slow Down
11. A.F.I. - Crash Love
10. Weezer - Raditude
09. Bowling For Soup - Sorry For Partyin'
08. Horse The Band - Desperate Living
07. Adam Lambert - For Your Entertainment
06. Taking Back Sunday - New Again
05. Brand New - Daisy
I love Brand New in fact I am highly inspired by the band I see Deja and Devil and God to be masterpieces but Daisy just fell so sort with me. It was hard for me to even sit through it, I can't remember the last time I tried to force myself to like an album so much and just didn't. I don't want to take any Modest Mouse jabs at them I don't want to take any jabs at them I was just so disappointed with the album.
04. Craig Owens - With Love
 This is the first thing that Craig Owens has ever done and I haven't enjoyed. I don't know what it was but there wasn't one song on this album that even stuck out at me. Like I did with Brand New I forced myself to listen to it and I just couldn't get into it and was let down.
03. Lil Wayne - Rebirth
 I realize this album doesn't come out until 2010 but it leaked and I downloaded it and there is so much SUCK on this album I just had to put it on this list. Check it out on next years list as well.
02. Owl City - Ocean Eyes
 I cannot believe this guy is as popular as he is for blatantly ripping off the Postal Service. I know that particular argument is beaten to death but it still gets under my skin that he can literally just copy them and become famous, it's bullshit. The fact the the argument is so widely known speaks volumes about the originality in the first place. Postal Service is so much better. Actually that didn't even needed to be said.
01. A Day To Remember - Homesick
 I loved "And Their Name Was Treason" and I was obsessed with "For Those Who Have Heart" so the bar was pretty high for Homesick and I really didn't think they would let me down. I know they did cover Kelly Clarkson to gain exposure but that's good marketing but this album is just so pop and predictable that it is nauseating. Oh cool build up to breakdown STOP br00tle lyric breakdown chorus... everything on this album was just boring I couldn't have been more let down by an album or a band this year.



Worst Band/Group/Artist Of 2009

1. Brokencyde
1. Jeffree Star
1. Dot Dot Curve
1. Justin Bieber
1. Miley Cyrus
1. Millionaires
1. Blood On The Dance Floor
1. Attack Attack!
1. Owl City

I pretty much hate all these artists equally. It would feel wrong to rank how much they made such a negative impact on music this year... they all just basically are a huge atom bomb of shit. 



Best Bands/Artists Of 2009

10. Jay-Z 
9. fun.
8. Every Time I Die
7. Mos Def
6. Say Anything
5. Taylor Swift
Even though I don't think she is really that country she is blowing up regardless of her genre. Who can really blame it either she really writes some catchy music, I love it.
4. Drake
Where's wheel chair Jimmy at? Drake is an anomaly his rise to success was pretty much overnight no thanks in part to Lil Wayne and Young Money but doesn't really matter Drake has the licks to stand on his own he has already proved that.
3. MUSE
The Pope listens to MUSE what else can I really say?
2. Lady GaGa
Love her or hate her you have to give her credit she is quite a spectacle. Not to mention she has quite a voice on her, yes she can actually sing. She took the spotlight off Taylor Swift at the hight of her fame (during award season) and turned it to her, she is not the hottest ticket in town. She also writes her own music +1.
1. Between The Buried And Me
All I'm going to say is Most Underrated Band Of The Decade.



Best Songs Of 2009

20. Silverstein - Broken Stars
19. The Devil Wears Prada - Wapakalypse
18. Flight Of The Chonchords - Hurt Feelings
17. The Lonely Island - I'm On A Boat
16. Utada - Apple And Cinnamon
15. The Years Gone By - For The Hopeless
14. Matisyahu - One Day
13. Monty Are I - Break Through The Silence
12. Drake - Forever
11. Fireworks - I Support Same Sex Marriage
10. Lady GaGa - Bad Romance
9. The Sophomore Attempt - A Deluge Of Separation
8. Set Your Goals - Gaia Bleeds
7. Jay-Z - Empire State Of Mind
6. Between The Buried And Me - Obfuscation
5. Eminem - The Warning
5. Thursday - Love Has Led Us Astray
4. Say Anything - Do Better
3. New Found Glory - Such A Mess
2. We Came As Romans - Dreams
1. Linkin Park - New Divide

If you know me you know my favorite band is Linkin Park and even though Transformers2 was a bit of a let down New Divide was not it was kind of reminiscent of older Linkin Park which was nice to hear. Oh and if you haven't listened to The Warning from Eminem do so now.



Best EP's Of 2009

5. XO - Some Day
4. Modest Mouse - No One's First, And You're Next
3. Hit The Lights - Coast To Coast EP
2. The Sophomore Attempt - The Tides That Bind
1. The Years Gone By - Something You Know Nothing About



Best Albums Of 2009

30. Eminem - Relapse
29. A Love Like Pi - The Atlas And The Oyster
28. Matisyahu - Light
27. MUSE - The Resistance
26. 30 Seconds To Mars - This Is War
25. P.O.S. - Never Better
24. August Burns Red - Constellations
23. Jay-Z - The Blueprint 3
22. The Swellers - Ups And Downsizing
21. We Came As Romans - To Plant A Seed
20. Every Time I Die - New Junk Aesthetic
19. Dead Swans - Sleepwalkers
18. Mos Def - The Ecstatic
17. The Dear Hunter - Act III - Life And Death
16. Saosin - In Search Of Solid Ground
15. Dashboard Confessional - Alter The Ending
14. Set Your Goals - This Will Be The Death Of Us
13. fun. - Aim And Ignite
12. Thursday - Common Existence
11. Utada - This Is The One
10. Burden Of A Day - OneOneThousand
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I have been a fan of this band sense their first release and with every album they evolve their sound further and further. Though this is the first album without original vocalist Kendall Knepp replacement Kyle Tamosaitis steps up to fill his shoes, though the vocals of Kyle are lacking what made the band so enthralling with Kendall he is still a great singer and does the job well. The musicianship is spectacular.
09. Enter Shikari - Common Dreads
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This band is everything I would like to sound like and more, just a little slower and more acoustic and that would be awesome. Honestly before listening to this album I was on the fence with this band but listening to this album just blew me away they took their sound made it their own and ran with it. 
08. The Mars Volta - Octahedron
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This album was on constant rotation when it came out much like every other album on this list but this one in particular stands out because it is one of my favorite Mars Volta records. It's no secret that I love The Mars Volta in fact I love anything Cedric and Omar do. This album sees a slower side of the band which I have always wanted, it gives Cedric more to play with vocally and Omar can play with the melodies which are just beautiful on the album. A must listen.
07. The Devil Wears Prada - With Roots Above And Branches Below
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As much shit as this band catches it is pretty clear that they are popular for a reason. Now the whole Christian band thing may be a little bit trendy I mean the image they give off is not too Christian but musically the band is monster. They are taking metalcore to new places with their "br00tal" breakdowns and growls you can say what you want but they are going to be around for a very long time, and I am looking foreword to it.
06. Fireworks - All I Have To Offer Is My Own Confusion
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Now in the scene of "Popcore" or Pop-Punk Hardcore or whatever you want to call it you know it is extremely over-saturated with copycat bands Fireworks is a standout band. When bands look for another band to copy off of they probably turn to this band along with NFG, ADTR, and SYG. Just goes to show how much of an impact they have had in their respective scene.
05. MC Lars - This Gigantic Robot Kills
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Though a good amount of the songs on this album were released in 2008 the album still had tons of staying power with me, doesn't hurt that I love MC Lars but still. The dude is versatile and fresh.
04. New Found Glory - Not Without A Fight
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Finally a record where we get to see NFG's hardcore roots. They pretty much made the Pop-Punk Hardcore genre without them you can kiss all the bands in the genre goodbye. It's nice to see the hardcore side shine and the album just flows so smoothly. There is a reason this band is still so very fucking relevant in todays scene.
03. Between The Buried And Me - The Great Misdirect
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 Let me make this very clear The Great Misdirect is the best work of musicianship of the year hands down. It's hard to come off of an album like Colors and live up to it and they did. This band is just legendary I really don't know what else to say about this band that isn't already said just by listening to the music.
02. Monty Are I - Break Through The Silence
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The second full length release from the band that took forever! The band didn't change musically much but they didn't have to they already have their own sound and are already original enough. Steve has some of the best vocals I have heard in a long time especially live, it's amazing. One of my favorite bands this release just stunned me.
01. Say Anything - Say Anything
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This release not only shocked me with how good it was it blew me away. Max Bemis is a freaking musical genius. He can take a song and make it one of the catchiest pieces of music you will ever hear. Every song on this album is as good if not better then the previous. Lyrically it's great musically it's great I can already tell it's going to be one of my favorite albums of all time.


Most Anticipated For 2010

5. The Spill Canvas
4. Hawthorne Heights
3. Blink-182
2. Coheed & Cambria
1. Linkin Park

 Next year is going to be a great year for music there are going to be releases from numerous great bands but I'm looking forward to these the most! 2010 don't disappoint!

Post your top lists here! I would love to see them!


Love,
Steven
Currently watching:
Lost: The Complete Fifth Season
Release date: 2009-12-08
Saturday, December 26, 2009 

Current mood:  gallant
Category: Music
Gnarly news in the Memories & Jersey camp. You can now buy the "My Five Stages EP" on AmazonMP3 and soon iTunes!

This is pretty big for me, this collection of songs is the of the the most emotional things I have ever done in my life. For those of you who don't know what the EP is about long story short it's about the stages you go through after a loss in my case a two and a half year breakup.I really could not be prouder of the outcome of the EP it is by far my favorite piece of music I have done. 

There is a new track on the EP which is (Stage Three) Bargaining: Safe. it is a newly recorded track just for the digital release of the EP. 

I am so happy to get this album out to the world.

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Track-listing:

1. (Stage One) Denial: Being Unimpressive.
2. (Stage Two) Anger: The Infinite Abyss.
3. (Stage Three) Bargaining: Safe.
4. (Stage Four) Depression: The Goodbye Gift.
5. (Stage Five) Acceptance: To Feel Again.

Buy Link:


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I hope you get the time to check it out, I'll let you know when it's on iTunes.

If anything the key songs are The Infinite Abyss and To Feel Again they are my personal favorites.

Love,
Steven
Currently watching:
Law & Order Special Victims Unit - The First Year
Release date: 2003-10-21
Wednesday, December 23, 2009 

Current mood:  flirty
Category: Music


Music Saves Lives EP


If you write a review on iTunes or Amazon send me a message on here with your username and what you said and I will send you two bonus songs free.

Songs are:

1. Can I Keep You?
2. Heart Of A Villain. (Demo)

Free Downloads!
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Love,
Steven
Currently watching:
Rescue Me - The Complete Third Season
Release date: 2007-06-05
Monday, December 21, 2009 

Current mood:  annoyed
Category: Blogging

Sense when did we become so out of touch with who we are that we put all of our feelings into 140 characters?

Yes I am talking about Twitter. I realize before I start this that I do have a Twitter but I am a musician in today’s world it would be horrible marketing if I did not. Now I really never update it or check it but I do have it because it is vital to have, I have it linked to my Facebook or something like that; I really don’t know and couldn’t care less.

To me Twitter it pretty dumb and the only reason to have one is to watch celebrities act like complete idiots which is the only reason I find myself on the website.

Now the reason of today’s entry is because of the tragic death of Brittany Murphy and the “tweet” that a certain celebrity made. Now before I continue my heart goes out to her and her family.

This celebrity is Ashton Kutcher and he said “2day the world lost a little piece of sunshine. My deepest condolences go out 2 Brittany’s family, her husband, & her amazing mother Sharon.  and that just threw me for a loop. You had a relationship with this person and intimate one, hell you made a movie with her and the only thing you can do to honor her memory is go on twitter and write some bullshit 140 character epitaph? Really? Kind of disgusts me.

He couldn’t have released a statement including some great memories they shared together? Would that really have been too hard?

Another thing that really pisses me off, is that major news sites use these “tweets” as news and have even created segments about them. It’s just 140 characters! You are the news this is disgusting. How much lower do you have to go, I don’t care who tweeted about what I really don’t I don’t care what Diddy has to say about Obama that is the least of my worries.

Is Twitter really that important? For me it’s only use is to check up with bands that I like, but I already do this on MySpace and hell even Facebook.

I just don’t see the appeal.

What do you think on the subject of Twitter?

Rest In Peace

Brittany Murphy

Love,

Steven

Currently watching:
Rescue Me - The Complete Third Season
Release date: 2007-06-05
Monday, December 07, 2009 

Current mood:  apathetic
Category: Blogging
I got a message from someone which I accidentally deleted that I found to be pretty interesting a little while ago, basically went like so:

"Do you only write about Games, T.V. Shows, Celebrities, Movies and Anime because I don't want to listen to songs that aren't about real emotions."

I want to clear this up right now sure the songs based on the games like KingdomHearts and Yuna are about the games sure enough but I also tie my personal life into the music as well sure it's not obvious but that's because it's for me. Believe me if I didn't put 100% of myself into the lyrics the song wouldn't get done.

Sure I have songs about games and movies and T.V. Shows and books and Celebrities but that isn't the main focus of the song mainly it's about love. KingdomHearts, Yuna, My Constant all about love. I understand that not EVERYONE in the world is going to have played Final Fantasy X or watched LOST to understand My Constant when you release music to the public you have to understand that it's not only for you anymore other people are going to hear it and it's going to affect them too and I always keep that in mind and I always try to keep universal while sticking to the plot if that makes sense.

I only have a few songs about these subjects though so to say I only write about these subject is a gross understatement. I actually am probably like any other male with an acoustic guitar, I write about the girls in my life.

Come to think about it the vast majority of people I write songs about either don't know they have a song written about them or they do know and are very apathetic about about it and don't really care which really sucks. I mean you would think that having a song just for you would be special but I guess to some people it's not or maybe they just didn't think the song was any good...

I'm not so good when it comes to saying how I feel, I'm a pretty shy person so I guess I put a lot of faith and hope in the song not to mention emotion and feeling and when it kind of get shrugs off it's a real gut check you know? 

This entry really took a 180 haha. It's nice to just write something again, I haven't in a while I can't really explain why, it's especially nice to get the whole it sucks writing about people who could care less that I'm writing about them off my chest. Best part is I'll continue writing about them because I love to self-sabotage myself but that's me.

Well Seacrest Out. I can't believe I just said that. Hahah.

Love,
Steven
Currently watching:
Scrubs - The Complete First Season
Release date: 2005-05-17
Thursday, November 26, 2009 

Current mood:  tired
Category: Blogging

         I recently asked people in one of my status updates what my next discussion blog should be about because the To Write Love On Her Arms Day Blog was very fun to not only write but to participate in afterwards, and it was pretty unanimous:


Harry Potter Vs. Twilight

 

         So what does that even mean how do you even make two fictional books fight? By what standards do you set them up against? How do you judge them? Well I will be throughly looking at each series/franchise and examining the ins and outs of why it is so intriguing to it's audience. I will be examining the audience of each series. I'll then get into the sales/marketing aspects and each series films.


I will not let my bias get in the way of this blog I promise.

 

         So lets start off with Twilight shall we? If you don't know what Twilight is about by now then it is pretty pointless to jump in the debate. Lets jump right in shall we? Lets start off with the basic themes of Twilight which are choice, unrequited love, unconditional love, and well just basically love.

 

Vampires don't sparkle in sunlight they DIE.

 

         Lets take a look at the first theme choice. We see choice displayed in Edward not drinking Bella's blood, by choosing to leave her and then coming back, by choosing to be with her. The choices we see in Bella kind of come out in numbers. She chooses to peruse Edward, to chose Edward or Jacob, she choses to kiss Jacob which makes her realize she loves him too.....bitch? Her choice to become a vampire or not and she choses not to get an abortion. Now we have the Cullens (Who stole the last name of one of my best friends LAME) who make the ethical an choice of drinking animal blood instead of human, they chose to deny their own nature in order to be moral people.

 

Vampires don't sparkle in sunlight they DIE.

 

         Unconditional love, unrequited love and love I'm going to throw in one theme sense the overall theme is love. The theme of unrequited love is seen through Jacob and Bella. You also have the theme of unconditional love/forbidden love or Edward and Bella *cough Romeo an Juliet cough* Whoa what happened there...overall love is a huge theme of the series if not the most important without it the plot would not continue and the story would be even more lackluster I MEAN would be lackluster sorry. Fans are drawn to the attraction between Bella and Edward and well Bella and Jacob in the novel and now the movies I will not call them films because they do not deserve to be called as such.

 

Vampires don't sparkle in sunlight they DIE.

 

         Speaking of the movie with its release the franchise has seen a whole new breed of fans and a giant leap in popularity and it's sad because it's not due to the literary works at all it's all due to the two actors Robert Pattinson and Taylor Lautner. Please do not say it isn't true because you know it is and fans of the series before it got saturated know it's true as well. Lets take a look at its fan base. Well honestly I don't know the fan base because I don't care about VAMPIRES THAT DON'T DIE IN SUNLIGHT or middle-aged mormon woman who have a wet dreams in the middle of the night and decided to write a novel about it and destroy the vampire genre.


Vampires don't sparkle in sunlight they DIE.


         The one thing I do know is that the films are making tween girls realize they have vaginas which are making parents happy because they don't have to have "The Talk" so that's positive I guess?


Vampires don't sparkle in sunlight they DIE.


         Even before the movies I remember my friend Jess talking about the hottest guy ever and I asked her who and she said "This guy in this book I'm reading he is pretty much the hottest guy ever." She was obviously referring to Edward, what really caught me off guard was how into him she was and how pissed I wasn't him I wasn't jealous I was just pissed that a fictional character seemed to of had more of an emotional hold on her then I had and I had known her longer :(. Basically what I'm saying is even before the movies girls and boys alike were obsessing over Edward and Jacob and were being equally elitist and annoying about it.


Vampires don't sparkle in sunlight they DIE.


         Alright onto the business and marketing aspect my favorite. Well this is really easy if I haven't made it abundantly clear who studio heads are marketing to as always impressionable teenaged girls and boys mostly girls, especially tweens there is lots of money to be earned in those markets. Needless to say there is going to be a lot of Twilight apparel under the XxX-Mas tree this year. Actually it's pretty obvious who this series well the movies are directed toward anyway. The books however you will find have a higher age range as you see more 20ish year olds reading the books along with the tweenie-tots. Really as much as I like talking about the marketing game plan there really isn't much to talk about it's pretty self explanatory go to your local store and look at a magazine it's all image.


Vampires don't sparkle in sunlight they DIE.

 

         Thank Baby Jesus almost done talking about this poor excuse for a Vampire series. So lets chit-chat about the movies shall we? Now I'll give the books their justice they sold a lot and and did their jobs as books opened the imagination of the reader but the movies are just awful. The production the directing the ACTING everything. They are coming from a studio that has had a record of horrible movies (with the exception of Fear and Loathing and Sex Drive) The only reason the movies are doing so well are because the studio knew that the readers (tweenies) got over zealous in the pants for Edward and Jacob in the book so they made sure to cast people who will make the va-jay-jays go crazy and just throw talent to the side. They capitalized on something they knew would be a selling point and ran with it. Please do not tell me Twilight was a good movie because watching it to even write this blog was a painful experience not even because of my honest distain for the series just because the acting so so daytime soapish and I'm not gay, if I was gay hey maybe I would have enjoyed Robert a little more not going to lie the dude is good looking.


Vampires don't sparkle in sunlight they DIE.


         Overall Twilight yes is very popular has captured the imaginations of many people hell has probably helped a lot of people I really wouldn't know. It has become quite a phenomenon as of late as it has got people reading which is what really matters even though they are only reading these books only then writing poorly written fan fiction but at least people are writing right? Imagination is running wild. But that is about it. The Twilight series hasn't broken any barriers that haven't been smashed already by J.K. Rowling and the Harry Potter Series but that is where this and begin my next rant of sorts.


Harry Potter Kicks Fucking Ass.

 

         If you HADN'T ALREADY NOTICED I love me some Harry Potter. I remember being in 4th grade and reading Harry Potter And The Philosophers Stone SHIT Sorcerers Stone damn Scholastic America and being completely overwhelmed by the story and drawn into the world and in 4th grade I had a pretty terrible imagination all I really cared about was Shawn Michaels and puberty actually there is a lot you can say about my adolescent sub-continence with that previous sentence haha. Anyway at this time I wasn't a big reader and I still didn't read after I read the book but I did keep up with the series as I was engulfed in it and I noticed as the books came out the more I read and now I read all the time and I honestly believe without the Harry Potter series I wouldn't have that. Dr. Seuss aint got sheit on da Harry Potterz lulz! Now this isn't about my life and Harry Potter it's just about Harry Potter.


Lets start off by going through the themes of the series. We have Good Vs. Evil, Love, Family and a bunch more that I really don't feel like talking about. Lets talk about family first shall we? Harry has always yearned for a family he has never really had one being an orphan. His adoptive aunt and uncle were douches and used him as a whipping boy. He finds something of a father figure in Sirius Black but well...Okay you get the picture onto love. Love is huge in the Potter universe without it our hero would not have survived his infant encounter with He Who Must Not Be Named. Love in the form of risking your life to help your friends (how hardcore, A Day To Remember must love this series).


Now onto the most obvious theme Good Vs. Evil. Harry Vs. You Know Who. It's really kind of pointless for me to even talk about it's so obvious I mean it's really the driving force of the plot. New year new way for Voldemort to fuck shit up.


So next topic lets goto the movies! Okay I can solely compare the acting of the first Harry Potter film which was comprised of all CHILDREN to the Twilight and New Moon movies and it would make Harry Potter look like an Academy Award Feature Film. That is the drastic change in talent that is seen in the movies, it's embarrassing to even compare them. Sure Daniel Radcliffe isn't the greatest actor in the world but his support is more then outstanding, and he isn't getting too bad himself either. I guess showing his wang live ups his acting? 


Lets see Twilight has Robert Pattinson, Kristen Stewart, Taylor Lautner, Dakota Fanning....Reaching.....Peter Facinelli from Fastlane, Micheal Sheen. Really the only talent the Twilight franchise has is Robert and Dakota. Onto the beauty that is the cast of Harry Potter! Good old HP has Daniel Radcliffe, .., Rupert Grint, Alan Rickman!, Helena Bonham Carter!, Gary Oldman, Maggie Smith, Robbie Coltrane, Michael Gambon oh I could so go on with the talent but I think I made my point clear with Alan Rickman I can just end it with him and it's more talent then the whole Twilight series put together. The main trio of Potter can out act the shit of the main cast of the Twilight series hands down no questions asks, sure the the two Twilight actors might be better to look at but we are seeking talent here. Oh and Emma Watson is 1,000,000,000,000 times better looking then Kristen Stewart just saying.


Onto fan base. Now I can comment on the fan base of Harry Potter sense I am part of it, we write really bad Fan Fiction, and REALLY bad music. They cosplay at movie theaters for premiers. When a book was released that was the place to be there were literally parties at book stores, sense when does that happen? It was an event to get a book to read. I mean it is such a community there are so many Harry Potter events STILL going on like music events/conventions it's crazy not to mention the theme park at universal. Years after the last books release and the fan base is just as strong and just as stable with things like WizardRock and such fans have so much to keep in touch with. Rowling has really created her own universe for her fans so this is all possible it's all actually pretty remarkable. Hell she has even inspired Craig Owens.(Come on catch it, catch it.) 


Alrighty onto the marketing and business aspect of the franchise. So initially I'm sure this series was directed as a children's/teenagers book but the book found an audience in really everyone and as did the movies I remember my mom and I going to see the movies and loving them. Really the books are for everyone which I'm sure was a shock to the publishers as much as the readers, I mean here you have this book about magic and say you are 50 and you are told to read it and fall in love with it like so many have it's amazing. When the movies are coming out though yeah it's all Hot Topic and yeah it can get pretty much like Twilight is now I can't really argue that.


So as of June 2008 the Harry Potter book series has sold over 400 million copies and the last four books have consecutively set the record for fastest selling book in history, yeah any version of the bible or Dan Brown book. Hell TIME magazine named J.K. Rowling runner-up Person Of The Year in 2007. Also don't forget that Dumbledore was gay, remember all the fuss that sprung up? Just because a fictional character who was epic was gay it was so ridiculous I could go for the pun but I will spare you...

 

The ground this series has broken is just amazing it has pretty much paved the way for series like Twilight, do you honestly think if Harry Potter never existed Twilight would have ever been published? And if it had it would have even sold as well as it did? You have to take into account the whole literary climate would have been drastically different if Potter never came out. 


So yes the debate clearly goes to Harry Potter. It is more then obvious I shouldn't have even had to of typed this much to point it out. Hell without Harry Potter there would be no Robert Pattinson, Twilight owes it's existence to Harry Potter you can fight it and cry and say "No, No, No." all you want but you know it's true. 

 

At least the witches rode brooms and the wizards used wands in Harry Potter.


Vampires don't freaking sparkle in sunlight they die!


HARRY POTTER FTW.


Love,

Steven



Music Saves Lives EP

Currently watching:
Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince (Widescreen Edition)
Release date: 2009-12-08
Wednesday, November 18, 2009 

Current mood:  understimulated
Category: Blogging
Currently listening:
On Frail Wings of Vanity and Wax
By Alesana
Release date: 2007-03-20
Friday, November 13, 2009 

Current mood:  crazy
Category: Blogging
I have been a supporter of the organization To Write Love On Her Arms for a long while now and for the most part still am. I have seen it evolve from word of mouth to a Hot Topic success. The organization gives an outlet for the topic of depression and suicide which rarely ever gets talked about and is good, it should be talked about more because it usually just gets tossed to the side when it is a serious problem in the world. 

There are a few things about the organization that really do get under my skin though, hence the reason for this blog. Today is To Write Love on Her Arms Day a day where you are literally supposed to write LOVE on your arm in the hopes someone will ask you about it and you can raise awareness of depression and suicide. Alright I understand like any other charity organization you want to get your name out and this is a pretty ingenious marketing idea. The whole organizations marketing plan is pretty outstandingly brilliant. 

First we have the name it draws you in and is very clever, then we have the music scene where it is marketed. They market to the whole (Every God in the books forgive me for what I am about to say) "EMO" Throws up scene which is where you will find your teenagers and young adults. 

In this blog I will be exploring both sides of the spectrum within the bounds of TWLOHA (To Write Love On Her Arms) I will be talking about the good and the bad effects it has on it's supporters. Yes it does have bad effects.

So things really didn't start to get under my skin until I went to Warped Tour and I heard a girl around 16 say "Oh man I'm so mad To Write Love On Her Arms isn't playing our Warped!" I ask her what she means and she said the band I go to inform her that it's a charity organization but everyone is always right in their mind so I was wrong. That's when it hit me that the charity might just becoming a cool looking t-shirt and not a cause anymore.

I remember seeing Stephen from Anberlin sporting one of their first shirts, this was when they only had their one shirt and "deon" lulz and you really had to dig to find out who Renee really was, hell I doubt a good chunk of their current followers even know who she is. I remember being moved by the story I remember wanting to help because I have had friends who have experienced depression and cutting, I still help people in these situations today. I remember doing all I could to get the word out because this was something so great so beautiful and it was in the music scene, it was great to me.

I imagine everyones reaction to it would be different but the overall effect is that we all wanted to help and help fast and to do that we could buy a t-shirt, so I know I did. I also became an avid member in the message boards because I felt I could help more people there as well because the more people who learn about it the more people will be willing to talk, and they did. I genuinely feel like myself and a few other people helped those who needed it on those forums it was a great community. Well it continued to grow and well it wasn't the same anymore.

TWLOHA founder Jamie genuinely wants to help people. The dude is one of the nicest guys I have ever met, he is the perfect front man for any charity organization especially this one. He restored what lost faith I had experienced in the charity. Seriously The guy is a saint haha. I really believe that his intentions are good and that he has nothing but the best intentions with TWLOHA I mean it has helped a vast amount of people which is more then most can ever say if gives people a place to goto if they need to talk, it gives people shelter.

Now I'm not going to fill this entry with statistics on suicide and depression but I will link you to where you can find this information out. Remember information is key. I will be using some of this later on though:


Now we all know that TWLOHA can be a beautiful place but we have to take a look at itself as a being. It's a pretty huge monster by now, I mean in the scene you should know it. If you're a Paramore fan you do and you probably own the shirt. What I really want to look at is something that I have heard recently. 

Does To Write Love On Her Arms glorify depression and suicide? 

I never really thought of it like that but in a way it kind of does. Stick with me here before you go on a verbal rampage and delete me, hear me out for a second. You have to take a deep breath and really take a look at who they are marketing to, the place they are marketing in, I mean they have to run things like a business to succeed.

First lets point out that they are selling this image of hope in the form of a t-shirt to teenagers (generally girls) 15-17 years old who are experiencing something as traumatizing as cutting and they are telling them to come into a community where they will be accepted for doing what they do. You don't know how many times I have seen people just cry out for attention and say they are going to cut on the forums, it's nauseating.

Take this for example, some people are going to CONVINCE themselves that they are so depressed that even this charity organization that is dedicated to helping people dealing with depression and cutting that they are going to seek help in the forums and just blatantly ignore everyone and just cut themselves anyway on the principal notion that not even TWLOHA could help them. This is a generalization of coarse as this could happen with many places not just TWLOHA and various other charity organizations.

The thing that really gets me is this day. Getting a group of people that never really experienced depression, suicide, self-mutilation, in their life or in others to write LOVE on their arms and spread the word about a cause that they know nothing about?

I didn't have the best year of my life my freshman year in highschool, I pretty much hated it. You could say I was depressed not in the most extreme case that happened to follow that summer but I was down none the less, and if I saw a bunch of idiots with LOVE and HEARTS <33333LOVE<333333 on their arm tell me how I should deal with my emotions it would make me want to go home and do something that I would probably later REGRET. Depression and self mutilation are hidden for a reason people wouldn't just flaunt it if they were going through it, and they certainly don't like people in magic markers running around with LOVE written on them acting all happy.

People dealing with these issues need REAL help from REAL doctors and scientific information about specific clinics that they can goto to seek help, not shirts, not forums, not days dedicated to charity fads, not MTV Woodie awards, that doesn't help anyone. 

You know I'm really sick of this who SPREAD LOVE trend that has been going on lately, it's annoying. Yeah love is great, but it's great for a reason because it's rare. It's so annoying to constantly see these people with love on their hands if the world were to be filled with love then it would be empty and meaningless. 

Do you understand that you need hate to make love? You always need the opposite end of the spectrum, there is always a cause to the effect and you need it. You need hate for love or life just wouldn't be worth living. I would never want to live in a world full of love with butterflies and unicorns, does that really sound appealing? I choose real life, I choose to have the choice of darkness or light. There is always a choice and I wouldn't want to live in a would that cuts that choice out.

I'm tired of the whole fairly-tale story they try to paint, and so many other like neveruseaspacebarever! Love is great and beautiful and inspirational but this isn't Sesame Street, this is humanity and humanity is fucked up and beautiful all at once. And this is something that makes us who we are, we grow up in it and we live in it so we can not only survive in it to enjoy it but educate our children how to survive in it. 

Humanity has always been the same sense its dawn injecting more love into us would be like erasing our immune system. We need a balance.

I digress. 

It just seems to me that TWLOHA tries to make their organization trendy now I don't know maybe it's just me. I still support the cause because there are a lot of people who actually use the organization as it was intended and I still feel there is hope for it if maybe they focus on the people who are making it popular rather then making it popular.

I would honestly LOVE (puns) to hear what you have to say about the organization, I love hearing what people have to say.

Just a reminder I'm NOT saying that TWLOHA has never helped anyone because it clearly has.

If you ever feel you need to talk to someone you ALWAYS HAVE A FRIEND IN ME I will always be there to lend a hand to anyone who needs it regardless of your problem.

Love,
Steven


Music Saves Lives EP
Currently listening:
Break Through the Silence
By Monty Are I
Release date: 2009-09-22
Monday, November 02, 2009 

Current mood:  adventurous
Category: Blogging
So I really need all of your help here. 

As you all know I recently became a part of the iTunes world and this is a pretty huge thing for me. Like all artists this get me out there even more and spreads my music to an ever larger fan-base. 

In the past I have written people songs for joining a charity that costed them nothing, hell I wrote people songs for their boyfriends/girlfriends, I have always made my fans come first and now I kind of need your help let me cut to the chase. I'm not going to ask you to buy the album or anything, what I am asking for all of you to do is to simply write a review of the EP and give it a customer rating. This is so very important to me especially sense this is my first EP on iTunes. The more reviews I get the better, reviews and ratings will draw people in to listen to the music.

I really cannot stress enough to you how much it means to me if you could please take the time to write a review and give me a customer rating. It will only take about one or two minutes and it would help me out so much.

Now I really can't in good continence ask you to do this and have you get nothing in return so I have been thinking for a few day of something I could do to repay you doing this for me (like I said it really does mean a lot to me) sense I obviously cannot write songs for everyone anymore I thought up something else that would be pretty cool.

If you write me a review and give me a customer rating on iTunes and message me you iTunes user name what you said and your name and I will make you a FanSign and post it in a special gallery dedicated to the subject matter. 

Cool idea right? Here is the thing the better the review the better the FanSign! It's not just going to be a picture of me with photoshopped words I will be making all the signs. Like I said before the better the review the better the sign, if you haven't checked out my pictures out yet you might want to I'm quite the artist *wink*

So I'll lay this out again. You write a review and give me a customer rating then you message me your iTunes user name and what you said and whatever name you want me to use on the fan sign and then done! Sounds good doesn't it!?

Here is an example of what things will look like:

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Everything sound good?

Alright now I'll just link you to my EP and you will be set!


Music Saves Lives EP

Love,
Steven
Currently listening:
Say Anything
By Say Anything
Release date: 2009-11-03
Sunday, November 01, 2009 

Current mood:  frustrated
Category: Blogging
What happened to the the "holiday" I loved the most? I used to look foreword to it every year as a kid, now it just seems to be dying out or becoming a party day. Each year we get less and less trick or treaters and each year the children's costumes get less and less creative. They just throw something on and walk around for a few blocks and then go inside. When I was out I used to go right from school till about eight and I had awesome costumes. It just disappoints me the the holiday I loved so much really doesn't exist anymore.

In my search for a better more entertaining Halloween I went to New Brunswick home of Rutgers. This did in fact blow me away. When did Halloween become a day about being scary to being the biggest tramp you can possibly be? Seriously these girls have no shame, and they are ruining the whole spirit of Halloween. You probably already dress like a slut normally why can't you dress like Oprah or hell Drew Carey, but no you have to be a slutty nurse, cop, super-hero,cat, angel ect. it's not even original.
I did see something funny while my Halloween childhood was being raped right in front of me, you see there were obviously many parties going on I mean this is a college campus after all so the police were all over and the cops had flashed their lights on this huge group of kids and all of the sudden I see this kid dress op as Jusus and this kid dress up liked Super Man toss two 40's into a bush and run. I got to witness Jesus and Super Man run from the police and get caught by the police. Hilarious.

I didn't do anything for Halloween except for starting Kingdom Hearts2, I didn't dress as anything when asked who I was for Halloween I just said Dexter Morgan from Dexter literally requires no work hahahhaahhah.


Love,
Steven


Music Saves Lives EP