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Jessica Garcia


Last Updated: 3/30/2009

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Gender: Female
Status: Single
Age: 28
Sign: Gemini

City: Belleville
State: New Jersey
Country: US
Signup Date: 11/29/2005

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November 3, 2008 - Monday 
March 14, 2007 - Wednesday 

Current mood:  amused
Category: Life

I want to live my next life backwards:
You start out dead and get that out of the way.
Then you wake up in an old age home feeling better every day.
Then you get kicked out for being too healthy.
Enjoy your retirement and collect your pension.
Then when you start work, you get a gold watch on your first day.
You work 40 years until you're too young to work.
You get ready for High School: drink alcohol, party, and you're generally promiscuous.
Then you go to primary school, you become a kid, you play, and you have no responsibilities.
Then you become a baby, and then...
You spend your last 9 months floating peacefully in luxury, in spa-like conditions - central heating, room service on tap, and then...
You finish off as an orgasm.
I rest my case.

My new friend David wrote this to me............hahahahahah GREAT!

March 6, 2007 - Tuesday 

Current mood:  contemplative
Category: Life

Why do we do it?

Does having a status make you better, more stable…I don't see how it can.

So many are under the impression that it's what they need to have; like a new pair of shoes that only you know are new.

We spend more time rationalizing the reasons why being with someone is better than being alone which can only end up badly.  I figure that things have their time and place…yeah you can probably miss out in one or two things here and there waiting but at least when it does come around then you really work on it.


 

You can have a life filled with different people all with their own good and bad things that you will used as a set of comparison for later dates and relationships but is it better to have those comparisons or is it better to not know.  Its all rather relative don't you think?


 

I guess at the end there is no right or wrong way to be in a relationship.  You still get the good and the bad that comes with it.  But it comes to a point when you have to question what you want…wait for the right one or settle for the right now.  Either way the choices are made everyday by different people and what others see and what really is are so far from the truth it's scary. Victims of "LIFE"….the right education….the right job…the right car…right house…right clothing….the right friends….etc. 


 

There is no right….like there is no spoon….its all relative and optional.  You want it…go get it…u don't like it…then change it…and on and on.  Everyone can be in a relationship…that's the easy part.  Choosing to be in a relationship with your heart, body and mind it's an entirely different story.  That can take a lifetime. 


 

So next time when you are standing at the edge just think and decide…..get on or wait for the next one that comes in 15 minutes.  Either way you look at it you are still there by the edge ready for the ride.

 

February 18, 2007 - Sunday 

Current mood:  tired
Category: Blogging

Jgar's Full Personality Profile Report


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Neuroticism
8
Extraversion
80
Openness To Experience
21
Agreeableness
15
Conscientiousness
79

You are sociable, outgoing, energetic, and lively. You prefer to be around people much of the time. You are generally calm and composed, reacting moderately well to situations that most people would describe as stressful. As a practical person you like to think in plain and simple terms. Others describe you as down-to-earth, practical, and conservative. People see you as tough, critical, and uncompromising and you have less concern with others' needs than with your own. You set clear goals and pursue them with determination. People regard you as reliable and hard-working.
 

This report compares you to other women between the ages of 21 and 40 in United States. It analyses you based on each of the five broad personality domains of the Five-Factor Model (Goldberg, L R. 1999), and the six sub domains at each level.

Neuroticism


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Overall Score
8
Anxiety
39
Anger
13
Depression
3
Self-Consciousness
14
Immoderation
42
Vulnerability
9

You are generally calm, although some situations can make you feel anxious or tense. You rarely get angry and it takes a lot to make you angry. You very rarely feel depressed and are usually in a good frame of mind. You do not feel nervous in social situations, and have a good impression of what others think of you. You often resist any cravings or urges that you have, but sometimes you give in. You are poised, confident, and clear-thinking when stressed.
 

Extraversion


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Overall Score
80
Friendliness
85
Gregariousness
67
Assertiveness
66
Activity Level
63
Excitement-Seeking
79
Cheerfulness
61

You genuinely like other people and openly demonstrate positive feelings toward others. You make friends quickly and it is easy for you to form close, intimate relationships. You find the company of others pleasantly stimulating and rewarding, and you enjoy the excitement that crowds provide. You are an active group participant but usually prefer to let someone else be the group leader. You lead a moderately paced life. You like some energetic activities, but also like to relax and take it easy. You love bright lights and hustle and bustle. You are likely to take risks and seek thrills. You have a generally cheerful disposition.
 

Openness To Experience


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Overall Score
21
Imagination
53
Artistic Interests
29
Emotionality
1
Adventurousness
61
Intellect
37
Liberalism
29

You are a moderately imaginative person who enjoys a good balance between the real world and fantasy. You are not interested in the arts and do not display aesthetic sensitivity. You tend not to express your emotions openly and are sometimes not even aware of your own feelings. Familiar routines are good, but sometimes you like to spice up your life with a bit of adventure or activity. You enjoy a certain amount of debate or intellectual thought, but sometimes get bored with too much. You prefer the security and stability brought by conformity to tradition.
 

Agreeableness


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Overall Score
15
Trust
39
Morality
10
Altruism
38
Cooperation
16
Modesty
40
Sympathy
31

You mostly assume that people are honest and fair, however you are wary and hold back from trusting people completely. You believe that a certain amount of deception in social relationships is necessary. You are guarded in new relationships and less willing to openly reveal the whole truth about yourself. You will help others if they are in need. If people ask for too much of your time you feel that they are imposing on you. You are not adverse to confrontation and will sometimes even intimidate others to get your own way. You are willing to take credit for good things that you do but you don't often talk yourself up much. You are not affected strongly by human suffering, priding yourself on making objective judgments based on reason. You are more concerned with truth and impartial justice than with mercy.
 

Conscientiousness


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Overall Score
79
Self-Efficacy
78
Orderliness
96
Dutifulness
44
Achievement-Striving
71
Self-Discipline
54
Cautiousness
59

You believe that you have the intelligence, common sense, drive, and self-control necessary for achieving success. You are well-organized and like to live according to routines and schedules. Often you will keep lists and make plans. Your sense of duty and obligation is average and although you are mostly responsible you can sometimes be unreliable. You strive hard to achieve excellence. Your drive to be recognized as successful keeps you on track toward your lofty goals. You often have a strong sense of direction in life, but may sometimes be too single-minded and obsessed with your work. You have a reasonable amount of will-power and are able to follow through on tasks that you feel you need to complete. You can be distracted however and have been known to procrastinate. You are not an overly cautious person. You will think about alternatives and consequences but make up your mind fairly quickly.
March 16, 2006 - Thursday 

Current mood:  curious
English is really crazy
There is no egg in eggplant nor ham in hamburger; neither apple nor pine in pineapple. English muffins were not invented in England or French fries in France. Sweetmeats are candies, while sweetbreads, which aren't sweet, are meat. We take English for granted. But if we explore its paradoxes, we find that quicksand can work slowly, boxing rings are square, and a guinea pig is neither from Guinea nor is it a pig.

And why is it that writers write, but fingers don't fing, grocers don't groce, and hammers don't ham? If the plural of tooth is teeth, why isn't the plural of booth beeth? One goose, 2 geese. So, one moose, 2 meese? One index, two indices? Is cheese the plural of choose?

If teachers taught, why didn't preachers praught? If a vegetarian eats vegetables, what does a humanitarian eat?

In what language do people recite at a play, and play at a recital?

Ship by truck, and send cargo by ship? Have noses that run and feet that smell? Park on driveways and drive on parkways? How can a slim chance and a fat chance be the same, while a wise man and a wise guy are opposites? How can the weather be hot as hell one day and cold as hell another?

When a house burns up, it burns down. You fill in a form by filling it out, and an alarm clock goes off by going on.

When the stars are out, they are visible, but when the lights are out, they are invisible. And why, when I wind up my watch, I start it, but when I wind up this essay, I end it.
February 15, 2006 - Wednesday 

Current mood:  amused
Category: Quiz/Survey

Two individuals proceeded towards the apex of a natural geologic protuberance, the purpose of their expedition being the procurement of a sample of fluid hydride of oxygen in a large vessel, the exact size of which was unspecified. One member of the team precipitously descended, sustaining severe damage to the upper cranial portion of his anatomical structure; Subsequently the second member of the team performed a self rotational translation oriented in the same direction taken by the first team member.

I know the answer but do YOU???

January 4, 2006 - Wednesday 

Current mood:  grateful
Category: Life

Only four days into the new year of 2006 and I already have memories I will remember for the rest of my life…… It all started like a regular Wednesday morning. I got up, took a shower, got dressed and then went to look for my favorite JACKET.  I had just recently washed it so it was still in the dryer.  To my shock and dismay the dryer had broken the zipper handle of my JACKET.  At this point not only was I upset but a little mad.  Running late and all to work I decided to work on trying to fix the JACKET…… 

 

15 minutes later it was zipped down and I had decided to wear the jacket without the zipper handle, trusting that my skills to get the zipper up and down will last me for the day.  Well now I know better!!!!!!

I put the JACKET on and zipped it up and headed out to work.  I got in the car and sat down got the radio going the seatbelt on and was ready to drive.  At this moment in time I noticed that I was getting quite warm in my JACKET, so I decided to unzip it and take it off.  WELL, THAT DID NOT WORK.  The zipper would not go down. I took a minute and tried again and after tugging at it for a while realized that I was trapped inside my JACKET!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

The only thing left was to just take it off like a shirt. Easy no problem. (((((But you all must remember this is a fitted JACKET))))))). Got the JACKET to go up even got both of arms out and as I was going to get it all off finally it stopped.  YESSS I WAS STUCK!!!! The JACKET did not want to come out of my head so at this point I start to panic….. So I get out of the car in a desperate attempt to release myself from my trap but it was not budging.  NOT ONE LITTLE BIT.  Needless to say after some struggle I was able to get the JACKET off by pulling it very hard and painfully off my head.  Behind, it left my first injury of the year which was a very nice pink scratch right down the middle of my forehead.  No worries I am all better now but the memory will haunt me for the rest of my life………. LI