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Russ Lindquist


Last Updated: 12/1/2009

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Gender: Male
Status: Single
Age: 30
Sign: Capricorn

City: San Diego
State: California
Country: US
Signup Date: 3/22/2009

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November 24, 2009 - Tuesday 
I often go on Craigslist's "casual encounters", taking a look at the differences of how people present themselves - people who perceive themselves as attractive vs. people who do not; men; women; heterosexuals; homosexuals; transgendered people; et cetera.

Frequently, I give feedback, especially to the particularly bad self-advertisers. What follow is one such example:

THE AD

It was a woman seeking men. I did NOT save it, this time! And now I cannot find it. But it is enough to say that it was a cartoonishly rude litany of expectations. Not only was it LONG - it also made ZERO mention of what she has to offer anyone. I really wish I had saved the ad - it was a superlative example of a slobbish person barking a whole lot of nonsense.

So I responded to her with this:

"That was a whole lot of typing, especially considering that you did not make ANY mention of what you have to offer the OTHER person!
So we are left to read-in to what you put; and, based on that, you have the following to offer: neediness, pretentiousness, stubbornness.
You are going to appeal to a very narrow range of people, if that is all that you are offering, as a person.
~Russ"

...then she responded with this:

"excuse you!! actually i havent had much problems.. who are u to put ur 2 sence in anyways.. u dont know me.. and actually i did mention what i have to offer.  excuse u u dont fuckin know me stubborn neediness hahaha funny.. riiight... what an asshole u are,.. and ur so perfect huh ur gods gift huh ur just so fuckin perfect... wow judgemental and an asshole such a winner.. u dont even know me"

...then she added this:

"and PLUS its mostly what u want the other person to offer you.. lol.. its an ad... lol im searching for a person. u must be over 40 or 50 or something."

So I search her email on myspace and facebook, and find her on myspace.  She has several ridiculous blogs.  What follows are two examples:

BLOG 1

Boys vs. Men Top 10

1. Boys play X-Box. Real men look for real adventure and take you there.
2. Boys mate. Real men know that you’re not an animal and make love.
3. Boys bed-hop. Real men stick around.
4. Boys have myspace. Real men have “my place”.
5. Boys think with the wrong head. Real men know that two heads are better than one.
6. Boys will send ab-photos. Real men will write you a symphonic poem.
7. Boys will get drunk. Real men control the beverage and not let the beverage control them.
8. Boys want one-night stands. Real men want to stand by you.
9. Boys want a hot girl. Real men want to make you hot just by the sexy way they say “hello”.
10. Boys need tats. Real men know that the only tats he wants are the marks you’ll leave on his body after an amazing night with them.

So, what can we gather from all this? If you want a boy, have at it. Just don’t complain when it doesn’t turn out like some romance flick. Boys will always be on the lookout for “the next best thing” or “that prettier girl”. Sadly, most end up at the bars at the age of 50…still looking.



BLOG 2

Most of this is true for the most part...........

- midol is like crack. end of story.
- we will never be too old for sleepovers.
- gossip isn't a sin. it's an art.
- we aren't ashamed to cry.
- we must go to the bathroom in groups.
- we have this thing called feelings. don't hurt them.
- we don't wake up looking pretty. it takes time and effort.
- sometimes it's just never quite enough.
- we need girls nights OFTEN.
- we hold grudges and we never forget the things you say to us
that hurt.
- it doesn't matter who dumped who or why. whenever we see an ex with another girl, it always bothers us. not because we're not over you, but because we know we used to be that girl.
- makeup can hide so many things, like puffy eyes from crying to huge scars from a broken heart.
- never ever ask a girl what she weighs; or imply anything about her weight being too much or too little. just don`t do it.
- never ask a girl if she's being so bitchy cause of PMS...cause other things annoy us...duh
- as much as we say we didn't like u that much...we did
- girls notice every little thing so be careful what you say and do
- our eyes are located in our heads not our chest or butt. when you're not looking in our eyes, WE KN0W.
- we get a feeling in our gut when things are wrong (seriously true)
- sometimes we trust you because we want to even when we know you are lying, and it hurts


So these are the things to which this person puts her mind.

Plenty people bounce between asking me 1) "why do waste you time with these idiots" and 2)  "why do you consistently 'target women' for criticism in your songs, bolgs, et cetera".

I always tell them the same: because NO ONE else is doing it; and I think that THAT is why so many women in our culture are emotionally, spiritually, and sexually retarded. I do not agree that women are just "naturally this idiotic". Instead, I say that they are taught to be this way, because no one holding them to account (and other angry, ridiculous, jealous women holding a woman to account - that does not count).

For more on the meticulous stupefaction of our culture's women, check out Mary Wollstonecraft's book "a vindication of the rights of women". I happen to have it hosted here:

http://russlindquist.info/others_quotes/mary_wollstonecraft_a_vindication_of_the_rights_of_woman.html

October 15, 2009 - Thursday 
October 15, 2009 - Thursday 
September 20, 2009 - Sunday 




September 20, 2009 - Sunday 
Part 1: Brian's perspective on prop 8
Part 2: My criticism of his bad perspective

PART 1

All right then, Proposition 8. Where to begin?

First of all let's think about the history of marriage. I had a discussion with the debate team about this, no it was not a debate. Anyway, marriage was originally created as a way to ensure that a child would be taken care of. Back when marriage first came about, there were no laws forcing people to pay child support, so inevitably many soon to be fathers would, for lack of a better phrase, get the hell out of there. With women not being able to hold many jobs back then, there was no income for the family to be. Many times the mother would abandon the child shortly after it was born in these cases. Marriage and strict divorce codes were put in place to ensure that a child would not be abandoned, and thereby a burden of the state. So, in short, marriage is not some sacred thing that was always clearly defined as a union between a man and a woman.

Second, on the topic of "sacred marriage," can we really call marriage "sacred?" Just look at the divorce rates in this country for crying out loud! What kind of message does that send?

Third, the government does not guarantee the right to marry to anyone, including heterosexuals. That being said, why should it have the right to take away what is not there without any real cause, which brings me to my fourth point.

Fourth, there is no real reason for banning gay marriage. Now for some couples there is a reason for them not to marry. For example, first cousins and family members are not allowed to marry? Why? Just look at the offspring they produce! All of you people from AP Euro will get this one: look at the old Spanish monarchy! Anyway, there is not real reason for gay couples not to be allowed to marry, other than the one that religious extremists continue to put forth, which brings me to my fifth point.

Religious extremists continue to put forth the argument that they derived from the Bible. Now, I'm not writing to debate religion, but I was a pretty devout Catholic for the first fourteen years of my life and that's not the way I was taught. You'll notice I used the word extremist, because I do understand that these people tend to be non-denominational Christian radicals. Anyway, because the only real reason (if you can call it that) put forth for this proposal is a religious one, it should be struck down. I for one want to see Separation of Church and State work in favor of the State for once, because not all people are Christians and they don't necessarily believe what Christians believe.

Anyway, I'll leave you with a piece from the L.A. Times....

"Proposition 8… would eliminate the fundamental right to same-sex marriage. The very act of denying gay and lesbian couples the right to marry – traditionally the highest legal and societal recognition of a loving commitment – by definition relegates them and their relationship to second class status."
Los Angeles Times Editorial, August 8, 2008

So have a heart, and if you can't vote then spread the word!"



PART 2


Hi Brian,

There are a couple problems with your prop8 blog.

**NOTE: Be conscious of the moment that you stop thinking about what I am saying, and start simply FEELING indignant... just like the behavior of your strawman "illogical religious extremist" **

So...

The divorce-rate is as high as it is because marriages which stay together count as one marriage, while those who divorce and remarry and divorce and remarry and divorce and remarry and divorce and remarry and divorce and remarry and divorce and remarry - they count as... however many marriages the people choose to have. Your statistics argument is fallacious, because give-or-take %70 of first marriages stay together.

"Now for some couples there is a reason for them not to marry. For example, first cousins and family members are not allowed to marry? Why? Just look at the offspring they produce!"

I doubt that you have ever SEEN the results of first-cousin offspring.  I will confidently assume that you are simply taking someone else's word for it... which makes you quite like a your "illogical religious extremist" strawmen: you are devoutly sure of your vicarious, unverified knowledge.  So you are a hypocrite when you presume to know, based on nothing but propaganda, that the offspring of first-cousin-marriage are certain to turn out bad; because you hate those who presume to know, based on nothing but propaganda, that gay marriages are doomed institutions.

Lastly,
This will show you how little you know about first-cousin marriage in our country:
First-cousin-marriage is legal in only ONE of the following states:

1) Arkansas
2) Kentucky
3) California

Choose your answer; then compare you answer to the correct answer on the official website for the national conference of state legislatures (www.ncsl.org)

~Russ

P.S.:
I know that you "no on 8-ers" are TOTALLY lazy, philosophically speaking. Therefore, I assume that you labeled me as the same caricature that you pretend you are up against: conservative, Christian, etc.

So, for my fun and yours, I will now provide, for you, an excerpt of one of several songs that I have which criticize marriage (especially the notion that marriage is "sacred").


(From "THE SANCTITY OF MARRIAGE")

Prostitution is illegal,
you cannot sell your sex.
But prostitution is perfectly legal,
in the right context...
selling your body is illegal and disgusting,
unless the whore ends-up with a wedding-ring.
If the whore ends-up with a wedding-ring,
then prostitution transforms into a most-beautiful thing?

Prostitution hooray!
Legal prostitution hooray!

Selling your body is okay,
if you set your price at "one wedding day".
April 12, 2009 - Sunday