"If you can't rape your wife, who can you rape?"

This was the slogan of a Congressman while it was still legal to rape your spouse.  During which wives were still considered property and spousal abuse was never reported or take care of.

This slogan is poposturous.  How can someone say this about another person.  Rape is a means of control used by a person on another.  Just the thought of someone in our Nation's congress saying that as a accepted response to why we should allow spousal rape, just upsets me to no end.  If you cannot control your sexual impulses to where they are animalistic then you need to get help.  There are many other ways to relieve your "tension".  Just ask any other American man.  Women are not ment to be ravenged.  We are ment to be loved.  If being raped is a fantasy, then it might be ok, but it has to be consentual.  If at any point during the fantasy that the partner chooses that this is not what they want, it should stop right then and there.  No means no.  Fantasies are completly different than realities.  I just don't know what to say about this.  My mind is just racing about what to say but I know if I write it down, it won't come out right.  So I just wanna know what yall think about this quote.

If A Man Wants U

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.

Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.

Slower is better.

Never live your life for a man before you find what
makes you truly happy.

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends."

He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently?

You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is two way street.

You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship
consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.

Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.

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Have you...?

1.smoked a cigarette- yes
2.smoked a cigar- no..
3.made out with a member of the same sex- kinda.......
4.crashed a friend's car- lol no..
5.stolen a car- nope
6.been in love- yes
7.been dumped- of course
8.shoplifted- a couple of times
9.been fired- nope
10.been in a fist fight- with my brother......another time when i was high......
11.snuck out of your house- many many many times
12.had feelings for someone who didnt have them back- yep, don't we all at some point?
13.been arrested- nope
14.made out with a stranger- yea.....so crowed places are really great places to meet guys
15.gone on a blind date- nope
16.lied to a friend- yeah.. :(
17.had a crush on a teacher- kind of
18.skipped school- of course
19.slept with a co-worker-nope, i have only worked with girls sooo....yeah
20.seen someone die- no
21.been on a plane- yeah, lots of times
22 .thrown up in a bar- nope
23.taken painkillers- yess..
24. love someone or miss someone right now- yeah, it just never seems to go away
25. laid on your back and watched cloud shapes go by- yeah.. its nicer at night
26. made a snow angel- a long time ago..
27. played dress up- lol yeahh :)
28. cheated while playing a game- plenty of times...esp. when playing with little kids lol.
29. been lonely- yeah
30. fallen asleep at work/school- yep, those darn nap times for the kids at work will get you every time
31. used a fake id- nope
32. felt an earthquake- nope
33. touched a snake- yeah
34. ran a red light- some, not too many though
35. been suspended from school- nope, I am an angel 0:)
36. had detention- no, not really
37. been in a car accident- yeah, but they were all before I got my lisence
38. hated the way you look- rarely do i hate it, sometimes i wish it were a little better
39.witnessed a crime- .. just witnessed?
40. pole danced- um, not in a strip club or anything
41. been lost- yeah
42. been to the opposite side of the country- if you count airport yes
43. felt like dying- i like life.
44. cried yourself to sleep- plenty of times
45. played cops and robbers in the bedroom- nope but sounds interesting
46. sang karaoke- drunk asians in china....fun times
47. done something you told yourself you wouldn't- of course
48. laughed till some kind of beverage came out of your nose- yes, it was milk
49. caught a snowflake on your tongue- of course
50. kissed in the rain- yes.. i love the rain
51. sing in the shower- if the radio is on
52. made love in a park- kinda, not really a park, but a festival
53. had a dream that you married someone- not that I married someone, one of my friends was marrying someone
54. glued your hand to something- not like on accident
55. got your tongue stuck to a flag pole- definitely not
56. worn the opposite sex's clothes- yeah, there was this thing call say what kareoke.......
57. been a cheerleader- never
58. sat on a roof top- That is where I can clear my head
59. didn't take a shower for a week- haha ew. maybe, but years ago.
60.ever too scared to watch scary movies alone- depends on how scary i know the movie is going to be
61.played chicken- yeah
62.been pushed into a pool with all your clothes on- the creek...
63.been told "I love you" by a complete stranger- he was stoned. so it doesn't count
64.broken a bone- nope!
65.been easily amused- always
66.laugh so hard you cry- yeah..
67.mooned/flashed someone- when you live on an all girl hall, it just happens
68.cheated on a test- yep
69.forgotten someone's name- of course.
70.slept naked- yep
71.gone skinny dipping in a pool- no, but it sounds like fun
72.been kicked out of your house- i wish they would tell me to leave
73.blacked out from drinking- nope
74.played a prank on someone- hehehe oh the memories.
75.gone to a late night movie- how late is late?
76.made love to anything not human- does that mean like inanimate objects? I don't get the question.
77.failed a class- almost, but neg.
78.choked on something you're not supposed to eat- eat...swallow...what's the difference? heehee
79. played an instrument for more than 10 hours- god no. not straight.
80.cheated on a gf/bf- wouldn't want it done to me so nope
81.ate a whole package of oreos- not at one time.
82.thrown strange objects- yeah, there was this pickle insident......
83.felt like killing someone- yeah....but they really deserved it
84.thought about running away- yep and did
85.ran away-  yep several times
86.done drugs- some, but not too many
87.had detention and not attend it- no
88.yelled at parents- yep, but they started it 
89.made parent cry- my mom :( by accident.
90.cried over someone- of course
91.owned more than 5 sharpies- haha different colors!
92.dated more than 1 person at once- umm.. no?
93.had a dog- many
94.had a cat- nope
95.own an instrument- yep
96.been in a band- umm unless you mean school band, no.
97.had more than 25 sodas in one day- oh god no.
98.broken a cd- not on purpose
99.shot a gun- an ak47, a pellet gun, bb gun
100.had sex 3 times or more in one day- yeah....*blush*
101.been on myspace for more than 5 hours- in a day, probably. at a time, probably not.