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Mari ALonso


Last Updated: 12/4/2009

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Gender: Female
Status: Married
Age: 39
Sign: Gemini

City: ❤City of Angels❤
Country: US
Signup Date: 1/10/2006

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[19 Oct 2009 | Monday] 7:13 PM

Category: Life
One thing you should know about me...
I have two sons, both which I think I have taught well, especially in the virus and infectious departments. Many years ago, I had a mom once tell me... "but he is too young to know how to cover his mouth when he sneezes", until one day she saw my 6 month old baby do it.
Every child should know how to sneeze, cough, and protect from transferable virus or bacterias.  Air droplets are the worst.  I started teaching them the time they discovered their hands.  You have to start them early, One of my babies is grown, but he still puts his head inside his shirt when he coughs or sneezes, it's common sense, it's  suppose to be a "give", a "habit".  Children are smart, they catch on fast, they might not know why they do it in the beginning of their tender years, but they obey, and eventually will know later.
IN THE BEGINNING OF THIS VIDEO YOU'LL SEE HOW DROPLETS TRAVEL AND AT A LONG DISTANCE!

EVEN IF YOU TRY TO COVER WITH THE SLEEVES... THE THING IS THAT THE DROPLETS TRAVEL FAR... SO IT'S WAY BETTER (IF YOU CAN, TO SNEEZE OR COUGH INSIDE YOUR SHIRT) SO YOU WON'T CONTAMINATE.
 
I am stressing this subject because many people aren't educated or think it's not important... the thing is, people are dying now that there is this "swine flu" and it's hard to control, all because somewhere along the line proper habits were not stressed enough and now bad habits are killing us.
In an elevator, if someone sneezes, my family knows not to "breath-in" till 10 seconds  are up or they need to remove themselves as soon as possible opposite direction from cough or sneeze. Back in the days, those droplets were not as dangerous as today in time, yet I knew it, and like most parents, couldn't afford time for my sons to get sick, ...OH AND BY THE WAY IT IS OK FOR PEOPLE OR CHILDREN TO GET SICK ONCE IN A GREAT WHILE SO THEIR BODIES CAN IMMUNE TO CERTAIN VIRUSES OR BACTERIAS.  IMMUNE MEANS... YOUR BODY KNOWING HOW TO FIGHT THAT CERTAIN VIRUS OR BACTERIA BECAUSE IT HAS HAD CONTACT BEFORE WITH IT AND NOW IT KNOWS HOW TO FIGHT IT.
This is a big part about me... I take infections, diseases, sickness very serious. People that are professionals, this is how I know when you are not trained right.  Proper habits are not being practiced. It's really a shame not only on professionals but just people especially those that have children or family!

SWINE FLU:  People ask me what I think about the "SWINE FLU SHOT", I would never take it, and would never allow all that new science inventions in my baby's or my husband's bodies.  I totally know that science, "PEOPLE", invent all sorts of medications that create other new sicknesses in the world... when you pee, when you bowel-move, in the water, in the plants...etc, it all comes back... KARMA!  I truly believe in the Bible and it warns us all on this. 
Your best defense is education. Wash your hands and face frequently. Try to stay away from sick people.
That's it. That's all!
[04 Sep 2009 | Friday] 3:17 AM
Proverbs 1:22 "How long will you simple ones love your simple ways? 
How long will mockers delight in mockery and fools hate knowledge?

LET ME EXPLAIN...
RIGHT HERE,
IT TALKS ABOUT PPL THAT LIVE AS SIMPLE AS THEY CAN. 
SIMPLE WOULD BE FOR EXAMPLE, THE EASY WAY OUT "comfortable".
NOT MANY WANT TO DO WHAT IS RIGHT... BUT YOU GOTTA KNOW
EASY IS CHEESY... YES IT'S COMFORTABLE BUT,
IT ALSO HAS IT'S CHEESY "cheap" CONSEQUENCES!
I TELL MY SONS...
TO MAKE BAD DECISIONS, IT'S AN ARM'S REACH AWAY,
BUT TO DO WHAT IS RIGHT,
ONE NEEDS TO WORK HARD FOR IT!
FINER THINGS IN LIFE COST... 
SO,
TRY TO DO THINGS RIGHT THE FIRST TIME,
SO YOU WON'T HAVE TO DOUBLE WORK YOURSELVES!
NOW,
THE FINISHING PART OF THIS VERSE TALKS ABOUT
THE MOCKERS AND THE FOOLS THAT HATE KNOWLEDGE... 
FIRST WHAT IS THE DEFINITION OF A MOCKER?
"someone that makes fun of;
ridicules; or frustrates the hopes of others".
WHY WOULD A MOCKER WANT TO DO THIS?
hmmm... =(
MOCKERS DON'T LISTEN,
 PER THE BIBLE CALLS THEM FOOLS...
THIS IS POWERFUL STUFF, AND DIRECTLY COMING FROM THE BIBLE;
AND yet most mockers would still ask
"WHERE IS THAT WRITTEN IN THE BIBLE"
OR they will say
"I DON'T HAVE TO LISTEN TO YOU..."
 OR
 "I DON'T BELIEVE ANYTHING OF WHAT YOU SAY..."
hmmm... =(
DOES THAT KIND OF FIT THE MOCKER?

To those none believers, those that use God's name in vain,
those that mock, those that speak and there is no peace around them,
those that are ungreatful, to those that are there to help YOU,
 
I FOUND THIS VIDEO WHICH DESCRIBES THE FOOL.
I ALSO
RANDOMLY,  WANT TO ADD...
THAT WHAT MATTERS MOST to GOD,
IS WHAT IS INSIDE NOT AS MUCH AS WHAT'S OUTSIDE OF YOU...,
THAT WHATEVER MATTERS TO GOD IS YOU, NOT PAPER, CERTIFICATES, AWARDS..., IN GOD'S EYES, that won't save you,
THAT WHATEVER MATTERS IS TO BE THE BEST EXAMPLE YOU CAN BE TO OTHERS, 
and that NOT IMITATING THE PURPOSE OF GOD
WOULD BE DISRESPECTING THE PURPOSE OF HIS COMING!

Proverbs 17:22 A cheerful heart is good medicine,
       but a crushed spirit dries up the bones.

LIVE TO THE FULLEST, LIVE HAPPY, LOVE FONDLY in GOD!
MariGmz









[02 Aug 2009 | Sunday] 6:32 AM
JoJo and I went to Food 4 Less to get some lemons for our tea. Eventually we ended up with bananas, pears, yogurts, and some cottage cheese for my pineapple.  As we were heading towards the cashier, JoJo found a mis-placed toy and asked if I could buy it, I said no, so he was going to lay it somewhere else and he knows better, but us parents need to be constant with them, teaching them and reminding them always.  I said "you got the toy, now you have to put it to its proper place." As I was walking behind him I stopped to see the specials on Cup O Noodles and I heard a girl crying and yelling to her dad, "NO DAD. NOOOO, PLEAASE, NOOO..." I immediately ran to see if my baby was ok... I was afraid that he'd be scared or see inappropriate behavior. He came to me and said someone is crying... so I see a confused crowd just moving their heads and one customer was crying for that person, as I was coming close to the commotion, I was getting upset as I saw no one doing nothing... I then see this lady on the floor crying like a baby on the cell, she was yelling no daddy so I am sure it was her dad. My reaction was to hold her tight and tell her that everything was going to be ok.  She looked at me with those beautiful yellow hazel eyes and said to me, "why, why, pleeease help me understand why... Why did God allow this", and she grabbed my hands but as she was asking me those questions, I was praying to God, and all I could tell her was "Baby I am here, and I am so sorry... I am very sorry!"  Then visions of how God handled these situations came to me, and as she hugged me so hard and kept crying, she then told me that she was suppose to call this person, that this person was discharged from the hospital today, her diagnosis was renal failure, (what a testimony, Just to prove to ppl that God has it all figured out.  I specialize in Urology... so to me a discharge for such diagnosis, hmmm, this was a big ?),  but anyways, I was there to hear her... and allow her to let it all out.  She looked out of it for a while... like if she was going crazy so I asked for her name "Moeesha", and then I got the chills to see her belly, but afraid to ask cause it's not ok to ask when there is a belly, but I got the chills so I told her YOU ARE Pregnant, and she said 6 mo. I then told her that this baby needs her protection, if you cry, yell or get very emotional, she can damage the baby's organs!  She wiped her tears and reacted to this and asked if it was true I said yes, and I explained to her how... then she rubbed her tummy and said I'm sorry baby I don't want to hurt you and she busted again, and she screamed at me and asked me "Maria, why why did God allow this to happen... she didn't want to leave, she has a 4 yr old boy, I don't understand, help me answer, you see you don't even have words, I told her "believe me Moeesha I have many words to say to you, but none of them will help you in this moment of your grief, and all she kept saying is that I didn't understand.  Then her husband called and she asked me if I could give him the news. Then I told him that she needed to be picked up because she wasn't ok to drive.   Then the dad called and sounded mean, I also told him that her husband was going to pick Moeesha up.  He didn't even ask if Moeesha was fine... he just demanded to pass the phone, so I asked Moeesha if she was ok to talk, and told her who it was... she then again busted crying.  I then got the phone and said she can't talk right now.  Then I hung up, so I hugged her like a baby (by this time her husband was there) and he was hearing everything that I was telling her... I told her that later on the questions she has will be answered but as for now, her dedication was to her husband and her priority was her child that needs his or her mommy's protection from harm.  That she needs to look forward and work with what you have in front of you.  Then she looked at me and said you remind me of my cousin, she also was religious, she also spoke like you.  I said God works in mysterious ways, that at the time of questions, we don't know why, but later the answers to those question will be revealed, then you will say "oh that's why, and you will see that it will always be to strengthen us to save others."  Then I got surprised that her husband was there when he told her, listen to her, and held her shoulders, (now this part made me cry), cause I saw so much love, He Started to Pray over her. Then I also prayed, and she said thank you and sorry for taking your time... and she looked at my baby, then I told her they know, you see, I told her, "as we speak my husband is waiting for me to go to the casinos, (The clerk, the husband, and Moeesha with cry started laughing). I asked Moesha, what do you think Jesus would do in this situation?  I held her hands tight and leaned down, and told her "That is our purpose Moeesha to teach others what we have endured and learned in life... we are here to help each other, to teach each other, Jesus didn't come among us in vain, He came to teach us, He came to us so we can imitate His doings, and that is the real purpose of everyone's life.  My children know how I am, and as you can see my son hasn't complained, he understands.  She looked at JoJo and said thank you to him.  

From all this what is the biggest thing that got to you?

I can tell you that all of it, but there's one that touched my heart so much.  

When Moeesha said her cousin was religious too.  Now that my friends is leaving your fine-print in this world, how cool is that!  To leave the world and yet still be alive, because that is what it is, My words were such as her cousins, I don't know Moeesha internally, but I can tell you that some of her cousins' words, will be saving her. 

All of God's people, can be ignored, ridiculed or criticized, but we don't give up easily... for our words, our actions, will eventually come to light, some say we are crazy... that we act weird, or that we think we are Saints or act as if we were perfect... that is ridiculous, we know there is no perfect than God!  It's just that these people find so many ways to make our life miserable... BUT..., Sorry people, but we've grown resistant to the defined word "miserable"! 

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God Bless You All!  

MariGmz
[01 Jun 2007 | Friday] 5:30 PM

Current mood:  calm

He will never leave me,
never forsake me,
never mislead me,
never forget me,
never overlook me and
never cancel my appointment in His appointment book!

When I fall, He lifts me up!
When I fail, He forgives!
When I am weak, He is strong!
When I am lost, He is the way!
When I am afraid, He is my courage!
When I stumble, He steadies me!
When I am hurt, He heals me!
When I am broken, He mends me!
When I am blind, He leads me!
When I am hungry, He feeds me!
When I face trials, He is with me!
When I face persecution, He shields me!
When I face problems, He comforts me!
When I face loss, He provides for me!
When I face Death, He carries me Home!

He is everything for everybody everywhere, every time, and every way.

He is God, He is faithful. I am His, and He is mine!

My Father in heaven can whip the father of this world!
So, if you're wondering why I feel so secure, understand this...

He said it and that settles it.
God is in control, I am on His side,
and that means all is well with my souL.

~ MARI ~