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I got married to a woman.  She all ready had a child.  Her child was almost two.  We were togther for about a year.  I fell in love with her and her daughter.  I couldn't help myself.  And come to find out not only I could also.  We got married and then we had a son.  And the day he was born is another story another day.  Well the begining was as if God had plan it himself, it was perfect.  But there were signs I was blinded too.  Oneday I got a call that I had to go and serve my country, which I have no regrets with.  I was sent to Operation Enduring Freedom 4.  I gave her everything I had.  More so my heart.  Well when I was up there she spent everything.  But to me I can always make more money.  My goal was to build our house.  While I was still home I was able to buy porperty and make house plans (which she desgined herself and says she was rushed and doesn't like it anymore).  Then while in country I was able to clear the land.  And I also found out that she had a afair which she admitted to.  I didn't talk to her for two weeks because I had lost it.  God had calmed my soul and I was able to put it behind to make our marriage work.  When I called her two weeks later she confessed to another afair.  There again I was frieous but calmed down, because I could understand where she was at.  Being home with our kids missing my touch and the stress she was probaly going through.  Then I came home and it was pretty good for the year.  Then mothers day came about and I let her go out with her friend.  The children and I waited until the next day where she didn't show.  And when she got home I asked if she had a afair and she admitted again.  I asked for a divorce and went through the process.  While going through that divorce she was on a downward spiral.  She was sleeping with strangers.  Anybody that would pick her up or buy her a drink.  I couldn't watch her go through that because I'd still loved her and for our children.  I didn't want to watch my family be rip apart.  So we went to a counsleing session where she wanted to change and be forgiven.  I forgave her and canceled the divorce.  Six months later during her christmas party she had another afair.  I told her enough is enough I am leaving her.  So I am going through the process all over again.  The kids live with me while she sinks her teeth into this guy.  And this time she wants half of everything.  She won't let me build the house for the children and I.  She wants to sell it and split it half way.  And wants me to pay off her dept for the thrid time.  And she also wants the kids and collect alomony and child support but she never takes care of the kids.  They are always with me while she is having a great time with her boyfriend.  Thank you for reading (listening) to my promblems.  And I pray something like this doesn't ever happen to anyone.  No one deserves to go through what I went through.