WOMEN LOOK FOR THESE THINGS IN YOUR NEXT ENCOUNTER WITH A MAN, YOUR FIANCEE, BOYFRIEND, ETC...YOU ARE A QUEEN, AND YOU DESERVE THE VERY BEST.  DONT LOWER YOUR STANDARDS DUE TO IMPATIENCE...AND THERE IS NO SHORTAGE OF GOOD MEN, YOU WILL SEE ONCE "YOU" STOP LOOKING...LET US FIND YOU.

He is...Interested

When you first meet him, you should feel that he wants you. It may be conveyed by a look, a touch, a compliment or attention to detail. It should be backed up by his willingness to make a plan and move the relationship forward. Constant calling, e-mailing and text-messaging is not true contact since he cannot touch you, see you, adore you or get to know you.



He is...Accomplished

Soon after meeting him, you will discover that he has appropriately achieved in at least one area of his life. If he went to college he now has a good job. If he inherited his parents' business, he has learned how to successfully manage it. His efforts continue to generate new opportunities, new skills, new challenges or new possessions.



He is..A Stand-up Guy

He says what he means and means what he says. And the words that he speaks are backed up by action that coincides. Even if he cannot give a guarantee, the relationship is always moving forward. Thus, you will never find yourself drunk-dialing at 2AM because you fear he is out with another girl.



He is..Into you

It will feel reciprocal and mutual. Do you feel that what he gives is as valuable and meaningful as what you offer? Is he as devoted to you as you are to him? Healthy relationships are based upon mutual give and take. If the only thing that you are getting out of this relationship is text messages, e-mails or occasional plans, you are not getting what you need.



He is.. Consistent

He will have good friends and you will like who he is when he's with them. You are confident that he is the man you know and love whether he's with you or apart from you. When he's out of sight, he does not turn into somebody else. Conversely, when you include him with your friends, you know who he will be -- charming and engaging, enhancing instead of detracting.



He is.. Understanding

He will like you for who you are. Even if you have a bad day or say something that he does not like, his adoration will remain steady and his view of you will remain the same. Beware of the guy whose perception changes whenever you deviate from his expectations. You should not feel that you must suppress your personality in order to hold onto his approval.



He is.. Not Judgemental

He will never view you as unconditionally bad or make you feel terrible about yourself. Even in the midst of an argument, he will be able to see both the good and the bad in you. He will not stay mad at you once the argument is over. And he will move on instead of clinging to bad feelings or suspicions. He loves you and sees you as a good person, no matter what.



He is.. Trusting

he is right for you, he will tolerate the unexpected and the unknown because he trusts you.  He will not pin you down or put a leash on you every moment of the day in order to feel secure. Instead, he will respect your boundaries and give you the privacy and independence you deserve. Conversely, he will not block you out or use distance to keep the upper hand.



He is.. Willing to Talk

He has a learning curve.  He is willing to learn from his mistakes and to modify his actions. For instance, if he begins a friendship with a flirtatious girl and you let him know that this is creating a problem, he will be concerned about your feelings and come up with a solution. When you discuss relationship obstacles, he works on them.



He is.. Proactive

He will seek his own solutions. If he has a problem he will reach out to others for help, find resources, have a conversation, go to therapy, attend a 12-step program -- anything that will move him closer to making the changes that he needs to make. Pride, laziness or stubbornness will not keep him from taking the steps that he needs to have a relationship with you.



He is.. Not Controlling

He will not try to have power over you. He won't leave you wondering where he is and what he is doing. Or leave you hanging just to prove a point. Even if he has more money, status and power, he will not make you feel that you would be nothing without him. He is willing to listen, meet your needs and include you in mutual decision making.



IF YOUR MAN DOESNT HAVE AT LEAST 75% OF THIS LIST GOING FOR HIM, MAKE HIM STEP HIS GAME UP TO GET YOU...WE LOVE THE CHASE AND THE PURSUIT...BUT SOME OF YOU JUST TAKE THAT RIGHT OUT OF THE EQUATION - LOL...MAKE US CHASE YOU AND WE WILL LOVE YOU FOREVER, OH YEAH AND COOK FOR US TO.  GOD BLESS YOU.

SOUND THE ALARM...FOR THERE IS A HOLY VISITATION COMING FORTH...

FOR ONE DAY OUR LORD JESUS CHRIST SHALL ONE DAY SPLIT THE SKY WITH HIS PRESENCE AND THOSE WHO ARE LIKE HIM SHALL SEE HIM FACE TO FACE...AND THE WICKED SHALL BE LEFT FOR THE SUFFERING OF THEIR INIQUITIES. 

THE BIBLE SAYS TO COMFORT ONE ANOTHER IN THIS, AND I WANT TO BE AN ENCOURAGEMENT TO THE BELIEVERS WHO READ THIS...STAND FOR GOD, STAND ON HIS WORD, FOR IN THIS TIME THE ONLY THING LEFT STANDING WILL BE THE WORD OF GOD.

CAST ASIDE THESE SINS THAT SO EASILY BESET US, AND STRIVE FOR THE PERFECTING OF HOLINESS IN THE FEAR OF GOD, FOR NO MAN SHALL SEE THE FACE OF GOD WITHOUT  HOLY LIVING AND JESUS CHRIST, THE SON OF GOD.

TO THE NON BELIEVER, IF I COULD GIVE YOU A GLIMPSE OF YOUR JUDGEMENT FOR LIVING WITHOUT JESUS, YOU WOULD HUNT ME DOWN TO FIND OUT WHAT IS MY HOPE, AND WHO IS THIS CHRIST YOU SPEAK OF?  THE ONLY HOPE YOU HAVE IS THAT AS LONG AS YOU ARE ABOVE GROUND YOU CAN COME TO THE LORD THY GOD, WITH A CONTRITE HEART AND A MOUTH FILLED WITH REPENTANCE.

NO SIN, NO RACE, NO HATRED, NO SORROW, NOR THE THINGS OF THIS WORLD, SHALL ENTER THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN...FOR WHEN YOU HEAR THAT TRUMP, THE CORRUPTIBLE SHALL BECOME INCORRUPTIBLE, AND AS YOU BLINK, YOU WILL MISS IT...IT SHALL BE DONE.

GOD IS PREPARING US, WE ARE IN THE FALLING AWAY, BUT SOON HIS SPIRIT SHALL BE POURED UPON ALL FLESH, THEN SHALL WE SEE OUR SAVIOR, JESUS CHRIST. THIS VERY GENERATION WE CALL TODAY...SHALL SEE IT.

ALL GLORY TO OUR HOLY GOD, CREATOR OF HEAVEN AND EARTH.

-MINISTER LEE