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Monica Arms-Crawford


Last Updated: 11/17/2009

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Status: In a Relationship
Country: US

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March 15, 2009 - Sunday 

Current mood:  awake
Category: Writing and Poetry

I get quiet when I'm hurt
I cry when I'm mad
I won't shut up when I'm nervous
I get nervous over the craziest things
I could handle stress alot better if I weren't alone
I fall in love too easy
I goosh over baby animals
and I have a weakness for babies
I'm scared to express how I feel
I act out when my back's against the wall
No matter the consequences I'll be honest to a fault
I hate it when people are upset with me
And it rips my heart out to see a man cry
I lie to myself daily just to get by
Its just me.....I acted out, nerves and stress got the best of me
I admit I'm hurt and I'm tired of crying and since I can't find the words
to say anything to you...I'll quietly let you walk away.
February 21, 2009 - Saturday 

Current mood:  sad
Category: Music
You're my world
The shelter from the rain
You're the pills
That take away my pain
You're the light
That helps me find my way
You're the words
When I have nothing to say

And in this world
Where nothing else is true
Here I am
Still tangled up in you
I'm still tangled up in you
Still tangled up in you

You're the fire
That warms me when i'm cold
You're the hand
I have to hold as I grow old
You're the shore
When I am lost at sea
You're the only thing
That I like about me

And in this world
Where nothing else is true
Here I am
Still tangled up in you
I'm still tangled up in you

How long has it been
Since this storyline began
And I hope it never ends
And goes like this forever

In this world
Where nothing else is true
Here I am
Still tangled up in you
Tangled up in you
I'm still tangled up in you
Still tangled up in you

February 2, 2009 - Monday 

Current mood:  confused
Category: Romance and Relationships

Now what

.. ..

I let my heart go somewhere it shouldn’t have....

Now I don’t know what to do....

You can never plan for the unexpected....

It only hits you out of the blue....

.. ..

You can try to fight it....

Say it’s only infatuation....

It was only something you needed at the moment....

Just a little satisfaction....

.. ..

You know you are lying to yourself....

And it didn’t happen overnight....

You know it’s not suppose to happen....

That it’s anything but right....

.. ..

So how do you explain it?....

How do you come to terms with what’s happened....

You’ve made your choice and it’s at everyone’s expense....

One part of you is relieved and the other is deeply saddened....

.. ..

Timing isn’t right, nothing is secure....

Your position in life is as confused as his....

But you recognize what has happened and know....

What is there to miss?....

.. ..

You keep at arms’ length and push one another away....

Time away is the only way to not jump so fast....

But what if time causes it to ache even more....

Wanting and needing even more with the time past....

.. ..

You are both scared to death....

Because you both know how badly it could go wrong....

But with each day, each night, every conversation....

The feeling you are fighting is only growing stronger....

.. ..

You feel the need to run....

But you only want to wrap around them once more....

You lay there knowing this should be the last time....

But never seeing them again makes your heart feel torn....

.. ..

So what do you do?....

How do you make sense of it all?....

This was supposed to go slow and be fun....

No one was expecting to fall....

.. ..

If you have to remind yourself daily ....

As to what this is ....

Then maybe you need to step back and realize....

What it already is....

.. ..

So you didn’t plan for it or expect it....

Does that mean that it wasn’t meant to be?....

Or is there a higher power taking control....

And giving you a gift that you need to open your eyes and see....

.. ..

If you have to struggle within ....

To keep from feeling something that is there....

Maybe for once you should let go and give in....

And to your own feelings become aware....

.. ..

Let it happen....

See where this road is going to take you....

It may be the very best ride of your life....

It may just be the one that was meant to be true....

.. ..

~~MDC~~212009....

 
 

November 26, 2008 - Wednesday 

Current mood:  blessed
Category: Life
............. ..


..

Remember...

Once you get over the hill, you'll begin to pick up speed.



.. 
...If it weren't for STRESS
I'd have no energy at all.



Whatever hits the fan.....

Will Not Be Evenly Distributed.


Everyone has a photographic memory.
Some, like me, just don't have any film.

I always know...

God won't give me more than I can handle

There are times I just wish He didn't trust me quite so much.

..
Dogs Have Owners ~ Cats Have Staff

..

If the shoe fits... buy a pair in every color.


Never be too open-minded, your brains may fall out.


Just going to church doesn't make you a Christian.

Not any more than standing in a garage makes you a car.

Bills travel through the mail...

..

at twice the speed of checks.

If you look like your passport picture...
you probably need the trip.


Some days are a total waste of makeup.


Men are from earth.

Women are from earth.

..

Deal with it.


A balanced diet is a cookie in each hand.


Middle age is when broadness of the mind
and narrowness of the waist change places.


Opportunities always look bigger going than coming.


Junk is something you've kept for years
and throw away three weeks before you need it.

..

Experience is a wonderful thing.

It enables you to recognize a mistake when you make it again.


By the time you can make ends meet, they move the ends.


Learn from the mistakes of others.
Trust me... you can't live long enough to make

them all yourself.

I've tried!!

..

Have A Wonderful Day!

 Hold your loved ones close, tell them you love them, for if tomorrow never comes, you'll have no regrets about today

November 23, 2008 - Sunday 

Current mood:  satisfied
Category: Music
"The Girl I Am"

Sometimes I cry for no good reason
sometimes I fight when I ain't mad
Sometimes it hurts and I ain't bleeding
Sometimes I laugh when things go bad

[Chorus:]

But I'll always be the girl I am
When life comes falling down on me I do the best I can
I never make apologies cause I don't give a damn
I'll guess I'll always be the girl I am

Sometimes I know there's something missing
Sometimes I want to start again
Sometimes I scream and none listens
Sometimes I feel like giving in

[Repeat Chorus:]

But I'll always be the girl I am
And When life comes falling down on me I do the best I can
And I never make make apologies cause I don't give a damn
I guess I'll always be the girl I am

And I never make apologies cause I don't give a damn
Yeah I guess I'll always be the girl I am
November 14, 2008 - Friday 

Category: Life

§ The ties that bind us are

     sometimes impossible to explain.

§ They connect us even after it

    seems like the ties should be broken.

§ Some bounds defy distance and time

    and even logic.

§ Because some ties are simply

    meant to be. ~♥

November 4, 2008 - Tuesday 

Current mood:  awake
Category: Life
We have all learned lessons the hard way in our lives; sometimes the lessons we learn just wasn't worth the hard part; even still ~ we manage. But what about the hard times we enflict on other people and yet we don't take it to heart and we keep doing it over and over. The things that some people do to fill a temporary void can sometimes create more of a void and sometimes a permanent one that cannot be fixed. So when do we learn? With most things in life it's nice to have a backup plan or plan B incase the main plan doesn't work out but is it really wise to apply that to all areas of our lives? If you have seriously set down and looked for a backup plan or a "just in case" route....aren't you actually saying you don't expect the main plan to work...your setting yourself up to fail in whatever you are doing. And well sometimes the backup plans can cause it to fail. Just for the mere fact that it's there is enough but what if it starts looking like a better route than the original....now you've created a whole new mess to deal with. Soooo, I will be the first to say....well flip! Now what? As the old saying goes...you can't change a horses spots...so do you learn to tolerate the spots or get a new horse or a second one in this case? 
October 25, 2008 - Saturday 

Current mood:  sad
Category: Life

One day I won't be here.

One day when yu have a problem you won't be able to call me to ask for help.

One day when you want to send me a message I won't ever receive it.

One day when I'm not here I won't be able to tell you that I love you so much and I cherish every moment I have with you.

Never regret anything we ever did together, even if it got us into trouble.

Regret the things we didn't have a chance to do because it was too late.

Remember all the laughs we got to share and the tears we got to see in each others eyes.

Remember all the hugs and all the kisses.

Think twice about leaving my side when  I need you cause I would never leave yours.

Life is short, there will be few people who come into it that really makes a difference.

We must remember to have a heart when it matters most of all and not waste time on anger.

October 10, 2008 - Friday 

Current mood:  bouncy
Category: Life
I'm one of those girls
that's always been with one of those guys
you know the type
like right now
he sleeps while I write

But it's better than crying
warn out from trying
from loving a man who always makes it clear
I am not welcome here
Just till he's horney or hungry or needs something clean
you know what I mean
But not tonight
Cause come the morning light, oh

I'm gonna love myself
More than anyone else
Believe in me
Even if someone can't see
The stronger woman in me

I'm gonna be my own best friend
Stick with me till the end
Won't lose myself again
never, no
Cause theres a stronger woman
a stronger woman in me

light bulbs buzz I get up
and head to my drawer
wish there was more
I could say
another fairy tale fades to grey

I've lived on hope
Just like a child
walking that mile
faking that smile
all the while
wishing my heart had wings
well tonight I am gonna be
The kind of woman I want my daughter to be

I'm gonna love myself
More than anyone else
Believe in me
Even if someone can't see
There's a stronger woman in me
Won't lose myself again
no, no
Cause there's a stronger woman, a stronger woman

this is me packing up my bags
this is me headed for the door
this is me the best you ever had

I'm gonna love myself
More than anyone else
Believe in me, even if someone can't see
There's a stonger woman in me

I'm gonna be my own best friend
stick with me till the end
Won't lose myself again
never, no
Cause there's a stronger woman, stronger woman
Theres a stronger woman in me
Yeah
September 20, 2008 - Saturday 

Current mood:  cheerful
Category: Music


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEa8gcisaPU

This child is amazing! Her little voice made me cry! WOW