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Michael Kane


Last Updated: 11/26/2009

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Gender: Male
Status: Single
Age: 29
Sign: Leo

City: Get me out of here!!!!
State: Georgia
Country: US
Signup Date: 3/18/2006

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Thursday, May 29, 2008 

Current mood:  ashamed
Category: Life

Well here I go again with this life thing, for some reason I just cant get a grip on it.  I just cannot find out what I was put on this earth to do, I thought I should have been a teacher...that didnt work out then I thought I should have been a Chef, that didnt work out then I was going to be a Cardiovascular Technician, I think I like the title more than the job discription, but what I REALLY want to do is be a Photographer, for as long as I could remeber even in high school my dream was to have one of my photos appear on the cover of National Geographic but I didnt know where to start(I still dont) I now have the proper materials needed to start but I feel its too late...the reason I say this is because I took a job that I knew I really didnt want but took anyway I work at this great paying, great benefits job but HATE IT I did not want to get back into this field of work, I knew exactly what was going to happen...it was going to be great for awhile and then it sucks but Im too scared to leave because I have so much invested into it and I just dont want to look like a failure again...I will just be another disappointment, so that is what is making it so hard to just up and follow my dreams because I feel like I dont have a choice...Im 28 yrs old and I still feel controlled by my parents and that is probablly the reason Im this way...Beleive it or not I still worry about what they say and they still get on to me about the mistakes I make IM FREAKIN 28!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i shouldnt give a crap what they think but i do....if it was up to me I would just up and leave and follow my dreams but I feel like I wouldnt be welcomed back, so I continue to stick around and be unhappy just to watch other people live out there dreams and get things handded to them, like I was never given the chance to reach out and take because the hand was empty!!!!

Sunday, April 01, 2007 

Current mood:  good
Category: Food and Restaurants

*I got this from a co-worker........*

READ THIS RESTAURANT EATERS

I work at Locos and I think that there should be a class on how to act in a restaurant...but there's not...so here ya go...

For all of you that don't know how to $tip$...

The next time you're out eating at a resturant, look at your server. Do you think they are really happy to be doing that job? The answer is no, they are not, but its what we do, and we do it for the money so please help them out. Its a tougher job than you think and you should pay them accordingly!

There are SO many people out there flooding the restaurants w/o any knowledge of how to tip. Here is a short guide for the gene ral public to follow. Feel free to print out and store in your wallet and/or purse.

1. CHILDREN "THE LITTLE DEVILS":
If you have children, DO NOT let them, open and dump anything on the table (ie; salt, sugar, etc). IF YOU DO, you must leave an extra $5 for the server to clean up YOUR CHILD'S mess & to restock the now unusable wasted items. Don't get mad if you ask for crackers and your server tells you they're out when you just saw another table eating crackers with their soup -- can you blame them for not wanting to clean up the mess afterward? We are neither their babysitter nor their parent. The least you can do is pay us for the extra work. Also make sure you control your kids and don't let them scream or run around the restraunt. It's very distracting not to mention dangerous if they get ran over by a server with hot food in their hands.

2. "THE CAMPERS":
If you feel the necessity to stay for longer than 15 minutes after you pay, its an extra $3 every 30 minutes. We make our money from the tables. If you are in one and we can't seat it, we don't make money.

3. COMPLIMENTS:
Telling a server they are the best server they've ever had is not a tip. If we are good, let us know by leaving us more money. We cant pay our bills on compliments. Its not that we don't appreciate the praise, its just that if you say that and then leave 10% it's an insult.

4. THE SALVATION PAMPHLETS:(i love me some Jesus, but this is definitely frustrating!)
Prayer cards and any other religious pamphlet is NOT a tip. It is insulting that you assume we are w/o religion and must save us. Again, like ..3, we cant pay bills w/prayer cards. We'd go to church on Sundays if it wasn't mandatory to work on Sundays because EVERYONE who goes to church follows it by eating out. Also don't try to preach to us while we are working. We don't go to your work and put you down so don't do it to us.

5. TIPPING:
It is not 1960. Cost of living has gone up dramatically since then. 18% is the MINIMUM amount of what you should be tipping your servers. Remember, that steak is $12.99 not $22.99 because restaurants aren't required to pay minimum wage in most states! ($2.13 in Texas!)(or in most states, actually, 2.13 in GA and SC!!! and that barely covers out taxes. I don't get weekly paychecks at all anymore!) We are taxed on 10 percent of your meal automatically anyway, not to mention we have to tip out a percentage of our sales - your bill - to the hosts, bartenders, and bussers. So if you dont leave a tip, WE END UP PAYING FOR YOUR MEAL!! So move that decimal one spot left and multiply by 2 and your server will never be disappointed. ($25 = $2.50 x 2 = $5)

6. THE COMPLAINERS:
If you get a discount because of your food was prepared wrong or something, do not take it out of our tip. We didn't cook it. The cooks get paid hourly regardless if the food sucks. However, we only make what you give us. And don't ever leave a percentage on the total after the discount or comp -- always tip on what the total would have been.

7. THE LATE ONES:
If you come into the restraunt 10 mins before closing or any time near closing hurry up and order your food and get out. Closed means closed, not social hour. It is so rude to sit there and take your sweet ass time. We can't leave until you leave because we have to do sidework and clean the table you are sitting at. We don't want to stand there waiting for you for an extra hour just because you don't want to go home. We recommend 24 hour establishments such as Dennys if you wish to sit into the wee hours of the night.

8. THE TABLE HOGERS:
If you only come in for coffee or a dessert, to do paper work, or to have a meeting, don't sit there taking up our booths for hours. We are not Starbucks or a hotel restraunt. If you want to sit for hours, go there or else you better leave a good tip for us and camping fee included.


9. THE GREET:
When we come up to the table to greet you and we ask how you are doing please let us know. We honestly want to know how you are doing. If you are in a bad mood we want to know that from the beginning. A confused stare or complete silence does not suffice as a reply to "How are you doing?". Also don't interrupt our greeting and say "I want coffee", "can we get some bread, or "what are the soups?"

10. THOSE DAMN CELL PHONES:
Don't ever talk on your cell phone in a restraunt. This is probably the rudest thing to do. If you must be on your cell, at least keep your voice down in respect for other customers. If you are on your cell phone when we walk up to greet your table we will walk away until you get off your phone. Just show some respect and give us your attention for a couple of minutes.

11. TAKE-AWAY OR TOGOS:
Always remember to tip the take-out order servers! They work just as hard as a server, and hardly ever get tips for it! WE DESERVE TO BE TIPPED TOO!

12. FRIENDS:
If you are sitting in your friend's section, do not act like a fool, do not expect free shit, and if you get free stuff, thanks them and tip them accordingly. They can get fired for giving you anything free, even a coke. AND you are taking up one of their tables, so you need to tip them at least the normal 18-20%. Don't leave them 10-15% and say "At least you'll get a really good tip from one table!" You should be the people tipping your friends the best out of anyone in the restaurant!

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!SERVERS READING THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Please repost this so the word can get out, since so many people are uneducated about tips and our lives depend on this - atleast for now......

SIGNED, YOUR FELLOW RESTAURANT WORKERS"

Additionally:

"PLEASE DO NOT BITCH AND COMPLAIN WHEN WE ASK TO SEE YOUR ID FOR ALCOHOL. EVEN IF YOU ARE OBVIOUSLY OLD ENOUGH TO DRINK. I  don't know of many of us that would mind losing our jobs just because you so desperately wanted to drink a beer etc.... I know I don't. Its a nation wide law, just because not everyone follows it, doesn't mean that I am kidding or it is something new. We have to see ID for everyone that orders an alcoholic beverage, or we risk being fired and/or fined. So just keep rude ass comments to your self and show your ID. It takes a matter of seconds to just show it, but if you bitch it takes longer for you to get the drink..."

Tuesday, February 20, 2007 

Current mood:  disappointed
Category: Religion and Philosophy
Jesus is my hero, and I love Him sooo much...but I'm so far from perfect that perfection, Jesus, and I are not even comparable...so I need you; I need you to watch me; And criticize me; And make me accountable for everything that I do; So that I can be an example, because there are so many people in my life that I want to change; that I want to see again in heaven. But unless I can live as an example of an honest TO GOD christian...then I have no answer for those non-believers who ask me what's different in my life... I lOvE yOu MoRe ThAn YoU KnOw; Other things about me... there are very few people that know the real me very well...I sing at and attend a really cool church called NEW HEIGHTS COMMUNITY CHURCH! "If you claim to be a christian, and you're life isn't any different than before you became one, then I question whether or not you know what a committment really is. If you claim to be a christian, but rededicate your life to christ on all of the church trips and big services, then I question whether or not you really know what a committment is. If you claim to be a christian, and you dont find the purpose of your life in Jesus himself...then I question whether or not you really know what a committment is. If you claim to be a christian, but you're not willing to spend just a few minutes a day with God, alone with God, then I question whether or not you know what a committment really is." "We are all part of the body of Christ...but if you are God's hands...don't offer God just your hands...because God wants all of you to act as his hands...if you're his feet...your whole body must go as his feet." Romans 6:16-Don't you know that when you offer yourselves to someone to obey him as slaves, you are slaves to the one whom you obey whether you are slaves to sin, which leads to death, or to obedience, which leads to righteousness. There are a lot of things I dont understand, and a lot of people that don't understand me sometimes...but nothing you ever say to me can ever bring me down and nothing I ever say to you should ever bring you down. I might say something derogatory to you...and completely mean it, and if you've known me long enough, I probably have...but if words can throw your world into a disaster...then you'll never be able to climb your way out of some of the holes that this world can dig you into...but the way I think about it...If the complaints and arguments that God puts into our lives bring pain and trauma and complements produce pridefulness, then you'll never find inspiration anywhere. 2 Corinthians 12:7-To keep me from becoming conceited because of these surpassingly great revelations, there was given me a thorn in my flesh, a messenger of Satan, to torment me. 8-Three times I pleaded with the Lord to take it away from me. 9-But he said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me. 10-That is why, for Christ's sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong.19-Have you been thinking all along that we have been defending ourselves to you? We have been speaking in the sight of God as those in Christ; and everything we do, dear friends, is for your strengthening. God can inspire you in so many ways...but if you're not looking to be inspired...you won't be. Even though I have a billion questions that I wish I could ask God about different things in this world...and different people...including myself...I know that one day I wont have anything to worry about...so I'll try to worship God in everything I do now...and maybe I'll get a glimpse of what heaven is like in my own life... But that's who I am...not my life...if you want to know about my life...well: I'm way too busy. I'm in school right now for History education. I know for a fact that I want to be a minister of Christ for my entire life, I think a lot...more than people probably think I thinkI don't like to be distracted when I'm focused on something, especially if it's for something pointless. I go to church as much as I can.... Sure, I backslid, and backslide, all the time. I don't really know if I have a distinguishable point in my life when I was saved. I prayed "the sinner's prayer" so many times and probably only meant it once or twice...but looking back, I really don't know when it was that I was truthful to God about seeking him. Since my "gradual salvation" began though, I have tried my hardest to keep my focus on HimBut that's my life. There's probably more...but this is what I've written...so that's all you get for now
Saturday, February 17, 2007 

Current mood:  exhausted
Category: Parties and Nightlife

Ok after getting off of work last night I was wanting to go do some line dancing down @ the country club.  So I call everyone, and their all doing differnt things...so I go over to another friends house and eat dinner with some other peeps I know.

After dinner we just hang around and then I call S.Y. she said she is going to coyetes with some of her peeps..so I shoot down there.  Get there at about 12:00 am shot pool and hung out till 2am till the next thing I know were on our way to Columbia SC to some strip club By the time we get there it is 4am and we stayed till 6am.  But one of the people we went with did not want to leave(see we had 7 people and two cars) but we all were tired  needless to say all 6 of us cram into a 2000 Saturn

Moral of the story!! Friends dont let drunk friends make all the decisions!!!!

Thursday, February 15, 2007 

Current mood:  sad

Back in May of last year my best friend added me to her cell phone plan. I was happy b/c my current cell phone got cut off and I really needed a phone, but then again I was a little hesitant b/c I was wasnt sure I could afford it....after quickly deciding i decided to go for it.

Everything was going good until it got harder and harder to pay my end of the bill!!! The next thing I know the phones are turned off I dont know how long that has been, but the sad thing is I have not talked this over with her....I acctually havent talked to her at all.  Before all this took place we were best friends for 11 yrs......long time huh? And this has been before halloween since we have last spoke!!!

It makes me sad that I am the one that is ruining the friendship!! (if there still is one) and to make it worse she has a little boy, which is suppose to be my Godson and i missed Halloween, Thanksgiving, and Christmas.....and she is about to have a little girl and I havent been there through any of the pregnacy. 

I understand that it is my fault for all of this taking place and i am at a point now where i can start paying the debt i owe and hopefully fix this problem.  If she reads this i just want to tell her how sorry i am that it has gotton this far and that i still love her and want more than anything to be her friend again!!!

alot of you may ask why havent you gone over there to talk to her....its not her that im scared of its her MOM AND DAD!! LOL i know that sound funny but its the truth. AGAIN I JUST WANT TO SAY I'M SORRY AND THAT I LOVE YOU AND WILL ALWAYS CARE ABOUT YOU AND M.A.P AND THE NEW ADDITION EVEN THOUGH SHE HAS NOT ARRIVED YET I WILL LOVE AND CARE FOR HER JUST BECAUSE SHE IS A PART OF YOU!!!!!!!

love always,

Michael