I'm a woman, a skeptic, a realist. I try to stay positive and give credit where credit is due.
But I'm also competitive and understand the look in your eyes when it says "Why not me? ... Why you?"
This isn't for the "haters". I don't believe in you.
But I do believe in people that don't see all that you do.
You have a fat ass, cute face, and good hair so you can do it too?
But can you put up with the bullshit, the business, and critics and still stay you?
"Enough with the Black Dr. Seuss Vanessa, its corny!!!" Ok. I'm sorry, I'm through...
Hahaha! LOL:) No but for real I know what's it's like ladies cuz I've been guilty of it myself. You see a woman doing things that you want to do. Going places you want to be, with people you want to meet and all that jazz. And the natural American bred hater inside you says what?... "Why her? She's not that hot. I could do that! What's the big deal about her?"
We usually suppress our own urges to say such things for fear of being called a hater. But I'll address it cuz I think there's a valid point in there. We don't know every person's back story, or how or why they got where they are. The positive in us would love to think it's because of a great work ethic and superior education. They hater in us goes for the nepotism or slept with the right person story. Well life is never that simple and sometimes it's none, some, or all the above that get's someone there.
People that know me, I mean really know me, never have to wonder about my path. They know why I stand here today, and why I deserve everything that will ever come my way.
I'm no Mother Teresa type. I didn't have such a tragedy filled childhood that karma will ensure a success filled adult life. I don't have friends in high places (well I do, but they ain't doin shit for me)
I am who I am, and do what I do, and will do so much more because of things I hold to be true... This is why me... not you!
-I show up on time
-I know my worth
-I speak up for myself
-I chose my battles wisely
-I write down my goals
-I do not bring drama from home to set
-I'm a goofball
-I know beauty has very little to do with modeling
-I know luck has very little to do with my life
-I do not trust people, but I'm not jaded
-I do not gossip on set
-I do not bring babies, boyfriend or parents to shoots or auditions with me
-I mean it when I say "thank you" and I say it often
-I am not afraid to walk away from a good thing if it does not benefit me
-I only do what I'm comfortable with
-I am comfortable talking about myself (that one probably took the most work but I'm good at it now! I I I, me me me, hahahaha, I'm the female Kanye West. But I have to be. Nobody will believe in you if you don't first believe in yourself.)
So there it is... No PHD. No "super head". Just proper conduct and positive, proactive ideas that I don't sit and wait for others to make happen for me. So now tell me... Why you???