Ok so a little background im recently divorced from a rough two year marriage and was still looking for someone. A friend i had known during all this i got hooked up with in the beginning really helped me through some hard times. We had a great relationship going and it seemed that things were going smoothly till she had gotten sick.... Thats when things kinda shifted. What im curious about is how things can be so good and youre happy with one another to not wanting to talk or spend any time with one another. And when you do happen to get together itd been better off you just stayed at home. But beyond that is how loosely three words like "i love you" can be said between people and in the end of it all the other person says im not sure if i did i just said it because you did. What the hell? Thats what hurt the most when we split up. I felt that i no longer knew them and sat wondering what did i do wrong. All i did was care for someone and that was taken that i had "insecurities or issues". really just hard to have a relationship with someone when it's convienient for them. i just really wish i could find someone out there who sees the world like i do and can like or love me for me. Don't think that's really too much to ask, is it?