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Status: Single
City: CRESTWOOD
State: Kentucky
Country: US
Signup Date: 5/23/2006

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Tuesday, December 25, 2007 

Current mood:  blessed
Category: Blogging

My sister has accepted the mantle of family historian from my father.  Oh... you don't know about my dad?  His brain is like a xerox machine, (or a flat bed scanner for you younger folks).  It seems like his brain has been able to absorb and retain every detail he has ever read in his 72 years on this Earth.  So he is a Genealogist's dream - because he can't "just" remember OUR family names as they appear in census records, but also the names of other families who lived near, fought with (and along side of) each ancestor.  It's amazing.

My sister.  She has taken on the daunting task (with ease - I might add) of employing all the new technology and resources to fill in the gaps in our family story.  Like why - exactly - Granny Scott was arrested.  And it's a great story, too.  But in recanting her discovery, my sister's voice was like God whispering in my ear a special message. 

First, we have to get a few things clarified.

DEFINITION:  illegitimacy

noun

  1. The state or quality of being illegal: illegality, illicitness, unlawfulness. See crimes, law.
  2. The condition of being of illegitimate birth: bastardy. See kin, law.


    For history's sake, we need to put that into proper legal context: 

    The condition before the law, or the social status, of a child whose parents were not married to each other at the time of his or her birth.

    English common law placed harsh penalties on an illegitimate child, denying the child inheritance and property rights. Modern law has given the nonmarital child more rights but still differentiates between the marital and nonmarital status.

    That was then.  This is now:

    The harsher aspects of the common law dealing with an illegitimate child have been eliminated, primarily through the application of the Equal Protection Clause of the Fourteenth Amendment to the U.S. Constitution. In Levy v. Louisiana, 391 U.S. 68, 88 S. Ct. 1509, 20 L. Ed. 436 (1968), the Supreme Court ruled that a state statute (La. Civ. Code Ann. Art. 2315) that barred illegitimate children from recovering damages for the wrongful death of their mother, but allowed legitimate children to recover in similar circumstances, was invalid because it denied illegitimate children equal protection of the law.

    That seems fair, I guess.  And so...

    The presumption of legitimacy is a strong legal presumption because public policy favors legitimacy to preserve stable family groupings.

    I guess one might conclude that the "strong favor to preserve stable groupings" would be the foundation of the many laws nation wide that criminalize adultry (like Michigan, where last I heard, it is a felony!) 

    You know... these kinds of laws that protect the sanctity of marriage.  Between a man and a woman.  Except they don't...

    The rate of illegitimate births in the United States has risen sharply since the early 1970s. In the 1940s fewer than five percent of the total births were out of wedlock. By the 1990s, according to statistics compiled by the Center for Health Statistics at the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, births to unmarried mothers accounted for nearly one-third of all U.S. births.

    Notwithstanding the efforts of some patriotic preachers who really want to dust of those old laws and legislate morality, it seems like the vast majority of America doesn't really have much regard for these laws.  I mean - is there really such a thing as a 40 year old virgin?  Or 30?  Or 20?

    About the only comment I can make about the efficacy of such legislation is that it didn't work prior to 1940 - because THAT'S exactly why Granny Scott went to jail.  And why GRANDPA Scott left town. 

    You know, God gives us free will - and we have to live with the consequences.  Granny's consequences was raising her "yungin's" alone.  Because let's face it - once you've been to jail for having a cheating heart, it's a short list of volunteers willing to take you and a flock of kids in.  Karma, Granny.  Karma.

    Back to the Christmas message.  I call it a Christmas message because 1.)  it's Christmas Eve, and  2.) I believe in divine inspiration, and the Christ-like sub-text of this story.

    I can't have a coherent conversation these days with otherwise like-minded individuals unless 37 seconds into the conversation they toss out, "what part of ILLEGAL don't you understand?"  That's usually followed by some dissertation on how this country was built by LEGAL (I'm not sure by what definition) citizens... heritage... moral obligation... yada yada.  Oh yeah - and I think the British are coming.  Again.  No - wait.  It's just Posh and David Beckham.

    My inclination is to just smile... because I KNOW my family history.  And thanks to Dad and my Sister, I know a lot of their family histories, too.  Thirteen documented Revolutionary War heroes who bled so that I can enjoy the privilege of turning my nose up at a law that landed my Grandmother in jail 75 years ago. 

    WHOA!  Wait a minute. This is NOT a confessional.  I'm simply pointing out that with the myriad of laws on the books that, in theory, should reduce unwed mother-hood thereby decreasing the number of welfare mothers and babies - and lessen the burden on taxpayers... and preserve the sanctity of marriage... we cherry pick the laws we want to enforce.  WE decide who is legitimate and who is not - according to what is convenient and popular.  And I guess it's a good thing, because if we were as vigilant with ALL enforcement as some of our Presidential hopefuls, well... I wouldn't be here.  Many times over.

    Tonight, I took a few minutes to hear Rick Warren speak to us about God's gift.  His presence... then His pardon.  He said, "God doesn't give us what we deserve, he gives us what we need..."  That is the most precious gift I could ever hope to receive.  Forgiveness.  May I recommend we all pass it around?

    Merry Christmas -

    Beth

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    Thursday, September 06, 2007 

    Category: Music

    The Power Source Tope 20 Charts are out for September and we're thrilled that The Devil's Wife has climbed to the 6 spot on Christian Country!

    Thanks to radio and to each of you for your continued support.

     

    XXOO,

    Beth

     

    Sunday, August 05, 2007 

    Current mood:  giddy
    Category: Music

    My single release, The Devil's Wife, has climbed to 19 in the PowerSource Magazine top 20 Inspirational Country music charts for the month of August.  It is a particular honor to be in the good company of some other fantastic artists like Joe Nichols and Jamie O'Neal as well as many others.

    Many, many thanks to Inspirational Country radio for sharing the message of The Devil's Wife with their audience - and and endless debt of gratitude to you who have supported me with your favorable response to their programming.

    God bless each of you and may we never take for granted the struggles of our friends and neighbors who suffer secretly in a life of domestic abuse.

    Tuesday, April 10, 2007 

    Category: Music
    We're excited to announce the release of Better Left Unsaid to country music radio in April!  In addition, The Devil's Wife will be released to over 1000 Inspirational Country Music stations.  Now you can call and request either of these songs at your favorite station!
    Wednesday, October 25, 2006 

    Category: Blogging

    If you've been to CD Baby to get your copy of Writing the Wrongs, you might have been disappointed to see they are temporarily out-of-stock!  This is amazing for us - but don't worry - CD Baby will be re-stocked withing a day or two!  Make sure you check back...

    Beth

    Thursday, September 07, 2006 

    Current mood:  anxious
    Category: Music

    We're rapidly finishing up the lose ends on the CD and expect to make a target release date for October 15th.  Thanks to all you fans who have been patiently waiting. 

    The project will include 12 songs, including a my rendition of "Never Leave Harlan Alive" - a song that is special to me for obvious reasons for those who know that Harlan is my birthplace and where I grew up.

    "Writing the Wrongs" will be available on CD Baby as well as other outlets to be announced, as well as on my web site at www.bethsmusic.com.  

    Tuesday, June 20, 2006 

    Current mood:  cheerful
    Category: Music

    Some of you are aware that Patti Stevens gave me the great privilege of recording her song, "She Rides" (which can be heard on Patti's page, BTW).

    The song is such a piece of work, I uploaded it to garageband.com in hopes it might get the attention it deserves.  This week, music reviews have nominated She Rides for Best Female Vocals in Country and Best Guitars in Country.  The song currently sits at #62 out of 231 songs entered for recognition and airplay on Clear Channel stations across the US (among other kudos). 

    Deepest thanks again to Patti and if you go to her page, make sure you give that song of hers a spin.

    Thursday, June 15, 2006 

    Category: Music
    "Think About You" was awarded Best Female Vocal and Best Keyboard in Country Genre for the week of June 12th - Garage Band.com!  It currently sits within the top 100 and is climbing. 
    Monday, June 05, 2006 

    Category: Music

    I'm happy to share that the music reviewers at garageband.com have selected Think About You as the song with the best country beat for the week of June 5th. 

    Also, if you haven't noticed, there is a "Myxer" link in my profile that will allow you to download Think About You as a ringtone for your cell... FOR FREE!  How 'bout that?  Now you can take me with you EVERYWHERE!

    Thanks,

    Beth 

     

    Tuesday, May 23, 2006 

    Current mood:  irritated
    Category: MySpace

    Well, the moving truck has pulled away, and the boxes are unloaded, but not completely unpacked.  In fact, no where near it.  This is going to be an adventure, I can tell.  The most dangerous thing in the world is giving Beth unfettered access to an unsuspecting audience.  That's about as close to a warning label as you're going to get.

    So bear with me as I get settled in.  I've never blogged before.  Well, not "naked" blogging.  I've always been under the cover of some clever name like "HotMama1971" with a cute little animated avatar.  Uhhh... wait... no, that WASN'T me leaving messages about your mama.  And no, I DIDN'T stand you up at the 76 truck stop off Interstate 71.  [My car broke down, cut me some slack - shhh!]

    As I was saying, this could be good, or it could be bad.  But either way, it's definitely Beth's blog.  Thanks for stopping by.