ok. so i've been meaning to post something like this for a long time, but didn't because i was afraid of losing friends and people hating, lol. but then i decided that we are all allowed to have our opinions and if someone doesn't like it, then don't read this!! this is a list of things people do that annoy me soo much! some things might seem like i'm talking about just you, but don't flatter yourself. this is a list of things from people i know, have seen, heard about, or watched on tv. so, once again, if you are easily offended, then don't read. i don't dislike the people who do these things, just hate the things themselves...
1. cigarette smoking. omg, i can go on and on about this one!! this is the most disgusting thing anyone can do. it smells, kills you, kills people around you, etc, etc. i just see a body bag and small, black, disgusting lungs. what a dumb decision people. i can't believe that some people even smoke while they are pregnant!! it's like you're choking your own baby for about 10 months. the poor baby doesn't even have a say about your inconsiderate, self-absorbed choice. i can't even list the damaging effects that happen to babies after being born to smoking mothers...the list is too long. and that's if the baby lives, they r often born prematurely...
2. rude and inconsiderate people. the younger the person is, the more likely that they are rude and addicted to cell phones. sure, i like to have mine too, but i won't freaking die without it!! grow up.
3. when people don't know the right way to use a word. there IS a difference between to, too, and two. learn it idiot!! also: merry and marry, for example Merry Christmas, and I want to marry you. honestly is that really hard?? break and brake...brake: My brakes are worn out on my car. break: i will break it, lets take a break.
4. when people put addictions over their children. spending money on drugs, cigs, etc is never suppose to be more important than your children. i know from experince, i know that my dads cigs always came b4 everything else including me. idk what other kids feel like, but that's me. nice to know that a cancer stick is more important than a human tho...
5. when people are obsessed with their significant other. i know i'm addicted to toby, but not in the way i see other people be addicted. i don't think my myspace name will be tobysgirl. i have a name, i'm not identified by my bf. really, people who are like that don't seem to work out or their relationship is rocky. or, they are so wrapped up in each other that they forget about all their friends. completly. "if you make someone your whole world and you guys break up, you won't have anything/anyone". that's dumb. but it's too late now for some people............
6. when people are in relationships that they aren't happy in. i'm not saying that whenever a little problem happens to abandon the relationship. but be realistic. trust me, you don't want to be in a relationship that you aren't happy in people!! it's better to let the person go so you both can find true happiness with someone else. life is too short. it's better to find this out before you have children, obviously...which brings me to
7. don't girls know what birth control is these days?? well, birth control is when you take a pill daily, use a ring monthly, or get a shot to PREVENT pregnancy. birth control is soo prevalent these days, i can't believe that all these girls are having kids. these girls are too young themselves. a few times i've seen pics of them w/their babies and they always look sad as hell!! idk why...but i'm talking about the 14, 15, 16 yr olds...and then i hear they are having their second, third children right after their first! don't you think they would have learned the first time?? guess not...and guys, why the hell are you sleeping w/girls who don't even know what birth control is?? condoms alone aren't enough. be smart. oh that reminds me, i heard a guy actually say the pull out method works!! unbelievable! well, here's the facts: in one drop of sperm contains MILLIONS of sperm, and a few drops come out before his orgasm, just to let you know in case this is the method all the teen mothers used..........
8. kind of goes hand in hand, but i hate when girls take an advantage of guys and tell them they are the baby's dad when they aren't, or worse, they don't even know ("it could be one of 3 guys"...wow, seriously) guys need to get paternity tests or the bitch could turn around, dump your ass, and demand child support. don't let that happen to you! not to mention, what if the child gets sick and needs a transplant from a parent and the mom isn't a match? the child could die because the biological dad can't be found by then (you never told them they were the dad) so they don't get a transplant that could save their life. something to think about, i know i would never want to put my future baby in jeopardy like that.................
9. when people dictate what their bfs/gfs can and can't do. like "don't talk to him/her, i don't like it". big babies, if you don't trust your significant other, then why the hell are you with them?? they aren't going to do anything w/their friends or whatever just by talking to them. i could not be in a relationship that is like that. toby knows that i'm w/him, no one else, and i can talk to whoever the hell i want w/out him getting pissed. we are mature adults about that. shouldn't you guys be??
i can think of more, but i'd better get back to work. so now that everyone hates me, let me say this: these are only my opinions. not everything is true obviously (idk why all those girls are having babies, for example). also: i am not perfect and in no way am i trying to seem like it!! i'm not putting people down, just the things some people do. hopefully that makes sense. i might post more later, but for now i'll sit back and watch people delete me from their friends list and/or leave me rude comments. oh well, if you want to take it to heart then whatever.