I was eating at one of my favorite chinese restaurant the othr day enjoying some orange chicken. All relaxed from a hard day at work.

I noticed this couple sitting across from me. From the looks of him I guess he might work in logging or at one of the local wood processing facilities. It clear to see he is a hard worker. his attitude really cost him my respect. His wife who a with child. Decided she was going to the restroom. When she stood up he grabbed by the wrist. I can tell he had her in a good bit of pain. Her expression gave it away.

"Just where do you think your going!?" He asked with a look of anger.

"To use the restroom," said with a low very fragil voice. One can barely here her unless you struggle.

"Why your up get some more chickem,"he said back.

"Honey, I'm sick please get your own," once again the very frail but pleasant voice informed her.

"I don't give a darn*"(this is edited) he shot back, "your my wife you suppose to obey me!"

A friend of mine who is a police officer stoop up. The man yelled at him"What the fudge is your problem*!?"

The officer replied,"Jerks who can't show their wifes respect" Of course the irrate man said wifes suppose to obey.

Well my friend quoted Eph 5:25. "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself fo her"

The man asked what he gonna do arrest him for being a husband. The officer said no I'm gonna pay my bill. And hang with my good friend here.

My friend whisper to me he's been drinking. Well it was time for him to go back on duty. The yguy and his wife left. Next thing I knew he stopped him as soon as his car hit the highway. Got him on DUI. made me smile.

But I got thinking what makes a good husband. In Christ's eyes.

Actually it really simple. Love her, Cherish her, and honor her. I peter 3:7 (a) says" husbands, likewise, dwell with them with understanding, giving honor to the wife; Eph 5:28 tells us" So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies; he who loves his wife loves himself."

(2) Be kind .  Col 3:19 "Husbands, love your wives and do not be bitter toward them.

The list can go on. I will have to finsh this later. To be continued....

Why is it when someone says they going to do something and then when it comes to time don't back it up?

When I was young one of the first lessons my grandpaw taught me is always stay with your word. If a person says they going to do something and don't ,are not to be trusted.

I often been passive in this. Still if someone tells me they going to do something and don't i won't give them the satisfaction of it again.

I remember reading in the book of Proverbs 19:5 It says "A false witness will not go unpunished, And he who speakes lies will not escape. "

Plain and simple all liars will perish (Prov 19:9) and they have a special place just for them in Hell (Rev 21:8).

Why anyone lies and deceive is beyond me. What is to gain? If it is gotten by dishonesty it will vanish and is worthless.

So my question is, "Is deceipt worth it?" NO.

Proverbs 20:17 Says "Bread gained by deceit is sweet to a man, But afterwards turn to gravel" 

Ephesians4:25 says "Therefore,putting away lying,"Let each one of you speak truth with his neighbor," for we are members of one another.

This after noon I went to this great Chinese place here in Philadelphia. Great Wall. Perhaps the best I ever had.

My favorite break up line a woman use is the "I need some space."

Sure give her the space she wants. Start by finding the most beutifull women you can find. Some one taller and thinner is ideal. And have a better job.  Bigger Breast is the holy of holy.

Be very sweet and gentle with her. the goal is to have her fall in love with you or at least become infatuated.

Then find out where some her and her girlfriends hanging out. Get yourself new sport coat. Your dates favorite color is a good choice or something total opposite of your ex's. Get a cut and for Christsakes shave. Buy some new cologne. Something with a little spice or citrus to it.

Now if you are approached by your ex or her friends or even have contact. Be civil be a gentleman. Properly introduce your date. Use the terminology "This is my lovely date (her name)." When you introduce your use the term a formal friend. or firend.

Then when the next slow song playes ask your date to dance. Don't pull no dirty dancing. Just slow intimate dancing. Even take lessons.

Then as you too leave put your hand in the small of her back. Unless she wants to hold hands. If it comes to the kiss. A slow soft kiss is perfect. Don't try to clean her tonsils out.

Well your ex-got her space. You got to move on in class.

Sometimes I wonder is it worth it all. Get up at 2 am to go to a job I hate. Put up with management who just don't appreciate me. Then come home alone.

I sit here lookin out my bedroom window. In the distance I see a train. Thinking how does the conductor feel. Lonely, longing to be home with his family? Does he even have a family? Only thing he has to hold is a cellphone.

In a sense I feel like that conductor. I pry everyday for someone to love me, hold me. I only have wish in life . My own family.

A song from "An American Tail" comes to mind:

 Somewhere out there,
beneath the pale moonlight,
someone's thinking of me and loving me tonight.

 Somewhere out there,
someone's saying a prayer,
that we'll find one another in that big somewhere out there.

 And even though I know how very far apart we are,
it helps to think we might be wishing on the same bright star.

 And when the night wind starts to sing a lonesome lullaby,
it helps to think we're sleeping underneath the same big sky.

 Somewhere out there,
if love can see us through,
then we'll be together, somewhere out there,
out where dreams come true.

Sometimes nice guys do finish last...goodnight

I Am a Martial Artist

I am a martial artist
I see through different eyes
I see a bigger picture
When others see gray skies.
Though many cant conceive it,
I stand.. Facing the wind.
My bravery, not from fighting,
but from my strength within.
I am a Martial Artist.
Ill walk the extra mile,
Not because I have too,
but because its worth my while.
I know that I am different,
When I stand on a crowded street.
I know the fullness of winning,
Ive tasted the cup of defeat.
I am a martial artist.
They say I walk with ease.
Though trained for bodily harm,
my intentions are for peace.
The world may come and go,
But a different path Ill choose.
A path I will not stray from,
no matter win or lose.
- Master Karen Herdman

This goes out to the all the staff at ANR (Americans For Nonsmokers rights). Thnak you guys for stand up for us and listening.

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These fine folks will listen and they care.

I do not love you as if you were salt-rose, or topaz,
or the arrow of carnations the fire shoots off.
I love you as certain dark things are to be loved,
in secret, between the shadow and the soul.

I love you as the plant that never blooms
but carries in itself the light of hidden flowers;
thanks to your love a certain solid fragrance,
risen from the earth, lives darkly in my body.

I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where.
I love you straightforwardly, without complexities or pride;
so I love you because I know no other way

than this: where I does not exist, nor you,
so close that your hand on my chest is my hand,
so close that your eyes close as I fall asleep.

Just got through watching Patch Adams that movie always Make me laugh then cry.