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This Week's Updates ..> ..> Don't miss the Swingers Board Meet Ups! This summer there are some big events planned so be sure to check out the Meet Up forum for the event near you (or the event in the city you most want to visit)! Visit any Swinger Clubs lately? Then don't forget to post a review in our  Club Listings & Reviews section. and let others know how your night went. Remember, your reviews help others make informed decisions.  If your night goes really well you might just want to write a story about it for our swinger stories section. Help us get the word out about the Swingers Board, tell your friends about this great site.  You can also help us out by adding us as a friend on your MySpace and Yahoo360 profiles.  Swingers Board on MySpace -  SwingersBoard on Yahoo360. Have you checked out the   Swingers Board store lately!  If you are planning to attend one of the upcoming Meet Ups, you definitely want to pick up a Swingers Board T-shirt and how about one of those tote bags! Have you taken the Swingers Board survey yet?  We are looking to update our statistics so be sure to stop by and input yours.   Featured Swingers .. START AdPeeps.com Code --> .. .. END AdPeeps.com Code --> New Club Listings New Club Reviews The Gold Key Club - Keego Harbor MI   Northaven Resort - Irish Hills MI TJ's  - Newport PA   For our full listings of clubs and club reviews be sure to visit http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/clubs.php If you would like to submit a review of a club you have visited, please use the link provided above, find the club you wish to review, then select "post a review" from the clubs listing. To have your club listed on the Swingers Board, use the link provided above and select the appropriate region.  From the region page, select "add a club".  If your club belongs in more than one region be sure to submit it to each one. New Stories Events Calendar A Younger Guy - by MiamiMark A Friend's Husband & My Wife - by MiamiMark  Visit GroupSexStories.com for more Swinger Stories View Upcoming Events on the Swingers Board Events Calendar! Please Visit Our Sponsor: .. START AdPeeps.com Code --> .. .. END AdPeeps.com Code -->
Swingers Message Board Digest
Introductions!!
A big Swingers Board welcome goes out to all the new members who took the time to introduce themselves this past week: Swinginfree, BRaysHoNeYBree, curiousswingers, Loves2eatslit, edandmaryinmn, Pam/Zeb, PCC, wickedwolf, Tex Longone, Curious George, cuplin, BorednUnexplord, unforgiven, paige200624, ladytaster and Oui2You2. To introduce yourself and to read other's introductions go to:  http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?s=&forumid=19
Situational HELP!!!
The HOT Topic this past week was "We had a 3 some but now it's very complicated for my wife...need advice please!", posted by smpdjd. He posted that he and his wife had their first threesome with another man that they both really liked. However, now his wife is confused about her feelings. She wants to sleep with the other man one-on-one, which one part of him wants to let her and the other part is afraid it might turn into an affair. He's not sure what he's suppose to do.  Most of the responders felt that it was just the "new toy" syndrome for his wife but that he really needed to talk to her and let her know what he was feeling. A few responders think there might be other problems in the marriage for his wife to feel this way and that he should put his foot down and say no to the one-on-one.  Click here to read the entire thread and post what you think, is it just a "new toy" syndrome or could there be other problems? In "Ready to play with close friends but", an Unregistered Guest posted that he and his wife are considering playing for the first time with close friends who are experienced in swinging, they have a couple of issues with these friends, one that the husband is not really attracted to the other wife and the wife is not sure how she feels about having a bi experience with her good friend, they are looking for advice on what they should do. Ind41couple "Need advice", they asked is there a difference between an open relationship and being a swinger and do you think a couple can do both. DBL D said "To Whisper or not to Whisper, that is the Question", while in the middle of playing with some playmates, Fem D and the other husband were whispering to each other and this upset the other wife, they asked what are the boards feelings about whispering with your playmates. Gladiola4u are "Confused about strange feelings", the morning after their last play date the hubby started having strange feelings that he couldn't put his finger on, not jealous or shame but just strange. They asked if others have ever had strange feelings after playing before. HappyCouple2308 asked "Am I crazy???", a couple they were planning on meeting informed them that they were meeting with friends of theirs on a Friday night and them on a Saturday night, this didn't sit well with them as they felt uncomfortable playing with someone who had just played the night before with friends of theirs, plans were canceled and now they wonder if they did something wrong by letting their feelings known. Knockedonmyass asked "How do I handle this one?", his wife performed a sexual act with a play partner that she refuses to perform with him, when he asked about it she became defensive and won't discuss it with him, he's not sure how he should feel or what he should do or say.     To read all of these topics and more go to http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?s=&forumid=11 .. START AdPeeps.com Code --> .. .. END AdPeeps.com Code -->
General Swingers Stuff
The HOT Topic this past week was, "Activities with cheating men. Thoughts?", posted by LetsParty . They were out with another couple and during the conversation it was discovered that the wife will go out with married men, who are cheating on their wives and thinks there is nothing wrong with this as she's not the one lying, they are.  This set them back a bit and they are looking for others thoughts on this. The majority of the responders agreed that this was wrong in their opinion as they felt if someone is going to lie to their spouse, what stops them from lying to them and that they would not knowingly play with a cheater. A few others who posted said that it was not their place to police other's lives and if someone was a cheating spouse that they were a match to they had no problems with playing with them.  Click here to read the entire thread and post your opinion on playing with those who are cheating on their spouse/SO. In "Interracial Swing", an unregistered Guest posted that because they are a mixed race couple, black female/white male, they get a lot of mail that states because she is black this is a turn-on and they ask why is a black female a turn-on and a black male a turn-off. In "Condom use", sexcupid asked how prevalent is condom use in your area, to them it seems to take people by surprise when they have them available for use.  In "Opinions...The sweet, sweet smell of a woman!", Texasfuncouple would like to get opinions on what the ladies favorite lotions, perfumes and powders are.  In " Alt.com ...good?", edein is looking for advice on if it's worth paying for a membership on Alt.com. Hose4play said "I am adventuring out alone...any suggestions for me?", he has been in swinging with his wife for a few years but now she has lot interest and approves of him going at it alone, he's looking for suggestions on how to do this. In "Would this concern you or your SO?", Menage_a_Trois posted that during playing the man she was with told her how much he loved making love with her, this made her uncomfortable yet flattered, she asked has anyone else ever experienced this and if so how did you feel and how did your SO take what happened.  Hopeless_Magic said they are "Feeling like we were born in the wrong era", they are in their early 20s and swinging and finding it hard to find people their age to play with. http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?s=&forumid=8
New Swingers
In "What do you do the first time?", racycat posted that she has thoughts/ideas on how she would like things to play out for the first time but asked how do these situations play out. In "Slow and Steady Wins the Race (we hope)", Cloud of Love posted that since making the decision to actually swing, they have been on a couple of no-play dates and are looking forward to their first time.  In "Advice on finding people", Swinginfree are looking for advice on ways to meet people, either couples or singles for some fun. In "How to approach", Mrs.CO5 is looking for ways to feel out if another person is interested in swinging or not. In "Very Bi-curious", BRaysHoNeYBree is looking for advice on finding a bi-female to join her and her boyfriend. In "Totally New And Had Many Questions", Neisa701 posted that her SO has experience in swinging but she does not and asked if going to a meet & greet is a good place for new people to go.  In "Why is so much Pay Only", kontroll4 asked why so many date sites cost money to join. In "With Children", curiousswingers asked how do you swing with young children, when they take up so much of your time. In "I am interested...Maybe?", msfunlady posted that she has been doing her research on swinging but still does not know how to bring it up to her husband, she's looking for advice on this. In "Went for the first time", an Unregistered Guest posted about their first time at a swingers club and the fun they had and how much they are looking forward to returning. To read all of these topics and more go to http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?s=&forumid=9
Swinging Single
To read all of the topics in this forum go to http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?s=&forumid=10
Polyamory & Swinging
In "How would you handle this...", The other Mrs. Menage of Menage_a_Trois posted that she is constantly getting asked why her and Mr. Menage don't get married (he is know at her work as her live-in boyfriend) and she is tired of repeating that she's happy with the way things are. She asked what would you reply to co-workers if you were in her shoes. In "Vacations in a poly relationship", Menage_a_Trois posted a question that was asked of them. How do you do vacations, everyone at the same time or just two of the three go alone. To read all of the topics in this forum go to http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=137
Sex Questions
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This Week's Updates ..> ..> It's a big issue this week. There was no newsletter last week because I was moving, so I'm making up for this week with an over-sized issue.  More for your reading pleasure.  Enjoy! Visit any Swinger Clubs lately? Then don't forget to post a review in our  Club Listings & Reviews section. and let others know how your night went. Remember, your reviews help others make informed decisions.  If your night goes really well you might just want to write a story about it for our swinger stories section. Help us get the word out about the Swingers Board, tell your friends about this great site.  You can also help us out by adding us as a friend on your MySpace and Yahoo360 profiles.  Swingers Board on MySpace -  SwingersBoard on Yahoo360. Need some ideas for Valentines presents for your Swinger friends? Try the  Swingers Board store Have you taken the Swingers Board survey yet?  We are looking to update our statistics so be sure to stop by and input yours.   Featured Swingers .. START AdPeeps.com Code --> .. .. END AdPeeps.com Code --> New Club Listings New Club Reviews   Meeting Place -Decatur MI   For our full listings of clubs and club reviews be sure to visit http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/clubs.php If you would like to submit a review of a club you have visited, please use the link provided above, find the club you wish to review, then select "post a review" from the clubs listing. To have your club listed on the Swingers Board, use the link provided above and select the appropriate region.  From the region page, select "add a club".  If your club belongs in more than one region be sure to submit it to each one. New Stories Events Calendar Friends of the Family - by OnceWere Group Sex Weekend pt 3 - by Edison Carter  Visit GroupSexStories.com for more Swinger Stories View Upcoming Events on the Swingers Board Events Calendar!
Swingers Message Board Digest
Introductions!!
A big Swingers Board welcome goes out to all the new members who took the time to introduce themselves this past week: des1re06, wildandmo,  Nudesailing, swingcouple69, clrmntcpl, mawilbwm, midwestgal, bmndallastx, trent69, bobbarb07, BlackPaul, ColdOkie, MidwesternStock, mrmrsglass, dwcortez, droberts, explorin, Zocrow, mrmass, guero, AreU4us2Nite, 2BeDeviled, johnde, Drrobb, miss peaches, theworthingtons, hotmusicdude, 2monkeys, Bliss8177, Made4u2pleasure, aquapipo, omahahot, bobnjan, KinkyOHcpl, cubnamy1995, couple85602, hancimi, applevenus and FreeLove28. and rocknrollrebal. To introduce yourself and to read other's introductions go to:  http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?s=&forumid=19
Situational HELP!!!
KinkyKat asked "Do We Just Forget It?", she posted that her and her SO have both had group sex in the past while single and she would enjoy a MFM threesome with him but he wants a FMF first. She feels they have different views on swinging and is looking for advice on how to work this out.   New Beie asked "Did I Go Too Far", she is considering becoming a sexual tutor for a much younger man but is worried that he might want more than just a physical/sexual relationship. In "Tired of Swinging", MinxyAgain posted that after a year of swinging and several encounters, she does not feel like swinging anymore. Her SO wants to continue, she doesn't want to disappoint him but only wants to play with him and asked how does she get through to him. In "Emotional Questions", crackerOjack posted that they have had two full swap encounters and he wonders if he is looking at things wrong in that he asked how should he react when he sees his wife doing something to the other man that she has never done for him. Mr&MrsSwing are "Needing some clarity and input", while at a club she made a move on another man, which her husband knew she was, but during her move her husband interrupted her. She was upset for being interrupted and he was upset feeling he was being excluded. In "One for the ladies. Do you lose respect if your man plays with a man?", SuAndBud posted that Bud is considering performing a BJ on the male half of a couple they are planning on playing with since it's something that the women would enjoy to see, his concern is if this will make him gay or not. In "My mother is a swinger", 3465 posted that she is upset with her mother because she had a party and allowed guest to play in her brothers' room and is wondering if she is going about confronting her mother in the right way. In "Girlfriend loves to go, but won't play", lafinwest asked why his girlfriend enjoys going to the party, drinking, dancing, being nude and watching others swing but doesn't want to make the final leap of joining in on the fun?  MulderNScully said "Man, am I that nervous when it comes to the Lifestyle?", Scully has made observations that Mulder seems to be really nervous when attending a club as well as not seeming interested when they are in a room with another couple, he's looking for ways to relax more at these times.  Gatorvol64 are "Caught between the lifestyle and a teenager", their son caught them on the board and now he says he's going to tell people about their swinging and that they are not good examples. They are looking for advice on how to deal with him.    To read all of these topics and more go to http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?s=&forumid=11
General Swingers Stuff
"Ethical Non Monogamy" was our first HOT Topic this past week, posted by ViSexual.  He posted a link to an article that used the term 'ethical non-monogamy' to describe swinging and other alternative lifestyles. He feels that it isn't what you do nearly as much as choosing the right words or spins, in describing it.  Those that responded had varying views.  There were some that felt no matter what word or term you used to describe 'swinging', it was still the same thing.  Others felt that yes, it did matter what term/word was used as the meaning behind the word or term described things differently. There were also those that didn't really care one way or the other and just felt that the article was well written.  What do you think? Is a rose by any other name just as sweet? Click here to read the whole thread and post your opinion. Our second Hot Topic was "GFE-Prostitution In The Lifestyle, Part II", posted by Spoomonkey.  He asked if prostitution were legalized, how do you think this would affect the lifestyle and how would those changes affect your experience with the lifestyle? The majority of responders seemed to think that legal prostitution would not affect the swing clubs or swing lifestyle at all, as they feel that the two would still remain separate. A few posted that if prostitution were legal and prostitutes were allowed in swinger clubs they would no longer attend swinger clubs. Where as a few other posters said that they could see where it would be much easier to find a single female for FMF threesomes if prostitution were legal. What do you think, would legalized prostitution affect swinging and/or swinger clubs in anyway. Would it affect your experience in the swinging lifestyle? Click here to read the entire thread and post your opinion. In "Bumper sticker", an Unregistered Guest asked where they could find a bumper sticker that would let others know they were swingers. In "Do you go to the party?", NewFrontier posted that they were invited to a small house party but are not attracted to one of the host. They asked would you go if you're not interested in the hosts, especially since it's a small gathering. In "Hands Full", 28volts posted that they are getting more offers and invites than they can handle and asked if you would be disappointed if you knew you would have to wait a while to meet someone or would you lose interest. In "The End of an Era", SW_PA_couple posted that they received word that Connection Magazines will be ceasing publication of their magazines. In "Swinging in the news", TNT posted a link to a news feed about swinging for others to view. In "A good night for a MFM!", Youngcalcpl posted his excitement about his wife being out with a friend of his while he was waiting at home for their return. Forchasingamy asked "FMF-How did it happen?", they are looking for a single female for a threesome but have had no luck and are asking others that have experienced this how it happened. In "Not necessarily your cup of tea", Nicepairinct asked the women if once they got into swinging if they basically enjoyed the foreplay of flirting and dancing but could not see themselves doing more than that on a regular basis.   In "How about the girls, what kind of guys heat you up?", mywildside asked the ladies what makes you hot and slippery for a guy.  In "SLS and jealousy...Or were we doing something wrong?", Oleg&Lena post that they are having a hard time finding people that want to form a friendship first before sex and they think it's due to jealousy issues.  In "Weeding out the Fakes", des1re06 posted that they are thinking about canceling all their on-line ads and meeting people only at swinger events since it seems to them that no one really wants to meet after saying they do through e-mails and IMs.  Tncuple asked "Any of you guys been intimidated by a woman's sexual past?", they met a couple where the female talked extensively about her past sexual experiences and the male half didn't feel like he could live up to her past. In "What a great evening!", MrsVan posted that she wished more swingers would focus on how swinging reassures their love for each other, a thought she had after they had a great evening at a club. In "Swingers interviewed-things they say!", Tybee Swing posted exerts from an interview of swingers from a news article for others to read. In "Looking for 'The Lifestyle' by T. Gould/recommended reading?", sexcupid is asking for help in finding this book for a reasonable price. In "Fluffernutters?', richdon03 asked what a fluffernutter was as it related to swinging. In "Vanilla or not Vanilla...that is the question", SuAndBud met a vanilla could that they enjoy spending time with and flirting with but they can't seem to find the words to ask if they are also swingers. Tybee Swing said "Please take this poll: Swingers have a voice!", she posted a link to a poll on another site for people to participate in and tell why they swing.  In "A swinging wife's trust level", TNT asked how would you have reacted to a phone call where the person who called you said your husband had slept with her and told her that he and you were separated. In "YMMV-Prostitution In The Lifestyle", Spoomonkey posted about a growing trend that they have noticed happening at one of the clubs they attend-sex for money where erotic dancers were coming into the club and single males were using escorts as tickets into the club. In "Swinging with an Asian Wife", peabody posted that his wife is Asian and that men they swing with seem to get very turned on by her but he wonders if men really get that turned on by Asian women.  Havefuninsun said "People, People--where is the LOVE?", he's noticed a lot of negative post on the board lately and asked can't we all just get along.  To read all of these topics and many more (and to add your own thoughts as well) go to: http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?s=&forumid=8
New Swingers
In "Our first full swap! WOW!", des1re06 posted they had their first full swap and how much fun it was. In "contact us please", cpleinfrtworth are interested in swinging but have no idea how to start. In "Married Man", Roundstic posted that they have been having MFM threesomes with a man they thought was single but now think he is married, they enjoy the time they spend with him and wonder if they should continue or call it quits. In "Need some swinging advice please", swingcouple69 posted that she has no interest right now in a MFM threesome, although her husband is willing, but is finding it hard to find a female for a FMF threesome so she wonders if there is a way to get her past not wanting another man. In "First timer", cpl36996 post that he thinks his wife is interested in having a MFM threesome but when he tries to talk to her about it she says she's not. Pdogg asked "Were we wrong?", they met a couple that they felt comfortable with but before their play date with them, the wife got scared so they called to explain her fears and now even though the other couple said they understood, they no longer will return e-mails. In "Finding couples without clubs", theworthingtons are new to swinging and are not comfortable with a club setting, they are looking for ways to meet other couples without having to go to clubs. CrackerOjack said "It Happened!!!OMG", he posted that they had their first swap and how much they enjoyed it. In "Safety, How Did You Do It?", Big Red Machine asked how do you prevent STDs during swinging. In "Frustrated Duo in MD", Bliss8177 posted that they are having a hard time finding compatible couples and singles to play with and are looking for advice. In "Questions from a young newbie couple", aquapipo posted that they are really new to swinging and asked do you experience jealousy during swinging and how has it affected your overall happiness. In "Update", crackerOjack posted that he and his wife feel that swinging was one of the best decisions they ever made as things are going great with the couple they are playing with. In "Advice on GF re-swinging", nyloveandsex posted that his girlfriend had threesomes before they met but does not want to have them with him, he asked what can he do to encourage her wild side. Nyloveandsex posted a poll question in "First time experience good?", how was your first time swinging. In "My Age...Or WHAT?", AreU4Us2Nite posted that since she has brought up swinging to her husband, her sex drive has increased and she wonders if she is hitting her sexual peak. To read all of these topics and more go to http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?s=&forumid=9
Swinging Single
In "Single Men?", kush2112 posted that to them it seems like there is a lot of single men who pretend to be couples in an effort to collect pictures and have cyber sex. In "Finding a single guy on SLS", summitcouple posted that they are interested in a single man for a MFM threesome and were wondering if anyone could recommend one off of SLS. To read all of the topics in this forum go to http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?s=&forumid=10
Polyamory & Swinging
In "My Semi-Poly Relationship is Ending", NaughtyKitten posted about her heartbreak over her poly-relationship ending due to the third finding a girlfriend and moving out of state. To read all of the topics in this forum go to http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=137
Sex Questions
Anothercouple69 posted a poll question in "Gangbang?", have you ever had a gangbang. In "Vasectomy?", a guest asked if having a vasectomy affected sex drive and ejaculation volume. In "The Definition of Good Sex", Spoomonkey asked what is good sex and how do you define it. To read all of these topics and more go to http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=5
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Swingers Message Board Digest
Introductions!!
A big Swingers Board welcome goes out to all the new members who took the time to introduce themselves this past week: livnlovinlife, ladynightmagic, mnrnkw, Toolman46ET, onedyk, CandJ97, happytxcpl, mkick, watchers69, Hoosier Couple, Second of 2, sexysouthern15, TheSwingerSet, jamsan, redhead.domix, naturalwoman, SnugglyCpl, fits3eb, passionartist, Irishsakura and Mrs az_rugburn. To introduce yourself and to read other's introductions go to:  http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?s=&forumid=19
Situational HELP!!!
In "Couple is too eager", knottyboi posted that she is a single female who met and played with a couple. Now the couple is e-mailing her every day and she is feeling pestered. She's flattered they had a good time and want to do it again but she's not sure how to handle the situation correctly. In "Passively Participating Partners", crazykatie said that she cannot get her husband interested in actively helping locate play friends, she wonders if anyone else has a passively participating spouse and how do you handle it. In "Suggestions or just plain help", VanHlebar said he may have figured out some of his issues with the little guy not being ready to play, he feels that a fear of being left out and sitting on the sidelines may be the problem and asked if anyone has been through this before and how they handled it.   To read all of these topics and more go to http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?s=&forumid=11 --> START AdPeeps.com Code --> .. --> END AdPeeps.com Code -->
General Swingers Stuff
The HOT Topic this past week was "After the swing", posted by trinigemini.  She posted that she has never swung before but her future husband has in the past and would like for them to get into it in the future, even though he said they never have to if she does not want to. One of the things that she has been thinking about is what happens after you swing.  She's not sure how she will feel knowing that her husband was intimate with someone else or how she will feel attractive knowing that she's not enough for him and that he finds other women attractive. She would like to know how others have handled these issues.   Those that responded said that the things she was concerned about are not issues for them and until the time that she was sure they were no longer issues for her, they did not recommend her swinging at this point. A few suggested taking it one step at a time and concentrate on the marriage first and put swinging, if at all, to a later date.  What would you recommend?  Click here to read the whole thread and post your opinion. Larry & Michell have a "Personal rant", they are becoming frustrated with not being able to find another couple for a foursome soft swap. In "Attractiveness, Hot or Cute", nvrgesus2 feel that being described as cute is the kiss of death in meeting and moving beyond being friends but are curious if cute means something different to you. In "Multiple contacts/multiple orgasms?", hubnher asked if at a club  or party if you have multiple contacts do you have an orgasm with one person then move on to the next and have another orgasm. In "Swinger Blogs", daisy girl said she has a swinging blog and would like to post links to other's swinging blogs. In "Friends with women and swinging", daisy girl post that she had always had a difficult time with forming friendships with other women, until swinging and now she has developed friendships with female partners. In "Pro-active or passive?", TNT asked what kind of approach do you take when it comes to your swinging life. Do you wait for chances to play to just happen or do you actively search our those chances to make them a possibility.  In "Too Beautiful to Swing", daisy girl asked if there were times when you won't swing with a person because they are too beautiful. Ohash01 are "Feeling Goofy", during a conversation with vanilla friends, the subject of swinging came up and their friends said they couldn't understand those freaky people, ohash01 wonders how do you get used to knowing that half the people out there think you're a freak.  Crazykatie asked "What Does It Take To Be Socially Bi (as a woman)?", she has seen women describing themselves as socially bi in ads and wonders what exactly do they mean by this. In "Privacy issues at Clubs", Ron2007 is looking for thoughts on privacy issues at on-premise clubs.  To read all of these topics and many more (and to add your own thoughts as well) go to: http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?s=&forumid=8
New Swingers
Jstfun66 are "New Here-Confused", they are interested in trying soft-swap but are only comfortable with touching, no oral at this time and looking for suggestions as where to start. In "Are They Interested? Or Not?", SMB1913 are looking for ways to find out if a couple they are friends with would be interested in soft swinging without ruining the friendship. In "Maybe new still undecided", grudge80 post that they are thinking about the lifestyle and would like to start with swapping pictures. To read all of these topics and more go to http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?s=&forumid=9
Swinging Single
Kenora_guy posted a poll question in "How does a single guy find a gal for a life partner who swings?", he's newly single and would like to find a female that is open to swinging once the relationship was grounded but is unsure how to find one. To read all of the topics in this forum go to http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?s=&forumid=10
Polyamory & Swinging
In "Poly Relations With All Straight Members?", The_Phoenyxes asked if there are any poly relationships out there with every member being straight and if so what are the survival chances. To read all of the topics in this forum go to http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=137
Sex Questions
In "Don't want dick but", frankie71978 post that his ex talked him into anal play, which he enjoyed but now feels ashamed that he enjoys it and wonders why he feels so bad about it. He's not sure what to do but would like to feel comfortable with it. To read all of these topics and more go to http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=5
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This Week's Updates We are still working to resolve the current site issues and hope to everything back up and running in better than its former state by the end of the week.  The chat room is back up and running now, although you may still encounter some issues. Congratulations to our Hot Topic winner, wifes_sex_slave, who won the contest with their topic, Kinky Test Revisited. Help us get the word out about the Swingers Board, tell your friends about this great site.  You can also help us out by adding us as a friend on your MySpace and Yahoo360 profiles.  Swingers Board on MySpace -  SwingersBoard on Yahoo360. Have you taken the Swingers Board survey yet?  We are looking to update our statistics so be sure to stop by and input yours. Looking for Christmas gift ideas? Did you know you can get some really cool stuff with the Swingers Board logo, like t-shirts and mugs and thongs! Oh My! Swingers Board store Visit any Swinger Clubs lately? Then don't forget to post a review in our  Club Listings & Reviews section. and let others know how your night went. Remember, your reviews help others make informed decisions.  If your night goes really well you might just want to write a story about it for our swinger stories section.   Featured Swingers --> START AdPeeps.com Code --> .. --> END AdPeeps.com Code --> New Club Listings New Club Reviews GulfCoast Playground - Mobile AL Interracial Kink - San Francisco CA RoofTop Resort - Hollywood FL   Leisure Time - Hartford CT Vegas Red Rooster - Las Vegas NV For our full listings of clubs and club reviews be sure to visit http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/clubs.php If you would like to submit a review of a club you have visited, please use the link provided above, find the club you wish to review, then select "post a review" from the clubs listing. To have your club listed on the Swingers Board, use the link provided above and select the appropriate region.  From the region page, select "add a club".  If your club belongs in more than one region be sure to submit it to each one. New Stories Events Calendar My Wife Wants More - by njswinger Over the Hump CH 2 - by elfman36  Visit GroupSexStories.com for more Swinger Stories View Upcoming Events on the Swingers Board Events Calendar! Please Visit Our Sponsor: --> START AdPeeps.com Code --> .. --> END AdPeeps.com Code -->
Swingers Message Board Digest
Introductions!!
A big Swingers Board welcome goes out to all the new members who took the time to introduce themselves this past week: Socialpsy, FireFrighter22, sunfire111, fox412, ck010, repaint, smthngaboutmary, Tap, hotwife1126, cute36mal, ifiwaspresident, vancouvercpl, new2wild, seedlessjoe and bronxblaza. To introduce yourself and to read other's introductions go to:  http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?s=&forumid=19
Situational HELP!!!
In "Finding a partner for my wife", Freebird8 post that he and his wife have had threesomes in the past as well as her playing alone, which he enjoys. His problem is that she likes for things to be spontaneous rather than planned out and she does not like looking for partners on swinger sites.  He has been trying to find men to spontaneously meet her, without her knowing a head of time, but is having a difficult time and he's looking for advice on how to make this happen.  An unregistered Guest was "Totally surprised", her in-laws and her parents were visiting her and her husband at the same time and during the night when she got up to go to the bathroom she was surprised to find her parents and in-laws in a foursome. She is not sure if she should be blind to the fact or say something to them about it. Taylor74 said "I was duped on SLS", he had contacted a single female and asked to see a picture of her, she replied only if she saw one of him first so he opened his private pics for her. He has yet to hear back from her, even though she has been on line. He asked why do people do this.   To read all of these topics and more go to http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?s=&forumid=11 --> START AdPeeps.com Code --> .. --> END AdPeeps.com Code -->
General Swingers Stuff
The HOT Topic this past week was posted by iapr asking, "When you say "_______", what do you really mean?". After surfing profiles they have come across phrases that to them seem like profile euphemisms and are now curious as to what people really are trying to say when they use them. Some examples that they gave were; Looking for friendship first, will not play on the first date and not looking for bed notchers or one night stands.  They don't believe that these phrases are actually literal in meaning so they are asking what is at the root of these and other common phrases that most likely are not literal in meaning.  A few responders posted that to them, the phrases were literal in meaning as that was the way they really felt.  Some felt that these phrases were newbie flags and others posted that they did have the phrases in their ads in the beginning but as time went on, they have phased them out of their ads.   What do these phrases mean to you? Click here to read the entire thread and post your meanings. VanHlebar have been "Sneaking out". They experienced their first time having to sneak out of the house with their children around by having the Mrs. leaving the house in jeans and a sweatshirt, instead of her high heeled boots and mini-skirt, for a night at the club. They asked if anyone else has had to do this before.  Mr. T posted a poll question in "New Toy", he asked have you or would you use a video camera during play. In "Swinger Sites Update", daisy girl asked if money was not an option, which sites would you pay to be on and why.  Beaverbumper asked "Swingers...how do you tell?", they are finding it a waste of their time to respond to people on ad sites that are fakes and not real swingers. Resee6814 said,"Need Suggestions", they had a MFM three planned but the other man backed out because he was a little scared. They are looking for ways to reassure him that things are okay and not frighten him off again. In "Swing with relatives", luckycple asked if anyone has ever played with relatives. In "Swinging with friends?", welshfuncouple post that they played with a couple that they have been friends with for 23 years, now they are worried that the friendship might change and are looking for any comments. In "WHAT a weekend", MrsHidalgo posted what a wonderful time she had this past weekend with her husband and his best friend.  Scott17201 asked "which tastes better, black or white women?". In "Damn!! What a month!!", nmgrrrl posted that after having a slow start in swinging, things really picked up for them in November with lots of fun.  In "Swinging as a Single", daisy girl post that she has wondered what it would be like to be the third for a couple, her and her husband discussed it and are in agreement that it can't interfere with their other activities and she asked if anyone else has ever done this.  To read all of these topics and many more (and to add your own thoughts as well) go to: http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?s=&forumid=8
New Swingers
Thumperjsa is "Another newbie starting a thread", he posted that he and his wife are really enjoying getting started in swinging and what a great experience it has been for both of them. In "newbie needing some advice", sexycpl4u2006 post that her husband brought up the idea of a FMF threesome but when she suggested a couple or possibly a MFM threesome he changed his tune. She feels he might be being a bit selfish and is looking for other opinions. An Unregistered Guest said "I think husband is sending signals help?", she said that her husband has been dropping hints that he wants to swing. She is not against it but does not want it to ruin their relationship. To read all of these topics and more go to http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?s=&forumid=9
Swinging Single
To read all of the topics in this forum go to http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?s=&forumid=10
Polyamory & Swinging
To read all of the topics in this forum go to http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=137
Sex Questions
In "Too Big", 28volts posted that his wife enjoys anal but says that he is too big and she can't stand the pain. They are looking for ways to possibly make this easier on her. In "Sex after menopause", steversk post that after his wife went through menopause her sex drive decreased and he wonders if this is normal and if so, what he can do to help increase it. In "Tricks to squirting", havefuninsun asked if there were any hints or books to read to help her learn how to squirt. In "Hysterectomy, instant menopause and sex life?", Tybee Swing is looking for any advice or information she can get from other women who have had a total hysterectomy and how their sex life changed afterward. To read all of these topics and more go to http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=5
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