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February 2, 2009 - Monday
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Some thoughts in the aftermath of one of the more entertaining Super Bowls in recent years:
I’m no football defensive coordinator or head coach, but it’s beyond me why the Steelers, ahead by 13 points with 10 minutes to play, dropped their defensive backs off the line of scrimmage 20 yards, in effect, allowing the Cardinals to score in under three minutes to climb back in the game. The only thing a prevent defense is good for is preventing the team that employs it from winning, which it nearly did.
Most exciting play in this Super Bowl, or any Super Bowl – the 100-yard interception return by Pittsburgh at the end of the first half that looked like it might take the wind out of Arizona’s sails.
Bruce Springsteen and the E Street Band: Best halftime show in years.
Biggest Super Bowl commercial surprise: The absence of ads selling domestic automobiles. The Big Three really are broke.
Best Super Bowl commercial: The Budweiser Clydesdale who, to the Motown tune Ain’t No Mountain High Enough, goes in search of the mare of his dreams, the world’s greatest dancing horse, who works in the circus.
Worst Super Bowl commercial: the ad that advised against sending your girl boxed flowers because you never know what they’re going to say; in this instance, the talking flowers belittled the woman who received them, in front of her office colleagues, telling her she was ugly, overweight and that no one wanted to see her naked. How did such an obnoxious, politically incorrect ad make it onto celluloid?
One of the better Super Bowls, despite too many penalties, especially of the 15-yard variety – what happened to the officials letting the players play on the game’s biggest stage? The game was in doubt right down to the last play. Kudos to the Cardinals for their solid playoff run (something the Detroit Lions can only dream of doing), and kudos to the Steelers for being the first franchise to win six Super Bowl Championships.
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October 14, 2008 - Tuesday
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This was an exercise at my writers group. From the photograph of a staircase with a grandfather clock at its foot we were tasked with writing a flash piece.
The oak staircase was seventy years old. Its risers were uncarpeted, and the third one from the top was loose ― when John stepped on it, it would let out a loud groan such as might be heard late at night during the last two weeks of October at some haunted house.
John's mission was to make it up those stairs and past the groaner without waking his wife. He'd been out with the guys, drinking and watching Monday Night Football at the South Lyon Hotel. He'd told Alice he'd be home after the game, around 11:30, in time for Letterman. But the game had gone into sudden death overtime, eventually ending in a tie, and while John hadn't lied about coming home after the game, he knew his argument would largely be based on semantics.
He looked up the daunting staircase, suspiciously eyed the third riser from the top through the haze of three pitchers of Budweiser ― Come on, John, its smug silence seemed to say, are you up for it? Beyond the riser, at the top of the staircase, no ghostly light from the bedroom television flashed, no audience laughter from the Ed Sullivan Theatre in New York reached his ears as Dave gave his top ten reasons why Alice should be angry with John for coming home late. Alice was asleep.
John sighed and looked at the grandfather clock that stood near the bottom of the staircase ― thirteen minutes to one (John briefly considered that that translated to forty-seven minutes past twelve, but that hardly made it seem any earlier) ― then back up the staircase, where the third riser from the top dared him to get past its ever watchful eye. Even if he managed to get past there was a less than fifty percent chance he'd manage to slip into bed without waking Alice: success meant falling asleep in the face of Alice's cold, angry back; failure and… John shuddered at the thought.
The third riser again seemed to beckon, silently, ominously: Come on, John… I dare you, buddy…
John shook his head, muttered under his breath, "Good luck with that," and headed to the family room to spend the night on the sofa. He'd be better able to deal with Alice's tirade in the morning. At least they'd both get a longer night's sleep, even if Alice wouldn't thank him for it.
― JCG/October 2008
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October 9, 2008 - Thursday
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Category: News and Politics
America's calling, Harry Truman.
Harry, you'd know what to do.
The world is turnin' round and losin' lots of ground,
Oh, Harry is there something we can do to save the land we love?
― Robert Lamm
Last night, as I watched the second presidential debate, it occurred to me it had been many years since last I voted for a candidate instead of against one candidate or the other. This introspection resulted in my conclusion that neither candidate won the debate, although clearly, in my mind, one had certainly lost.
Although both candidates orate this election year is all about necessary change, the media has made this election historic for the wrong reason: initially the possibility of the first woman in the White House, now, potentially, the first African American to assume the presidency.
Last night, both candidates were full of campaign rhetoric, but I imagine, like those who have gone before them, once the election is over, the rhetoric will quickly be forgotten and it will be business as usual in all branches of government. If I sound disenchanted it's because I am. Worse, my disenchantment of the last twenty or so years has turned to despondency and fear for the future of this once great country.
Yes: Once great. That our current president, as well as both those who endeavor to follow in his footsteps, say it is great does not make it so. We have lost our way. The recent disaster on Wall Street is but one illustration on a long list of examples of how lost we really are. This is not the America my father fought for in World War II; nor is it the America our founding fathers envisioned more than two-hundred years ago.
Perhaps my skeptism and cynicism is because of my age, but I can't help but feel that, for at least the last twenty years, candidates seek the nation's highest office not because they are compelled to make a difference, to right the wrongs in the world or of their predecessor, to represent We, the People, but instead for their own desire for power and for the spotlight. The winner of this election will, sadly, assume the White House thinking they were the candidate of choice when in fact it is because the voters viewed him as the lesser of two evils, because we hoped that this year (finally!) his rhetoric will be more than mere rhetoric, because we believed his lies more than his opponent's. Indeed, we will cast our votes based largely on a leap of faith. Because we had to choose one.
In January, either John McCain or Barack Obama will hold their first State of the Union Address and by the end of 2010, at the latest, my despondency will deepen as either McCain continues to govern as Bush did, in favor of Corporate America, or Obama proves ineffective or his promises turn out to be empty rhetoric.
Truly, the change that seems to be the center of this election but scratches the surface of the change this country needs in order to survive. Our two-party system, indeed, our entire election system is archaic. My belief in the power of the non-vote as a means of voicing displeasure of the current election process falls on deaf ears.
My inbox is full of email from both parties bashing the other. We need to beat the Demcratics. We need to take power from the Republicans. No talk of bipartisanship, of working together for the good of the country. It's all about party ― Democrats versus Republicans.
What this country needs more than change is revolution. Our election process needs to be revamped to provide independent candidates a chance at winning the White House. Only with Independents can we break this vicious cycle of infighting between the two major parties. But alas, change that great won't happen in my lifetime, nor is it likely to happen before this country falls, and for a fall it is heading. Our way of life in this country is already changing, the result of 9/11, the war in Iraq, the poor esteem with which the rest of the global community holds us, an ailing environment, the rising cost of healthcare, the diminishing middle class that spins its wheels faster and faster in pursuit of an American Dream turned nightmarish. Our elected officials and voters alike continue to stick their heads in the sand. Candidates run on empty rhetoric and voters vote not because we feel our vote counts or will make a difference, but because it is our civic duty. How long before our flickering hope is extinguished?
I'm not alone in my lost faith that any one candidate is different from another, that any elected official holds my interests, the interests of the country, the global community, planet earth, above their own.
Harry, is there something we can do to save this land we love?
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September 22, 2008 - Monday
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Category: News and Politics
Impact Times offers one-page articles on a host of topics, from politics to current events, business, literature, art, and more. This format makes reading informative, educational, and rewarding. The autumn edition of Impact Times is available online. Please see my contribution on the editor's page as well as two more on the articles page, along with the many other fine articles.
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August 29, 2008 - Friday
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Category: Jobs, Work, Careers
I have the privilege of working from home three days each week, and so I often receive company news a day or so late. Yesterday, a Tuesday, I made my customary trek into the office – a drive of nearly thirty miles – and was sipping my first cup of coffee while easing into my workday when my colleague arrived. After settling herself, she came by my desk to ask if I'd heard what had happened on Friday of the previous week. Our supervisor had gotten an early start on her vacation this week by working from home herself and logging off early on Friday. I shook my head.
"A man from corporate arrived last Wednesday and at noon, Friday, Joan and everyone in HR were told to pack their personal belongings and were escorted out of the building."
I blinked my eyes at my colleague, not knowing what to say. Finally, I nodded and thanked her for telling me the sobering news.
This is the way Corporate America works in the twenty-first century. No notice was sent; I'm left to receive the news from a colleague. No acknowledgement of Joan and her team's contribution over the years. It's like they never existed. It's happened before that I learned of a colleague's departure from an email returned to me as undeliverable. Shocking. This is not what made America great; but then today America is not so great.
Today all is driven by bottom line. Like war, which we've made so clean – no longer does a soldier have to look into the eyes of the man he must kill or allow to kill him – we in Corporate America are but faceless names. Like the Baltic states in the aftermath of World War II became the pawns on the chessboard to appease Communist Russia, we, too, with a mere sweep of a hand, can be removed from the playing board. Already my colleagues in the field with whom and for whom I work are asking me for direction and I can provide none because I have not yet been advised. Indeed, I haven't even been officially told. And, based on experience, I will never be officially told. Here today, gone tomorrow, no acknowledgement. Like they never existed. Cowards.
And this morning I'm wondering how much more difficult my job will become in the coming months because HR, who provided a semblance of orientation to new employees, is gone, and so it will now fall to me and my team to, in addition to our other responsibilities, coach and teach those in the field the policies and procedures intended to help them to help us help them. No doubt our division's HR responsibilities will now be carried out from corporate, in Dallas, halfway across the country from Michigan, by people who have no idea what goes on in our division.
Last week four women were let go to save maybe $110 or $120K. They expect loyalty from the ranks but show none in return. Joan, who hired in about the same time I did more than ten years ago, was told to pack her personal belongings under the watchful eye of security and escorted out of the building to the parking lot like a criminal. How humiliating, to be treated like that. And she and her staff with her were probably told not to take it personally. Just a business decision, made by someone looking to cut costs to improve the bottom line in a depressed economy. How, even in the short-term, will this benefit the company let alone the nation's economy?
This week corporate will, with the money they procured last week at the expense of Joan and her staff's livelihoods, undoubtedly hire a new executive to add to our already top heavy organizational structure. Will it turn the company around, make us more profitable? Unlikely.
And next week, or next month or next year, perhaps it will be my team's turn: I will be told I need to be in the office on Friday (a day I typically work from home), and a man will approach me at my desk around noon to tell me to pack my personal belongings, while he watches to make sure I don't take anything that doesn't belong to me – like a box of paperclips – and afterward he will escort me out of the building.
It's the American way.
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August 25, 2008 - Monday
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Category: Life
Sister, I hear you laugh my heart fills full up Keep me please Sister, when you cry I feel your tears running down my face Sister, Sister will you keep me?
― Dave Matthews
A daughter was born to my parents nearly 54 years ago; twenty-one months later a brother was born to her: so close in age yet distant ― an expanse that only swells as the years race by.
I recently asked my uncle if he had any recollections of my mother, deceased now eleven years, from their youth. Alas, he is five years her junior and recalled little. Yet in adulthood they were very close. My father was not a handy man around the house, and so whatever the need ― putting a new roof on the house, hanging wallpaper, laying down tile in the kitchen ― my mother had but to call and her brother was there. I recall my uncle as a presence in my youth: at age four or five, sitting between his legs at the front of a toboggan as it raced down a snowy slope in Hines Park; also that he entrusted me with his new Chevrolet Impala to drive my prom date to the event located in the New Center area in Detroit. Knowing my parents, I'm certain they fretted more over my returning his car without a scratch or dent than he did. I must make a point of sharing these two memories with my uncle, even if I can't today recall my date's name (only the name of the girl who was my first choice, who accepted only to bail out) or the name of the hotel at which we danced and dined. His trust in me made me feel a man.
Neither my sister nor I have children, and so no niece or nephew will ask of us stories from our youth, which is perhaps fitting. I recall so very little of our childhood: no protective older sister, no rainy day playmate. Different as night and day: she a night owl, me up with the sun. I recall eleven years ago, our first Mother's Day without Mom, my sister and I took Dad to Sunday brunch. I wore for the first time a summer suit and tie; she wore for the last time a winter outfit. Perhaps she wished to lay to rest that Mom was gone whereas I wished to celebrate her life. I grieved her loss in my own way, but I was looking forward, pleased that her suffering was at an end and that surely she was in a much better, happier place.
In childhood we had our differences, as surely all siblings do. Just as surely that all children at times disappoint their parents ― does that mean the parents like the child any less? Perhaps it was our different temperaments that kept us from getting close.
At any rate I married at twenty-three and we drifted further apart. I was divorced before I turned thirty but never reconnected with my sister. I'm ashamed to admit that, at that age, it seemed unimportant. Perhaps it did to her, too.
The years continued to pass and shortly before my mother's death in 1997 she wept openly that my sister and I were but strangers. My mother told me my sister had once told her she had no brother (from my perspective the obverse was certainly true), and that she didn't like how I treated women, and I marveled over how alike our perceptions of one another were since I, too, hadn't approved of her treatment of the young men she dated when we were in our teens.
No one gets out of this life without breaking a heart or two or without having their own dashed (along with some of our dreams) ― it's the stuff of which novels are written and seems to be the legacy the Baby Boomers left behind (and upon which future generations will certainly embellish), which makes it no more right but somehow acceptable. I have my share of regrets (my father told me shortly before he died that no one gets out of life without a few of those, too), and I'm not pleased or proud of some of the things I've done, some of the choices I've made. I've lived my life mostly by default, avoiding risks associated with career even as I've risked greatly in other areas.
It's funny how we so often stumble when it comes to walking the talk where the biblical lessons of judging and forgiveness are concerned. If God can forgive us our transgressions, why can't we?
I was too young to recall the rift between my dad and his oldest brother, my uncle Ed, who I never met until my father lay in hospice awaiting cancer's claim. A few weeks after my dad passed away, my Uncle Ed took me to dinner. Apparently in January of that year (1998), just a few weeks before Dad checked into hospice, he'd taken my dad and sister to dinner to celebrate the holidays; for some reason for which he forgave my father, I was not included. But that night after dinner at one his favorite sports bars, during which we talked baseball (a love we shared) and of all the history he'd lived through in his eight-four years, as he drove me back to my car he explained to me the reason why he hadn't been a part of my life. The reason seemed important to him; certainly it seemed important to him that I understood. But it wasn't important to me. The reason for those missing years seemed, to me, ancient history. What mattered to me were the missing 42 years. That we all had allowed the empty years to stretch on seemed the greater tragedy. I learned a couple years later from his daughter (who taught at my high school) that she'd brought her dad to see me in a high school play in which I had a bit part. Sadly, I don't recall that she introduced us.
As my mother lay in hospice dying, her heart weighted with a lifetime of unhappiness, it was for my sister and I that she wept most: that as a mother she'd failed because my sister and I were so distant. I promised her I would change that. Yet just as surely as love cannot conquer all ― not if only one party is committed to the cause ― my efforts fell short. An invitation to take her and her husband to dinner to celebrate her birthday was met with excuses and no offer to take a rain check. At a cousin's sixtieth birthday celebration she not only avoided me, acknowledging my presence from a distance with a nod, but avoided any room in which I might mingle with other celebrants, finally leaving early. She invited me to her wedding but looked decidedly disappointed that I'd attended. My phone calls are answered by her machine and returned during the day to my own machine, when she is most certain I am at work. I receive annual Christmas cards from her that wish me well but speak nothing of her life or of any interest in mine. I stopped reciprocating, not out of anger but because of the Potemkin village hers seem to portend ― a façade behind which she continues to hold onto her anger or indifference, or whatever it is she holds onto.
I hear from her only when necessity prompts her to pass along the news of a death in the family: my father's second oldest brother, Alphonse, a few years ago, and most recently when my youngest cousin, Tom, died of a heart attack at age forty-four. I arrived at the funeral home on a Tuesday evening after work to offer condolences to my aunt and uncle and their other two sons, the cousins I hadn't seen in close to thirty years. Not surprisingly, I missed my sister by a few minutes.
It was good seeing my cousins and their families, catching up on their lives and they on mine, trading memories of our youth. With sincerity they expressed that they'd thought of me often over the years and that they were pleased to see me. I've since spoken with my uncle twice, and after I suggested we not wait for another similar occasion to meet, he proposed dinner in the near future. I intend to hold him to that.
It is with heavy heart that I write these words because it's true, the concept of paying it forward, just as it's true that, sadly, we continue the mistakes of our parents.
―JCG/August 2008
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August 23, 2008 - Saturday
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Category: Writing and Poetry
I read recently in The New York Times that more books exist in print today than there are readers in this nation.
At first I thought that was a testament to the shrinking number of readers in this country; indeed, this one-time popular leisure activity seems far down the list of many Americans, behind TV, DVD rentals, computer games, cell phone conversations, text messaging, surfing the Internet, responding to email via one's Blackberry ― or most any activity that doesn't require someone to be "connected" to someone or something, and let's face it, reading is anything but a social endeavor. Then I thought of the fast-growing self-publishing industry and fledging e-book industry, as well as a host of other self-professed "new model" publishing companies, most requiring a sizeable investment from the author.
No other nation in the world is as inpatient as ours, as evidenced by our immediate gratification mentality. No one saves anymore for that new appliance or piece of furniture, not when we can put it on a credit card and bring it home with us today, and I think that spills over into the mentality of many emerging writers. I've been associated with enough writers' forums to know that many endure the rejection of maybe five or six agents or publishers before deciding to self-publish (Dr. Seuss and J. K. Rowling endured dozens of rejections). Not that I'm against self-publishing ― many notable authors self-started their way to fame, including Mark Twain, John Grisham, Walt Whitman, Beatrix Potter, Thomas Paine, Edgar Allan Poe, T.S. Elliot, Carl Sandberg, Gertrude Stein, Deepak Chopra, Upton Sinclair, D.H. Lawrence, George Bernard Shaw, E.E. Cummings (Mr. Cummings never had his name officially changed his name to lowercase and although he often signed his name in lowercase, his preference was for the more formal spelling), Henry David Thoreau, Virginia Woolf, Margaret Atwood and Tom Clancy ― all folks with true literary talent.
Today, anyone with a valid credit card can see their work in print, whether it deserves to be or not. Yet there are many unscrupulous predators willing to take anyone's money. They make their money upfront, preying on unsuspecting writer wannabes who've yet to learn their trade or fill their writer's toolbox with the necessary tools to be good ― and these predators continue to make money by selling marketing schemes they claim are designed to get your book into the hands of an eagerly awaiting public but which best serve to part writers from their hard earned money.
It's interesting to note that the average number of copies a self-published author makes is 150, 64% to family and friends ― not enough, in most cases, to cover their initial investment let alone any ongoing investment. Many authors are happy with this, a coffee table product, a legacy which they can leave their family, but it makes it difficult for the rest of us to be taken seriously. Most agents and publishing houses receive as many as 300 queries each month ― too many to which to respond with even a rejection letter, and so writers are now left to assume rejection from being ignored (even as the agent or publisher often discourages writers from making simultaneous submissions), and there is something sadly wrong with that. To take the time to tailor a query letter specific to an agent or publisher requires time and effort and in my mind deserves at least an acknowledgement, even if that acknowledgement comes in the form of a standard form letter of rejection.
Like the music industry, which discourages originality (The Beatles, The Rolling Stones and Led Zeppelin I fear would, today, be turned away), the publishing industry rewards the formulaic while eschewing literary art ― emerging writers are encouraged to write at a sixth-grade level.
Dan Brown may have turned a fascinating story into the world's all-time biggest best seller, but while Joseph Conrad and Charles Dickens will continue to be discussed in creative writing courses 100 years from now, Brown, I suspect, will be relegated a footnote not for his talent but instead for his "saleability."
If profits of the publishing industry are driven by, at most, a half-dozen names, we have the publishing industry to thank for that, but enough blame remains for the self-publishing and print on demand publishers for an industry that annually loses money as well as for the struggles of many talented writers who truly deserve to see their work in print.
― JCG/August 2008
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July 14, 2008 - Monday
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Category: Life
Like all parents, mine lied to me about Santa Claus. I don't recall exactly how old I was when I learned the truth about old St. Nick (and in short order the myths behind the Easter Bunny and the Tooth Fairy also fell), but several years later, after I'd attained the lofty wise age of maybe fourteen, I took it upon myself to pass along that same truth to a younger cousin, who was at the time maybe six or seven. Woe to me for choosing Christmas Eve when all of the adults were out of the room. Who can say what causes a teen to do what they do? But a lie is a lie, right? If we strive to do what is right for the sake of right, perhaps I was struggling to wrap my mind around this wrong for right's sake. I recall Tom's broken face, the fear in his eyes as they teared up before he fled the room, and I immediately regretted being the harbinger of truth and justice. Moments later he returned with his mom and dad (my aunt and uncle), who proceeded to read me the riot act. And then I had to listen to my own parents ― they who had initiated the lie to me so many years ago.
At my cousin's funeral a few weeks ago, I recalled that event from our youth and wondered if he ever had, and whether, by age 44, he had forgiven me. Tater tots perhaps. But now I'll never know.
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June 22, 2008 - Sunday
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Category: News and Politics
The latest issue of Impact Times is online. Please see my contributions on the editor's column as well as the articles tabs.
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February 24, 2008 - Sunday
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Category: Life
The question of commonsense is always "what is it good for?" – a question which would abolish the rose and be answered triumphantly by the cabbage.
– James Russell Lowell
In my life I've been guilty of what today is known as objectifying women. Thirty-five years ago a poster of Farrah Fawcett hung from my bedroom closet door. When I was 18, back when the minimum drinking age was 18, as part of the male bonding ritual (or perhaps it was a coming of age ritual), I and several buddies explored a topless bar or two (that's topless, not tapas). I'm no stranger to the pages of Playboy. But lately, oh, for perhaps the last ten years – or maybe it's always been this way but I've only become more aware of it – it has become politically correct to bash men for objectifying women; yet little seems to be said or written about women who allow themselves to be objectified, or perhaps even embrace it. Kyla Ebbert, the young woman last year who was denied boarding privileges by Southwest Airlines because her clothing was considered too provocative was so traumatized that it took an offer of nearly $100,000 from Playboy to appear on the pages of their mag without any clothes to bring her any comfort.
Watch TV any night of the week and you'll see women flaunting their bodies in shows anywhere from CSI to American Idol and Dancing with the Stars. Sex is used to sell anything from beer to automobiles – the question in considering buying a new Cadillac is, when you turn it on, does it return the favor? The Victoria Secret Lingerie show? A man who states a woman has a great body is guilty of lasciviousness, of judging her by her fuckability; a woman who makes the same comment does so with admiration. A man who comments on the build of a man during a body-building competition is… gay?
This past football season the NFL passed down an edict that forbade home teams from having their cheerleaders perform their warm-up and stretching exercises near to where the visiting team goes through their pre-game warm-ups. It seems the visiting teams complained of distraction. These women of course voiced no discontent over being used in this manner – but then, why would they? They seem to embrace the idea of dressing in scanty clothing to jump, bounce and shake before large crowds. With annual calendars and a Web site devoted to them, I can imagine some of these cheerleaders think that fans attend football games to see them rather than the game.
The annual Sports Illustrated Swimsuit issue hit the stands this month, with many of these same cheerleaders adorning the pages, along with Danica Patrick, the first woman ever to lead a lap of the Indianapolis 500. Danica has been, in the eyes of the media, the darling of the Indy Racing League the past couple of years. Watch any race during the summer and she receives more coverage than any other driver – and she has yet to win her first race. One can only wonder if, should she ever win, she will become second page news. It's laughable that in many interviews, Patrick voices a desire to be taken seriously as a racecar driver, not as a woman who happens to race cars. She "yearns" for that first win (as if none of her male competitors doesn't) to "get this monkey off my back." But really, where is the wisdom here? Does she think that posing in a bikini on the pages of a sports magazine will help her achieve that end, to be taken seriously? Her sponsors may applaud the exposure her exposure brings them, and no doubt many young girls dream of following in her footsteps, but I wonder if her car owner and team drivers approve. Frankly, I'm torn between hoping she never wins a race (you don't hear male drivers squeal through their on-board microphone when they wreck, "Oh my god, what happened?) and wishing she would win so that she'll finally become yesterday's headlines. Is this the result of our society's fascination with fame, or the media's unceasing effort to create idols?
Webster's defines idol as an image regarded as an object of worship; a person or thing blindly or excessively adored; something visible but lacking substance. We created the ultimate idol in Britney Spears – fame without substance – and many young girls dreamed of following in her footsteps. Where is Spears now? One can only hope she has at least acquired the wisdom to understand that fame and fortune does not amount to happiness.
A naked woman painted on a freeway underpass is considered pornographic; take that same image, put it on a canvas and hang it in a museum and people will pay to see it. A Rodin nude is defined as art, while Boris Vellejo's fantasy figures are often termed pornographic. Feminists picket the offices of SI every year protesting that semi-naked women are not sports (even if some of them are sports figures); yet a sculpture of a nude woman (not to deny a woman's body is a thing of beauty, but is she art?) is not objectification. Rodin, who molested many of his models, has been dead for centuries, so the question whether something of beauty can be created from the mind of a sexual deviant goes unasked.
If I live to be one-hundred, I will never acquire the wisdom to fully understand any of the aforementioned (until then, to maintain political correctness, I'm left to admire the shape and construction of a well-made hand-rolled cigar). But then, as the Spanish Baroque prose writer Baltasar Gracidn wrote, "A sage has one advantage; he is immortal. If this is not his century, many others will be."
– JCG; February 2008
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January 12, 2008 - Saturday
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Category: Movies, TV, Celebrities
Webster's defines idol as an image regarded as an object of worship; a false god; a person or thing blindly or excessively adored; something visible but lacking substance.
They might add to those definitions: See also American Idol, Fox T.V.
I can in good conscience say I've never seen this popular show, but I've seen enough trailers (who can miss them?) to know how important attaining the status of American idol is to these idol wannabes. The panel of judges, who think nothing of ridiculing the markedly less talented, in turn, heap words of praise along with looks of unabashed adulation upon the talented hopefuls while the live audience voices their approval. Those talents who make the cut to the next level often scream and weep out of sheer ecstasy. They are driven to be worshipped, adored by the masses, even if that image lacks the substance of reality.
As I sit writing these words this afternoon, a Google search of American Idol brought up the following four news items — all posted within the last five hours:
- American Idol alum Katharine McPhee latest to split with record label (Chicago Tribune)
- Getting in shape for American Idol (Chicago Tribune)
- Better Than Carrie Underwood: American Idol the Best of All Time? (National Ledger)
- Simon says: Cowell tells why the best is yet to come (South Florida Sun-Sentinel)
Now, I appreciate a good entertainer — an actor or a singer — as much as anyone, and as much as I value a good movie, good music, a novel or a work of art. I've been moved to laughter, to tears, to joy by all of the above, but to affix the word "idol" to the winner of this talent show, no matter how much talent they may possess, I find not only offensive but downright vulgar, nearly pornographic.
American Idol plays off everything that is wrong with America: our fascination with and addiction to fame. Are our lives so devoid of the things that matter — career, family, spirituality, community — that we must escape our reality because of our perception of the aforementioned as ordinary?
It goes without saying that our troubled youth today aspire to follow in the footsteps of former pop star Britney Spears and Hilton heiress Paris Hilton, both whom we created. The former's fame has brought her only ruin, while the latter's resulted in jail time, even as their falls from fame brought ridicule to them while, in the former's case, it fueled her demise. Fame does not bring happiness to the unhappy; it merely makes their unhappiness, perhaps for a time, a little easier to bear or hide from.
It's been said that giving to charity eases our conscience, and while I won't deny the necessary role entertainment holds in our society, ours has taken it past the level of diversion or distraction from the reality of the homeless, the starving, the infirm, to the point of nescience. The aim of any society should be to acknowledge these sufferings of real substance and to do something about them, not turn from them, pretending they don't exist by losing itself in false images.
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January 3, 2008 - Thursday
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Category: News and Politics
Frankly, I'm mighty tired of hearing people refer to global warming as a political agenda for alarmists like Al Gore. The simple truth is, it's easy to debunk something in which one does not want to believe by calling it alarmist propaganda, but oftentimes, especially in this country, the only way to get the attention of the powers that be is to sound an alarm. And sometimes, the obverse is true:
In 1955, at the height of the Cold War when America feared a first-strike nuclear attack from the U.S.S.R., the U.S. Office of Civil Defense produced a short film, About Fallout, to debunk popular beliefs about nuclear fallout. This film featured a segment on how to simply wash and wipe contaminated foods to make them safe for eating after a nuclear attack. Today we would find the information in that film laughable; yet in 1963, this film's success prompted an expanded version that attempted to dispel many of the common myths and fallacies about radioactive fallout. I wonder if any of the survivors of the nuclear blasts in Hiroshima and Nagasaki bought into any of this propaganda distributed by the U.S. Office of Civil Defense.
So what if the warnings regarding global warming are but political propaganda? Our current administration has been all about creating crises where none exist — was not George Bush's alarmist talk about a cache of weapons of mass destruction in Iraq propaganda? — all the while avoiding impending real crises altogether.
I read today that "Cap-and-trade policies for limiting carbon dioxide emissions can substantially increase the bottom line for many companies, even as they increase costs for customers with no discernable benefit for the environment or the economy."
While this is true, the obverse argument can also be made — that doing nothing with respect to limiting carbon dioxide emissions can substantially increase the bottom line for many companies, specifically the oil companies who are enjoying record profits as a result of increased costs at the gas pumps (which doesn't benefit the economy either), and also with no discernable benefit for the environment. The car companies, too, benefit from no limit on emissions. They claim they can't engineer a more efficient internal combustion engine. Is that a fact, or merely a ploy to maintain the status quo and avoid investing in the future, instead holding onto their profits? Yet all of this, and whether global warming is a political ploy, is immaterial when one considers that fossil fuel is a limited resource!
I read from this same source that, "Similarly, journalists and major news outlets sell more (copy) by reporting sensationalist headlines than by carefully examining the evidence for such claims."
This argument is baseless when one considers the American pubic is far more concerned over the latest diet fads, plastic surgery — we fear dying and the aging process more than we fear terrorism or global warming (as evidenced by the escalating number of big gas-guzzling SUVs and Hummers on the roads) — sports, the latest technological gimmicks and gadgets, and the fall of celebrities. Britney Spears' name in any given sensationalist headline is guaranteed to sell more copies of any magazine or newspaper than one with global warming. And the Nielson ratings prove that most Americans would rather watch the latest reality TV show than something about the environment on the Discovery channel.
Sadly, Americans want to keep their heads in the sand where the environment is concerned, because it's easier to ignore a crisis, pretending it doesn't exist, than it is to change our lifestyle. The American economy is more important than saving the planet. This is the way it's always been and so we see no reason to change. Only when the Arctic icecap completely melts and the sea levels rise to reach our bottom lip will we say, "We couldn't have known this was going to happen," when all along the evidence pointed at the possibility.
We've known for a half-century or longer that the world's fossil fuel supply was limited. Thirty years ago, when the price of gas shot up to eighty cents a gallon (gasp!), we had cars that could get 36 mpg — Pintos, Chevettes, the original Honda Civic roller-skate, and, if I recall correctly, the Yugo, which boasted 40 mpg. Yet today, with a gallon of gas averaging more than $3, car companies rave about cars capable of 30 mpg — we've actually regressed with our automotive technology! But Americans need 200 horses to sit in gridlock averaging 4 mpg in L.A. rush hour traffic, when in 1911 they averaged 11 mpg in a horse and buggy. This is progress?
We've had thirty years to improve upon the internal combustion engine or develop a new type of energy and have done nothing precisely because no one, thirty years ago, was alarmed! People who then talked in quiet, reasonable tones were ignored. But today we call people like Al Gore alarmists with a political agenda. Which all leaves me to conclude that the human race, and our society particularly, is doomed because for anyone to believe that something bad can happen to our way of life, we must wait until it happens (as we did with 9/11 — all the information was there for us to foresee this event, but we chose to ignore it) in order to see it through hindsight. Only by then, like 9/12, it will be too late.
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December 12, 2007 - Wednesday
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Category: News and Politics
I read in an Associated Press article today that the already relentless melting of the Arctic Ocean accelerated this summer. The news left some scientists to fret over whether global warming has passed the tipping point beyond which it can be reversed, originally estimated to be in ten years.
This alarming news seems to take a backseat to news about whether Russian President Vladimir Putin will decide to accept a proposal to become prime minister after Russia's presidential election next March, as well as other news items concerning the GOP upcoming debate in Iowa, a car bombing killing a Lebanese General, and an al-Qaida bombing in Algeria.
That the Arctic Ocean could be nearly free of ice by the end of summer 2012, instead of by the summer of 2040, seems unimportant compared to the news of Jessica Alba and her beau expecting a baby late next spring, that author Terry Pratchett has Alzheimer's, the breaking news that, to Johnny Depp, freedom means anonymity, and, concerning our nation's economy, Christmas spending seems to be down this year, with speculation that the high cost at gas pumps is in part responsible.
Is it because of our short attention span that Americans seem indifferent to these facts:
§ 552 billion tons of ice melted this summer from the Greenland ice sheet, nearly quadruple the amount that melted 15 years ago — an amount of water that could cover Washington, D.C., a half-mile deep;
§ The Arctic sea ice is unusually thin, making it more likely to melt in future summers;
§ The surface area of summer sea ice floating in the Arctic Ocean this summer was nearly 23 percent below the previous record, resulting in 6,000 walruses coming ashore in northwest Alaska in October for the first time in recorded history;
§ Alaska's frozen permafrost warming.
Jay Zwally, a NASA climate scientist, says, "The Arctic is often cited as the canary in the coal mine for climate warming. Now as a sign of climate warming, the canary has died. It is time to start getting out of the coal mines."
White sea ice reflects about 80 percent of the sun's heat off Earth, Zwally says. With no sea ice, about 90 percent of the heat goes into the ocean, which then warms everything else up. Warmer oceans then lead to more melting. "That feedback," Zwally adds, "is the key to why the models predict that the Arctic warming is going to be faster. It's getting even worse than the models predicted."
I recall standing in line at a coffee shop with a colleague on September 12, 2001, discussing the events of the previous day when a young man behind us, with his young daughter, asked us to refrain from our discussion as he felt it was unsettling his daughter. We complied, but today I wonder if that same fear syndrome is at work among adults where global warming is concerned.
This nation has always been unmindful of waste, and I suspect it is fear that is causing many to turn their nescient heads to this issue. At the risk of being an alarmist, this problem is not going to go away by itself as we continue to buy Hummers and pollute the atmosphere with carbon emissions.
We've known about this issue for more than thirty years and have done nothing, demanded nothing from the car manufacturers, who in turn merely claim it's not possible to engineer more efficient automobiles, while the oil companies enjoy record profits as the world's finite oil supply dwindles, the government ignores this crisis, creating others to draw attention from this very real crisis, and the Arctic Ocean screams at us that the canary is dead.
I read a novel several years ago, Calculating God, by Robert J. Sawyer, in which it is speculated that no society can survive beyond three hundred years after an industrial revolution: it is destined to self-destruct. The book made for great science fiction; however, as is the case with much science fiction — moon-shots, computers, weapons of mass destruction and personal communicators (cell phones) — much of it becomes reality.
Sadly, when it is too late, when Mother Nature ends our way of life in this country, when the sea levels reach our bottom lip, only then I suspect someone will say, "We couldn't have known this was going to happen."
The industrial revolution took place in the late 18th century. You do the math.
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November 27, 2007 - Tuesday
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Category: Life
1. America's love affair with the automobile – we base our decision to purchase a car on whether, when we turn it on, it turns us on, or that the new favorite room in the house is in the garage; furthermore, that we insist that more horsepower will get us from point A to point B faster – a fallacy considering that the average speed during rush hour in LA is today four mph, down from the average eleven mph by horse and buggy in 1911 (motorists today spend an average eight billion hours annually in gridlock). Seems to me that more horsepower only equates to wasting more gas idling along in stop and go traffic.
2. America's heedless concern for waste – that we think nothing of purchasing a Hummer, which averages eleven mpg, with nary a concern toward conservation or the environment. When will we wake up and smell the exhaust fumes? When civil wars break out between the states for gasoline? The parents of the Baby Boomer generation at least wanted to leave us with a chance for something more than they had; all we want is to accumulate more worthless stuff and leave the Millennium generation to clean up after our mess, the result of our ignorance and arrogance in thinking that topics like global warming is fiction, that the oil supply is never-ending, despite a greater demand on a dwindling supply by nations like China and India, that our way of life will continue, unabated, forever. How easily we transitioned from hippies – picketing the war in Viet Nam and supporting the environment through flower power – to yuppies, becoming the establishment we despised our parents for being and taking it to new levels of obscenity.
3. That our Federal Government pours all of its energies into some current crisis, even creating one where none exists (can you say weapons of mass destruction?), but does nothing to prevent one. We've known for more than thirty years that the supply of fossil fuel was finite and we've done nothing – an alternative fuel (hydrogen) is twenty years away and the car companies claim they can't engineer an internal combustion engine that can get better than 30 mph. Lies and more lies to cover up the old lies. I can hear them now when the oil supply goes dry: "We couldn't have known that this precious resource would so soon run out."
4. That we were ready to impeach Jimmy Carter for admitting that he had lusted for women in his heart yet forgave Bill Clinton for having an affair with an intern. Could it have had something to do with Carter's inability to effectively lead (hostages in Iran, high unemployment, and the price of a gallon of gas an unprecedented seventy-five cents), while under Clinton's regime we enjoyed a healthy economy and low unemployment? Furthermore, that we made a mistake by voting into office George W. Bush, accepted as fact his lies of weapons of mass destruction, his bungling efforts in our occupation of Iraq, his defiance in the face of NATO, as well as the Geneva Convention regarding treatment of prisoners of war (claiming terrorist don't warrant humane treatment – and we're supposed to be the harbingers of human rights?), and then compounded our mistake, endorsing his miserable efforts during his first term by electing him to a second term.
5. How, despite all of our connectivity through cell phones and the Internet, we seem to be more disconnected than ever – disconnected from ourselves, our friends and family. Teens leave the house to spend time with their friends, and they can be seen walking down any street in America with cell phones to their ears talking to still other friends; how one parent is on their cell phone to the other parent before they're even out of the driveway to discuss who is picking up junior from school, stopping for milk on their way home from work, etc., and insurance companies offer discounted rates, similar to the seatbelt discount, for drivers who refrain from talking on their cells while driving. Does anyone remember the good old days when talking on the phone meant being tied to a wall by a six-foot cord? Does anyone remember home cooked meals shared together around a kitchen or dining room table instead of a TV dinner in front of the tube? So what if there was bickering, at least we were a family.
6. How a sixteen-year-old girl or boy can have a crush on a thirty-five-year-old heartthrob (Brad Pitt or Angeline Jolie for example), but ask them again five years later about that same heartthrob and they'll say, "Ew."
7. That women dress sexy to compete amongst themselves – yes, they want men to look at them, even want men to want them even if they don't want those men in return, and then disparage men for objectifying them, looking at them as a piece of meat, as mere body parts. That women think they've come so far in equal rights but can't seem to fathom that in some ways they've actually regressed. Think NFL cheerleaders, Sports Illustrated swimsuit issue, beauty pageants.
8. America's obsession with youth and beauty, despite being the most obese nation in the world as well as the most heavily medicated (can't sleep, take a pill; take another pill for energy, still another to help with weight loss, another for depression, a pill to prevent pregnancy, another to increase fertility, yet another for virility). It used to be said that we wear our lives on our faces; now, we color our hair and surgically alter our appearance to lie to those around us, as well as to ourselves, that our actual appearance is not who we really are, that we're actually younger (at least at heart) than our outward appearance betrays.
9. That American doesn't see the end result of garbage in/garbage out, how it desensitizes us in terms of violence, language and pornography. Clark Gable shocked the nation when he said onscreen, "Frankly my dear, I don't give a damn." Now movie audiences stand up and cheer Bruce Willis when he says, "Yippee kai-yay, mother f—ker." It used to be that Rob and Laura Petrie couldn't be shown in the same bed on prime time TV; today we can see all manner of soft porn on our TV sets, in dramas, sitcoms, sports and commercials. While young girls are being kidnapped from our streets, trafficked into pornography, that industry continues to make headway into the mainstream; our sitcoms make jokes of it as an acceptable form of entertainment. And when did a police drama depicting a serial killer who cannibalizes his victims become entertainment?
10. Why no one wants to live to be 100, except those who are ninety-nine.
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