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THE GOSPEL OF FATHER JOE: REVOLUTIONS & REVELATIONS IN THE SLUMS OF BANGKOK
Grin and Barrett



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18 Sep 08 Thursday 

Category: Religion and Philosophy

Photo credit: Tyson Barrett (my 8-year-old son) in Baja California Sur

What's Behind A Book's Inscription

(or What It Means to Me to 'Point Toward the Moon')

After every book reading/talk the journalist/author takes out a favorite pen and begins signing books, usually on the title page somewhere beneath his/her name. Any author worth his ballpoint will also scribble a personal motto or inspirational sentence directly above the signature. For example, W.P. Kinsella wrote in my wife's paperback copy of Shoeless Joe, "Go the distance."

Being a rookie author and reader who'd never bothered to have a book signed, this motto thing had escaped my attention. So on the spring night that Father Joe and I launched The Gospel of Father Joe: Revolutions & Revelations in the Slums of Bangkok at the Royal Thai Embassy in Washington, D.C., I was thrown for a loop when I noticed Father Joe writing something* above each autograph he gave. At the very second I leaned in to see what the devil he was writing, a book was thrust in front of my nose.

"Could you please sign this for me?" a woman asked cheerfully.

I noticed a line had formed behind her. I felt instantly panicked. My face flushed. Quick, quick, what to write, whaaat to write. Then it hit me; I didn't need even the full three seconds that I'd spent staring at her in dumb silence. Nearly every book I've signed since has offered this same inscription:

Point toward the moon and others will point with you.

On really busy (read: good) nights when the line backs up and readers stir impatiently, I shorten it to keep the line moving. Point toward the moon! Unfortunately, those nights are the exception.

Handing the book back to the cheerful woman at the Thai Embassy, I smiled and explained, "You might not understand what the heck that inscription means. You'll have to read the book."

(Eventually I worked an explanation of it into my book talks because it seemed ungrateful to tell people who'd just bought the book that the inscription came with a price: You have to read the book. Of course I want the book read, but I don't want to twist arms.)

I'll summarize the meaning here. However, like I stress every time I discuss it, my understanding of Point Toward the moon might be different than yours. We might both be right ... or we both could be wrong. Knowledge/understanding and all the intangibles that feed wisdom are personal; everyone's journey and perception are his/her own. Our experiences are different. Hopefully, though, we still all merge eventually into streams of Divine energy. And one surefire way into that stream is to Point toward the moon. Every day. Every waking hour.

In the book, Father Joe spends a lot of time explaining this to me, so I'll begin with an excerpt from Chapter 9:

     From its inception in 1973, Father Joe's Mercy Centre had functioned like a new religious order, swimming in such a blend of Buddhism, Catholicism, and Islam that no one dared color it the sunny yellow of the Vatican flag. Buddhist, Muslim, Catholic, Protestant, Jewish, something else, anything else — it didn't much matter to the priest who burned joss sticks and kept shrines to the Buddha on the deck of his Mercy house.

     Sanskrit or Scripture; Buddhism's Pali Canon, Judaism's Torah, Islam's Koran, or Father Joe's tattered King James — its black leather worn by use and age — all point in the same direction.  And as he was telling me this, Father Joe began pointing there too. He raised his right arm like a rifle, squinted down the barrel of his forearm, and used his index finger as the front sight.

     "This is what you and I are supposed to be," he said, holding the pose. "We are to be a finger pointing toward the moon. We can't let ourselves get distracted looking at the elbow. Don't focus on the hand. Don't get hung up staring at dirt under your fingernails. Don't do anything except point toward the moon."

     So the moon is . . . what? I asked. Our universal expression of light and goodness?

     "Don't worry about that now. Just focus. Point toward the moon. Don't allow the other stuff to distract you. You have to concentrate on form, practice form, maintain form, keep your focus, keep your form. . . . Just point toward the moon."

     I was jotting notes, and when I looked up, his arm had dropped. He was staring at me.

     Oh. You mean me?

     "Point toward the moon."

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"Point toward the moon" is advice/counsel attributed to Siddhartha, the first Buddha. Ultimately, it means that we need to live minute by minute, hour by hour, day by day mindful of the most important lessons taught to humanity by its great prophets, leaders and/or savior. Dating at least back to Confucius, then Siddhartha, Jesus Christ, Rabbi Hillel (a great scholar of Judaism in Biblical times) and, finally, to Muhammad, one lesson trumped all others. In various words and lessons they all stressed this:

Do unto others as you would have them do unto you, i.e. Be kind and thoughtful and caring and selfless.

The law of karma is the lifeblood of Buddhism and Hinduism: What goes around comes around. Muhammad in his final pilgrimage to Mecca told followers: "Hurt no one so that no one may hurt you." In Buddhist scripture, Siddhartha says, "Consider others as yourself." The supreme philosopher of ancient China, Master Kung (Confucius), said, "What you do not wish upon yourself, extend not to others."

Rabbi Hillel, a religious leader during in the days of King Herod, was asked to sum up all the lessons of the Torah, i.e. the first five books of the Hebrew and Christian Bibles, written by Moses and revered all three Abrahamic faiths. He replied, "What is hateful to you, do not do to your fellow man: this is the whole law; the rest is just commentary."

Point toward the moon.

It's really very simple. Pure energy and/or polluted energy flows constantly through our consciousness and our decisions (selfless or selfish, driven by Spirit or ego) determine which energy dictates our thinking, feeling, talking, i.e. our subsequent behavior. We are co-creators. Father, Son and Holy Spirit? Where do you think the Holy Spirit resides? In us. But we need to tap it; that's called free choice.

Selfless energy is Divine, i.e. holy. It's what produces the fruit of the spirit described by Apostle Paul in the Chrisitan Bible, Galatians 5:22, e.g. love, joy, peace, patience, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control.

 

The selfish energy is egocentric. It isolates and wants to protect and comfort only itself. It hoards needlessly and out of fear, e.g. the root of all evil is the love of money. At its core, Tibetan proverbs tell us the same thing as Galatians:

 

"All happiness comes from cherishing others. All suffering comes from cherishing yourself."

 

Just focus. Point toward the moon. Maintain good form. Don't allow the other stuff to distract you.

 

To understand this stuff I don't need to believe that a Christian apostle named Paul wrote most of the so-called "New Testament" or, even, that Paul wrote the Book of Galatians. I can live in a selfless manner (denying myself laziness, lust, gluttony, etc.) and know that the advice given in Galatians the Torah or the Pali Canon is valid and produces joy, peace, patience, etc. 

 

Who wrote Galatians 5:22-23 or who translated it or what religion owns first rights to "God" becomes irrelevant. Belief is obsolete because when I live the lesson (Point Toward the Moon) I can see/feel/touch the Divine energy. I am at peace. I have self-control. I feel a sense of joy and goodness. Suddenly things intangible are tangible.

 

Father Joe says in the book, "We have this tendency in us to goof off, and we have a tendency in us to do really dumb things — in some of us, that tendency gets really strong. But life is not about suffering. Jesus came along and said, I will give you a way of thinking and a way of acting and a set of ethics, and if you live this way, yes, shit is going to happen, but you will basically be happy. If you live this way, act this way, treat people this way, it will all be OK."

 

But I don't have to be dipped backward into a baptismal or walk lockstep with my religious tribe to tap the Divine. God is not something out there, Father Joe explains. The Divine is in our actions; in the kneeling eye-level comforting of a child, in the rescue of the poor, in our shared laughter and love and collective swells of knowledge.

 

"You can't say (Jesus) died only for fifty or sixty or seventy percent of the population," Father Joe told me. "You can't say He died for this one and not for that one. Like rain and sunshine, (Divine energy) is for everybody, not just some people."

For Catholic, Muslim, Protestant, Buddhist, Jew, . . . agnostic, atheist? 

"Jesus said that anyone who is doing good stuff is on our side. Anyone. He is our example. The way to the Father is through the Son? He's saying to follow His example, follow His ways. Do good stuff."

In effect, live selflessly.

"Yes," he replied. "Point toward the moon."

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* I never saw what Father Joe was inscribing in each book. By the time the lines faded we were discussing other matters. I forgot to go back and check. 

 

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Release date: 2006-11-09
Grin and Barrett

 
Maybe. But He sometimes went off by himself to think things over, pray, get away from his posse of twelve. We all need to go inside ourselves sometimes. ... Thanks for reading and commenting.
 
Posted by Grin and Barrett on 17 Sep 08 Wednesday - 9:00 PM
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chronically feisty ~

 
beautiful and inspiring, greg. thank you so much. "we should remember that the world is wide; that there are a thousand million different human wills, opinions, ambitions, tastes, and loves; that each person has a different history, constitution, culture, character, from all the rest; that human life is the work, the play, the ceaseless action and reaction upon each other of these different atoms. then, we should go forth into life with the smallest expectations, but with the largest patience..." mary baker eddy

and i have gained great inspiration from a small book entitled "learning to fall: the blessings of an imperfect life" by philip simmons. he calls life a mystery to be savored rather than a puzzle to be solved. perhaps that is something that's inherent in father joe's directive to point at the moon.
 
Posted by chronically feisty ~ on 16 Sep 08 Tuesday - 10:14 PM
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Grin and Barrett

 
Wise words from Mary Baker Eddy. By looking at everything from a myopic point of view we tend to swell the importance of self when it's the self, i.e. ego, that we need to diminish. ... I'll look up "Learning to Fall." ... Life as a "mystery to be savored" is similar to something Einstein, who was broadly labeled as agnostic, once said. I personally believe that his universe is still very early in its intellectual/spiritual growth. I'd think war supports my belief.
 
Posted by Grin and Barrett on 17 Sep 08 Wednesday - 9:05 PM
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~Moon Goddess B~
Moon Goddess

 
The Moon huh? LOL....

I actually never really thought about what the moon represented when I chose my avatar and "presence" for MySpace. ~Moon Goddess~ just sounded so Divine to me that I thought it would help me to tap into the divinity I must possess (because we all do) and now reading this, yes I suppose also to "not get distracted".

"Oh, you mean me?" LOL... I LOVE it! My instructor of A Course In Miracles used to say that the only way we can teach others is to walk in the lessons we've learned and leave starprints for others to follow. Your writing always reminds me of that Greg.

So how do I get an autographed copy of your book? **wink**

Blessings and love to you and your family,
~Barbara
 
Posted by ~Moon Goddess B~ on 17 Sep 08 Wednesday - 12:47 AM
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Grin and Barrett

 
The first time I saw your avatar and profile name I thought of the inscription. No lie. I started to describe/explain the inscription to you then but, as usual, was distracted. Probably by the elbow or the dirt beneath my fingernail. ... You need to hook me up with the Course in Miracle crowd here on MySpace. ... Ref. signing your book. I'd be glad to sign any books sent my way and mail back to you. ... Haven't read your blog in a while. Sorry for that. Promise to read it soon.
 
Posted by Grin and Barrett on 17 Sep 08 Wednesday - 9:07 PM
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~Moon Goddess B~
Moon Goddess

 
How funny because I actually hadn't thought about the Course much until I saw it on one of your blogs :) Of course it's always on mind in regard to my perceptions, but I hadn't actually taken the book off the shelf in quite some time. Since I've been on MySpace I've actually been blown away by the Christianity battles here! I don't think I ever realized before how entwined with politics religion was. But I've been so focused on taking care of my own children for the past 20+ years that I didn't pay too much attention to others' nonsense unless it was square in my face....

My own teacher, Karen, is the only one who I've ever found who really taught the Course in such a way that it came across as with the pure intention of love, and without agenda. In fact, so much of what you write about Father Joe and the videos on your page... You both know so much more about what the Course is about than many who teach it. The basic premise is simply that we already know all of it, but we've unlearned it. All we need to do is unlearn what we've learned, and it's all there. Sounds simple, but we don't recognize what we've learned.

If you ever really want to experience the Course, Karen now has a retreat house in Arizona called, Course Community House of Sedona. I've never been there because she taught here locally before moving. For a journalist interested in the Course, especially one who's spent time with Father Joe, I would imagine the trip would be well worth it....

I haven't been writing much on this profile because I've been focused on my Sanity is Sacred blogs. I actually incorporated some of the Course teachings in my blogs about the Amen Clinic because the metaphysics was a huge part of my overall recovery. It all ties in together, and that Dr. Amen incorporates an understanding of metaphysics in his medical approach to healing the brain, is all the more amazing to me.

I haven't really found a Course in Miracles "crowd" per se here on MySpace. Just those who I recognize "get it", whether they know it or not :) And you happen to be one who really does "get it" :)

Namaste...
~B.
 
Posted by ~Moon Goddess B~ on 18 Sep 08 Thursday - 2:51 AM
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Grin and Barrett

 
Thank you Barbara. I will look up the Course Community House. Also, your Sanity blog. I could use some many days. Sanity, that is. ... :-)
 
Posted by Grin and Barrett on 18 Sep 08 Thursday - 5:17 PM
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Deonne (Dee Dee)

 
Oh, and what a moon it was last night. Huge, orange, just something that captivated my senses for about an hour.

I like this analogy. Being one who has a firm belief that all of us are the God we worship, I like it. What a peaceful man you came to know in Father Joe. I just bet he had smile lines around his eyes......
 
Posted by Deonne (Dee Dee) on 17 Sep 08 Wednesday - 1:34 AM
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Grin and Barrett

 
Smile lines? Yes. But the rigors and trials of walking kids to their death, as he has for three decades, can smudge the lines. There is a yin/yang quality to Father Joe that I detail clearly in the book's narrative. As tender and gentle as he is with the children, he can be difficult with adults. As I write in the book following one of many expletive-filled scenes, this one on the day he is testifying at a post-tsunami summit held in the Ronald Reagan building in Washington, D.C.:

"... Foul moods and foul language dog him, but they’re usually loosed only on narrow minds
and dubious authority, doubly so on narrow-minded authorities. So surely I could forgive his irritability in a building named for the poster child of trickle-down economics."
 
Posted by Grin and Barrett on 17 Sep 08 Wednesday - 9:14 PM
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Art of Gilead

 
One of my all time favorite classes was "Comparative Religions". The most important (to me) thing that I took from that class was the remarkable 'sameness' of them all. Once you get past the details (i.e. Point towards the moon) it all boiled down to some basics.

Mind you we covered mainstream western, eastern and aboriginal and alot in between.

Wonderful point and a new way to look at it. Thank you!
 
Posted by Art of Gilead on 17 Sep 08 Wednesday - 2:15 AM
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Grin and Barrett

 
Thanks for the comment Spud. You are absolutely right ref. the sameness of the philosophies/religions. But I guess there is comfort in a religion believing that what it believes is the only belief, sort of like it gives a right to God's ownership. ... The important stuff is often overlooked (Bible addresses/mentions poverty some 2,100 times) because it might generate more introspection than we are comfortable with -- so we keep drawing attention to the dirt under the fingernail (gay marriage, etc.). Easier that way. ... Just my opinion.
 
Posted by Grin and Barrett on 17 Sep 08 Wednesday - 9:18 PM
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Art of Gilead

 
I agree very much - introspection and internal change require effort and courage... sadly lacking in many.
 
Posted by Art of Gilead on 18 Sep 08 Thursday - 2:17 AM
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Nancy

 
Thank you for sharing this beautifully written, inspirational blog! Point toward the Moon is a good mantra, and one I will remember.

Much Peace and Love,
Nancy
 
Posted by Nancy on 17 Sep 08 Wednesday - 3:40 AM
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Grin and Barrett

 
Thank you Nancy.
 
Posted by Grin and Barrett on 17 Sep 08 Wednesday - 9:19 PM
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Rustyroo - a conservative in exile

 
Beatuful and so true! Thank you.
 
Posted by Rustyroo - a conservative in exile on 17 Sep 08 Wednesday - 4:17 AM
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Grin and Barrett

 
Thanks for taking the time to read and comment.
 
Posted by Grin and Barrett on 17 Sep 08 Wednesday - 9:20 PM
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Donna
Donna Martin

 
The moon dose belong to all of us...not 60-70%....reminded me of an old song I remember singing as a child and have sung to my grandkids..." I see the moon - the moon sees me, under the leaves of the old oak tree.....please let the sun that shined on me - shine on the one I love....

The decision to love is never an easy one...because one has to become exactly what you are talking about...selfless....in order to know the love for and of another human being....

excellent post and good reminder for those of us who take the time to look at the moon...!
 
Posted by Donna on 17 Sep 08 Wednesday - 5:16 AM
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Grin and Barrett

 
Thanks Donna. Not always easy to love, yet when we give away things of the spirit, i.e. knowledge, love, empathy, etc., nothing is depleted. We are benefactor and beneficiary. Love feeds off of love in a way that is exponential and regenerative. When it's true love expressed, as you say, selflessly. ... Good insights. Thanks.
 
Posted by Grin and Barrett on 17 Sep 08 Wednesday - 9:22 PM
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Skyway

 
... :)
 
Posted by Skyway on 17 Sep 08 Wednesday - 12:27 PM
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Grin and Barrett

 
Thanks. :-)
 
Posted by Grin and Barrett on 17 Sep 08 Wednesday - 9:23 PM
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Raine

 
Especially interesting blog this morning. (or whenever it was written..to me, here with my moment and coffee, it's this morning *grin*) I have a poet friend who just put out his first book of poetry. It's title is "Pointing at the Moon". It's a book focused on Vietnam and his experiences there and while I found the one poem that focuses on that line very moving, it means even more now that I follow its understanding. Your paragraph up there about "goofing off" connected with me. Makes one readjust oneself, reallign with the day. "Here's my focus, here's my goal..what will happen will happen and I can lay my head and sleep tonight if I keep my heart clean" You write well. You think about doing this for a living *grin*
 
Posted by Raine on 17 Sep 08 Wednesday - 1:23 PM
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Grin and Barrett

 
Yeah, the goofing off part struck a note with me also. ... Quick story, stop me if I've told it. I fact-checked the book in Vancouver, B.C., last November when Fr. Joe was there to visit a Mercy student attending school on Victoria Island. One day we were going over these matters of goofing off, forgetting, not staying focused, etc., and I said to Fr. Joe, "Every day I forget (to stay focused) and I mess up. Every day! Even me. Here I am writing this book, being reminded of this stuff constantly and talking to you all the time, and every effing day I screw it up!"

I felt like I was confessing to him and I expected some sort of forgiveness and sage advice. Instead, he sat up in his chair, slapped his hand on his leg and shouted, "Me too! Every day! ... Why is this stuff so hard!?"
 
Posted by Grin and Barrett on 17 Sep 08 Wednesday - 9:29 PM
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CREATIVE by DESIGN
DeAnna Michelle

 
Very impressed with the photo by your 8year old son. He has a creative eye and a curious mind, both are virtuous qualities that should be nurtured to maturity. Thank you for sharing [:
 
Posted by CREATIVE by DESIGN on 20 Sep 08 Saturday - 2:30 PM
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Grin and Barrett

 
Thank you for that. I just called my curious-minded 8-year-old into the office to read your critique of his work. He smiled broadly and said, "Cool." ... A man of few words. I agree that these are qualities that should be mindfully nurtured to their maturity. I try. Thank God I have a village of help. ... Thanks again.
 
Posted by Grin and Barrett on 21 Sep 08 Sunday - 12:47 AM
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Angie

 
A book you might consider reading is called "The Greatest Man That Ever Lived." I believe you would truly enjoy it.
 
Posted by Angie on 22 Sep 08 Monday - 6:11 PM
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