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City: SAINT LOUIS
State: Missouri
Country: US
Signup Date: 9/28/2006
Sunday, March 04, 2007 


Seattle's Fish Market seems like an unlikely place to look for inspiration, but it houses the World-Famous Pike Place Fish Market (the home of the flying fish and crazily-enthusiastic fishmongers).  The Pike Place Fish Market didn't start out being "World-Famous" though.  In fact, their story starts pretty miserably - employees didn't want to be there, and few customers did either.  One day, Johnny, the owner (who was hard to work for and lost his temper easily), looked in the mirror (metaphorically speaking) and realized that he needed to change.  He decided to ask his employees "What do you want our workplace to be?  What do we want it to be?"  The fishmongers were amazed - no one had ever invited them to create the workplace they wanted.  All of them, Johnny included, decided to commit to being "world-famous."  Each fishmonger was free to live this vision in their own way.  They agreed to coach each other and help each other stay focused on their commitment.  The fishmongers soon learned that they acted differently when they were being "world-famous."  There was no textbook or manual.  They just knew the right thing to do at the right time.  Things started to change...

The Fish! philosophy consists of 4 simple principles:
1) Play (Determine to energize your work and your life).
2) Make Their Day (Engage others and make them a part of the fun.  Give each customer the experience of having been served and appreciated whether they buy fish or not).
3) Be There (Conciously focus on being present in the moment for yourself and customers).
4) Choose Your Attitude (Make a decision to choose to be positive and upbeat.  Know that it's possible for each human-being to impact the way other people experience life).

Fish! is now a best selling book series and corporate training video.  One of the most profound (yet simple) statements in the video comes when one of the fishmongers says, "It's about who you're being when you're doing what you're doing." 

As our group changes (and has experienced some frustration of our own), we are faced with the exciting opportunity to decide who we're going to be.  Are we going to promote a list of spiritual "do's" and "don'ts" - pushing our own agenda - and come across as fake (and kind of scary)?  Or, as servants of an all-powerful God who offers us unconditional love and freedom from all the fears and past regrets that life throws at us, are we going to:

- Keep things fresh and interject Play (and humor/fun) into our group that reflects a creative and exciting God?

- Focus on service and Making Their Day as opposed to being uninvolved or judgmental?

Be There for people and put relationships over "religion"?  Be There in our relationship with God and not let unimportant distractions turn our focus from what's most important?

- Choose Our Attitude.  Will our attitude and actions contribute to building up the overall purpose or tearing it down?  When faced with frustrations will we let them eat away at us until they have robbed us of all peace and joy, or will we rise above them and find a way to make the best of a bad situation (maybe even turn things around)?

How will our story read?...

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Joyce

 

Speaking of "Play" - is anyone going to game night Friday?
Unfortunately I can't - but hopefully there will be another one soon (or we'll just have to have one of our own!)


 
Posted by Joyce on Wednesday, March 07, 2007 - 1:59 AM
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Sharon
Sharon Leath

 

Hi guys

Stay tuned, another game night is coming!  It's not just for families or "old" people.  I took the kids for a while.  They were the only young ones there; although there were a few teenagers including Sheri's boys.  

Sharon

 


 
Posted by Sharon on Tuesday, March 20, 2007 - 1:22 AM
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Joyce

 
Sweet - I have an "Uno" score to settle with three certain people....
 
Posted by Joyce on Tuesday, March 20, 2007 - 2:28 AM
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Tavis

 

"Think about the statement “We’re just real people, we’re not fake” Do people often see Christians or “church-people” in that way? Why and or why not? If not, what can we do to change that?"..:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" />

Does anyone have any thoughts on the question above?  I keep rereading it trying to understand it.  I guess I'm having a hard time understanding the question.

The question before it makes sense.  Doing the same thing over and over, while it might be hard at first, gets easier.  After a while of doing it over and over, it gets old.  I like moving on to newer ideas, thoughts, and challenges.  Getting into a rut is easy.  Getting out of a rut can be difficult. 

It makes me think about the one time I agreed to teach Sunday school.  I was sluggish in agreeing to teach, hoping someone else would, but once I did it, I got a lot out of it.  (Also being my first time, everyone there gave me a lot of support which was a big help in making it through)  It helped me in leading smaller discussion groups in later weeks.  Breaking out of the routine gave me insight into teaching, even if it was difficult at first.

If you have any ideas about the question I’m confused on or what I talked about below it, feel free to say so.


 
Posted by Tavis on Thursday, March 08, 2007 - 4:14 AM
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Joyce

 

Tavis - I think you don't understand the question because you don't have a fake bone in your body...

I love that you brought up this question because it's totally what we're going to be talking about this Sunday - How cool is THAT!!!! 

I think that sometimes Christians are too preoccupied with trying to act "spiritual" and get other people to become "religious" that the whole point of Christianity (God's grace and love for us) gets lost in translation.  And I'm so frustrated because most of my friends aren't Christians and their total view of Christianity/God/Jesus is the fake thing - something that's more oppressive than freeing.  And I'm frustrated that I can't even have a conversation about it without feeling the need to appear "spiritual" myself.  So since I don't want to sound all preachy and weird I avoid any topics relating to God entirely.

I love that we've started doing things outside church that are just fun - because it gives us chance to just be real and build friendships with people.  And I would totally feel comfortable inviting someone to go to a music thing at the park or to go to the boathouse or to go learn how to knit.  And then if we're focusing on having a real relationship with God and people get to know us - hopefully that will show and it will just naturally flow into a natural conversation somewhere or come across somehow.

It's kind of different (because I'm not trying to say it's about getting people to go to our church) - but kind of a similar example:  With my Saturday bible study, most of the people go to Concord.  And they never did anything to try and get me to come to Concord.  But when they were talking, sometimes someone would just bring up something funny that happened at church, or how they were talking about this or that before church started and I just found myself wanting to go there to be around them.  So that Helen could crack up and poke me when there was an ironic point in the service. Or so that I could get a hug from Cheryl every Sunday morning when I walk in the door.  Or so that Tammy could ask me every Sunday how my job was going.  Being around them on Saturdays, I just liked them and wanted to hang out with them on Sundays too so I wasn't missing the fun they were having.

(And I'm frustrated because this whole post is not coming out how I wanted to say it but I have to go meet someone for lunch and I'm already late... Angie - work your magic and fix what I'm trying to say!)


 
Posted by Joyce on Saturday, March 10, 2007 - 3:48 PM
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