Hey gang-
I don't mean to pick on E.L. Wisty, really I don't...but he (or she) once again brought something up worth discussing. And, in general, if a column comes out that uses the phrase "Comedians are fucked up people", no one should be too surprised when a comedian has two cents to weigh in.
Here's the quote, said by a friend of E.L. Wisty and relayed to us:
A good friend of mine was asked by e-mail why "so many comedians commit suicide." While disavowing that so many do, he did allow that comedians are a little unbalanced. Why? "Because," he replied, "comedians are fucked up people. Think about it: their entire personalities are geared towards seeking approval, love, acceptance, and they seek it so desperately that they literally do what most people would rather die than do: go talk to a roomful of people they've never met with the aim of making them laugh. And to do so they take some of the most sensitive, painful parts of themselves and their experiences and turn them into punch lines."
So much to comment on! Lets do it!
I'm not sure where the whole modern idea of comedians being depressed, sour people are. I'd be willing to bet it started with the Tom Hanks flick "Punchline". This flick clearly gave a fairly realistic view of how stand-up comedy works (sarcasm font). After Punchline came out, the bad sterotype was to have a comedian portrayed as a grouchy, cynical, depressed asshole. No one ever seemed to assume Bob Hope had dark secrets back in the forties, so I do think this sterotype is a modern invention.
I want to talk specifically about why I think comedians do what they do in a moment, but first on the subject of suicides and drug addictions- I think a lot of this has less to do with comedians specifically, and more to do with various problems that arise with fame and money. I'd imagine that a famous person has a hard time keeping good friendships, because there's always the suspision of an ulterior motive. If you don't have close friendships, have a high pressure job, and a lot of money to kick around, you're going to get into drugs and be depressed. I watched a documentary a while back about how lottery winners have similar problems.
But I mostly want to talk about why comedians become comedians. Do stand-up comedians have a strange, primal need to make people laugh. Well, yes, but everyone does. EVERYONE thinks that they're funny. That's why you have guys in the office making jokes about who has a case of the mondays. There's not a single person you will ever talk to that will say "I don't think I'm very funny". That's why anytime a hot model is interviewed and asks what turns her on, she says "A sense of humor". Every single person reading that thinks "Hell, I've got a sense of humor, I've got a chance!". That's why we have hecklers, class clowns, jokes at the begining of meetings in the office, banter between newspeople. I guarantee everyone you ask will think that they're funny.
So, everyone has the potential to want to be a comedian. So, what's the next step? Is it sadness? Teased in school too much, or need more attention then you get? Maybe now and then, but that's not my theory. There's one common link that brings together almost every single comedian I've ever met, one thing that brings us all into the buisness.
I just watched Chris Rock on Inside the Actors Studio. You could not possibly have a more diffrent upbringing between me and Chris Rock, but we both got into stand-up for the same reason.
Somewhere along the line, we saw a comedian on tv that inspired us. Going through life, watching comedy on tv, that one special comic showed up. We saw them and thought "Man, I can do this".
For Chris Rock it was Eddie Murphy, Murphy brings it back to Pryor. I'm convinced a bigger Pryor fan could e-mail me and give me an influence that got Pryor into it.
I got into it by watching Letterman. Letterman was inspired by Carson. Carson was inspired by someone too, I'm sure.
My wife has Margarat Cho and Janeane Garofolo. I think I recall Ryan Connor telling me once that Mitch Hedburg inspired him. I'm convinced that if we e-mailed everyone listed on dcstandup and asked "What got you into comedy", they wouldn't say "depression", they would give us a name.
What was yours?
Thanks for the support gang!
-Jimmy