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Gender: Female
Status: Married
Age: 45
Sign: Cancer

Country: NL
Signup Date: 1/22/2007

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Thursday, June 28, 2007 

Current mood:  hopeful
Category: Life

As a member of Myspace, everyone receives bulletins with the latest news of what's happening in our worlds.  They educate, enlighten, make us think, laugh and cry.  The other day I got a bulletin that touched my heart like no other.  It has moved me to write this blog and I hope it will move you into a state of hope and helpfulness.

The subject was – Please pray for Kaleb.
I thought, oh no here we go again – someone was in an accident and needs to be prayed for.  Since I do believe in positive thinking, I opened the bulletin and this is what I read:
Kristy Reynolds and her husband are parents to a beautiful little baby boy named Kaleb. He is 6 months and 3 days old. A couple weeks ago Kristy picked Kaleb up from home care and noticed something was wrong. She immediately took him to the hospital where he was diagnosed with Shaken Baby Syndrome. He now has meningitis in response to the surgeries on his brain, his body can't regulate his temperature, his heart rate drops every time he is moved, and he has seizures. He is also blind. His sitter shook him so hard that he is in a coma, had to have spinal fluid drained from his brain, and doctors think that if he lives he will be a vegetable for the rest of his life. Brain scans show that his brain tissue is dying and his brain is shrinking. Kristy and her husband refuse this diagnosis and pray for their little boy. I'm asking you to join them in this prayer for Kaleb.

I then went to their Myspace site – www.myspace.com/kristyreynolds and was never so touched!  There was this 21 year old mother in her first year of marriage, going through hell!!  I think this has touched me so deeply because I as a disabled mother, I know both sides of this story all too well.  I know what living with a disability is like.  Kaleb is now blind because someone could not control them self!  I know what it's like to carry a child for nine months hoping the child will be healthy.  I now hope my child will stay healthy the rest of his life.

I can not begin to imagine what I would feel if one day my child looked like this:


And then a few hours later like this:

If this has moved you to a state of hope and helpfulness as it has me, there are some things you can do:


If you believe in the power of prayer – pray!
If you believe in the power of positive thinking – keep this family in your thoughts!
If you have Kristy as a friend put her site in your top ten to make others aware.
If you know how – place the below banner on your page to spread the word.
If you've ever had lawyer's fees, medical expenses, and other related expenses, you know they need financial support.


If you can afford to give something - Please donate to the Help Kaleb Fund.

Make checks payable to Kristy Schwade,
PO Box 291494

TAMPA, FL 33687-1494

The Help Kaleb Fund is with the Bank of America
Routing : 540590106
Account : 229000485134
Donations to your local Shaken Baby Organization in Kaleb's name is encouraged by the family. Education is the key to stopping this tragedy for other families.

You can also donate by credit card via PayPal to helpkaleb@hotmail.com (Go to http://www.paypal.com, send money, type helpkaleb@hotmail.com in the section "to".

This story is as real as a story can be!  Here are some links that verify their story:

http://www.snopes.com/inboxer/medical/kalebschwade.asp
http://www.baynews9.com/content/36/2007/5/15/249688.html

http://www.tboblogs.com/index.php/newswire/story/day-care-worker-arrested

http://forums.swedespeed.com/zerothread?cmd=print&id=79921

http://www.myspace.com/helpkaleb


If you have ever wondered what you could do to make a difference in someone's life – think about this story.  How you help is up to you – every little bit helps!

If you would like to display this banner - send me a message for the code.
For those of you who have set your mail to "can only receive mail if friend" ADD ME!  Just click on the girl's hat - I will add ya and set ya up with kaleb's code.

June 9th - the second day of this blog and the one month anniversary of Kaleb's shaking.  Here's what Kristy says on the subject:
"Today is June 9th and it has now been one whole month since my precious Kaleb was able to smile, laugh, cry, eat, see, and jump in his jumperoo (that was his favorite) One whole month since my entire world was turned upside down and inside out. What I wouldn't give to have those BORING saturdays back... It is amazing how much you take for granted when every thing is just simply "normal", like we want things to be chaotic... Our world has taught us all that simplicity is NOT acceptable...at least that is what it taught me before this all happened. Simple...how simple things were before this. Weak...how weak I was before all of this. My Kaleb has taught me the definition of strength. He has made me stronger then I ever thought that I could be.  Kaleb is doing good today. He is moving and opening his eyes a little bit. He is on his second day of the new antibiotic, we won't find out if this is effective until the end of the treatment. Hopefully it will be. I am at the hospital right now sitting in Kaleb's Room listening to Pink Floyd's, Wish you were here. I am looking around at the walls at all of the letters and cards that we have received. I am bound and determined to hang everyone of them up. I want all the nurses and Doctors to know how much Kaleb is LOVED!!!"

June 11 - WE HAVE MOVEMENT FOLKS!!!

A video bulletin was just posted by Kristy showing Kaleb rasing his arm!
I think he wants one of the "kaleb Bracelets" that are being sold here:
http://www.myspace.com/kalebbracelets

There are other site selling things to support Kaleb:

Blue Ribbon Car Magnets

http://www.myspace.com/blueribbons


Official Online T-Shirt Store
http://www.myspace.com/kaleb_t_shirts
OR http://www.cafepress.com/kaleb_t_shirts 

Keychains
http://www.myspace.com/pray4kaleb


Kaleb Kalendars 
http://www.myspace.com/welovekaleb


Quilt for Kaleb
http://www.myspace.com/quiltforkaleb

July 16 - Kaleb is released from hospital.

July 22 -  Kaleb runs a fever and is readmitted for tests.

July 25 - Kaleb is released from the hospital but is still having seizures.

CLICK THE BELOW BANNER TO HELP FOR FREE!

PLEASE LEAVE A BLOG COMMENT AS WELL.


More News - Kaleb featured on fox:
http://www.myfoxtampabay.com/myfox/pages/Home/Detail?contentId=3461335&version=1&locale=EN-US&layoutCode=VSTY&pageId=1.1.1
I want his autograph as soon as he learns to write!!!

I believe people need to know what SBS is:

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Wendy
Wendy Andersen

 
Wow you did a great job with this, the story, the pictures. The banner is so beautiful! Chris you touch my heart!
I just left Kristy a comment on her page even though she will be at the hospital all day. Kaleb is going in for surgery today, so this is perfect.
Love you,
Wendy
 
Posted by Wendy on Friday, June 08, 2007 - 2:15 PM
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ƸӜƷ Pumpkin ƸӜƷ
Hayley Graham

 
i read this blog all the time and cry. i been keeping up wit this story since it happened and it kills me. its amazin what u did i love the pictures!! u have a great way with words!! when im sad about my life i always read about kristy and josh and kalebs story and i think im so lucky to have my life!!! thanks!!!
 
Posted by ƸӜƷ Pumpkin ƸӜƷ on Monday, August 13, 2007 - 9:21 PM
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The Official MySpace Page of Author DaPharoah69

 
I had to come back and reread this beautiful blog. Rarely do blogs touch me, cause I had a rough life myself, but my heart goes out to this beautiful baby and when I say my prayers tonight I will make sure I pray for baby KALEB!!! Tears are in my eyes.


Love
The King og Erotica.
My Birthday Blog: my story inside.
 
Posted by The Official MySpace Page of Author DaPharoah69 on Thursday, June 28, 2007 - 9:57 PM
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Sweetness_Talking
Sandy Neyman

 
Praise God for people like you! The world always seems to be a better place when the Angel's for God are putting out the information that is needed to fight the evils of this world. Thank you and bless you for you and your talent and the fact that you use that talent to better our world. Sandy
 
Posted by Sweetness_Talking on Sunday, June 17, 2007 - 10:17 PM
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michelle

 
this is great thanks for all you are doing we are continuing to pray for kaleb
 
Posted by michelle on Friday, June 15, 2007 - 2:59 AM
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Charity Angel

 
I am so glad that the surgery went so well.. check out the videos on Kristy's page!!
 
Posted by Charity Angel on Monday, June 11, 2007 - 8:52 PM
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TheRegulars

 
Thanks for posting this in your blog.
I'm nervous enough to think that one day I might have to take my future kids to a daycare center for any length of time.
But in all seriousness this kind of things pushes my Sicilian button, which is bad news.
I don't think there could be a place left on earth where the baby sitter who did this could hide from the payback I'd have in store for her.
I can't turn the other cheek at that.

E

It was an important post though....maybe you should also put it in a bullitin for people to see who aren't subscribed to your blog.
 
Posted by TheRegulars on Friday, June 08, 2007 - 2:53 PM
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Wendy
Wendy Andersen

 
The Regulars,
I understand your concern and that is why the nanny cam became so popular! I left my children with a sitter when they were young and my youngest had burns on her hands. She was only 3 but she showed my my cripping iron & told me that her hand was put in to it. That was nothing compared to what this lady is going through! So sad!
 
Posted by Wendy on Friday, June 08, 2007 - 8:08 PM
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Brown Bag For A Cure-Brain Tumor Awareness
Kathy Straughn

 
Kaleb and his family has been added to my prayer list. I will share your information with my friends here on my space, as well, as other boards I participate in. Never under estimate the power of prayer and positive thinking. I know many children who are living proof that both work.

This candle will burn for Kaleb and I will be adding it to my site as well.

Photo Sharing and Video Hosting at Photobucket
 
Posted by Brown Bag For A Cure-Brain Tumor Awareness on Friday, June 08, 2007 - 3:04 PM
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Wendy
Wendy Andersen

 
Queen Bee Kathy,
Beautiful of you to add this flame. Very kind & considerate!
Hugs,
Wendy
 
Posted by Wendy on Friday, June 08, 2007 - 8:09 PM
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Mrs. C.

 
that is so sad. don't know how anybody could do something so horrible to someone so little. the family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
great job on the blog, Chris.
 
Posted by Mrs. C. on Friday, June 08, 2007 - 3:59 PM
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this banner is so beautiful and i would like to post it on my page t make others aware of Baby Kaleb's story. I pray for this family everyday and keep them in my thoughts and would like to pass this on. thanks...Andi Strickland
 
Posted by on Friday, June 08, 2007 - 4:49 PM
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Megan

 
Kaleb's story has touched my heart and soul. This blog is awesome...so unselfish...if only we were all unselfish and cared about each other like this everyday, and not just when tragedy struck...God Bless You and God Bless Kaleb!!
 
Posted by Megan on Friday, June 08, 2007 - 5:01 PM
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Nicole

 
May I please have the code for the banner I would like to add it to my profile to spread word- thank you!!
 
Posted by Nicole on Friday, June 08, 2007 - 5:06 PM
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Wendy
Wendy Andersen

 
Chris is a wonderful person with a kind heart and she is filled with compassion and love.
She is a great woman. Add her to your friends list! I highly advise that you do. She is so cool!
 
Posted by Wendy on Friday, June 08, 2007 - 9:57 PM
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Jaimie
Jaimie Pierce

 
I would like the code for the banner so i may add it to my site please
 
Posted by Jaimie on Friday, June 08, 2007 - 5:20 PM
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Melodie

 
I have prayed for baby Kaleb and i know that my God still performs miracles.... and i have prayed to have God do just that for baby Kaleb and i know with all my heart he will ... i also have prayed for Kristy and her husband and all the grandparents and aunts and uncles and friends. all the little cousins. all of the family That God just shower them in peace and hope and not to let them give up. The doctors can only do so much but all things are possible through Christ who strengthens us.
i will continue thanking God for the healing of Kaleb
with all my love
melodie
 
Posted by Melodie on Friday, June 08, 2007 - 7:01 PM
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MaryJane<ivan's mommy>
Mary jane Martinez

 
May I please have the code for the banner so i can post on my page to spread the word. thanks!
maryjane
 
Posted by MaryJane<ivan's mommy> on Friday, June 08, 2007 - 7:53 PM
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Aloha Robert
Aloha Robert

 
I have prayed for baby Kaleb and i know that my God still performs miracles. Thanks for sharing!
 
Posted by Aloha Robert on Friday, June 08, 2007 - 8:10 PM
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MaryJane<ivan's mommy>
Mary jane Martinez

 
sorry, didn't catch that code could you send again please. thanks
 
Posted by MaryJane<ivan's mommy> on Friday, June 08, 2007 - 8:18 PM
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You wrote an amazing blog
I feel for the family so much Kaleb seems like an amazing little man I hope and pray everyday that he gets well again beautiful blog just amazing
 
Posted by on Friday, June 08, 2007 - 8:47 PM
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~♥~Hope~♥~
Hope Smith-Hawn

 
My family and friends are praying for baby Kaleb and his family. I just can not imagine what his parents are going thru at this time. I am a mother of a daughter that is almost 11 years old. I pray that no child will ever go thru this. But there are some sick people in this world and how they could do something this awful is just something we will never understand. God is an awesome God and He will continue to bless Kaleb if its His will. God Bless Kaleb, his family and other child that are hurt or have suffered by someone.
 
Posted by ~♥~Hope~♥~ on Friday, June 08, 2007 - 8:59 PM
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jani&aali.

 
this story is so touching. i just heard of it last night and i can't stop thinking about baby kaleb! the banner is beautiful. I continue to look at Baby Kaleb's page and pray for him and his family.
 
Posted by jani&aali. on Friday, June 08, 2007 - 9:01 PM
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Wendy
Wendy Andersen

 
Corie,
That is beautiful! You have a beautiful and loving heart!
Much love,
Wendy
 
Posted by Wendy on Friday, June 08, 2007 - 9:58 PM
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♥crystal ♥
crystal kennedy

 
Photo Sharing and Video Hosting at Photobucket

i fell so bad for them and i pray that he will be ok!
 
Posted by ♥crystal ♥ on Friday, June 08, 2007 - 9:08 PM
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Wendy
Wendy Andersen

 
Crystal,
How kind of you to post this! So sweet of you!
Hugs,
Wendy
 
Posted by Wendy on Friday, June 08, 2007 - 10:00 PM
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~*MAMI CHULA*~
Amanda Catchot

 
This is just horrible.. I am praying for this family & baby Kaleb.. You did a worderful job on this story.. I am spreading this for others to know & for more prayers and support.. Amanda in Louisiana
 
Posted by ~*MAMI CHULA*~ on Friday, June 08, 2007 - 9:27 PM
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Wendy
Wendy Andersen

 
Amanda,
Please repost this, I am all day today! Chris is doing a wonderful tribute and I want everyone to know!
Thank you,
Wendy
 
Posted by Wendy on Friday, June 08, 2007 - 10:01 PM
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MrsKTurner

 
"Rejoice in our confident hope. Be patient in trouble, and keep on praying." Romans 12:12
 
Posted by MrsKTurner on Friday, June 08, 2007 - 9:27 PM
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im not much of a prayer, really

but im touched, and ill give it a shot :)
 
Posted by on Friday, June 08, 2007 - 9:55 PM
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Disabled Parent
Disabled Parent

 
Thanks Rob I am truly touched!!!!

Whether it's prayer or positive thinking - I believe there is a power in it!
 
Posted by Disabled Parent on Friday, June 08, 2007 - 10:05 PM
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Justice for Taegen McKinney
Taegen McKinney

 
ALLAN, WENDY, AND ALL.........KALEB AND HIS PARENTS ARE IN OUR HEARTS AND PRAYERS.....BABYSITTERS AS YOU KNOW ARE NOT OUR BEST FRIENDS EITHER.....PLEASE KNOW WHO YOU ARE LEAVING YOUR BABIES WITH, AND THAT DOESNT ALWAYS MATTER, JUST PRAY FOR YOUR BABIES, LOVE THEM AND KISS THEM........KEEP KALEB IN YOUR PRAYERS......KEEP FIGHTING LITTLE MAN, WE ARE PUSHING WITH YOU....JAN
 
Posted by Justice for Taegen McKinney on Friday, June 08, 2007 - 10:03 PM
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Disabled Parent
Disabled Parent

 
Thank you my WWMD Friend!!!!!
 
Posted by Disabled Parent on Friday, June 08, 2007 - 10:07 PM
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☆LαCεY&KεViN☆
-KjS- Lacey

 
This Touched My Heart Too!! God Bless!!
 
Posted by ☆LαCεY&KεViN☆ on Friday, June 08, 2007 - 10:16 PM
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Michaela

 
Thank you for sharing.....the power of positive energy is endless. My thoughts go out to Kaleb and his parents.....Michaela
 
Posted by Michaela on Friday, June 08, 2007 - 10:18 PM
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Women Against Sexual Predators

 
I really can't understand how people can so easily destroy something that we should protect with every inch of our lives.

Another myspace profile to visit to see the sad story of Michael
http://www.myspace.com/protectourkids


or Alex's struggle
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=123611373


and so many more................
 
Posted by Women Against Sexual Predators on Friday, June 08, 2007 - 10:23 PM
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~Kandy~

 
I have been posting this story since it first came out trying to raise awareness of child abuse and get people to pray for this precious angel. No child should ever have to feel this kind of pain and no parents should ever have to be faced with something like this. Good job on helping to get the word around. Kaleb and his family need all the prayers and support they can get.
 
Posted by ~Kandy~ on Friday, June 08, 2007 - 10:42 PM
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ALLisON

 
FIRST, YOU ARE AN AMAZING PERSON. Your hard work WILL inform more and more people. i am doing the same, posting bulletins an telling everyone i know about this story. the more people that find out, the more prayers will be answered, by our Lord. God bless the good people of the world. If i could meet you or see you, i would say THANK YOU, for caring for Kaleb. It is awesome how us, as strangers, are pulling for Kaleb to make a COMPLETE turnaround. I found out about the story last night, then i couldn't sleep thinking about him. I would just go stand by my son's crib, and think Kaleb was only two months older, and in a blink of an eye, his life was CHANGED..........but, hopefully not FOREVER. As a mom, i can't even imagine what kristy and her family is going through. I am doing my part to inform as many people as i know, and will KEEP PRAYING.
 
Posted by ALLisON on Friday, June 08, 2007 - 10:45 PM
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princess~christina

 
hi,my name is schristina i live in saginaw,michigan!i hope kaleb will pull through this surgry
and im glad he is opening his eyes more and more.i still pray for him everday and let ged help him heal.we all know the angles are their watching over him so god bless and take care.
frome:ChristinaCastle
 
Posted by princess~christina on Friday, June 15, 2007 - 10:27 PM
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<>< Amanda ><>

 
The support and prayers that Kaleb and his family is getting from all over the nation and the world is phenominal. This family has been through so much and I Praise God that so many have show support and kindness to his family. Kaleb is in my thoughts and my prayers and I have also been telling my mother and father to add this family to our church prayer list. Keep fighting little one and God will take care of you. It is my Christian duty to do what I can and I will make sure that all of my friend and those dear to me will know this story.
 
Posted by <>< Amanda ><> on Friday, June 15, 2007 - 3:48 AM
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AuNT GaTOr

 
My reaction was the same as yours. My son is a month older than Kaleb to the date and I went to his crib, picked him up and cried thinking to myself.... how could someone hurt something so innocent as a baby? Let us all keep praying for this little innocent child that he will make that COMPLETE turnaround and that he will be running around with our little ones someday! KEEP SPREADING THE WORD!!!!
 
Posted by AuNT GaTOr on Wednesday, June 13, 2007 - 4:02 AM
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Disabled Parent
Disabled Parent

 
You don't need to thank me! Just give your precious baby a kiss!
 
Posted by Disabled Parent on Friday, June 08, 2007 - 10:53 PM
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Kay

 
Kaleb you are in our thoughts and prayers. You are very strong little man! We love you!
 
Posted by Kay on Wednesday, June 13, 2007 - 2:21 PM
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Amber
Amber Larreau

 
Sweet baby boy-you are in my thoughts and prayers and in everyone's I know. I have told your story to everyone I can. You brave, sweet, little man. Got bless you and your family.
 
Posted by Amber on Friday, June 08, 2007 - 11:17 PM
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Candace Gibson

 
I have prayed for you and your fmily little one, and I have passed your story along for everyone I know to do the same! God is with you!
 
Posted by ๑๑๑๑ Candace Nicole ๑๑๑๑ on Tuesday, June 12, 2007 - 5:31 AM
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Candace Gibson

 
I have prayed for you and your fmily little one, and I have passed your story along for everyone I know to do the same! God is with you!
 
Posted by ๑๑๑๑ Candace Nicole ๑๑๑๑ on Tuesday, June 12, 2007 - 5:30 AM
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♥CARROT CAKE COLIE LOVES HER MOM♥
Carrot Cake Colie

 
WOW I HOPE KALEB IS OKAY! I WILL BE PRAYING FOR HIM ALL THE TIME TO GET BETTER!
LOVE YOUR FRIEND,
NICKY SOWADA
 
Posted by ♥CARROT CAKE COLIE LOVES HER MOM♥ on Friday, June 08, 2007 - 11:22 PM
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"TJ" (LOVES ALL OF HER BABIES)

 
U have done a VERY good job on this blog----its people like us that pray so hard and get the wod around that help people like little Kaleb and even urself! Thanks for sharing with me hon!
 
Posted by "TJ" (LOVES ALL OF HER BABIES) on Friday, June 08, 2007 - 11:33 PM
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Jessie & Leif

 
Praying for kaleb. The lord is the great physican. God is performing miracles on him now.
 
Posted by Jessie & Leif on Sunday, June 10, 2007 - 3:45 AM
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Jessie & Leif

 
Praying for kaleb. The lord is the great physican. God is performing miracles on him now.
 
Posted by Jessie & Leif on Sunday, June 10, 2007 - 3:44 AM
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