I have never heard of a woman leaving her man for her vibrator. In fact, on sick days, I have even seen Divorce Court, and I have never heard "My wife loves her vibrator more than she loves my penis" excuse for divorce.
So, why do women hide their vibrators from their men? I have heard that some men who stumble accross their wife's or girlfriend's vibrators feel insecure, and often ask, "Why do you need that? Aren't I enough?"
I think it's time that women introduce thier men to their vibrators because vibrators don't only have to be used behind closed doors, when husbands and boyfriends are out of the house... Or in the garage... Or mowing the lawn... You get it. In fact, if your idea of an exciting change is doing it on the edge of the mattress as opposed to flat in the center of the mattress, then I would say your lovelife could use a little spicing up.
Many women can not orgasm without some or a lot of clitoral stimulation, and often this can be difficult to achieve during lovemaking. A vibrator used during this lovemaking session can absolutely help. Is a vibrator, more stimulating than a penis? Umm, yes! For instance - IT VIBRATES. Some also have attachments particularly for clitoral stimulation, and some even have rotating head and shafts. Exciting stuff. Helpful stuff.
Why not show your man how to use it to pleasure you, and then maybe he can show you a new way to pleasure him. No more wild nights on the edge of the mattress.
For first-time vibrator buyers, I would recommend something simple, without a lot of bells and whistles. You can get to those later. Fantasia sells many options, but I will suggest, The Purple Pleasure Pal or the Crystal Kit. The Pleasure Pal is a simple, jelly vibe that is waterpoof. The Crystal Kit is a simple 6" straight vibe that comes with two hard sleeves that are shaped for g-spot stimulation. I don't think you can go wrong with either of these.
Perhaps one day you can host a Fantasia Home party at your home, and with your hostess credits you can purchase either of these.