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Sexe : Female
Statut : Marié(e)
Age : 36
Zodiaque: Taureau

Ville : Hollywood
Région : California
Pays: US
Date d’inscription :: 17/02/2007
mardi, septembre 18, 2007 
We just returned this weekend from NYC. It was the infamous Fashion Week and the whole family flew back east to check it out. Liam was an old pro as usual on the plane and Patsy encountered her first fan. We stayed downtown in the now chic Meatpacking District. Our hotel The Gansevoort had an amazing rooftop bar with views of the entire city.Yet, among that skyline of beauty, the reminder of where two mirrored towers once stood. As dynamic as the week was it was bittersweet as the city seemed somber as 9/11 came and went and for one day everyone everywhere connected, mourned, and found strength as ONE. Sadly, it seems to sometimes take a loss of catastrophic proportions to bring people together. On this one day in particular in NYC no one seemed in a hurry for once, and every face you looked into you recieved a knowing smile of genuine acceptance and vulnerability. Although the tragedy of 9/11 has passed and people try as they may to rebuild their lives and move on past their loss its nice to know that we as a country band together knowing we will never FORGET. I took Liams little hands in mine and told him that we will say a silent prayer for the men and women who lost their lives in 9/11 and for their families and loved ones they left behind. He looked at me with his big beautiful old soul blue eyes and I knew one day I sadly yet proudly would tell him the story of 9/11. Tell him about the loss yet the courage. The anger yet the kindness. How enemies stayed enemies and strangers became family.About death, and rebirth...and life lived, life given,and life taken. One day my son will learn that life can be cruel yet life goes on. This is what I witnessed last week. I started tonight wanting to blog about how fabulous The Bestsy Johnson fashion show was (and it was! Betsey herself is beyond dynamic), how amazing drinks on the rooftop with fashion guru Tim Gunn were ( he's got charm, wit, and style oozing from every pore--(adore!)), how I ate dinner next to Mary Kate Olsen at the hotspot of the moment The Waverly Inn... but alas I couldnt. I'm a mommy now. I know what its like to give life and after my dads death last year I also know what its like to have it taken away. But the only thing I can think that could possibly help is knowing that life is given and life is taken but that LOVE is eternal and always remains. Love is what we carry with us. Its a message I will always teach my son.
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Jaime

 
How Beautiful !
 
Publié par Jaime le mardi, septembre 18, 2007 - 6:52
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Stefan and Brittney Watkins-Krukowski!! Nov 7th09~
Becca K

 
my heart goes out to all the ones that were there and died !!!!!! they are heros in my book!!!
 
Publié par Stefan and Brittney Watkins-Krukowski!! Nov 7th09~ le mardi, septembre 18, 2007 - 7:17
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Kez

 
Oh, that is so beautiful <3

I have a favourite saying that is worth quoting and passing on, "The question is not whether we will die, but how we will live." Perhaps one day you will tell it on to Liam, I find it quite inspirational.
 
Publié par Kez le mardi, septembre 18, 2007 - 7:31
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Katie

 
awww that is so beautiful
 
Publié par Katie le mardi, septembre 18, 2007 - 7:37
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Ashley
Ashley Wilson

 
Wow that is so beautiful and heartfelt. I hope that none of us have to go through such an event of that magnitude ever again.
 
Publié par Ashley le mardi, septembre 18, 2007 - 11:13
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Kristina

 
Very well put, Tori...love ya!
 
Publié par Kristina le mardi, septembre 18, 2007 - 12:10
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Shannon Anicas
Shannon Anicas

 
What a beautiful post. Isn't amazing how our lives shift when we have a child. Enjoy every moment!
 
Publié par Shannon Anicas le mardi, septembre 18, 2007 - 12:10
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*~*MEL*~*aka Melinda (aka Dr. MEL)*~*

 
I can see how much you have grown as a woman since you became a mother!! Amazing isn't it? And to think as we hit our teens we treat our parents so differently than we do as babies!! Life is quite a roller coaster and while the ups and downs are exciting..........it is the steady ride that sometimes needs to be remembered!!

You are turning into a great mom!!! My life changed when I gave birth..........and I don't regret a minute of it!

xoxo
Mel
 
Publié par *~*MEL*~*aka Melinda (aka Dr. MEL)*~* le mardi, septembre 18, 2007 - 12:12
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FIRE WOMAN

 
Beautifully stated! Looking at the world through a Mother's eyes is so very different. When 9/11 happened I was 7 months pregnant with my first child. I sat in front of the tv and wondered what kind of world I was bringing a child into. My daughter was born 2 months later to the day. Now she is almost 6 and has a little brother that's almost 3. For now they don't know the horror of that day, but one day, like you I will talk to them about it. I may not understand how such evil can exist any better than I did on that day--but I do know that love exists wherever you are--and lives on!
 
Publié par FIRE WOMAN le mardi, septembre 18, 2007 - 1:16
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Candace

 
Very well said. I miss NYC this time of year.. :(

Btw, pictures of you at Fashion Week with the new 'do looked gorgeous dahhhling!
 
Publié par Candace le mardi, septembre 18, 2007 - 1:25
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Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ TORA Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ

 
We had beautiful weather that week, right?
Did you see the twin towers of light? It was a bit foggy that night and it was eerie seeing the huge ghostly white beams of light glowing in the skyline as if the World Trade Center was still there in an astral plane!
Did you check out Florent while in the Meat Packing District? Great place which is open late too. Drop by Lucky Cheng's next time you are in town!
Glad you had fun in NYC and hope you come back for Fashion Week in the Spring when the Fall fashions are shown.
 
Publié par Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ TORA Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ le mardi, septembre 18, 2007 - 3:13
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DIANA LUVS ME SOME TRUEBLOOD!!!

 
Hey T,

Thanks for that recognition of 9/11. I walked the streets of NYC to Ground Zero to pay my respects. I think I got a TINY bit of what its like to have papparazzi follow you. I had a cameraperson film me while I was CRYING at GZ and it sucked! I turned my head I couldn't even speak. I hugged Firemen and talked and thanked them. I had niece in for her birthday my first guest in NYC since I moved here she is on leave from Iraq and I took to see Ground Zero, Statue of Liberty and Ellis Island among other places to let her see something about our history. T, she is 19 years old and fighting for our country her birthday is actually 9/11, mine is 9/15 we celebrated together and had a great time but now she's leaving here with her eyes full of what happened on a personal note now. She was torn up over seeing that hole where the Towers once stood. I hate it that she has to go back in two weeks to that nitemare over there but I am really glad I got to see her and take her the places I am really passionate about in these terrible times of war. Thanks for the acknowledgement of 9/11.

Diana

Brooklyn, NY
 
Publié par DIANA LUVS ME SOME TRUEBLOOD!!! le mardi, septembre 18, 2007 - 4:10
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Sizzling Lulu

 
I don't live in the States but I've been in NYC so many times it feels like my second home sometimes. When 9/11 happened my jaw dropped and I didn't pick it up for hours. Literally. People were calling me like crazy wanting to make sure I wasn't there... All I could think about was the people there. The ones I've seen so many times. The people who served me coffee. Who assisted me when buying a skirt. The security gards. Every single one of them.

Thank you for remembering and passing it along to your son. The gift of love is really all we need. It will make him a better person and someone who'll make the world a better place. We need that. I'll remember too and when the time comes for me to have children I'll pass it along too.

Lulu
 
Publié par Sizzling Lulu le mardi, septembre 18, 2007 - 4:23
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LISA

 
Hope everything is going well for you and yours. I completly understand this difference we feel as mothers after 9/11. On that morning I was feeding my son Dallas who is 6 now. Scared to death of what may come next. My grandfather used to say that the bombing at pearl harbor was a day of emphany. I glad he didn't live to see our generations day of emphany... on a better note I also have a 2 year old and I tell every mom I see we don't get to eat a hot dinner anymore. Or take long baths for that matter. I think you're great. Take care hope the family is doing great. Love ya lots. Lisa
 
Publié par LISA le mardi, septembre 18, 2007 - 4:34
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Geri
Geri Maurer

 
Beautifully said! You have such compassion for others. :-)
 
Publié par Geri le mardi, septembre 18, 2007 - 5:17
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CAITLIN♥
Caitlin Keaveny

 
aww you made me cry. its so true on 9-11 nobody screams at you on the street it's like everyone knows what everyone is going thru and we are all mourning for those who lost their lives.
 
Publié par CAITLIN♥ le mardi, septembre 18, 2007 - 6:00
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Hanne

 
Dear Tori!

First I have to say that this is the first, an probably the last, time I`ve ever written to someone who is famous. But I`ve thought about sending you a greeting from the too cold part of the world before. And then I thought no, it`s silly and she will never read it. Anyway, now I decided to just do it.
I`m pretty sure I saw you in Italy 3 years ago, I think it was in Montepulciano. My husband and I were winetasting and suddenly, there you were. I had seen you in tv before, but it was special to see you for real. We thought you looked so beautiful and I remember thinking that you looked really kind. Since then I`ve "checked up" on you from time to time ;)
Congratulations with your little boy, he is beautiful :) We have a girl, Dina, who is 2 years old and she brings us soooo much happiness and energy :)
And also, congratulations with your inn. I hope to come and stay there someday!
You`re a good writer and I think you deliver a part of you in your blog and you seem so kind :) So this is the end of my greeting from Norway to lucky you who have sun and good temperature ;) Enjoy your two guys and I wish you the best :) If you`re ever on the northpole, just let me know ;) Love, Hanne
 
Publié par Hanne le mardi, septembre 18, 2007 - 7:28
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Miss Boss
Candice Boss

 
lovely, i actually shed a tear over this entry. i adore you tori.
 
Publié par Miss Boss le mardi, septembre 18, 2007 - 8:31
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Cinephile
Melissa Skillens

 
I know this sounds silly but your blog actually made me cry reading it. It was very touching thank you for taking the time to write it for us. :)
 
Publié par Cinephile le mardi, septembre 18, 2007 - 9:15
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ஜLive & Learn★☆★Gypsy★☆★Breeஜ

 
You made water come from my eyes! I spent many years in NYC and my dad was a military man, so 9-11 is very close to me.. and what you said hit right on. Good luck honey!
 
Publié par ஜLive & Learn★☆★Gypsy★☆★Breeஜ le mardi, septembre 18, 2007 - 11:14
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♥Shannon♥

 
That gave me chills! Well said.
 
Publié par ♥Shannon♥ le mardi, septembre 18, 2007 - 11:19
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Ang

 
hey T, that was lovely-It was late at night here when the towers fell.My friend sent me a msg, but I'd been asleep and didn't really take it in.Next morning I took 1 look @ the tv & went "bleepbleepbleeep"(u get the picture).i've seen those towers fall about a thousand times now but i never get used to it.it was the most horrifying thing I have ever seen & i want to believe i will never see anything like it again.

my dad died back in april of a brain tumour-I was thinking bout it this morning after reading ur post here as I drove around town. all i could think was,when he was sick & i went over to visit him & mum, we'd be eating @ the kitchen table & all of a sudden he'd go "i don't wanna die!!!"& burst into tears. to make matters worse, my bro's fiancee in CA had a baby boy soon afterwards(who nearly died himself but has since had 2 lung transplants,the latter which so far, has succeeded *touch wood*). we r in Australia as u know and US immigration unfortunately won't let my bro enter the country even to visit. they think he'd try & stay but all he wants to do is meet his child(now 3mths)-we've never even seen a pic. he'd like to move 1 day but can't atm.

anyway, so dad was obviously in hospital heaps over the 2yrs he was sick & when we'd leave after a visit, he'd go "i wish i could come with u" or "i wish i could go home". he hated the hospital & ended up dying there.he was told in jan he only had maybe 6-12mths, he only lasted 3.in reference to 9/11, maybe sometimes it's better not to know?

take care X.
 
Publié par Ang le mercredi, septembre 19, 2007 - 1:27
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ßiança

 
I want to be a great mom like you some day. This was so sweet it made me cry.
 
Publié par ßiança le mercredi, septembre 19, 2007 - 6:02
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Dj Tracy

 
Lovely writing..
 
Publié par Dj Tracy le vendredi, septembre 21, 2007 - 9:30
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♥ JuJu & Jo So In Luv ♥

 
T - that was really nice. I live in NY & when the twin towers went down, I saw everything; it took a part of me.. your words were very beautiful.. Lots of love!! xoxo -Joanne
 
Publié par ♥ JuJu & Jo So In Luv ♥ le vendredi, septembre 21, 2007 - 1:59
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