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October 13, 2007 - Saturday 

Current mood:  worried
Category: Life

     Millions of American children are slogging (and in some cases, traipsing) through their days under the influence of psychotropic "medications." In some cases, these kids are consuming a cocktail made up of as many as twelve pills per day. Many are beginning these regimens at the ripe old age of two or three. What is wrong with these children that they should need so many powerful drugs just to function? Who decides which child needs what and how much they need? What are the long – term effects of this program? For the answers to these questions, we need to turn to the Psychiatric community. After all, they have all the answers…
     When you ask a Psychiatrist what causes ADD, ADHD, OCD, ODD, Depression, Bipolar Disorder (formerly called Manic Depression), Anxiety or any of the myriad diseases and disorders that seem to suddenly be troubling record numbers of our youth, you get the same generic, vague answer. According to these highly-trained professionals, all of these maladies are caused by chemical imbalances in the brain. Now, if you are bored one day and want to have some fun, gather a bunch of these people together and ask them which chemicals and how far out of balance. Then sit back and watch the dogfight begin. They will never agree on the answer to your question. This brings up another question. How do they diagnose a child as having a particular disorder? It may comfort you to know that they do agree on the methodology of diagnosis. One arrives at a diagnosis by "observing symptoms and behaviors." How is this careful observation carried out? That's easy. So easy, in fact, that one wonders what part of this practice calls for three hundred dollars per hour. The following is a description of the comprehensive observations of symptoms and behaviors that takes place in psychiatric offices every day.
    Parent or parents bring Mikey in to see the doctor. They begin telling the doctor that eight-year-old Mikey is quite the handful. He has boundless energy, seems easily distracted, doesn't like school and gets in trouble for acting up in class, talks a lot, gets angry and/or talks back when told to do something he doesn't want to do, doesn't want to go to bed when he's told, etc, etc, ad nauseum. After 15 or 20 minutes of listening to stories about how annoying Mikey is, out comes the pad and Mikey begins his new childhood mission, the endless pursuit of the White Rabbit. It is to this brief period that Psychiatrists refer when they describe their diagnostic methodology as the "observation of symptoms and behaviors." It is upon this careful study and investigation that they base their decisions to start pumping our children with powerful, brain altering drugs.
     Courtesy of the National Institutes of Mental Health, this is a chart showing some of the psychotropic medications being prescribed to our children in record numbers.

National Institutes of Health

Top of Form

Medications Chart

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Type of Medication

Brand Name

Generic Name

Approved Age

Stimulant Medications

Adderall

amphetamines

3 and older

Concerta

methylphenidate

6 and older

Cylert*

pemoline

6 and older

Dexedrine

dextroamphetamine

3 and older

Dextrostat

dextroamphetamine

3 and older

Ritalin

methylphenidate

6 and older

Antidepressant and Antianxiety Medications

Anafranil

clomipramine

10 and older (for OCD)

BuSpar

buspirone

18 and older

Effexor

venlafaxine

18 and older

Luvox (SSRI)

fluvoxamine

8 and older (for OCD)

Paxil (SSRI)

paroxetine

18 and older

Prozac (SSRI)

fluoxetine

18 and older

Serzone (SSRI)

nefazodone

18 and older

Sinequan

doxepin

12 and older

Tofranil

imipramine

6 and older (for bed-wetting)

Wellbutrin

bupropion

18 and older

.Zoloft (SSRI)

sertraline

6 and older (for OCD)

Antipsychotic Medications

Clozaril(atypical)

clozapine

18 and older

Haldol

haloperidol

3 and older

     At this point, I feel compelled to make a few observations, to be followed by a few suggestions.
     OBSERVATIONS
     All of these medications have dramatic effects on brain chemistry and function. The brains of children are in a constant state of growth and change. Finding a way to keep the dosages and balance of these added chemicals in proper lock-step with the ever-changing brain of a child, especially say, a child of THREE, is all but impossible. Psychiatrists and the pharmaceutical companies openly admit that these medications have not been tested on children and that the meds are being dispensed "off-label," meaning that they are intended to be used on adults but are routinely prescribed to children. By their own admission, they have no idea how chronic use of these drugs will impact the children, especially over the long-term, including possible effects on normal brain development. (I don't know why but every time I think about that, I am reminded of the Thalidomide babies. Actually, I DO know why).
     It seems as though every behavior exhibited by children throughout time is now a disorder requiring immediate chemical intervention. Can a pill alter the behavior of a person? Obviously. Does that mean that the first place we should run is the medicine cabinet? Conditions like Tourette's Syndrome or seizure disorders clearly require medication. These are neurological  disorders, not psychological. Unlike all of these weirdo, new "disorders" that mysteriously seem to have an expensive medication even before they are discovered, they are also proven diseases for which there are tangible, measurable tests. You don't need to guess at a person's brain chemistry in order to see that they are having a seizure. Assuming it even exists, is it really the best course of action to treat ADD in the same manner that we treat Epilepsy? If this "disease" had existed when I was in school, I would have been diagnosed and medicated in no time. The problem is, I didn't have ADD. I was bored. I learned too easily for a normal classroom pace to hold my interest. Still, in this day and age, I would have been diagnosed in record time and gulping down psychotropic drugs like they were Pez, all under doctor's orders.

     SUGGESTIONS
     May I suggest that spending 20 minutes listening to someone whine about how annoying their child is does not constitute "observation of symptoms and behavior." May I suggest that such tales of parental woe may be just as indicative of an inability of the parent to tolerate normal, annoying behavior as it is of a serious brain disorder on the part of the child. There is, after all, a very good reason why every one of us has heard our parents say, "I can't wait until YOU have kids! Then you'll understand!" Kids are commonly, noisy, pouty, angry, feisty, defiant, disruptive and generally annoying. Often all at the same time. That is why we call them "children." Childhood causes disorder but it is not a disorder in and of itself.
     May I suggest that automatically shoving pills down the throats of millions of children to manage their moods or behavior will likely have the result of creating an entire generation of adults who are constantly popping all sorts of pills to augment their daily lives and justifying it by pointing out that this is how their parents and doctors taught them to handle sadness, anxiety, anger, tension and whatever else life throws at them.
     May I remind you that we have no idea what the long-term use of these drugs will do to their bodies, minds, perhaps even their DNA but all of these kids are going to grow up to breed. We have no idea if Adderall or Haldol cause birth defects but I guarantee we won't find out until it is far too late. Again, remember Thalidomide? Is that really a risk worth taking to prevent Mikey from talking his mother's ear off or cracking jokes in class?
     While we dive blithely down the Rabbit Hole of zombiefying our kids, think about this: Shoving chemicals willy-nilly into the brains of our children is just like pulling the trigger on a gun. Once the bullet leaves the barrel, you have no control over the damage that it does.
     Chemically altering the developing brain of a child is no longer a decision of last resort, to be attempted rarely and with great caution, only after all other options have failed. That SHOULD be a scary thought. It doesn't seem to be. Now, that IS a scary thought.
     If you really want a Stepford Child, your friendly neighborhood psychiatrist will be only too happy to provide one for you. For a price.

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Jodie

 
Bravo! I know too many normal children who are medicated just because the parents don't want the hassle of dealing with the difficult aspects of raising them. The sad thing about this is that many teachers are in on this evil plot too. As soon as they can't handle a kid in class, they are suggesting ADD and recommending medication. I ask this...what did teachers of the past do with kids like that? I'll tell you...THEY LEARNED HOW TO HANDLE THE CHILD!

I recognize that my children are going to be distracted, noisy, sassy, feisty and angry at times. I will not medicate them for being like that. I would medicate them for physical ailments of course, and and any true psychological ailments should they arise. One in particular would be depression.

Another thought-provoking blog...

Thanks!
Jodie
 
Posted by Jodie on October 14, 2007 - Sunday - 12:20 AM
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Alan Dale Wallace
Alan Wallace

 
It would seem weird to me if I didn't already know the reason it is happening but none of these so-called professionals is even suggesting that this depression, distraction, anxiety, etc, might be the result of environment rather than "chemical imbalances."
I know people who fight constantly, their homes constantly in a state of uproar and their kids are being medicated because they can't "settle down and concentrate."
To me that doesn't say "your child has a brain disorder." It says "get your house in order."
 
Posted by Alan Dale Wallace on October 14, 2007 - Sunday - 12:35 AM
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Alan Dale Wallace
Alan Wallace

 
Over-prescribing is the key. There are certainly children with serious ailments that need medication, at least for a brief period. The problem is, in today's climate, I can take ANY child into a doctor's office, throw around a couple of buzzwords and in minutes that child will have a presciption for some powerful, mind-altering drugs.
This whole thing has turned into a racket.
 
Posted by Alan Dale Wallace on October 14, 2007 - Sunday - 12:40 AM
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Alan Dale Wallace
Alan Wallace

 
They won't learn how to handle it, they'll learn that pills are the answer to everything and that is how they will live their entire lives. It is also how they will raise THEIR kids.
You make a good point. IF medication is necessary, it should be used sparingly and in conjunction with a comprehensive program of therapy and training in the development of coping skills.
Nine times out of ten, symptoms like anxiety, depression, inability to concentrate, irritability and sleep disorders are caused by a person's environment, not a brain disorder.
 
Posted by Alan Dale Wallace on October 14, 2007 - Sunday - 12:44 AM
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♪ ♪ Chrissy ♪ ♪

 
Alan...AMEN...you spoke what alot of us echo in our heads! Thank you.
I am classified as a "DES Daughter"
(In April 1971, the New England Journal of Medicine published a report which linked adenocarcinoma in daughters of women who used DES (diethylstilbestrol) therapy during pregnancy. This report prompted the FDA to advise all U.S. physicians to stop prescribing DES to pregnant women, and later that year the agency ordered that prevention of miscarriage be removed from Indications and pregnancy be added to Contraindications prescribing information)
I had the malformed Uterus, the label of infertal, (Then the shock of being pregnant! LOL) Bedrest throughout it, Baby arriving almost 8 weeks early...THEN 9 years later MY oncologist was the one to figure out the DES Exposure link. Now I am pretty much screwed because the rate of my cancer returning is doubled. MY MOTHER NEVER EVER would have taken this medication if she knew...What parent would! My daughter is going to be watched now but so far reasearch is showing no pass into the 3rd generation but studies are low because there are so few 3rd gerneation kids to check. My Mom thought she was helping a baby because she lost 1 just before she got pregnant with me. SO......my point is medication...ALL OF THEM, have side effects!!!!
I get so mad...mainly because I believe alittle discipline in the homes could be a huge part of this medicating the kids issue. too. I have a 9 year old and see first hand how many parents allow their children to rule the roost then wonder why they don't listen...hmmm maybe the parents should look into taking the meds before giving it to the kids...
There is no answer for this problem....Like you..it amazes me that 20 years ago these lettered diagnosis and pill pushing was NEVER an option...what happened? Do you think the drug companies have a huge hand in pushing our future generation into this lifestlye too?
just curious...
 
Posted by ♪ ♪ Chrissy ♪ ♪ on October 14, 2007 - Sunday - 12:26 AM
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Alan Dale Wallace
Alan Wallace

 
I am sorry about your situation. It is, however, a stark reminder that immediate profits should never be put in front of public safety. Unfortunately, this is the policy of the pharmaceutical industry and the many doctors who know profit from writing prescriptions.
The drug company sends the doctor information about new drugs and before you can say "Mo' money!" we have a new ailment for which this new drug is the "answer."
 
Posted by Alan Dale Wallace on October 14, 2007 - Sunday - 12:51 AM
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Logical Psycho †Deadman Inc.†

 
It has become clear to me that,with all the new and powerful drugs on the market,many doctors have simply become the bitches of the pharmaceutical companies.It's no longer about helping people....more like padding their bank accounts at the expense of the uninformed doctor-trusting general public.I have become sick from some new medications,and will no longer be told what drugs I must take.It is generally assumed that a person cannot choose what drugs to take,but this perception is wrong.If your current doctor will not work with you,it's time to find one that will.
 
Posted by Logical Psycho †Deadman Inc.† on October 14, 2007 - Sunday - 12:27 AM
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Alan Dale Wallace
Alan Wallace

 
Unfortunately, the old days of a doctor considering something obvious, like a screwed up home situation, as the cause of a child's inability to concentrate, anxiety or depression are over. Their first reflex is to give them drugs, while doing nothing to retool their environment or even really look into it.
I guess it is easier (and more profitable) to sell them some pills.
 
Posted by Alan Dale Wallace on October 14, 2007 - Sunday - 12:55 AM
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~♥Beautiful Disaster♥~
Peggy Evans Rosado

 
My son was diagnosed with ADHD at about 6 yrs of age. He was put on Ritalin which did help to calm him down and help him to concentrate. He took an overdose one evening. He said "I wanted to be good so my daddy would come see me." After that I quit giving him the meds.

Then in 5th grade he had a teacher who could not handle him. She was constantly calling me and begging me to put him on Ritalin. Eventually, at her persistence, I relented. The teacher paid for the doctor visit and the Ritalin. I only had him on for one month before calling "bullshit" on the teacher. I am appalled that teachers are even allowed to suggest that a child be put on drugs.
 
Posted by ~♥Beautiful Disaster♥~ on October 14, 2007 - Sunday - 12:28 AM
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Alan Dale Wallace
Alan Wallace

 
"I wanted to be good so my Daddy would come see me." How quickly they pick up the message that pills are the solution to life's problems.
As to teachers, it is the law that they are not allowed to dispense medication to your children. Only the nurse may do that and then only with a prescription. Teachers should be barred from RECOMMENDING medications as well.
Logically, a drugged child is easier to handle. That is why child-abductors and molesters drug children. It is appalling that it has become common practice to run first to narcotics to "help" a child manage problems that, 9 times out of 10, are the result of the environemt in which they are forced to live, rather than a medical condition on the part of the child.
 
Posted by Alan Dale Wallace on October 14, 2007 - Sunday - 1:23 AM
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Chris

 
You have seriously struck a chord with me here. Pun intended. :P Thank you for posting these facts. I am absolutely stunned and appalled at the approved age for some of these drugs the "professionals" are doling out. No. I'm outraged. I'm surprised the pharmacies aren't required to hand out fun, colorful (White Rabbit head) Pez dispensers with each prescription filled for the kids. They can trade in school during lunch.

My brother, Michael/Mikey was undecidedly diagnosed with ADD and ADHD (they were teetering with their diagnosis) when he was ten. And well past the approved age of THREE, they prescribed Adderal. I believe it was a fairly new, legal drug at the time. And because my mother was receiving phonecalls from his teachers daily, hounding her to have him put on meds, she finally caved, convinced by the Principal, and my brother's doctor, that she was doing her son a great injustice by not helping him to live a "normal life." I kid you not, that's what they said. They accused her of being a bad parent because she knew the possible side effects (stunted growth, stomach problems, weight loss, mood swings, depression, suicidal thoughts, an increased risk of non-prescription drug dependency in later years) of these drugs, including Aderall, and refused to watch my brother gulp them down. In fact, the day she finally conceded and he took the first pill, she cried. And why? The prevalent reasons you listed above. Hyperactive, couldn't concentrate, zoning out, acting out in school. I think it all boils down primarily to this, the schools are overcrowded, 30 - 35 kids per class. The teachers (and sadly the parents) are overwhelmed, and they simply don't want to have to contend with a chatterbox, or five. And they sure as hell aren't going to put in any overtime to work with the kids that may have learning disabilities, or certain needs that separate them from the A-students. In their defense, their starting salaries taken into consideration, I understand it's difficult to maintain control. And in the end, the monster, those responsible for creating and peddling these drugs, is well fed. What a shame that parents, at the sacrifice of their children's minds and long-term well-being, help to feed THEIR habit.

After a week on Adderal, my brother developed a tic, and then Bells Palsy. I cried when I saw him (my eyes are filling now) begging my mother to take him off the drug. She did. His doctor prescribed another, and then another, and eventually, his grades remaining the same, still getting in trouble in school, no longer eating, my brother told my mother he didn't want to live anymore. She stopped all medications and told his teachers to deal with it. Never once did anyone offer special classes or programs to help with what we, ourselves, determined was a learning disabilty, the reason for why he was acting out in class. He was embarrassed, and felt inferior, which his teachers confirmed to him daily. Long story shorter... At nineteen, he's now addicted to hard drugs.

If they're aware of the "possible" side effects, they know damn well what the long-term effects of these drugs could be, they just aren't disclosing the information. Shocking. Might cost them a Mercedes or two.

And much like Juvenile Diabetes, I think most of the "disorders" kids suffer today, that goes beyond the normalcy of just being kids, is largely related to our environment. The inoculations (now linked to Autism as well) poor diet, and/or the preservatives in food, the chemicals in everything we eat and breathe today. But that's another topic altogether.

It's disheartening to say the least. I have a friend, at her wits end, who put her eleven year old son on Ritalin a few months ago, against my urging that she reconsider and find a way to work with him in other ways. "I'm worried, he's not my son anymore, he's like a zombie," she said to me recently on the phone. My thoughts? Well isn't that the desired effect? At least the phonecalls from the school stopped. Enjoy... Mind altering drugs.

How I worry for the kids today, their, our, future.
 
Posted by Chris on October 14, 2007 - Sunday - 6:19 AM
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Alan Dale Wallace
Alan Wallace

 
I knew a young man in his 20’s who had been prescribed Haldol. All he did was sit around all day with his mouth hanging open, staring off into space, mumbling incoherently and drooling all over the front of his shirt. This was AFTER they cut his dosage in half. If you look at the chart, they are giving this crap to three-year-olds.
Whatever it takes to make little Mikey less annoying… I wish more people were outraged by this latest fad in “child care.” It is nothing short of deplorable.
 
Posted by Alan Dale Wallace on October 14, 2007 - Sunday - 7:05 AM
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Chris

 
Damn. I always forget the Kudos. A shame Tom only allows two.
 
Posted by Chris on October 14, 2007 - Sunday - 6:20 AM
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Alan Dale Wallace
Alan Wallace

 
Thank you. I appreciate that.
 
Posted by Alan Dale Wallace on October 14, 2007 - Sunday - 7:06 AM
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Alicia Billings

 
I'm glad our teachers here aren't doctors! Boo-yeah! (right on)
 
Posted by Alicia Billings on October 14, 2007 - Sunday - 6:21 AM
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Alan Dale Wallace
Alan Wallace

 
Teachers should be disallowed from pressuring parents to dope their kids. I have actually heard teachers threaten to have a child removed from their class if the parents didn't get the kid some drugs.
It is not a the place of a teacher to be making medical decisions for their students. They don't allow them to do so in life-threatening emergencies, why would they allow it for brain-altering chemicals? It makes no sense.
 
Posted by Alan Dale Wallace on October 14, 2007 - Sunday - 7:11 AM
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Crash
Cassandra Lunderville

 
Thumbs up to you and also to Chris.

Funny, I was just talking about this very same thing with my father the other day. It seems as if we're asking our children to grow up much to fast. Doctors and parents are so ready to mistake, or even overlook, normal child behavior for a disorder or classify them as problem children...it's disgusting. They don't care what these children will be in 20 years or how it'll effect them and their future generations, because exactly like you said, they make money off the prescriptions they write. It's about seeing as many patients you can to make a profit, not helping people like it should be. When I was 11, I was prescribed Trazadone, to help me sleep. In all honesty, looking back on it now, it didn't help much. But at such a young age, you don't know any better. You trust in your parents to know whats best for you. I have a wonderful father, and I'm absolutely convinced that he just wanted to make me better, he just didn't know how. I was in counseling but the doctors never took into consideration to help my father as well, with methods OTHER than medication. Eventually I got off the meds, but a few years later, things started to get rough and medication was suggested again, simply because I had been on it before. We tried Zoloft, didn't work out. After we tried Effexor, two years later I was tired of not feeling. And I can only think that if I had never gone back on medication that I would've been able to get back on track al ot easier, and a lot sooner.

Funny, when these doctors are prescribing these medications and they leave out important side effects. We asked about side effects, she told me about nausea, headaches, stomach cramps...all that jazz, but never once did she mention suicidal thoughts. Now, isn't that something that should be brought to everyones attention?

In school I would see so many young beautiful girls harming themselves while on ANTI-DEPRESSANTS. And the thing I saw in them was that they felt as if these meds were a cure-all, and when they didn't work...they got even more frustrated with life.

We've become a society so dependent on drugs. Not only do we shove pills down our kids' throats, but when we get colds or aches and pains, we don't try to find something more natural to soothe our pain. We open the medicine cabinet and pop open a bottle because it's much more convenient that way. Just like it's more convenient for us to shove pills down our kids' throats instead of finding an alternative way to reform their behavior...
 
Posted by Crash on October 14, 2007 - Sunday - 5:14 PM
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Alan Dale Wallace
Alan Wallace

 
I would think that suicidal thoughts would be first on the list, given that cramps and nausea rarely lead to death.
As someone who is half American Indian (maternal) I grew up in an environment where natural cures were the first line of defense against illness and injury. I would like to see our society return to this practice, rather than dismiss it out of hand as "witch-doctoring." It is the unfortunate custom of technological societies to forget the good wisdom of past generations along with the bad ideas. It is an exercise in arrogance to presume that just because an idea is old, it is automatically bad.
 
Posted by Alan Dale Wallace on October 14, 2007 - Sunday - 5:25 PM
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Malka

 
These drugs should be avoided by many adults as well. I'd go on my own rant but I've been suffering from writer's block.

Well said. People should think twice about this kind of thing.
 
Posted by Malka on October 14, 2007 - Sunday - 5:15 PM
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Alan Dale Wallace
Alan Wallace

 
Writer's block? Maybe you have adult ADD. They have some great pills for that.
Seriously, you suggest thinking twice and I actually considered including in my suggestions that parents seek a second opinion when the prescription pad makes its appearance within minutes of the doctor meeting the child. Sadly, this problem is so pervasive that a second, or even third, opinion would likely only reinforce the original error.
Perhaps we need a special pill for the psychiatrists to help them with the Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder that has them fixated on their prescription pad.
 
Posted by Alan Dale Wallace on October 14, 2007 - Sunday - 5:31 PM
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Peace, Love and Unity !

 
I see so much of this, and the truth is to many kids are medicated that should not be, the long term effects are very much a gray area, Great post ,Love,Margaret
 
Posted by Peace, Love and Unity ! on October 14, 2007 - Sunday - 5:16 PM
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Alan Dale Wallace
Alan Wallace

 
I was waiting for you to chime in on this one. As a medical professional, you have an insider's view of just how pervasive and damaging this practice is.
I worry what we will learn 20 years from now about these drugs that we don't know now. Fortunately, we will clearly have no shortage of guinea pigs to study.
 
Posted by Alan Dale Wallace on October 14, 2007 - Sunday - 5:35 PM
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Alan Dale Wallace
Alan Wallace

 
Clearly, much of the blame for this practice can be laid at the feet of teachers and school administrators. If the teacher is not allowed to give my child an aspirin (and they aren't) why should they be allowed to pressure and guilt-trip parents into pumping even more dangerous drugs into their children?
You make an excellent point. Anger management, Stress management and Conflict Resolution classes should be required for all parents before they deliver and for all children as soon as they are able to comprehend developmentally- appropriate instruction in these areas.
More attention should be paid to the impact of the home and social environments of these children as likely causation of many of these problems. Our first reflex should not be a brain disorder. Any kid who's world is out of whack will exibit some or even all of these symptoms.
 
Posted by Alan Dale Wallace on October 15, 2007 - Monday - 4:48 AM
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Paula
Paula Cook-Farkas

 
And at such tender ages, unable to fend for themselves, their lives are headed in uncharted direction...speaking from personal experience, I had a stepson on Ritalin...only now, after stepping back, do I see the dysfunction of the entire family and not just the "squeaky wheel." I have since divorced, and my stepson is grown. We are much better off separate, and we are all on good terms, but it was a toxic environment all around. Some lessons that are learned are extremely hard ones...
 
Posted by Paula on October 15, 2007 - Monday - 7:22 AM
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Alan Dale Wallace
Alan Wallace

 
Every non-narcotic method of helping the child should be exhausted before we resort to the Marilyn Monroe Method. These kids only have one brain. Fooling with it should never be the first choice.
 
Posted by Alan Dale Wallace on October 15, 2007 - Monday - 7:28 AM
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B*WITCHER~ EhKickAh
Jessa Noel

 
Man o Man did a lot of that hit quite home for me. See I was one of those 'children' being medicated for a number of years now. I finally met someone that means a lot to me in my life and she taught me about the Indigo Children, the dangers of medication, and how most doctors really have only studied crap and never really lived it. I'll never again start taking anti depressants...I need to get my ass to a health food store! They've got stuff that I'll bet will work. I just wish I could express myself as well as you do. You write beautifully. Sorry I don't keep up with a lot of you wonderful bloggers, But when I do take the time its usually quite amazing stuff to read. Thanks for pointing that out for people! You probably make more of a difference in peoples lives than you think some days.
 
Posted by B*WITCHER~ EhKickAh on October 17, 2007 - Wednesday - 7:58 AM
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Alan Dale Wallace
Alan Wallace

 
I think there is a lot to be said for altering the conditions under which one is living before choosing “medications” as a solution to many of these problems, including depression. Unfortunately, children do not generally have this option from which to chose. They are forced to survive in whatever environment is created by the adults in their lives.
I thank you for the compliment. I have found that anyone who writes from the heart expresses themselves well. Perhaps you underestimate your work and the impact it may be having on those it touches. After all, you have just encouraged me. You are likely changing more lives than you realize. It doesn’t really matter how much you write, only that you mean it when you do.
Thank you!
 
Posted by Alan Dale Wallace on October 17, 2007 - Wednesday - 8:06 AM
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Mad_Hatter

 
Outstanding! You nailed it when you said "That's why we call them children". Parents that take thier out of control kids to the psychiatrist should be medicated themselves. Of course there are the exceptions as you mentioned, but for the most part, it's the intollerence of the parent to deal with the child they decided to have.

Long time no see huh? Peace, Jon
 
Posted by Mad_Hatter on October 21, 2007 - Sunday - 7:30 AM
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Alan Dale Wallace
Alan Wallace

 
Isn't it funny how we never can remember what WE were like when we were kids before we start producing our own? If we could, we would be a lot more tolerant, I'm sure.
I've missed you, Jon. You keep me honest. (And thanks for the sympathy...)
 
Posted by Alan Dale Wallace on October 21, 2007 - Sunday - 8:01 AM
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1invisiblegrl

 
yeah, I think the whole idea of fixing emotional problems with medication is kinda fishy. I mean, I'm sure some people are naturally screwed up and they might need mind altering drugs but I would like to think that the majority doesn't. Yet I know a lot of people who are taking anti depressants, anti anxiety meds, and who have their kids on these "ADD" medications. It's weird. I think we live in a time where our everyday life doesn't fit the ideal desires and that leads us to a place that is unhappy and trapped (mentally). Rather than fixing our problems and making ourselves happy, which takes time and effort, maybe even uncomfortable reaching out of our comfort zone type of actions, we can just take a pill.
I don't know if putting a kid on these type of meds is okay. As adults we make the decision to check out of life but to do it to our own kids is pretty f&*ked up to say the least. Maybe I can say this because my kid is emotionally stable and all around a cool kid, but it just seems like parents are giving up to easily on their own children and that makes me sad.

I haven't seen your blogs in a while, I was wondering what happened to you ;)
 
Posted by 1invisiblegrl on October 28, 2007 - Sunday - 7:46 AM
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Alan Dale Wallace
Alan Wallace

 
It is the nature of children to be annoying. Sadly, if you mention aloud how annoying your child is, there are "doctors" lining up with tons of nifty pills to create the "seen but not heard" child that is supposed to be the ideal.
As previous comments have proven, these kids learn very young that pills are the answer. If a medicated child is disruptive in class, the first thing the teacher asks is "did you take your meds this morning?" The kid quickly catches on that, to be absolved of any responsibility for their actions, they need only claim to have forgotten their meds. They also learn that no one expects them to behave normally without being under the influence of something.

I was offline for a while but, much to the consternation of many, I'm sure, I am back now.:)
 
Posted by Alan Dale Wallace on October 28, 2007 - Sunday - 7:55 AM
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Alan Dale Wallace
Alan Wallace

 
Less time playing video games and pointlessly surfing the Net wouldn't hurt, either. Fresh air and physical activity xan go a long way.
When I was young, parents struggled to get their kids to come inside long enough to eat.
 
Posted by Alan Dale Wallace on October 30, 2007 - Tuesday - 4:36 PM
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TINA

 
Great blog...I couldn't agree more.
 
Posted by TINA on January 2, 2008 - Wednesday - 1:46 PM
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Alan Dale Wallace
Alan Wallace

 
Thank you for taking the time to read my rant. This is a topic that causes me deep annoyance. It is comforting to know I am not alone.
As you have likely guessed, I have been away for a while. I am sorry it took me so long to acknowledge you. It will not happen again.
 
Posted by Alan Dale Wallace on January 2, 2008 - Wednesday - 2:14 PM
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